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How do I walk away from the woman I love and loves me?

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10 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I love my girlfiend dearly, I want to marry her, and live happily. Alas it isnt going to happen. Our relationship is so volitile, If I say the wrong thing, she breaks it off, If I get upset about anything that she says or does, she breaks it off, If I question her about ... (210 words

How can I give him his ring back?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend, but he gave me his ring. I feel like this is his way of still being connected to me, but I know if we have that connection he's still hoping that we'll get back together. What do I say when I return the ring to him, to make it perfectly clear to ... (74 words

I gave my boyfriend oral. He said he liked it, but he never came! Am I doing something wrong?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, im a sixteen year old girl. I recently got a boyfriend, he and i love eachother very much. I tired giving him a blow job and i was in the car doing it for about fourty five minutes or and hour, and he didnt cum. We tried two more times and i was a bit more aggressive and he ... (129 words

He cheated on me. Now he wants me back. What should I do?

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10 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i caught my boyfriend cheating on me and i broke up with him now he wants me back,what should i do? ... (23 words

How do I tell my ex that I want him back?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok basically, me and this guy liked each other for a long time, the first time we dated it didn't work out. But even after 3 months, i still want to try it again, and he still likes me. We're not allowed to see each other anymore nor have i got the confidence to ask him out. ... (114 words

My good friend has lung cancer, and I don't know how to comfort them anymore. Any advice?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - my good freind has cancer (lung) when he talks about it i don't no what to say to confort him what can make him feel better i don't no what to say anymore help plz kay... (39 words

My girlfriend doesn't make herself up at all! Is there any way I can address this?

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10 October 2007 (M age - I have a question about something that is bothering me regarding my GF. She refuses to get a tan of any kind. OK that's fine. She doesn't want skin cancer. I can appreciate that. I am 44 and she is 40. Today she met me for lunch but she did not have on ANY makeup. I think ... (138 words

I have a girlfriend... But I like somebody else, who is already taken! What do I do?

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10 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend but i like this other girl but she has a boyfriend. I don't even know if i love my girlfriend anymore, but i love it when im around this other person. I;ve knowen this girl for 5 years but i've only started to feel this way the past couple of weeks. I don't ... (82 words

I like to go out with my friend, but it seems the only place we can go is where I end up getting drunk and making out with total strangers. There must be more to life than this! Can you help?

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10 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - Hi. I have been going out to this place on friday nights where I go with my best mate. Its ok, but it means that I drink alot n makeout wit people that do drugs n stuff like that. I also hav to lie to my parents about where im goin. Theyd neva let me go if they knew. I feel ... (122 words

Can't two people ever just fall in love, stay in love and not have to constantly "WORK" on the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Has anyone ever been in a relationship where true love has lasted for longer than 5-7 years. I think I've just given up hope that true love can last for an eternity. I think for most women that "newness" feeling can last forever (if we are with the right person) but it seems ... (187 words

I fear for my anorexic boyfriend. Please, can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives in another country and i love him ever so much. I don't get to see him ever but he is anorexic and i'm finding it difficult to support him. As an ex-sufferer, i know what he is going through. But no matter what i say, he seems to take no notice. It is really ... (75 words

Is it normal to skip periods when on the pill?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been on the pill for the last 3 weeks, is it normal to skip periods when just starting the pill?... (22 words

What do I do? She's pregnant but I don't know if I want this baby.

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10 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Im with this great girl who is 3-4 weeks pregnant just found out yesterday she is happy but im not sure if i want this baby at this time. i was married before for 3yrs and we are separated. Lately we have been talking and she is willing to make things workout. im just confused... (67 words

Do I need to move on? Does he still love me?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm still in love with my ex. We were only together for 10 months but i've never loved anyone as much as i love him. Everyone said how perfect we were together, we were so alike but at the same time we were so different. We lived 144 miles apart and we decided that it was best... (146 words

Do I tell him how I feel?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Last year, when I entered college as a freshman, I met this guy and we hit it off right away. He was from my hometown, but he had a girlfriend (2 years younger) who was still at home. We hung out almost every night, with no sexual contact or even kissing, because I refused to ... (510 words

