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Is true love scary?

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Question - (31 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I need help!!! I have a stepsister and she told me that when you love someone, you're scared to be with them, scared to know that somebody wants to be with you that you love, and I don't know what to believe. Is this true?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

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Hi...it's me!

Ok, so I knew when I poted my question that my step-sister has bad experiences but I nevr thought that she would lie to me.

She told me that she was just trying to help me not to get hurt the ways she ha in the past.

I know it was in her best intention but I'm going to prove to her that all relationships aren't bad.

I hope she finally starts trusting once more and I hope that I find someone that won't hurt me and that she will like him.

Many thanks to both.

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A female reader, Waterloo Sunset United Kingdom + , writes (1 November 2007):

Waterloo Sunset agony auntYour step sister sounds a raw one? What does she mean about being scared? You love them so much you cannot bear to think of a time when you are not with them. You love each minute that you are together, cherish it. Be with them as much as possible and no it is not scary. Forget these strange notions.

take care

xx

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A male reader, Karlos Omnis United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

Karlos Omnis agony auntI'm not quite sure what angle your stepsister is coming from.

When you truly love someone, you want to spend as much time with them as humanely possible, and I wouldn't say fear would factor in.

Perhaps she has just been hurt, and she's trying to protect you in her own way.

Sit down and have a talk with her as to why she believes this.

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