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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I lied about my sexual experiences - is there a way he could know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so i told my boyfriend that i'm a virgin which is true but i also lied to him and told him iv'e been fingered and eaten out when i really haven't my question is will he know that i haven't actually had that experience when he eats me out or fingers me?... (53 words)

My mother commited suicide, My fiance just ditched me - and he tells me to learn to love myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my fiancé just recently broke up. We were together for four years. He said that I need to be on my own and deal with things from my past. That he was exhausted because he felt as if he had been living for two people for the past four years. I have trust issues and was ... (240 words)

Is there anything I can do to get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I've recently gotten in engaged to my fiance' about 2 months ago. We've known each other for about 2 years and lived together for nearly a year. We had a plan to come to the US, (i'm a us citizen) and start a life here. So I've given up my job and work permit and moved back to ... (286 words)

Does he want it to be over deep down and do you think he will be back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing drugs but he was very ... (690 words)

She moved away.... Can it last, I don't want to lose her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - ok well me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and she recently moved to washington a few weeks ago and I was woundering if loong distance realationshipd work out? because I don't want to lose her... (41 words)

What is going on with this guy? Does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Met a guy six weeks ago who is 27 (i am 19). He only looks about 22 at oldest. He seems ok. I have only seen him once more since we met. We have spoken on MSN quite a lot (though I have been deliberately appearing offline a lot to let him think I am busy doing other thin... (655 words)

I want to know thats its better than fine, why is he not vocal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I used to love giving my partner oral but recently even the thought of it makes me feel sick, but, I am fine when I think of doing it to a guy I was seeing on and off not that long ago (I was still with my partner at that time) what can I do because he loves it. The guy was ... (104 words)

Why wont my husband be as saucey with me in the bedroom as he has been with others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know my husband bought lingerie for women before voluntarily and did kinky stuff like videotaping having sex with them and bubble baths together. I've been with him for almost two years now and we have not done anything like that. The other day, he was inspired and bought m... (130 words)

He argues with me, just because. Will our counselling be a waste of time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm with a 32 yr old and I'm 26...when we met we got along sooo well. Then we moved in and found out he gets bothered by the toilet tissue being downside or if something is laying there for more than 20 min, etc. He has a really bad temper and gets annoyed and irritated very ... (214 words)

Our life schedules clash...Wheres the time for me, his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have different schedules. I go to bed, he is downstairs on his computer. I wake up, he is asleep until 10am (he works from home). Then he takes a nap during the day so he can stay up at night. Do I have the right to ask him to change his schedule so we are in ... (182 words)

We haven't even hugged/kissed once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hiya... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6months now after a long time being good mates , but we havent even hugged/kissed once, With his X he hugged her all the time, i don't understand why he wont, i admit that im to shy to make the first move as the thought that... (101 words)

Fallen for my best friend - I cant get her off my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - so....i cant give up!......ive fallin for my best friend who is also a lesbian everytime i see her i cant describe it! its different then the last girl i liked, i just dunno theres feelings that scare me i cant describe them, like i want to protect her and keep her close to me ... (214 words)

He likes me but does not love me, should I wait or let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been going out with this guy whom i love so much,but after some time he told me that he wanted me to give him space for two months as he has some problems.during the talking we had some arguement and he started saying that he likes me but does not love me. i asked him if ... (93 words)

I would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, Well, i am a male (15 nearly 16), but i would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body. I occasionally go to the gym and make a point of doing sit ups as i can certainly feel stretching in my abs, but i am planning to go to the gym when... (107 words)

They both say they love me, I don't want to choose, is it okay to stay involved with both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is it possible to be inlove with two people at the same time? both say they really love me and i dont know how to choose or if to choose. i am going mad... (34 words)

I want masterbating to FEEL good -help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i have tried masturabating, even though it's probably against my religion, but i cant seem to get a good feeling. websites suggest using dildos but id never even think of doing that, not that there's anything wrong with it for other people but its to far for me (and id die i... (70 words)

My mood swings drag up the past, please tell me why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M) - I've noticed a strange pattern in my moods recently and it has been like this for pretty much the past year. Randomly I will be on a high for about a week or two and be really happy but then I will suddenly sink down and feel low and sad and slightly depressed for no reas... (141 words)

