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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I got dumped, now I've met another girl, but is she right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. Please help me with my problem. I was dumped a few months ago by my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, and I've found it very difficult to cope with. Recently, I have met a new girl. She's very nice. But there are a few things about her that makes me hesitant to see if we c... (206 words)

How do I confront my 10 year old daughter about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible that my 10 year old daughter could be having sexual relations with her 12 year old boyfriend. If so how do i confront her, do i just ignore it or do i beet the living crap out of him. Can she get pregnant at 10. I've seen them both together and think by the way ... (93 words)

Is he too young to understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) age 30-35 - ok end of story now, after getting back together with my 13 yrs younger bf as an open relationship 2months ago, he decided to break up again coz he has no faith that he would be happy even if we might work out and he would not feel we are the same generation in how i look and ... (137 words)

We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last night as we were laying in bed ... (115 words)

A bloody mess! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I had sex with my girlfriend recently during her period. During the act a lot of her blood got on me. Mostly around my penis and hands. I did wear a condom and several months ago we were both tested for STD's and the results were clean. Should I be worried about the ... (63 words)

Lately, he's been cold and distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was sick. Last week, I sat him ... (308 words)

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have really missed him, and he is a... (128 words)

My boss is flirting with me, he's married, I am flattered but I know its wrong , how do I get rid of these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job about 8 weeks ago. I noticed my boss giving me eye contact. He then gently touched arms with me a few times and I was flattered by the attention. My job involves being out at night in a club together and one night he was definitely flirting with me. However ... (165 words)

My hubby and I have had a great sex life, now he's getting a bit unconventional, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a very active imagination when we have sex, he always has. His chatter has always been part of what I enjoyed during sex. But lately he's been acting out some of his sexual fantasies. I don't know what to think. He pushes his penis head inside so at the very ... (102 words)

My wife talks about sleeping with her female friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 42 married. My wife is 30 we have a very good sex life but just lately my wife talks about sleeping with her female friend. What do you think of this?... (35 words)

I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks about his girlfriend.I have my ... (108 words)

I'm unable to sustain an erection, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi for the past year my wife has been telling me i don't get as hard as i use to. If she talks dirty it seems to do the trick, but not for long. Several times i haven't been able to finish off which she says is ok but i am not sure. Recently i went to a local sex... (171 words)

I'm 15, he's 26, we really click, should I consult my parents?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear Agony Aunt, do you think that age matters? i mean in our world which we live in, these days, you hear stories about 60 year olds having babies and 8 yer old's smoking, so is it such a bad thing for 15 year old and a twenty six year old to fall in love? i am nearly 16 ... (149 words)

My boyfriend is off to Iraq, but I think I might be pregnant , how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I have a question...first of all I am "kinda" getting back together with my ex from 3 yrs ago. He is a military officer and going to Iraq in December and will be there until probably August. He said he is serious but doesn't want to make a commitment until after Iraq. ... (275 words)

When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks.... (51 words)

I got pregnant, we got married, he treated me badly, now years later he is trying to mend things, but I don't love him, is there any hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm extremly confused!!!! Been married for almost 13 yrs. and been together for 15, I had gotten pregnant 5 months into relationship, so i guess i thought it was right thing to do to get married, I thought i loved him, i think i did but i was 19 when we married.. In the ... (396 words)

We were friends with benefits, now I want a serious relationship, can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Alright so we started out as a one night stand about 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 23. After that we became friends with benefits and remained that way for a long time, while I was completely in love with him. I started applying pressure to be more than that, which he ... (406 words)

A boy dumped his girl to be with me, but now I have a boyfriend, help me I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i really really like my boyfriend and he likes me but i also like this other friend of mine. Here's the story the friend who i liked had a girlfriend while i was single but he recently broke up with her for me but now im not single anymore. he said that im breaking his heart as ... (88 words)

I fancy this guy at work, I think he likes me as well, but how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have found myself being attracted to a male colleague, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is chatty and friendly with all members of staff,though just lately he seems to be paying me more attention,he initiates silly games,flicks me with tea towels as i pass,picks me up ... (99 words)

I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?... (43 words)

My girlfriend has gone off sex, how can I get the intimacy back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and myself have been together for about 2 and a half years. I am 37 and have been married in the past, she is 32 and has also been past married. My issue is after a year of amazing sex and intimate encounters, my girlfriend has lost her desire for anything ... (395 words)

Torn between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok im 15 and im kinda torn between two guys. lets start with guy number 1: fine i know that guy since last year and we really hit it off and he really liked me back we used to flirt 24/7 and then suddenly we stopped talking [we dont even know why-we didnt even fight] and th... (301 words)

How can I make his return special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend has been working away from home for the past few weeks. The night before he left, I planned a night in at our house (we live together) with candles, wine, food, bubble bath, the works. Now I want to plan something for the night he returns, but I don't want to to... (78 words)

