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writes:Hi, need some help! I have a gf who i live with and have done for two years. The past 6 months have been pretty crap and i ended up meeting another girl katey who is a year older than me (24). We were meeting up and having a laugh every time then it got more serious and i was staying round her house for whole nights. I know this is wrong but at the time it felt good and fun, but things have gone bad my gf suspects me of cheating and probably will throw me out and im not sure if katey wants anything serious. I feel alone now and dont know what to do! I know its my falt but advice would be appreciated plz ! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for all answers and time to leave ur msg's. Still not sure on what is best maybe i have to look at what i have with my partner or need time on my own?! So hard this relationship thing!
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (19 April 2008):
 A smart thing to do would be to find your own place now.Talk things out with your girlfriend now, come clean and explain the relationship isnt going well lately.If you cant fix things up, move out and talk to Katey about going steady.You should never cheat on somebody. It hurts the person so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): This is why you don't live with people before your married!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): hi,
my advice, is come clean, tell your girl what youve done, before she finds out from someone else, you owe her that. before you make any rash decisions with katey, you need to end it with your current girl first, honesty is always the best policy. u need to be a man now and stand up and face the storm which you have created. 2 years is a long time, but i really do feel sorry for your girl, even tho you say it has gone wrong for you both, she must have had a lot of love to stick by you. most likley you will get kicked out, but dont you think you asked for it?!...look, let her hear it from the dogs mouth, before some how the truth catchs up on you, at some point you willl get caught, so you might as welll tell her and w8 for her decision. if she choooses to be with you, you neeed to fix up and look sharp and not cheat, you need to make it up to her. you owe it to your 2 year long relationship.
all the best and god bless
friend xx
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reader, .DRAMA-QU33N. +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Although it might of felt right at the time
but you really shouldnt of cheated on your girl friend!
No matter how bad things were. If you dont want to be with her break it to her gently explain how your feeling im sure she'll understand! :)
If you dont want anything serious then maybe just find your own place and go steady with this "katey" ?
But you cant just string along your present girl friend.
hope ive helped
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