I'm a proffessional hacker, but I don't like what I've found. What shall I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 30 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. I've known him for 6-7 years. We were friends before anything. I moved from one coast to have. But I am highly insecure which causes me to snoop. I ama professional in Computer spyware and password hacking. A month ... (529 words)

I've fell for her twice - but now she has a boyfriend and has shut me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, about 2 years ago, I was going out with a girl, we fell in love and got engaged almost married, but we decided not to get married as it was too soon. we both were thinking what Uni to go too. after about a year I started losing my feelings for her, and told her that I had ... (292 words)

Not getting off with a boy is getting to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok i am like one of the only girls in the year yet hant got off with a boy yet it really is getting me down and there are loads of couples in the because i havebnt gott off with a boy and i am a virgin does this make me more of a catch or not? all my freinds say i am pretty ... (96 words)

Should I approach my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am a 14 year old female who has never had a boyfriend and recently experienced a really bad loss in my life. I feel like i will never be loved. There's another problem I kinda look up to this teacher at school and do anything i can to talk to him, but its always bout school s... (95 words)

Need help on a pressent for my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok so I need help and this is my 1st question so me(19) and my gf(16) have been together for about 4 months and we love each other a lot so this December is going to be 6 months and I want to get her something that shows how much I love her and I am thinking a neckless but not ... (70 words)

Can anyone advise me on how to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i want to know how to give a hand job and a blow job to please him as best i can, please can you help?... (36 words)

I'm not sure I'm actually ready.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him but i'm not sure i'm ready yet, we've been together for 3 months now, what should i do?... (27 words)

My friend and I love each other, but I'm afraid to get together - what if we break up and lose the friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My best friend says that he is falling in love with me and i think i feel the same but i don't know what to do about it because he has always been just a friend. I'm scared that if we ever did break up we would lose our strong friendship, what should I do? ... (57 words)

I was bullied for years and because of that am having boy troubles!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I really really want a boyfriend how can i allow my guard down. i find it hard to realte to boys because i was really badly bullied for many years and really want tpo allow myself to be excepted by a boy but i simply don't know how also how do i know when a boy is just being ... (81 words)

How do you win back a lost love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to open a topic of conversation for anyone with knowledge about what it takes to win back a lost love. Especially one who seems to still be interested but trying to act cool so it isn't showing or at least he doens't think it is. Cause the world around him is ... (84 words)

I'm in love w/ my best friend's bf and he loves me, too, but I'm also dating his best friend! I'm so confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My bestfreinds boyfriend is sooo gorgeous and i like him but not up until last week did i find out he liked me too but the problem is, is that im going out with his bestfreind and he is going out with my bestfriend no one knows about our secret in liking eachother but i realyy ... (115 words)

Is there a way that I track my man's escort service adventures? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way to find out if your significant other uses or has used a local escort service? And still uses from time to time? Is there a way to find either his phone number or his name from the escort service log books? If so? How? Thanks~... (49 words)

My bf and his mates always go to my friend's house! Does my guy have feelings for my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hiya xxxxxxx i'm gonna get straight to the point and skip the history!!!!!!!! haha anyway my boyfriend has bin out with his mates lately which is fine i dont have a problem with that at all. BUT the thing is him and his mates are always goin to MY GIRL mates house!! they nev... (119 words)

Is it selfish of me to feel uncomfortable when giving an ex relationship advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I was in a relationship recently with a girl, but we split up. We're still friends now, and we still care a lot for each other, so we talk about all sorts. She's moving on and has starting dating someone, and she sometimes asks my advice. In a way i'm glad that we're still ... (158 words)

Friendship is nice, but should I take ONE LAST CHANCE to try and make her mine again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone. I'm sorry if this has come up before, but I'm faced with a bit of a crisis. Most of you on this site know me and my situation by now, but for those of you who don't; I was in a long distance relationship for two years, and this crumbled in June after she felt t... (351 words)

