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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Cheating or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had a boyfriend for about three months and i really like him and i recieved a message tonight saying how was london babe love you and i haven,t been to london and i then recieved a message saying that he had sent it to the wrong person i mdon't know how to handle it what ... (66 words)

Am I being petty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - do you think its ok for your fiance to conceal the fact that his ex was going to be at a family gathering,and i felt humiliated and was mortified as i should of been informed even asked if i though it was ok,but i wasn`t even considered,i was so hurt but he didnt careless how i ... (86 words)

My office friends seem to have 'dumped' me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

- I hope someone can help me out here. I was friends with the secretarial staff at the company where I work.We would meet for coffee once a week and it was great. I had recently broken up with my boyfriend of eight years and it was great to have them. I guess the bottom line is ... (245 words)

How do I not ruin first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

- I am quite a shy person so at 20 i have just started dating. i had a date on tuesday with a girl who i seemed to like but i have probably cocked it up as there was at times long periods of silence (like 1 minute at one point). She had to go early as she was up early in the ... (107 words)

I have a huge crush on my 58 year old vice pricipal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I have a huge crush on my vice principal and he is 58. He is always saying that I look stylish he is always placing his hand in my hair when I talk to my other teacher. Is he jealous? When I am with my friends he only says "hi, how are you" but when we are alone we ... (242 words)

Getting mixed signals from my online bloke

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

- I met a bloke on the net who seemed nice and we had 4 dates in about 1 year of talking online, the 1st 10 monts ago and the last 3 in the last 3 months, he told me he doesn't want a girlfriend but that he is really interested in going out with me and so on, I agreed to be ... (143 words)

I just found out my ex had clymidia

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a one night stand with my ex a year an a half ago, I've recently found out that he had chlamydia, what should i do?????... (27 words)

Should I revert it, instead of telling him I like him, say I heard he likes me and ask if it's true? Boys, which strategy would you prefer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - ummm okay i have a party this weekend and im planning to tell the guy i like that i like him. should i reverse it? say that ppl have been saying that he likes me and i want to know? or should i just blurt i like u do u like me? boys? which one would you prefer if you were in ... (64 words)

My friend wont leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - please help me i have this friend that likes my boyfriend and he said he doesn't like her he thinks she's to full of herself [which is true lol] and he says i am the only gurl for him......i always see her looking at him talking about him or flirting with him and he tries ... (111 words)

My girlfriend says I am moving too fast

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend said im moving to fast and i just got with her recently what can i say to her by text to make her feel that i want her in a soft way?... (34 words)

I have a sexual relation with my... half brother. Is it wrong, since it doesn't hurt anybody, or should I stop it right away? It's pure lust and we both pursue other relations...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Somebody please help me, I have a big problem and there is nobody else I can talk to about it. Im very embarrased talking about and i know i will probably be judged.i guess i wouldnt blame anyone for judging me. Anyway, its a long story so here goes, Iam 20 years old now but ... (339 words)

I am engaged but recently hooked up with another guy - my former teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, first of all I know I've been stupid but I really need advice! I'm 20 and left school about 3 years ago and during my last two years I developed a huge crush on one of the teachers. I am now engaged to a different guy but about two weeks ago I saw this teacher's profile ... (205 words)

My dad is having an affair with my best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17-year-old student in college here in England, I have a good social life and friends. I am satisfied with my life, doing well in my studies. However, a recent incident has made me upset and made me question whether my best friend really is my best friend. This ... (342 words)

My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ... (17 words)

My daughter said my partner of 7 yrs tried to take a photo of her in the shower. He says he "walked in" texting me not realising someone else was there. I want to believe both!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 7 years and thought evrything was great after being in a bad marriage. Tonight my 19year old daughter sent me a txt saying he tried to take a photo of her in the shower . When i challenged him about it he said he was sending me a txt at the time ... (139 words)

He looks and acts younger and we get on well despite of the 17 yrs age gap, but how do I tell my parents about him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Needing some advice here!! for the last 2 years i have been seeing my boyfriend, i am 18 he is 35, so obviously i was 16 when i met him. The problem is, how do i tell my parents???? i am not really close to them, and i have briefly discussed what their opinion is regarding age ... (117 words)