I don't understand American women.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

10 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost one year. Let me explain why, she was married but seperated when we met and on valentines day her husband (seperated) broke into her home and beat her up. She moved in with me and pressed charges only to later leave me and drop ... (268 words

How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

10 October 2007 (? age 26-29 - I need advice! A while ago I met a guy when we were on a school trip abroad. I liked him the first time I set eyes on him. Recently he said something quite mean to me and he has a girlfriend. But I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I keep listening to songs that remind m... (126 words

How can I tell if my boyfriend is my soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've come to the conclusion that I'm in love with my boyfriend, even though we haven't been together that long. I'm really scared that this relationship won't last long because we're so young, and I really do love him. I believe that to be in love with someone properly... (101 words

Does splitting chores help the bond?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok is it a good idea to do things with my man like go do laundry together and stupid things that need done will this help our bond ... (28 words

Is old sex trauma interfering with sex now?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok, this is a bit awkward but here goes... My bf and I have always had really good sex. He was a virgin when we met, I wasn't and had been with a few men before - and this didnt both either of us. We're quite adventerous and really enjoy sex with eachother. Without goi... (384 words

I don't want to be jealous!

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10 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - hey guys would like your help please Me and my gf have been together for 10months now we're both virgins n are planing to have sex for the first time. my gf told me that she loves i think i feel the same but i have a problem is that she told me about her past n i dont ... (194 words

He likes me, he likes me not

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do you no if someone fancies you and flirting with you... (12 words

I've just started high school and like this cute guy. How can I get him to like me?

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10 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am only 12 and just started high school but I have seen this really cute guy, problem is guys never like me because I'm probably pretty but I have spots on my face. Please can anyone tell me how I can get him to like me it would help me more than anything?... (54 words

Is it worth trying a relationship with someone that wasn't ready 5 yrs ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Once again I've sabotaged what could have been a potential relationship with a man I still have strong feelings for! I'm a fairly confident woman around men, but as soon as I'm attracted to someone and I develop feelings for them, I turn into one of these pathetic types who ... (294 words

My childrens mum walked out just before our wedding. How do I tell our 6 yr old that I don't know when she's coming back?

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10 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - i was meant to be getting married Sat. 20th Oct. but my partner left me. our 6 year old is totally in denial about this and keeps talking about when me and his mom get married, which obviously isn't going to happen now. i keep telling him that there isn't a wedding any more... (256 words

I can't get my juices flowing. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, my husband and i are having sex problems. he thinks I dnt luv him and that he doesnt turn me on i gave birth a year and 5mos ago and have been through a really rough time. My husband was deported the day of the babys birth, then i moved with him 1 month later to peru, mo... (181 words

Is it wrong for teenagers to kiss numerous people in a single night at a disco?

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10 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Where I've grown up boys start kissing girls at about the age of 10 or 11 at discos and that out on friday nights, I suppose thats all cute and innocent in the past, no tongues barely for any longer than 5 seconds. I first went with someone at the age of 12 at the usual ... (242 words

My man-boobs are uneven. Am I normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

10 October 2007 (M - Dear: READERS I would like to ask you a question that i dont want to go to the doctors about it as its silly. Recently i was looking at my chest/man boobs and my left one seems to be a bit upper then my right one, and i see the line where my left one is inner than the right ... (94 words

I might be an engineer, but how do I avoid infidelity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

10 October 2007 (M - I'm going to be graduating this year with a civil engineering degree. I will probably end up becoming a chartered engineer but i'm in a dilemma. I would like to travel and work but i also would like to et married and have children. But that's the problem, if I do end up still... (98 words

My husband is scared of having sex with me now I'm 5 months pregnant. Anyone else experienced this?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Been with my husband for 6years now, hes 26 im 24 and 5 months pregnant with our son and he refuses to have sex with me, hes afraid hes going to hurt the both of us. most of the time ok with not having sex because the pregnancy has me feeling very uncomftorble. so anyways hes ... (130 words

Is my boyfriend gay or just not interested in me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Is my boyfriend gay or just uninterested in me!! I live with my boyfriend of 2 years and i know quite a lot about his past he has been with a guy before and gave him a blow job he had split from his ex who he moved to england with and said he was so lonely and down when th... (411 words

Is it ok to have female friends?