I've never had a boyfriend and urgently want one! I don't want to be alone forever! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i really need help. it may not seem like a big problem but i'm beggining to think there is something wrong with me. i have written before but only got one reply. i really want a boyfriend but i can't have one. whenever i fancy someone and (sometimes) someone asks me out, i f... (145 words)

I fear rejection and failure. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

- I am doing engineering at University of Michigan. I have a good life and I'm on a good course, but the reality is a lot grimmer. Ever since I started doing this course, I have found the work difficult, even though I got the required grades. I'm worried that even though I will t... (108 words)

How can I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I recently got dumped by a girl I really liked. We was only going out for a week but we liked each other for a long time before. We had a great time together and she only dumped me because she wanted me as a friend. If she liked me once do you think she could ever like me again ... (98 words)

I'm happy without him... But am I still in love with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im really unsure wether im still in love with my x we were together for over a year and he made me so happy and since i split up with him even though i spilt up with him as i thought i was no longer in love with him now since we split up ive not been truly happy .i still meet ... (169 words)

I miss her so much, I think my heart is going to EXPLODE! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I know you all have probaly heard this story before. But here it goes, my girlfriend asked me for some time and space almost three weeks ago after a year and 3months. It started with me pushing for some answers as it related to our intimacy issues and asking why she h... (500 words)

We were engaged, but now he wants to call it off! How do I accept this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with a man for a year and a half. He is 49 and I am 38. I have one child, 17, and have never been married. He was married once before and has three children, 20, 18 and 17. I moved out at an early age and have been responsible all of my life, living ... (411 words)

We had Anal sex, and now I can't seem to get rid of the smell!! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having a problem and I don't know what to do. It's quite gross. At the weekend me and my boyfriend had anal sex, then afterwards we still had normal sex and he came inside me. I usually kind of wash myself 'up there' with the shower, and the water and use my fingers... (112 words)

I think I'm ugly. How can I get the guys??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, i'm really ugly, i swear i look like a monkey, i cant get any lads, please help, i need help, i cant take being ugly anymore!!... (27 words)

My bf takes 'speed'..can that affect me having a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfrend takes speed. do u think that can stop me having a baby... (14 words)

Do you think I can help myself? If so, how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm almost 20 and have nothing.Only half finished high school,no job,one friend only (too busy to go out with me),7 members of family I live with but none of them can understand my mood swings and even I don't.PLEASE,I need ur replies on 3 questions: 1)How can I help myself t... (259 words)

Is there a way to domesticate a Macho Man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with a macho man. Who are they macho man?? Please shed some light. I am a very sensual woman and suffer greatly this "harsh" treatment. The only time he becomes attentive to my needs is when I make him feel jealous. Then instead of complaining or becoming angry with me, he ... (211 words)

Is there any way to remain slim during my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

- during my mensutral cycle, my weight fluctuates greatly. i'll go from feeling very slim to looking bloated and overweight. I know most of this is water retention, but is there anyway to maintain my slim figure throughout my cycle? xxx... (46 words)

What DID I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - my names daniel in the past I've had lots of relationships that never worked out the first one was when I was 15 I went to scout camp and met a girl who I realy liked we hooked up at camp and had a great time together how ever when I got home I found out she was 12 and we h... (285 words)

Please help me. I love him and will never be able to forget him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I had posted a question but I think the readers dont get a proper idea of what Iam trying to say.So I clear it again. I love a guy who is younger to me.I told him about my feelings and he said he only wants me to b his friend.His behaviour is very different towards me,it se... (455 words)

I cannot stop thinking about my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am 25 years old and have been in a relationship for almost 5 years. I do love him (but not sure if I am 'in love' with him anymore) and the thought of hurting him breaks my heart but I can not stop thinking about my ex. We split about 7 years ago and I haven't stopped ... (175 words)

I'm grossed out by his behaviour. I need some reassurance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Is his behavior appropriate. My ex-fiance (thank God he's an ex) used to do a lot of things that made me worry. And one was he was 34 (i'm 24) and he talked to a 17 yr. old because it was his 22 yr. old friend's younger sister. anyway, I remember thinking right when we started ... (334 words)

