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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Is it possible to have a connection with an older acquaintance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - i think i'm in love, i mean i know it for sure. The problem is that she's way much older than me. At least this is what she's telling me everytime we meet. She used to be my nanny, i know it sounds ridiculous, but she was more like a companion, i was already 10 and had to spend ... (152 words)

Is this guy really sincere? He has not text me in months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ages ago, I met a guy. We met at an after party and really hit it off. Lots of chemistry and sparks. He bought me a drink, and we had a nice chat together. He had a smashing sense of humour, not to mention completeply gorgeous. Forgot to get his number before I left, but ... (329 words)

My bf has been corresponding with another girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think its all over because I've just found out my boyfriend of 10 years has been corresponding with yet another female friend that I knew nothing about. Why didn't tell me about her when I discovered that he likes to keep in touch with a number of girlie friends. I feel a ... (67 words)

His urine has blood in it. What is wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - my and my bf just have sex for about 5 minutues and he says he penis herts and he is pissing bloody do you know whats wrong with him?... (29 words)

Is my g/f's job a potential problem for our relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend has started working at a nightclub (as an assistant manager.) Not a stripclub, but a dance club. She's a recording artist and is well known in the entertainment scene here. I'm really not interested in dating a woman who is at the club every week. She insist ... (166 words)

Help...Boyfriend Problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Well last night me and my boyfriend got in a fight. I was mad at him cause i was tired of the way he was treating me. I felt so bad cause I made him cry. He felt bad cause he relized how bad he was treating me and that he thought that I was going to break up with him. After we ... (109 words)

I am worried, something happened to my hymen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend recently fingered me quite hard and just when he'd finished i felt wet and went to the bathroom and had blood in my knickers, it stopped bleeding but i think my hymen may have broken partially or sumthing as there seems to be something poking out a little bit and ... (66 words)

I feel low, and hurt, and very very lonely. And I don't know what to do to get out this rut. Help me..

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has just dumped me after several months of treating me like dirt on his shoe, this is only my own conclusion after a lot of talking to friends, until now I believed greatly the whole problems in the relationship, and the reason for the break up was me, and what he ... (356 words)

Is it weird that her Ex is still close to her family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a woman over 4 years and she has 2 daughters. Her ex-husband (they are separated but not divorced for over 7 years) has not been involved with anyone since they separated and he is still close with some members of her family. He regularly visits her father, ... (162 words)

Do you think I am ready to date again? Can men have successful relationships with single mums?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there I am a mum of two children, aged 24. I recently broke up with my childhood sweetheart (father of kids) almost a year ago (He cheated). Although we had a reconcilliation in August which didnt last long!. I would like to start dating again but dont know if I have healed ... (245 words)

He can't trust and he's retreated from me...I miss him, terribly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv'e been seeing a younger guy for about 2 months. It started out as friends, then got pretty serious.. Texting everyday, all day, talking everyday, seeing each other every other day. We got along really good. The only thing is he has some issues with trust. A really bad ... (170 words)

My gf bleeded during sex, two months after her first and only before sexual experience with her ex. Did I took her virginity? How can you explain this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi there, any help will be greatly appreciated, more especially from a female. you see the thing is, my girlfriend was a virgin until she slept with her ex bf for the 1st time, but the thing is, she didn't feel any pain, and didn't even bleed, then we started dating and we had ... (114 words)

How do you keep a secret that is burning you inside?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - How do you keep a secret from anyone, one secret which is mine (i kept for 6 years but can't cope anymore, it's killing me inside and making me mad) the other which is my families... (36 words)

How do I tell my homophobic Mother...that I am bi sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm bi. I'm fine with that. I'm not really sure how to explain it but I'm a lot more into girls than I am guys, even though I do like some guys. I'm not sure if that makes sense but I much prefer girls. I want to come out and I'm not too worried because I know my friends will ... (105 words)

Is jet lag throwing my schedule out of whack?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - my friend left out of state via. plane from Georgia to California, and back. she had sex. her period is either late, or she missed it. it's only been a week since the time she had sex. Is she pregnant? or is jet lag just throwing her schedule off whack?... (53 words)

