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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He ignores me, now I've got someone who wants to be with me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend. We have been together for over six months, and I have never had a problem with how much time he spends with his friends or what he does while he's with them. But lately we never spend time together unless I go over to his house for a booty call. That is how ... (176 words)

Breaking up, best friends, a teacher that hate me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) age 51-59 - My boy friend just broke up with me and I don't why. Everybody told me that I still have fellings for him and one person told me that I was smothering him, but I never hang around him! I also have another inquiry about my best guy friend. I just got into high school and we s... (240 words)

I'm 17 , he's 20 , my family say he is too old for me, I don't agree, who's right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - for the record, The names of the people in this story have been changed for their well being. :] ok, I never do this. My brother(20) and my sister(21) FINALLY invited me to one of the numerous parties my brother throws at his house. It was a Halloween party so costumes were... (582 words)

My bf is going to see his ex at a wedding, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if I'm looking for people who have been through the same thing, or if I'm looking for advice. Any kind of reply would be appreciated. My b/f of 3 years is very close with his ex girlfriend's cousin. This cousin is getting married in 2 months, and my boyfriend AND... (308 words)

D`oes he hate the way I taste?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey My boyfriend of 5 months went down on me for the first time ever this weekend, all was goin great, until afterwards he said i 'taste like a bitch'. what i wanna know, is this a bad thing? does he hate the way i taste? this has me really confused any advice would be gr... (98 words)

Can I overdose on nutmeg?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I was just playing around on my computer and i typed in fun ways to get high.I have never heard of getting high off of nutmeg before, but it showed up and i started to read about it. It sounded kinda fun, so I went and looked in my parents kitchen and found nutmeg, it ... (76 words)

Confused about the reasons for sex. Are you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - can somebody please tell me why people think sex is so paramount in a relationship. when u split, i find that family things are the most hurtfull once gone. sex is a physical release which can be so special with the person you love and not when it means nothing, then its just ... (58 words)

Why do I keep getting in relationships where the woman breaks up and returns later for a new start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do I keep getting in relationships where the woman finishes with me then comes back later to start up again? My last three relationships have been like this. It drive me crazy and does my head in. Thanx... (44 words)

I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend, but now my ex is back, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a long distant relationship with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I am preparing to move to Florida with him within the next couple of months to begin our new life together. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend from 15 years ago, because I got pregnant he wanted the ... (157 words)

When I have sex with my new bf sometimes I bleed, what could it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey girls...i need help..okay i lost my virginity in the beginning of this year and now i have an older boyfriend and when we have sex somethimes i bleed [embarassing]but what does it mean? ... (34 words)

Should I have a sexual relationship with anyone even though there are ways to prevent spreading herpes? - may have caught it from the current husband, sometimes I resent him for it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still in love with my ex husband and I am remarried. We have done a lot to hurt each other in the past. We were young when we got married and he cheated the whole time. I know I am not happy in my marriage now, but I have several things holding me back from divorce. I am a ... (314 words)

Overnight tips on getting rid of spots!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a day tomorrow, and my face just exploded with zits! OMG! Does anyone have some quick tips that I could use to get rid of them, or at least hide them?... (36 words)

He won't let me clean, cook, etc - not to protect me, but because I'm not doing it right? Control issues? Is there hope for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a bright, successful woman dating a fellow with less education and world experience. We meet well on a spiritual and artistic level. The problem? Control. I try to dust, he is concerned about where the spiders will go. I put a log on the fire, he's taking over making s... (205 words)

I've made a big mistake, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my fiance with his best friend Tim (also my friend) who is also married and his wife is one of my best friends, but to tell the truth I'm more worried about my friend's feelings than my fiance's, I guess that sounds bad, but I have cheated once before which he ... (429 words)

She said I'm not that handsome, is that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I Have just met a lovely girl, online it has to be said. We both get on like a house on fire on the phone and both admit we feel comfortable and happy with each other's personalities and that life is better and Happier now we have been talking. We also know wha... (107 words)

My dad has turned to me for help, What do I do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - After nearly 30 years of marriage, my parents' relationship is falling apart! My dad says he's trying to fix things, but my mom wants nothing to do with it. She doesn't want divorce, she says, but she's always mean to him, and gets angry when he isn't completely under her ... (121 words)

My mum died 6 years ago, I'm now 12. My sisters are too lazy to cook for me. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a very small thing but to me it's annoying. I have two older sisters one 23 and one 21 they both live at home with me and my other sister who is 15. We just got a new cooker after two years of useing a microwave and grill. I was really excited for the first couple of ... (123 words)

