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writes:okay. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up yesterday. i still loved him tremendously, yes we were young. 14. but i know i was in love. well anyways he ended it because he had to catch up on school and his sports because he was falling behind. I respect that reason to be honest. I need to know something tho....why do guys act all hard around their friends?? He cried when he had to break up with me and said how bad this hurt him. He said he really still cares for me but the feeling we used to have faded due to us getting wrote up for one kiss in the hall way. this punishment put us to where if we showed any touching at all in school then we aould both lose sports and other things. Well our relationship felt diffrent after that happened. He said to people that its hard to "love" this young but when i asked him he told me he never said this and he almost got mad that someone would say that. Its very hard because I want to know the truth and I have asked him and he denys everything everyone says and swears he loved me. I cant get over him this is so hard for me. please tell me what you thinkthank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): It sounds like it was all too much for him and he feels too young to be seriously involved. Also maybe you should have got romantic off the premises rather than risk trouble at school.
Try to move on but stay just friendly towards him. Spend time with your friends and take advantage of the spare time to catch up on your own school work.
There will be plenty of other opportunities in the future and if the same boy feels ready later he will be back. You could of course have got keen on someone else by then.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Some times bfs say things to there friends that they dont mean because they dont want to come across all soppy and in love there friends would probably take the mick so he says things he doesnt mean to make himself look big and hard.
Wait till you finish school and see what happens then who noes you might get back together after school.
Good luck.
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reader, salvation +, writes (18 April 2008):
Most guys act hard around there friends because they see that kind of emotion as a girly thing its stupid really but its all down to how they are seen by there mates. You should focus on you work and not let this get to you. Im here if ya need to talk.
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