She allows her boyfriend to beat her. Why doesn't she leave? What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am so angry and pissed off; my best friend (who I grow up with) is in an abusive relationship. I knew that her and her boyfriend argued all the time...to the point where the two are always yelling at each other. And there’s the whole jealousy issue too. Her boyfriend has to ... (193 words)

Is this love for real, or a waste of time? Can I ever trust boys again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - its weird but i still love my ex...even though hes broken my heart many times heres the story..he told me he thought i was the one he said i was amazing and perfect he told me he wanted to last for a long time he madeout wit me everytime we went to the movies so we barely saw ... (175 words)

I have been with my partner for 10 years now, but I cannot stop flirting and having sexual thoughts about his close friend - who is permissive (has reciprocated.) Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my partner for nearly 10 years. I have always been attracted to one of his close friends. During my entire relationship we have always flirted on and off and a few times it has gone a bit too far though it has never resulted in sex. The last few weeks we have ... (115 words)

An alternative solution (less time-consuming) to lose weight and the man boobs except for exercise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am 16 years of age, i was fat and weighed around 90kg, but i now weigh around 67 kg last time i checked but why is it i have a bop belly and man boobs, will it go away as i grow older or will it just get bigger. I have done excercise before and can not do it... (110 words)

I want to go to school in warmer climes. Will this risk our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf and I are home on break and have been having some serious conversations about our plans to marry when we graduate in two years. He is planning on getting a job in engineering and I will go to grad school most likely. My idea was to pick a grad school in a place we ... (235 words)

My husband occasionally visits strip clubs with his colleagues and I'm inclined to blame this for the decline in our sex life. What can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband (of 20 years) travels a lot and I know on occasion he visits strip clubs in Las Vegas and Alaska with his co-workers. I've always been okay with this and trusted him as our relationship has been solid over the years. However, our sex life is practically non-... (139 words)

I broke up with my bf because he spent the night talking to his ex in a pub. Should I have trusted him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfrind spent the whole night talking to his ex in a pub (her current boyfriend was also in the pub that night, i wasn't) Apparently they even walked outside the door together. He says they weren't going nowhere..that they just left because of closing time. Her boyfriend's ... (142 words)

I'm underage and our secret is out. What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - There is a guy i know and we really like each other but he has a girlfriend and I dont want to break them up as she hasnt done anything wrong to me so I can't steal her boyfriend as revenge. I know the guy thinks about me alot as he has told me. her girlfriend has found out ... (96 words)

He keeps destroying my trust. Am I a fool to try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and love him very much but over the last year he has lied to me on 3 seperate occasions. They were not huge lies but involved sneaking around doing things behind my back he had promised not to do (eg drugs) each time i felt betrayed and ... (150 words)

Will she carry our little 'in-jokes' to her new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my ex girlfriend like most couples had little jokes, and things that nobody else would understand. I have missed her today, and I have found it hard not to dwell on the fact that she has a new boyfriend. But I've had a thought: What do you think is the likely hood of h... (133 words)

He doesn't know what he did to me, he is pushing me away. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my BF 5 years now, we are in a LDR. We have a very good relationship, we understand each other very well and we love each other. We dated for long time, we wanted to know each other good enough first. During this time we spoke about everything also about ... (336 words)

Is it ok to date my step-brother??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i really like my step brother we are not blood releated just his mum got married to my dad do you think it is okay to date him?... (28 words)

I really liked his picture, how can I get talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, so ive seen a pic of my mums best mates grandson and hes sooo fine. I really want to meet him and it sort of helps that i know his grandma. Any suggestions on how i can get talking to him??... (42 words)

We are long distance and I think he is cheating on me. Now he has asked me to marry him, what shall I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey, I am very confused about what to do. I have been in a relationship with someone for the past five years. We are both in our 20s. He has cheated on me repeatedly. I went to work abroad 1 and 1/2 year ago but I would come back for summer holidays and also at least 6 times ... (277 words)

I was so afraid of being hurt again I decided to live with someone I didn't love. Now I no longer think this is right and I want to end it but I don't know how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 11years. He is 15 years older than me (im 32)We got together when I had a bad split from my ex - I knew at the time it was a rebound thing and even told him this, but we got on well and even though there was no physical attraction for me I just ... (314 words)