I am bi-sexual. Should I tell my friend I fancy her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known my best friend for about two years now. She knows im bisexual and she doesnt act weird about it. I am single and so is she. I fancy her. I have fanceied her for around about four months. I have tried to give her bits of hints but nothing has happened. Should i tell ... (60 words)

My husband watches gay porn and doesn't know that I know. Is he gay???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband watches gay porn and hides a dildo from me. we have been married 4 years and we have 2 kids. this has been happening off and on for 5 years. he does't know that i know about it. is he gay or bi? what should i do? i just moved across the country away from my family ... (68 words)

I like her, she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl for about two years but only about 2 months ago i realised that i really liked her. a few weeks ago i gathered up the courage to ask her out but to my huge disappointment, her reply was "sorry i have a boyfriend but i like you too." After some asking of ... (210 words)

Why is he accusing me of having chlamydia???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my so called boyfriend has accused me of having chlamydia,which is so untrue,why would he say this unless he has got it and thats why he`s done research i havent got any symptoms to indicate this and ive recently had tests which dont show anything relating to this infection,hes ... (67 words)

Is there a psychological impotency?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - is there a psychological impotency?... (5 words)

I've got a crazy mother! Anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom hates me. I am friends with one of her friends and she says she feels that she loves me, but she hates me also. A couple of days ago she had a huge fit and started crying because she was upset that I put the frying pan in the washing machine instead of washing it. I ... (143 words)

I'm truthful, he lies. I don't understand him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up 8 months ago and have remained close friends. We both date other people, but still hang out alone and end up sleeping at eachother's houses a few times a week. I am truthful with him about what I do, he lies a lot. Everytime I try and put distance in ... (104 words)

We fight, but I want him to fall in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey me and my boyfreind have been together 2 months ago and we fell in love within 1 week i think at that time i couldn't live without him anyways when time passed we started having more fights ( i still love him to death) but i know that he doesn't feel the same about me, can ... (88 words)

He's trying it on with me but he's got a 7 months pregnant girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july..asking h... (368 words)

I'm back with my ex but I don't feel the same towards him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that texted me after the split and was ... (308 words)

He has a low sex drive. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfrined for 3 months, he is 28. We had sex a few times a month or so after we got together (3 to be precise) but since then we haven't had any, not even any foreplay. It is a struggle just to get him to give me a nice long kiss, I think ... (292 words)

There are large gaps between times we are physically intimate. Why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I have an amazing time together. We feel really close to each other. However, there are very large gaps between our physical initimacy. When I ask him if it us or if he is uncertain about me - he doesn't hesitate to say 'No'. He then makes a point to reassure ... (70 words)

Where do I go from here in terms of staying friends with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Where do I begin? Amidst the end of my summer of 2007, my girlfriend of 3+ years decided to call it quits with me. We had a typical relationship with the usual tumultuous times that any relationships goes through, but for the most part, we enjoyed each other's company and loved ... (410 words)

We have been having sex for 3 months but she is still tight. How can we loosen her up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and we started having sex three months ago and for sum reason she is as tight as the first time we did it any advice on how to 'loosen her up' cheers... (53 words)

Was this an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had never had an orgasm before ,but when I was having sex i felt like I had to pee ,what could this be?... (24 words)

What does he mean when he says he has fallen for me but doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiyyya, i'm really baffled a little help can go a lonnnnng way in makin me feel more LESS confused haha welllll... i've liked this lad for a while and only recently found out that he likes me back! :D massive complication though :( he's been texting me everyday and we t... (167 words)

Do I report my boyfriend for domestic violence or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my bf for years, and have dated for a few months now. He beat me up pretty badly, all my xrays and catscans came back fine, but the police were called by the hospital and they want me to report it. i don't know what i should do, i don't want to report him because ... (88 words)

I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when he went out with his mates ... (446 words)

My sister has decided to get engaged the same weekend as me. Am I wrong to ask her to do it a different time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, my dilemma is this- my bf and I were just away for a week on holidays and while he was away he proposed (totally surprised me!) I was SOOO happy, and we waited to get home to tell our families. When I got home I told my family including my older sister who we'll call ... (304 words)

Why am I still single after 2 years? I feel like life is passing me by. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am so lonely, I find it hard to cope with life. I am 28 and spilt with my ex two years ago, the problem is nobody i meet seems to like me. I feel like I have been single for five years and not two, as i only got back with my ex as I couldnt find anyone else. We got bac... (431 words)