I lost my virginity recently to the girl I love but I didn't make her orgasm. Am I bad at sex? How do I prevent myself from ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I suck at sex!!! I lost my virginity a week ago to this girl I love!!! It was brilliant! But... I didn't make her orgasm. I couldn't last long enough to anyway. Is this really bad? She's NEVER had an orgasm before in her life, not even made by herself. Does this make it harder ... (125 words)

He said my weight wouldn't be a problem but I think he's repulsed by me because when he touches me he gets hard rock instantly. Am I being paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, i think my boyfriend is repulsed by me. Iam 20 years old. Im a big and beautiful girl. I been seeing this guy for a few months now and i think he is turned off by me. I liked him for a long time before this but i too afraid to talk to him because i didnt think he would ... (228 words)

I know his fear of losing me after I caught him cheating can prevent him from being totally honest, is it important to ask him about things he may not like to acknowledge even to himself, or should I let it go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) age - Help! Am I making things worse or is this the usual process? After being discovered cheating, my husband and I are working through, s l o w l y, all the repercussions of his betrayal but I am still concerened that this is not the first time, as he has said. To be honest, I ... (391 words)

He wanted a baby with his ex-wife... Why doesn't he want one with me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19, I moved out of my parents and I now live with my boyfriend who is 37. I know there’s an age difference but it works for us. Iv dated my boyfriend for a year and a half but iv known him for over 2 years. I feel that the time is right for us to have children. we tal... (302 words)

Married 11 years (tomorrow), but I think I'm in love with my best friends brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 11 years tomorrow and i think I am in love with my best friends brother! I love my husband but I am not inlove with him. I would never want to hurt him but have been seeing this guy on the side. Please help me... (50 words)

How do you win back someone you've dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question, has anyone reading this ever dumped anyone and realised they have made a mistake? And how did you win the person back? ... (26 words)

I have fantasies about my husband... with other women. Why is this a turn on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever since i met my husband i have fantasies about him being with other women. I know im his wife and not at all afraid of him leaving me for his other partners. I just want him to get all his fantasies answered. It really turns me on. I am shy though and he is afraid ill get ... (80 words)

Help! My boyfriend has a crush on my best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found notes on facebook between my boyfriend of eight months and my best friend about how he had developed a crush on her and thinks shes the prettiest girl he knows. He says it was just a week that he had a crush on her and doesn't mean it anymore. Says he loves me, ... (115 words)

No friends, family, and I really miss my mother who died a couple of years back. I'm not living, just existing. How can I change this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 29 years old and have no friends or family,my mother died a couple of years ago and i miss her so much she was my best friend and i could talk to her about anything now i feel so alone i never see anyone as i live out in the country and only tend to see people when i do my ... (123 words)

I'm madly in love with her, but now she's dating her crush! Do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, yesterday, the girl with whom i am madly in love (we'll call her Jane) got asked out by her crush, and she said yes. Naturally, this saddens me, but I just dont know what to do... I have been told my numerous friends that I should tell "Jane" that I like her, but I ... (161 words)

I've done the no contacting thing, but now she seems to have turned the tables on me! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I have done the no contact for a few weeks. My ex was calling me and I would call her back a day or two later . I would let her leave me a message. Well she emailed me a few days ago , and I emailed her back. Except now she has not emailed me back, or has called me since ... (171 words)

My boyfriend wont let me go in has car

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend wont let me go in has car, he always makes up excuses why I can't and have to go in mine which I find odd as this has only started to happen recently it was never a problem before. I was due to go to college it was dark and i noticed my car lights didn't work so I ... (156 words)

Should I worry about his past? I'm worried his ex was better in bed and also that he may cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a rship with a perfect man (sweet, honest, goodlooking, great in bed, etc ec). We've been together for almost 4 years now... we are both young, in our second year of university, but we started dating in high school when we were 16. Over that time we've both grown up... (389 words)

His ex sent a text to my bf mentioning weed and sex! I feel he also compares me to her! How should I react? I'm aggrevated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am actually new to the whole relationship and dating game and dont know much on how to act and what exactly to do...i have a boyfriend now since april and took it to a very big level by moving in with him at his parents house...we do everything together and i know ... (229 words)