I'm having white pimples around my penis and scroteum, what is this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - hi I need help, Im 15. i started growing pubic hair around late twelves and its neva been a problem. but recently i have noticed samml white pimples at the base of the pubic hair and around the base of the penis and scroteum. i havent had sex so it can't be an std so does ... (62 words)

I want to approach this girl but first I need your advice! What can I do to impress her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, i'm 13 year odl boy, i like a girl the same age as me and i want to ask her how she feels but before i do i wnated to get an opinion of other people of what they think if she does or not, to cut a long story short the following things she does to make me feel she does like ... (549 words)

We're long distance and we keep getting on and off, what do you think, is there any chance he likes me enough to make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Long story. I'll try to condense it. We were a summer fling that happened overseas. We both go to college here so we decided to continue the relationship. During that I broke up with him once, only to get back together the next day. I asked him to communicate better w... (573 words)

I found out my boyfriend was married! I don't get it, what kind of woman tolerates her husband being gone for days??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i recently had a relationship with a man who was married. i didn't even know he was married until a year ago. i broke up with him 6 mo. ago because i couldn't rationalize the years of lies...4 to be exact. he would stay with me 3-4 days at a time. my question: what kind of ... (70 words)

Does he fancy me? Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i met this guy last year he is 21 years older than me, he doesn't have a wife kids or girlfriend. we started talking then it got a little more serious. but then it all got out and people started laughing and joking about it and made matters worse. he blamed it all on me ... (214 words)

What can I do to make him believe I will not betray or hurt him again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi, i have a problem with a boy, and im not sure what to do. I really like him, and we've been out before, but we split up and it always ends in tears. My tears. I love him andn I know I do. When I hug him, I feel warm and safe. When I kiss him, i feel light as if im going to ... (394 words)

Does he really like me or he has taken advantage of the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i have liked a guy for 3 yers now and i have been to his house and done dirty stuff with him. he ended telling someone and it has got around school. he has told me he loves me but also says he is not ready for a girlfriend. i love him back and in school he doesnt speak to me ... (84 words)

Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do.... (42 words)

I cannot call him mine. What am I going to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) age 26-29 - i met this guy with a our common friends, we had a relationship knowing that he is a single..after a few months his wife texted me to inform that my so called bf was married..i ended our relationship that but still he keeps on coming back to me, saying that he loves me and ... (163 words)

Why won't he stay the night with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - why wont he sleep with me??? I,ve been seeing my bloke for over 18 months on and off. We split for a short time, 2 months because he kept using arguments as foreplay and that wasn,t my thing. We,ve been in a sexual relationship all the time we,ve been seeing eachother BUT si... (176 words)

Why is it still hurting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I had sex recently.. and it really hurt me. But it didn't bother me, as i have heard that it hurts most people to start with. But then last night, i had sex again.. and it really hurt me.. my boyfriend kept asking me if it was okay and all.. but i don't want to tell him ... (70 words)

Should I just give this up and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question: Recently I began an online relationship with a young lady who is a stripper. We have been going round and round for a while, until we finally stated our feelings.And had set up a timein the near future to meet and see wherethis would take us. Since that day, ... (145 words)

Anyone got any experiences to share?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hiya! im just kinda interested and i was wondering if people could share their experiences with me. their experiences with their first bfs. how did you meet? what age? how long did it last? were your parents ok with it? and finally.......what age is ok to date to you t... (66 words)

He says I'm the one but he's dumped me. What is going on in his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend of 10 months decided to bring to my attention his confusion in our relationship on New Years Day. We had a great New Years Eve, we kissed at 12, he held my hand...He sat me down and confided (as he was drunk) '[My name], I love you so much, but i'm so scared. I... (814 words)

He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i have this great boyfriend.. and well one day i found out from friends that he was ready to have sex.. and i asked him about.. and he said it was true..and just to be funny with him i asked him for a condum..then next thing i know he comes up to me the next day and gives me ... (130 words)

I want breast implants but my boyfriend doesn't approve. How can I get him to be supportive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Since I was 12 years old I have been running track and cross country. I always noticed every other girl was growing breast and I wasn’t. I figured it was because I was a runner and just didn’t have much fat on my body. But now that I’m 22- I am still flat! I have been ... (311 words)