Is true love scary?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help!!! I have a stepsister and she told me that when you love someone, you're scared to be with them, scared to know that somebody wants to be with you that you love, and I don't know what to believe. Is this true?... (45 words)

I don't know if he is serious about me, how can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i love my boyfriend very much but he doesnt seem as serious as me and i dont wanna make a fool of my self by acting all lovie dovie. what do i do?... (34 words)

Had him, Left him, Had him, Left him, Want him, Lost him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Alright. About a year ago, I met this REALLY nice, cute and tall (yah... It's hard for me to find all 3 in 1 package, considering im 6 feet tall) boy. He liked me... ALOT. It was weird for me, because I'm a distant person, and need time to get to know someone. We went out for ... (329 words)

He's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he likes to me the other day. It ... (87 words)

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets face it moms are there to do ... (97 words)

I can't let go of holiday crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I met this holiday rep a few years back... I was smitten! But, as holidays go, i had to leave. It broke my heart - it really did i became obsessed and it ruined my life Just as im rebuilding it all i found her MySpace....we've contacted and it made me feel s... (151 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you think he will like me if i, ... (75 words)

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july.... (402 words)

I live with my in laws, and I feel suffocated in my marriage! My husband is not willing to change this as his mother would feel "deserted."

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been married 6 months, i live with my in laws this is something my husband is not willing to change any time soon. He is afraid that his mother will feel deserted if we leave the parental house and even bought a bigger house so we would all live together, even though h... (165 words)

How can one suddenly stop feeling the love overnight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hi, my girlfriend broke up with me last night. i was devastated. she said she see's me more of a best friend rather than a boyfriend. again, this breaks my heart.i can't bare life without her, i love her so much..i cant even describe how much in words. how can she suddenly... (79 words)

My inlaws have been in touch with my husbands ex girlfriend and I feel betrayed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My in-laws have been contacting an ex-girlfriend of my husbands. This women and I do not get along at all. She says that her child is my husbands this he says he is unsure of. DNA testing isin the works. It makes me upset that they are contacting this women before they know for ... (115 words)

What other 'little things' can I do to be romantic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Im the first to admit Im terrible at being romantic, but I try. My girlfriend says I need to be more romantic, but I dont get what she is asking for. I take her flowers now and then, chocolates, leave little notes etc. We stay in on a Sunday night and watch a fi... (157 words)

My boyfriend wants to be there for girls night out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Any ideas on how I handle this one. I am having a 'girlie' night at my house on Friday with nine old friends and my boyfriend who loves cooking has offered to cook us all a curry, preparing it Thursday and then coming after work on the Friday to do the cooking and serving. I ... (185 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like my best friend just because he is a guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend who i know a year and a half but dating him for the last year is very very very jeoulus of my best guy friend who i know 8years me and my best friend are very good friends we go shopping together and go to college together we are best friends for last 8years and ... (106 words)

Even though it is just a friendship, since she kept it a secret I am disturbed and want it over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - 8 months ago I discovered my wife was emailing an old guy friend I had never met that she had known from high school. She had written like 40 emails, all very long, one a day. I was very hurt and mad that she did not even bother telling me as we're very open about our friends ... (356 words)

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping it would change. I have been ... (544 words)

I caught him cheating and now I found out he married the 'other woman'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to it. for the remaining 7 weeks ... (181 words)

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it jumpstarted exciting things ..a big ... (662 words)

He said he would get back in touch soon. How soon is soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey There! I am in a really confused state of mind and I feel really lost. Ok let me get straight into the story here. My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago...when we were together as a coplue everything was fine, everything seemed perfect, we were happy with each ... (292 words)

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I DON'T want her to be put ... (141 words)

Should I arrange a threesome? Does she really agree to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi For the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me. Our sex life is very good and ... (110 words)

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He expects me not to have any ... (164 words)

How can I go about getting closer to my real mom withouth upsetting my adoptive mom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My Mom had me when she was 16 and I was adopted by her older sister because she had plans for her education and career and a baby at 16 didn't fit into her plans. I'm not really on the greatest terms with my adoptive Mom at the minute and I'd like to have a bit more to do wi... (221 words)

What do guys do when they fancy a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - A question to all the guys. What do guys do when they fancy a girl??? Answers will be gratefully recieved. Anything will be helpful XxX... (29 words)

Any thoughts on why I feel uneasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there are large gaps in between physical intimacy. I also know he views porn videos. Even though it is not on a regular basis - I still feel uneasy. Thoughts?... (39 words)

Is a fear of change normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, Ok, I split up with my partner as we simply fell out of love with each other, we argued and we also didn't make an effort to keep our relationship alive. As a result I am moving out of our shared home (rented) to start a new life in a new city, with a new j... (178 words)

Should I surprise him by booting him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - is this mean.. my boyfriends at work and i want to move him out..i will rent apartment, put his things in there and leave it at that..tonight i want to take my keys off his key ring, take my car key off his ring and put a note on door when he comes home with his new address.... (111 words)