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I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??

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Question - (20 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey,

My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together.

I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right.

He's 16 and i'm 13.. 14 in feb hes 17 in March you may think im an immature little girl but and everyone else thinks that im pretty mature for my age. I want to stay with him, what should i do? Tell him or let my chance go?

x

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A male reader, HappySmiles United States +, writes (27 January 2008):

HappySmiles agony auntJust move on. find a cute boy your age like me =]

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (24 January 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntI think that you should let go and move on. There are alot more guys out there who would really love you later on in your life but you gotta get your life straight first before you start looking for romance.

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A male reader, puhd United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

Live a little, i know you really liked him, but let him go. Someone will come to you later on. Right now concentrate on having a laugh with friends and education. It sounds silly, but they are the things (aswell as parents) that will alwasy stay with you. Boyfriends come and go. Enjoy the life you have now. Things between you and your boyfriend could've gotten messy especially if any sex was involved.

Smile, enjoy life and in a while i'm sure things will feel better for you.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (20 January 2008):

kenny agony auntI think that for the time being you should maybe let it go. I think he had a had a good think about the situation and realised that he is going to be 17 soon, and you are still 13/14. In normal age terms this gap is nothing, but when you fall under the ages of concent the gap becomes gargantuan, and he could get into an awful lot of trouble were anything sexual to happen between the pair of you. Sit this one out, maybe be friends, and maybe in a few years things may be different.

All the best, & good luck x

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntBe nice to him and wait till he grows up and come back to you.Give him time to think about this relationship. He may change his mind about it. If not , meet other boys and broaden your world.

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