During the bj, I just can't seem to swallow b/c of what I was brought up to believe! How can I get past this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I really enjoy giving my husband blowjobs but when it comes to his cummin in my mouth and swallowing his fluids which i really really want to but i just cant seem to get past my inhabitations of what i was brought up to believe; which i know makes him feel unsatisfied and i ... (92 words)

Regarding sex, I want to reject my husband on our date tonight to show him how I feel when he constantly does it to me!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex is great when we have it, we just don't have it that often. We have sex maybe once a week to appease me. That's not what I want and how I want it. I want him to want it/me. He says he does when questioned but he does not show it and does not say it. Besides, I feel hurt ... (378 words)

My friend and I like the same boy - she asked him out, but *we* got together at the dance! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi. I need helping trying to figure out what to do.I like this guy and I have since 7th grade. But My friend who i hated in seventh grade but now were really close also likes him. And asked him out knowing that i love him alot! well him and I had a thing going on at the ... (123 words)

All of a sudden, my fiance started giving me gifts. Should I feel suspicious or just accept them and not worry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey. My fiance rarely got me gifts unless if it would be be an occassion like a birthday, christmas, vday. I told him that it would be nice that hecan just evenn come home with flowers once in a while (so one can even have it on the tablein the living room)and within many yea... (205 words)

Is my husband of 10 years gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been together with my husband for 14 years; been married for 10. I'm confused. I think he may be a little gay. He goes on about a lad at work all the time and he also is really homophobic. Not sure if that is a good enough reason to think that he is gay but he do... (117 words)

Why am I a drinking wreck! Why do still I love abusive, lying cheating partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My (currently ex) partner of 7 yrs has cheated on me for 1st 6mths with the mistress his wife was divorcing him for, has constantly lied, stolen 30k from his mum, been on many sex internet sites with his picture replied to all women i put on to catch him, sold my computer and ... (150 words)

They split over a year ago, but he's still close w/ his cheating ex! What can I do about my jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf txts his ex constantly. She is a solicitor and helped him gain access to see his son at wkends. i spoke to him and how it makes me feel insecure, her txting him every day and him itching to reply, but waiting till i'm out of the room to do it. he told me she has every ... (181 words)

I can't see that it's over

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - have been having an affair with a man who i taught was my soul mate.. we meet on friday night, booked into a hotel and had an amazing loving night.. i have txt him twice since and he has not replied.. should i just move on? its very hard to be like this one day and then just ... (104 words)

Am confused and feel used

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have just been dating a guy that i like a lot we have been together for 2 months,he has a girlfriend. But lately things have turned sour he lied to me saying he is sick he can't come to see me then i called him only to find out he is with his other girlfriend and now he is so ... (101 words)

Help! I am addicted to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my ex split 2 and a half months ago we were together for 7 years, he said he wanted to be single. i was totally devaststed. i found out he started seeing another girl 2 weeks later. he says he still loves me but doesnt want a serious relationship however he is with ... (224 words)

Why do I stay with an abuser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I thought we had a great relationship. He asked me to marry him, told me how many kids he wanted, where he could see us in 10 years time. For the past year, it has been bad, he has cheated on me, hit me, last week he even threatened to ... (161 words)

Can love survive religious conflict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im a hindu and my boyfriend is a muslim we have been with each other 4 2months and 3weeks. we have come to the stage in our relationship wer he has startin to realise that when our parents find out his family may not accept me but he aint shore about that. but 4 mine it would ... (108 words)

Scared because I feel empty inside

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Where to begin… I’m a 22 year old student. My parents divorced when I was 7. My father left my mother and I in a bad way both financially and psychologically. I changed my name and my father out of my life in 2004 and feel better for it (although i still feel a great deal of ... (309 words)

Feeling like Ozzie and Harriet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Been together with my hubby 5 years but were more like brother and sister, never had brill sex life but now non existent anyone got any idea were to go from here ?????... (33 words)

My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much?... (27 words)

Will I become like my parents? (and some analogies - Mod)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - OK, before anything i'd like to say thank you to anyone who reads this i value the opinion of others a gret deal. My overall question is 'will i become my parents' ive begon thinking my parents must have been my age at some point no? they must have thought roughtly along the ... (936 words)