I feel fat. I cant get a girl because no one even looks at me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Im 13 and I weigh 9 stone. I cant get a girl because nobody even looks at me. I dont look too overweight (im only overweight by a about a stone) but I hate myself. i dont eat a lot of sugar and i have regular exercise. has anyone else had a problem like that? im really worried ... (81 words)

My boyfriends online webcam/ chatting is ruining our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a case here, 26 he 33 I am pregnant , almost ready to have the baby and my boyfriend has pretty much been doing this since day 1, I found his "stash" just recently , and this has been the worst time of my life , along with just moving to another state , I found some ... (275 words)

I have pain in my hip and stomache. Any idea what it could be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey for the past 3 days ive had really bad pains by my right hip and stomach and they wont go does anyone have any ideas what it could be ... (30 words)

How do I weed out the bad guys from the good so I don't waist my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently started dating again after being in a 5yr relationship. What I've noticed though that it gets a lot harder as you get older. Also there are a lot of guys out there who just want sex. I get really angry after the effort I've made in dressing up and they're not ... (135 words)

I really truly am in love with my geography teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really truly am in love with my geography teacher. im 15 and he is 24 .every little thing that he does i notice it. i want to spend all the time that i have with him. i dont no if he feels the same. i know he knows i like him, but not how much. ... (59 words)

Does he want me back? Or is it just he cant stand to see me with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok Me and my ex, are always off again on again, but he has a new girlfiend and I a new boyfriend. But he always calls every week, then when I talk about these other girls, he gets upset, and say he didn't call to talk about them... Why does he keep in constant contact??? Do he ... (75 words)

His sexual past is really bothering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a new relationship with someone and Im really confused about what to do. I find myself feeling really weird and jealous when I think about the fact he's had 5 sexual partners before. I really dont want to feel like this, but I don't know how I can stop myself feeling ... (107 words)

She broke up with me because of the distance, but now I might be moving there next year

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Something has happened. My hope in life is to achieve some kind of profession in Music as a performer. A few months ago, my 2 year long relationship with a girl who lived 200+ miles away broke up with me, after she was moving to Univeristy in the Lancashire area,... (293 words)

I like a guy but don't know if I should tell him so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i like this guy and i dont want to ask him if he likes me but he's mean to me he was nice to me for some years but then in Year 5 and 6 he kept being mean to me,(ignored me, wouldn't belive something i said which was true)He did look at me though alot in Year 6 does that ... (92 words)

My boyfriend cheated and confessed and is trying to win me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year and a half, who I was supposed to marry, recently told me that he got drunk one night and cheated. Well, I consider it cheating. A girl friend of his called and said she had nowhere to stay, so he told her she could stay at his house. The night ended ... (252 words)

My ex seems to be trying to make me miserable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently just broken up with my ex-boyfriend. We both agreed to move on. I've been dating a guy i really like. My ex started to kick up a fuss, and has been constantly arguing with me. Now i find out he's dating one of my friends! I don't know what to do. I don't ... (83 words)

What do men mean when they say a girl was really great in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what do men mean when they say "she was great in bed" ? how do i know if i am great ? or not ?... (25 words)

Any suggestions for really dirty sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just came out of a long term relationship and my sex life had got pretty boring !! i have met a very sexy fella and we both agree we just want sex. i would love to get really dirty with him, any suggestions what i can do to him ?... (52 words)

How should I act on my first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - iam new to being gay and i am hoping to meet my first possible boyfriend in sutton in surrey on saturday how should i act on the day and should i ask about a second date from craig, 22years old gay redhill... (44 words)

His ex wont leave him alone

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend just under a year. His ex is like a thorn in my side - she won't go away! Every time she crops up, it causes conflict in our relationship. We'll forget about her, then the next thing youknow she's textigm or calling, or emailing. A month... (468 words)

Am I being selfish to want to do some things to make myself happy instead of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I spent years in a bad relationship, caring for my kids by my first wife. I am now divorced twice, kids are grown, and I am in a relationship I think is not good. She says she loves me and the when she is with her friends she never calls never lets me know where she is. Then ... (236 words)

I want to make my ex jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just wanted to get on here and see what this was all about. i love my exboyfriend, but im dating somebody else. just to make him jealous cause its his cuzin and all. what do i do? is that mean? ... (42 words)