How do I achieve a g spot orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i acheive an orgasm through g spot i can climax through clitorol... (14 words)

My ex won't leave me alone and I'm scared of dating.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 15 i starting dating a guy who was really nice. We got engaged after just a few weeks, fast I know but we were young. After about 9 months during an argument he hit me across my face. I was really confused at the time I thought he loved me. But he promised never to ... (181 words)

All I seem to focus on is the negatives...how can I stop this and have a normal relationship??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody. Hope somebody can help me here or if somebody is in a similar situation. I have met a lovely guy who travels alot for his job but when we see each other the time we spend together is great, he is very caring and very affectionate. The problem I have is im ve... (271 words)

Is it best to stay in touch with an ex or break contact totally??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Do you think it's best to keep in touch with an ex in a recently broken relationship? I wrote a lengthy post a short while ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-are-doomed-to-be-better-if-we.html) Should I be keeping in touch with my ex, send her the occasional text,... (529 words)

I still love her and she still loves me...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, as I feared, she broke up with me. She "Could not do this anymore.". She insured that it was nothing I did, she was "having emotional problems and was in a bad place" as she put it. She does not know if we can be together in the future, but she still wanted to be my frien... (742 words)

How I might effectively flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I seem to have a problem when it comes to effectively flirting and just walking up to someone and starting a conversation......any suggestions of like good conversation starters? and any suggestions of how I might effectively flirt? thanks 4 ur time.... (41 words)

How do I make her feel more included??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i've just come across this website so i don't know if this is a type of question you can help me with but i'll give it ago. I'm 16 currently at college/6th form. About 5 weeks ago there was a new girl came into our college, she is in nearly all of my lessons and those th... (490 words)

Her lack of communication is killing me - what can I do to get through to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been (living) with my current girlfriend for 10 years this coming xmas, and last year we finally bought some property together. It seems though, that ever since this happened, her attitude to me has changed. She has become colder, never really shows me much affection, ... (259 words)

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear aunt, iam 20 and have been dating my boyfriend for 9months. he seems to love me just the same way that i do. but the problem here is that he has a baby with someone else but told me he's gonna part ways with her soon. he told me he only wants the baby to grow a bit more ... (128 words)

I can't trust him to tell the truth. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years (the last 6 months he has been living abroad). He told me only last week (during an argument on the phone when I shouted he had been selfish leaving me alone like this) that he had actually delayed the final stage of his visa ... (503 words)

Why am I tormented by visions of my ex doing things with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, my girlfriend split with me because she was going to university far from me. And now, I keep envisioning her making out and having Sex with other guys. I am the only guy she has ever slept with, as she's never been in a long term relationship until ours which ... (156 words)

I don't know what's going on. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just returned from a business trip, i was gone for 5 days and its the longest i have been away from my boyfriend of 1 year. when I was away I did call him a lot and I missed him so much and on the trip i realized how much i loved him and what a great relation... (208 words)

Should I 'Quit it'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently 18, and I'm dating this 40 year old who used to be my teacher in high school. My grandma and aunt heard about us, and told me to "quit it" because it just isn't acceptable. We've been dating for a total of 6 months now, and I must say, I love him with all I have. ... (98 words)

Is he kidding or is he serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There's this guy at work, (just a friend) who say he would like to ask me out, but that i'm too good looking and would make him work like a mule to keep me. So it wouldn't be worth it, because I would eventually end up with some handsome guy in the end who I slept with bec... (103 words)

She has Anaemia - will it affect her ability to have children in the future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys,i'm forever grateful to the advise you give.However,i need some education on a new development in our relationship.My girlfriend was recently found with Aneamia?I wanted to know if this can affect her capability to have children,in future.It also seems to depress her ... (74 words)

I'm the one doing all the running - should I just call him when I feel like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 8 months now, we had the exclusivity talk 3 months ago and everything is going pretty well between us. he treats me right and is sweet to me. the first 4 - 5 months of our dating period, he was always the one making plans ... (628 words)

Do you think he still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just broke up with my ex and actually he was the one who initiated it as he's busy with his stuffs and in fact, his schedule was pack all the way to November, maybe December too and so he told me that he think it's better for us to remain as friends as he does not have enough ... (355 words)

