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writes:I have just split up with my girlfriend from a six year relationship and im complteley heart broken nowi love her more than anything in the world and ive gave her space that she asked for and tryed to show her how hard im willing to change so that i can make our relationship work but she dosnt know if she wants to try?i feel lost and lonely without her in my life and i am getting depressed with not having her by my side?what can i do to feel better or make it up to her?
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reader, shikari424 +, writes (21 January 2008):
I'm sorry, i completely disagree with Laura. I went through this about 4 months ago, a girl i'd been with for 3 years, who i was convinced i was going to marry, left me for another guy once we hit uni. You haven't explained much, so i don't know the situation of the break up. But my advice, if it's over, just accept it's over. She's never coming back. The sooner you understand that the better. I went through 2 of the most torturous months of my life thinking i could get my ex back. Believe me, it wasn't fun when reality gradually hit me. I nearly committed suicide.You have to fully make a go of getting on with your life. Move on. Get new hobbies, start working out, lean on your friends, just make yourself so damn busy that you aren't thinking about her. And do productive things, stuff that will make you feel better about yourself. I guarantee you will get over her eventually, i promise you it won't hurt forever. Like i said, i spent two months doing everything but beg for her back. All it did was push her away further. I've decided now, that i'm not going to talk to her anymore. I've taken up playing the drums, started breakdancing lessons, and i'm in the gym 3x a week. Plus going out a hell of a lot and getting with half the girls at my uni! I still miss my ex. But i'm becoming better for it. And mate, she's the one missing out.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Send her a bouquet of flowers and thank her for all those sweet times.Tell her that you love her very much. It is very important that you must tell her that you love her.If you did anything wrong ,apologize to her and promise that you will change for the better.
Send her text messages every day of your love for her until she replies you.
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