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I can't seem to cum. How do I squirt in his face?

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Question - (20 January 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *arlyles writes:

I've been masturbating ever since I was 12. I'll get to the point of orgasm, but I just cant catch it. I feel the "pee pee" sensation but I cant orgasm. I feel like I'm missing something. Ive been with my partner for 8 months, and I really wanna squirt in his face. Can anyone help me? I just wanna cum!!!!

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A female reader, danizinha Colombia +, writes (19 April 2009):

I am a squirter and it is true you need to stimulate your g spot and there are techniques that you can learn. But most of it for the women is in the mind. It is not like men that with the right stimilation you will cum, we also need mental stimulation. The more in the mood I am the faster it is for me to cum. If I m really excited 2 seconds of touching my g spot and I can cum. But if Im not completely in the mood it may take a long time and sometimes i wont even cum, no matter how long we try.It is the combination of the right stimulus and the right state of mind, but I also heard it is not everywomen that cums like this.

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A male reader, iknowafewthings United States +, writes (11 July 2008):

When you want to have what I call a "projectile orgasm" there is one important way to go about it. You MUST stimulate your G spot (The scaley part you feel inside your vagina like the roof of your mouth) and your Clitoris at the same time. Have your man perform oral sex on you, licking your clitoris and have him finger your G spot as well. When you feel that "pee pee" feeling, tell him to harder and faster. This has seemed to work on 6 women I have been with. The first gentleman was right, MOST women are not "squirters" but there are definitely ways to bring the non "squirters" to "projectile". Women that are squirters will squirt everytime they orgasm no matter what. Have your man try what I have described and let us know the result.

Good luck,


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A female reader, darlyles United States +, writes (21 January 2008):

darlyles is verified as being by the original poster of the question


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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

Actually, most women are not squirters, but most all do release at least a small amount of the female equivalent of semen at orgasm. Unless you have ever "squirted," this is neither necessary for or commonly part of female orgasm.

While I suppose some men might like to be "showered" in the face by a big squirter, I don't think that would be very usual. It's often not a small amount for the squirters I've encountered in 45 years. A bit messy, really.

A long session of foreplay, also most effectively including oral stimulation by a man who can and will perform with patience and experience, will be your gateway to an explosive orgasm that will rock your world. It needs to begin very softly and tenderly, very light and slowly for most women, eventually increasing in intensity and variation until you learn the techniques that will take you to bliss, sometimes multiple times. Have your man read a book titled "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

Some do and some don't i have had a few different girlfriends and some do and some don't, it doesn't mean anything its just your body and the way it orgasms, if you really want to try stimulate your g spot and see if this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

thats kind of disgusting. i think you should leave it to him to cum!

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A male reader, maverick United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

maverick agony auntHello there,

There are a few different ways of improving sexual satisfaction. The best method I found for my old girlfriend was to get her home from college, give her a bath and then a slow sensual massage (learned deep tissue massage and spent time around legs and lower half of the body) - but not have sex straight after.

After a couple of days of doing this we had sex and we could both notice the difference. The massage improves blood circulation, realxies and loosens you up.

There are other methods to try but this is the only one I can vouch for.

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