My ex wants to come over for Halloween.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of advice! My ex, we still talk a little. He's in a class with me, so it's kind of hard to avoid him. While we were dating I told him about how my family likes to do a lot of decorations for Halloween. Well, he wants to come by the house to see the ... (155 words)

Should I take him as a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my freind whom iv been knowing from childhood is 2 years younger to me.even though he has a girl friend-now hes liking me so much. he does everything for me.but now our freindship has turned more.he meets up with me evry week an behaves close with me.but i dont feel it ok,as i ... (82 words)

She doesn't talk much, is she just shy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm just starting a relationship with this girl. we like each other and like spending time with one another. the thing i like most is that i have this certain feeling of peace around her, so i know there is something there. the thing i worry about is that we don't really ... (108 words)

Help before I go bonkers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi! i've been with this girl ,A, for the past 2 years, i even got into her parents good books and we were as close as family. and when things began to get sour i made the ultimate mistake and ended the relationship. a month later, i was out with another girl. and A and her ... (144 words)

How to get her a way to wear lingerie

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to bits but I've always had this fetish for her to wear lingerie like a a nice corset etc. Seems like no matter what approach I take, she just doesn't want to. I have no problems being naked but it would just rock my so... (77 words)

Love, what is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What is the difference between saying "I love you" and "I am in love with you"? Is there a difference?... (23 words)

I'm not a virgin, but I'm scared of having sex with my new bf, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. And we dated years ago in jr. high too. ne way. We havent ever had sex yet, i mean we have done other stuff like kiss and hes fingered me and i've given him a hand job. but now he wants to have sex and i want to too. ... (138 words)

Bullied into marrying this man, should I leave him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I married last year in response to an ultimatum-move to the next level or break up. I knew at the time that fear should not have been a part of my decision, but I was not ready to let go-even in spite of the many emotionally abusive situations that had occurred over ... (249 words)

He says our relationship is getting stale, I don't agree, how can I talk him round?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my boyfriend and I have been having a little bit of trouble, we took a break for about 2 and a half weeks just to give each other space. We haven't fought, just one heated conversation which we got over. He says he's scared that our relationship will not work and I've ... (129 words)

Help!, how can I tell if I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well here's the thing...I am having trouble with the fact that I don't know whether I am lesbian or not. I don't know how to put this all in words but, it seems that everytime I see a girl you would consider hot I automatically start thinking about them in a sexual way. ... (117 words)

Is this just an excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this girl at the beginning of the school year, and immediately fell for her. she apparently liked me too, so I asked her out. 5 days pass and I think shes avoiding me. that night she tells me shes not ready to get heartbroken again and tthat she wants me to wait if ... (136 words)

I really don't think he'd hurt me, but I'm confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a bit of an issue. i am completely in love with a man that i have been with for almost a year. we both are very similar, have had very bad mentally and physically abusive relationships in the past. and we are each others support system. he is truly my best friend, my ... (321 words)

Help!!! How do I get a second chance at love with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up at the beginning of the summer. He initiated it, saying he wasn't ready and just couldn't do it. I was heartbroken (and still am). Truthfully, we both made mistakes leading to the break-up. He was emotionally closed off and that made my imagination run ... (596 words)

Girls really confuse me, what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please try not to judge me... I give the impression that I am interested in one thing, and one thing only (sex). Or, so I'm told. When I do things with women, I fully intend to pursue a relationship afterward. I don't consider myself a whore, but its not uncommon for me ... (126 words)

Why does love feel so far away from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does love feel so far away from me? I think I'm fairly attractive, and I have reason to believe I'm sought after by atleast a couple of young ladies I know. But I've only ever had one girlfriend, in a long distance realtionship that lasted 2 years. That relationship con... (332 words)

Is this normal or am I going mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was wondering if people had any advice. basically this guy asked me out and thats all cool but the only thing is that my mum is becoming so awkward when i talk about it. shes like who else are you going with? she dusnt realise its a date and she seems almost reluctant to ... (161 words)

What's your opinion on my friend's situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - she's been going out with this guy for a month, known him 5 months... they had sex the 4th time they seen each other... she saw her boyfriend 5 days ago and he still hasn't called her or texted her since then and she's called him twice and texted him since then. When he dr... (73 words)

My b/f and I can't talk without getting into a fight!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f and I can't talk without getting into a fight! It seems like he feels the need to challenge everything that comes out of my mouth, even the most benign statements. He corrects, or contradicts with attitude. It's getting to the point where I don't even want to talk to ... (188 words)