She keeps breaking up with me. Are we incompatible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Wonder if anyone can give me advice? I'm 30 years old and my Fiance has now ended our relationship after 3 and a half years. She was a very independent girl and liked to go on holidays, sometimes 3 or 4 a year. She had a 13 year old kid that I would baby sit while she went out ... (525 words)

I'm sick and tired of rejection in every aspect of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I'm sick and tired of rejection in every aspect of my life. I went last week to a federal government career fair in my country wich is not USA and one recruiter got very interested in hiring me. I was very happy because I've been unemployed for a long time, have a lot of credit ... (1097 words)

How can I get more optimistic about my new date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I decided to leave the man that i used to date the last year after he made clear that he doesn't want a commitment with me. Now i start dating another man that seems to be interesting in me. However, i haven't forgotten the ex-boyfriend yet. I am afraid that this will have a ... (93 words)

I need tips to make her first time a good experience.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Ive been dating my girl friend for about 2 months now.. im 16 shes 17. she's a virgin and ive only slept with one girl. she swears she's ready to have sex, but i'm not sure how to do this since its her first time, my ex basicaly had to "put it in her self" and never really ... (95 words)

Why doesn't he want sex anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been dating this guy and it'll be 6 months this coming saturday (10-20-07). Well...Lately, I really just feel worthless. He doesnt seem to want to have sex with me any more. We'll have sex when he wants it. Any time i have ever tried starting the act, i get turned d... (136 words)

I have a crush, what should I do with these feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im really starting to crush on this one guy that i go to college with. Ive know him for a year now but i dont really know him that well. I do know that Im attracted to him and he is one of the nicest guys i ever met. Iam interested in getting to know him better. However, he has ... (132 words)

I lied to her and she won't forgive me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her friend is becoming a pain because ... (173 words)

We're in love but both of us are married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my story,I am inlove with this guy and he's inlove with me also, but both of us are married.Both of us are really attracted to each other and we have a whole lot in common. We get along pretty okay. At the beginning we used to talk on the phone everyday, quite ... (217 words)

How do I save her when she doesn't want my help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my best friend since kindergarten just told me that she is a lesbian. we have been friends all our lives and i dont know what to do homosexuality is a big big sin and i know that she will go to hell for it. i told her this and she said that god loves everyone including gays. ... (232 words)

Why does he react this way towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy in my class, he keeps looking at me. i have no interest in him whatsoever. i had never talked to him before. what he has done to me and reacted to me is making me feel uncomfortable and a bit angry. this is the first time he has done it, he taps my chair with ... (134 words)

Many mental problems in our family, any advice to my questions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay here is a seriously family problem i need help with let me give some background first. *scroll down for the questions* I'm 16, I have 6 older sisters, 5 of them have mental problems, only me and one other sister dont. As we're not allowed name on here I will give them... (605 words)

How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 October 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out? She is so hot. Wow! HOT!... (21 words)

Oral sex is now hurting him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey Okay this has really gotten to me now I was giving my boyfriend oral sex and ive never before had any conplaints. but he said that it hurt. Hes in full health and his penis is fine, it never hurts any other time and I think I'm being a little too rough lol.. any tips on... (69 words)

I'm so discusted with the though that I was with my ex for 5 years. Has anyone else felt this way?

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18 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my ex for 5 years. I was totaly head over heels the first year or so. But I guess his true colors shone through over the years and now he is everything I hate. I am mad at myself for being with him. When I think about how I had sex with him, I feel so discusted. I ... (348 words)

How do you know if a guy wants to break up with you or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How do you know if a guy wants to break up with you or not?? I have been seeing a guy for 3 months, we get to see eachother bout once a wk but lately this has become less and less and i feel that he has withdrawn from the relationship. We have up until now text eachother nearly ... (346 words)

Cheated on my husband and now I'm pregnant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a man and he is really good to me. However, I cheated on him and he was always working and not making any time for fun with me. I am pregnant and wondering if I should tell my husband?... (46 words)

I'm falling for my teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

18 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still wouldn't admit anything. Then ... (133 words)