I cant get her past out of my head, but I need to so that we can have a life together

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of almost two years, “Sara”, just asked me to marry her. She is a realist. And for a women like “Sara” to have reached a point in her life where she would even consider marriage again (as she was briefly married to her high school sweetheart nearly 10 years ago) ... (483 words)

How can I keep my long distance romance alive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

4 October 2007 (?)

- What can I do to keep my long distant relationship aflamed? How do I express myself feelings freely to my lover without being shy?... (27 words)

My boyfriend cant ejaculate. Do we have a problem here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend cant ejaculate,We have sex for a long time but there is just no end so we both give up.This has happened twice in the last week.DO we have a serious problem?... (34 words)

He is a compulsive lier and cheater.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We just started dating about 3 months ago but feel like EVER cause we live together basically in the barracks, and I have already caught him in mulitiple lies and oh i cant forget i even caught him across the hall in another girls room in the barracks. (I'm in the Army and ... (380 words)

Should I break all ties and move on or lay it all on the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I move on or keep trying? My fiance and I broke about about 3 months ago (we had been together for almost 6 years and engaged for 6 months). We have recently been hanging out and I want to be wtih her so bad. I know this person is the love of my life but I am not sur... (205 words)

I have kept in touch with my ex while out of the county. Should I call him when I get back in town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) - I went out with a nice guy 3 times, knowing I was about to leave the country for work. He knew, too, and it wasn't a problem. While away during these past 8 months we've exchanged brief emails every so often to stay up to date. Although he's gone out with some other guys, he ... (118 words)

My wife is not sure if she wants to be married to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Well here is my story. I met my wife almost 7 years ago on line and fell in love with her straight away. The problem was that she was married. her husband at the time was having an affair and it was me she turned to. She had been with her first husband since she was 16 and they ... (630 words)

I love my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

- ok I love my best friend we have sex regularly, spend most of our time together and flirt all the time, but he says he just doesnt feel the same as i do. does anyone have any suggestions on how ican stop loving him, i just cant help it thank you XxXxX... (66 words)

The guy I like, and who likes me too, is dating my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently told a guy i like him, i thought he'd freak but its all good. Now he feels the same but hes going out with a friend of mine, should i wait till they're over or tell her or just keep going the way is it. Ive never been so happy and confused? ... (57 words)

First my ex says he still loves me, then he says he never wants to see me again. How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on how to get over my ex. He was my first proper relationship and we were together almost 7 months.He broke up with me beacuse he found out something at the start of our relationship and couldnt cope with it eventhough he told me he was over it. One minute he ... (147 words)

The guy I like just told me he is joining the army

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy i like we have kinda been dating and are planning on getting together. However things have already been quite complicated and now he just sprung on me that he is joining the army. i always told myself i'd never go out with a guy in the army as it would be too ... (83 words)

I am in love with my sisters husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18yrs old, i m in luv wth 39yrs old man(my sisters husband) and he love me too. but he is married and has a kid. the worst part of it is that we live in the same house. He is nice and lovely. He respects me a lot, but sometimes when we are together with his wife he ... (79 words)

Should I give this guy a chance? Or does he have too much baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I met a guy through dating website. 3 weeks ago... I'm 40, divorced 5yrs with 2 children, only had 1 other partner for a couple of years which ended earlier this year. 1st 2 dates were fab and very intense. He has 2 ex's with 3 children between them and it is all very a... (145 words)

Am I to blame for messing up our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend. he is older than me for about 7 years. at first our relationship is so good. but the dilemna came when the time that my x-bf texted me and he's the one who receives it. he asked me who is he and because i get nervous, i lied to him. i said he was my mate's ... (146 words)

I cannot smell or taste due to my cold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - during the past few days i cannot smell or taste due to my cold. i am very worried and concerned about this, and i really want to get better and to gain back my 2 senses. please help and what should i do? this is really effecting my life.... (49 words)

My boyfriend abuses me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my boyfriend has a problem he's constantly physical with me. actually he hasn't been recently, but in the past he's severely injured me. well injured me enough to where even weeks and weeks had passed i still had marks and my skin where i've had bruises from him before. ... (205 words)

