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26-29,
anonymous
writes:is it wrong to start an extra marital relationship with my aunts ex husband? is he still legally classed as my uncle? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): There's probably no legal reason as your aunt is the one who is a blood relative, but how would your aunt feel and is there a big age gap? These are things you may wish to consider.
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reader, WizardOfWaz +, writes (18 April 2008):
 No he is not legally your blood relative therefore no lawful reason why you cannot have a relationship with him. Might be some issues with your family or aunt, but as you haven't expressed any concerns on that subject suffice to say if all is well in then that respect then there is nothing to worry about.
Regards
Waz
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reader, natasia +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Who's extra-marital - you? (as he's her ex, he's not married now?)
Extra-marital is ALWAYS A TERRIBLE IDEA. If you want someone, you should wait till your free. Probably.
As for him, it depends how they split, and how your aunt feels about him. I think she would be very hurt, whatever she feels for him. Only options are either don't do it, or ask her how she'd feel before you do it. That way you've kind of done the decent thing.
(Or do it and keep it secret - but these things always come out, believe me ; 0)
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female
reader, duskyrowe +, writes (18 April 2008):
 I agree with Emily on this one.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (18 April 2008):
Legally he is nothing to you.
However, it will cause major problems within your family. It will hurt your aunty.
Is this guy really worth that?
Good Luck!! xx
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