Is there something I can do to forget what she did with this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello there! I have been with my girlfriend for more than a year now and I love her very much. But recently we had some problems. Once after we had a fight she went to her friend and told him about our problems and cried on his shoulder. He comforted her and in the end she ... (226 words)

Is he sick of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I recently met a guy which i thought i was really into. He told me he was really into me too. We talked for hours and he usually talked to me all the time during the day asking me to talk to him more. But then all of the sudden he just lost contact with me. I know it may be ... (91 words)

He's still in touch with his ex. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years on and off (since we were senios in high school). For the past year and a half, we have been together straight and we have been doing great. I recently found out that he still talks to one of his exgirlfriends. He was really in love ... (298 words)

I have a feeling my parents won't approve. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok.... so I'm sort of seeing someone, he lives quite far away.... nearly 200 miles, we've not met up since we've been seeing each other, but have met up more than once before (for group meets, for a shared hobby!). I will be seeing him in a fortnight at another group meet for a ... (137 words)

We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginity to a "mistake" if you... (226 words)

What can I do to comfort him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with something that's going on with my relationship. My fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years now and things could not be better. He has always had this friend that I didn't like because he's loud, obnoxious, and just rude. My fiance knows tha... (317 words)

How do I get over a 3 year relationship? I'd drop everything to be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - This may be a little long, but please take the time to read I could really do with some advice. I met my ex at school when we were 16. She was absolutely GORGEOUS, everyone at school knew of her and stared at her. I had a couple of classes with her and found out through one ... (1182 words)

There has to be another way - but what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months and we are in love. At the beginning of our relationship, we used to mess around all the time. There wouldn't be a chance that went missed without us having sex or even passionately kissing. But in the past few months ... (212 words)

Should I have sex with his friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - a 12 year old girl my boyfriend wants me to come over his hous tomorrow and have sex with ohis other friend who seems nice. what do I do, if I go I dont know wat will happen buut if I dont hell break up with me. I eed help please!... (51 words)

Is he gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay so I need some help before I wind up hurt. Just to begin, I am bi and there is this guy that I have known for nearly three years now. We've been pretty good friends ever since. I've always kind of thought that he might be gay and up until recently I didnt have anything ... (201 words)

Should I be the one who breaks off from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am having a problem figuring out the status of my current relationship with my "bf". We have been together for what would be 7 months and 2 days after xmas we both decided that the previous few wks have been very weird. Whether it be more stress that both of us were ... (1016 words)

Would it be alright if we used a condom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the family well, plus i went out with ... (139 words)

I'm beginning to see him in a different light - is 4 years too much of an age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have this friend who is 15, he will be 16 in a few months but recently, after not noticing him for so long i have started to see him in a different way. I really do believe i have such strong feelings for him. Like i could just talk to him all day and love when i get his ... (76 words)

He puts me through a lot of pain and is unpredictable. Does he need help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has always been quite closed, he often doesn't want to see me because he wants to spend time in his own company, or doesn't feel happy or whatever, I always have respected this as at least he was honest but found it hard to deal with. However this evening hit... (567 words)

Is he burying his head in the sand because he doesn't know how to deal with my depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been really struggling with depression as a result of being poorly. I am taking anti-depressants but the thing that I want most is encouragement and support which I am not getting from anyone. I have been having good and bad days. The last day I saw my boyfriend was a ... (358 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I need guy help, big time. Okay, there is this guy at my school, he is really cute and in the same grade, but he a part of the football. I am not one of the 'popular' girls. Anyway, he is in some of my classes and I get really mixed signals from him. Sometimes I look over and ... (131 words)

How do I avoid appearing 'clingy'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

5 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I know that guys often feel that girls are too clingy and i try very hard to avoid this. I don't ever talk to guys first even if i want to. Is this the right thing to do? How often is too often to call guys? What can i do so that i make sure i don't come off as clingy? Thanks... (65 words)

How can I save this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

5 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem with my gf she is starving me sexually, she is currently pregnancy but the problem started before that. we live together I have spoken to her several times but she is not improving at all. After several argument we decided to have sex at least twice in a week ... (69 words)