I want to propose to my girl. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to propose to my girl. Can anybody suggest some ideas?... (12 words)

My boyfriend ignores my feelings, but when I try to break up he tells me he loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi..i just want to ask, why is my bf always ignoring my emotional feelings especially when he dont answers my call and messages..when i would try to break up with him he would just say he love me and my heart always listen to him.... (45 words)

I am not jealous, but I am upset that he is talking to a new girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy i use to talk to for like 2 years suddlenly forgot about me and just moved on with his life without me doing anything to him at all. he is talking to this new girl now and it hurts when i see them together. im not jealous but i am upset and depressed. what should i do?... (59 words)

What can I do to show her I love her and need to marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My Fiancee and i are Christian. Bible say having sex before marriage is a Sin. What can i do to her so that she can know that i really love and care and need to marry her. Can we spent tog' without having sex or can i kiss her deeply.Please advice.... (51 words)

I kinda blew my proposal to my fiance... she's spoiled so it's hard to "un-disappoint" her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I sort of blew my proposal to my now fiancee and needless to say she is very disappointed. I know the proposal is a big deal, but I still choked and am going to be stuck with that forever. I want to make it up to her, but I'm not sure how. The restrictions around it make things ... (110 words)

Does the fact that I THINK he is cheating mean he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know he is cheating? My man has always been very sociable and naturally flirty. So i wonder if the fact I think he is cheating means he is, or is that my paranoia. What are the signs?... (41 words)

I don't even remember what attracted me to my partner in the first place. Is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there even a glimmer of hope? I have completely lost interest in my partner. This didnt happen overnight it after a horrible past 2 yrs where every possible nightmare happened. He went overseas for work, i got pregnant, we had financial constraints, i started working ... (103 words)

Was he just being nice to me, or is he interested in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help...I'm very confused. There is this guy that I am interested alot. He is what I would call the perfect man. He may have some flaws but they are tiny. We used to go to school together but never really saw each other. Resently one of my friends invited me to a ... (335 words)

I cant make an equal finacial contribution and its affecting our relationship

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4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How to show him i simply cannot afford all those things? Okay dear aunts ~ here is my problem and dillema:Im dating a guy who is quite well-off. Im still at the university,and have little savings so i cannot afford even things for me. The problem is, when we go out,i cannot ... (182 words)

My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage, but I have a huge crush on a guy at work

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4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, but have known each other for about 7 years. We love each other very much! We live together and want to get married and have children together too. I also know that he already bought an engagement ring for me. ... (211 words)

I still feel strongly about my ex. Should I tell her?

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4 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. the thing i think about has been her. she is my first thought when i wake up, my only thought during the day, and my last thought at night before i go 2 sleep. we do talk occasionaly. i found out that she has a new boyfriend and this ... (104 words)

He thinks it's a chore for him to go down on me, should I find someone else to satisfy my needs?

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4 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a sexy 22yr old,with a great body,nice curves and a bronze tan.i been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and from the very first night he went down on me and has enjoyed doing it,recently he has started to make it feel like its a chore he used to probe every inch now he just ... (97 words)

A group of friends - including an old crush - made a reference to my racial background among other things and laughed! What should I do?

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4 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that I use to like last year. He was mean to me in the beginning of the year, like he'd throw salt in my hair and call me ugly and stuff. Then he started being nicer to me and stuff like that. Then this year he was being OK i guess but ever since about last ... (522 words)

I lied to my girlfriend about my age. How can I tell her the truth without losing her?

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4 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - what has age difference got to do with marrage? i am a man at 24, but all through my life i have been making friends with people who are older than i am, and now i want to get married, and the girl i have fallen in love with is five years older than i am. She had asked me of my... (120 words)

I want to divorce my wife and marry her sister

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4 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a chance to be with and tell my wife's sister that i am in love with her, but didn't. know i feel depressed and feel i've missed out on opportunity to be with someone that i have fallen in love with and love with all my heart. My wife and i are longer in love with each ... (219 words)

Am I dumb to believe that my husband had a condom in his wallet because he uses them "to masturbate" with??

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4 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have a two dear old daughter and I am six months pregnant. We have defiently had some rough patches and I am some infedielty fears from a previous relationship. I have accused him of cheating when he has not and It has taken ... (294 words)