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10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is it ok for married man to have female friends? No sex just talking on the phone and text messaging? ... (21 words

How do I find out if I am really bi-sexual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am happily married, but I am attracted to the same sex. I love looking at women, and I find myself fantisizing about doing things to/with them. I talked to my husband, and he thinks it is cool,(as long as he gets to watch/join in, but I don't have to if the other woman isn't ... (176 words

Should he stop texting girls just because I asked him to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i got my boyfriends phone and read his texts. he was sending dirty texts to some girls. i know i invaded his privacy but i need help. he says that's just the way he has always talked to them. i told him i didn't like it and don't want him doing it. it is disrespectful. i don't ... (93 words

Any hints on how to help me communicate?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my lover have been steady and happy for almost a year, but there is a problem. I love what he does to me, but I can't tell him when I want to, or what i want him to do to me. I kinda just hint my way through it, but more often then not, by no fault of his own, he doesn't ... (122 words

Should I trust him to be loyal and faithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, please kindly advise or give your opinion here. This is the story : I have been together with my man for 8 yrs and have been engaged for 3 years. We have 2 little angels together. Now problem is the 1 night in Nov06 i caught this girl in his house and i called him to t... (390 words

What can I do to stop loving him?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my x-boyfriend nearly 2 months ago. He's moved on and got a new girlfriend the day after he broke up with me. He was my first serious boyfriend and I still talk to his brother alot. I have never felt about a guy the way I do about him. I have tried to forget ... (108 words

Why is it weird to use tongues?

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10 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - Why is it so weird to tongue someone for the first time? I mean, when I did it, i realli didnt enjoy it. I prefered just kissing to be honest. This makes me scared, is it always like that? Will sex be the same? Or is it jst coz im bad? I need help!... (54 words

I would like to make him feel as though he has never been touched by anyone but me...How?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - how cani make my man feel sexy ? i would like to make him feel as though he has never been touched by anyone but me and i just wanna feel safe in his arms like before ... (38 words

Her 13 year-old son is disrespectful. What can be done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I know I have asked this before, but I would really like some input on this issue. I just got engaged a month ago. My fiance' has 2 boys. One 13 one 15. At the begining of the school year, the 13 year old was told if his grades failed, no computer,or games. He is failing ... (414 words

We've traveled the world together and she breaks up with me now because I lied about watching porn! What do I do?

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10 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been with a girl for almost a year. We traveled the world together, weve been to saudi arabia, italy, greece, everywhere. she broke up with me because i lied about looking at porn. I have never been this depressed what the heck do i do, i cant stop thinking about her and ... (67 words

How come there was such an attraction when he's the opposite of what I like? Love at first sight, does it exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'd like to know if anyone thinks if love/lust at first date happens? I had a first date with someone yesterday, and it was great. We got on as if we'd known each other forever, bearing in mind, i had never met this person before and id only spoken to him once on the phon... (294 words

How can I get over wanting to have a child until my husband is ready in several years? I've even thought of "accidentally" getting pregnant!

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10 October 2007 (F - Hello. I'm 26 and have been married to my husband for a couple of years now; we've been together for over four years total. Last year at this time, I had a miscarriage (the pregnancy was unplanned, but we were both really happy - until it ended). I'm having a hard time deal... (399 words

I told her how I felt about her and she rejected me. Now she says things that make me think otherwise! What do you think of her messages?

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10 October 2007 (? - This is a follow up to questions in the past. It is to give you a better idea of some of the things my gal is saying to me. We are both females. Soooo, I hope you can shed some light for me. I am in love with a friend of mine. However she is married but no longer loves her... (737 words

My ex wants me back and I want him back, as well, but I don't think he's actually ready! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I need help. My ex boyfriend has started to come back around just to chat as friends, but I feel he wants more than that. I don't think he is ready and I think he is scared of a relationship, even though ours was good. I do still like him and want him back. What can I do... (113 words

I cheated on him, so we broke up. Now he wants me back - and wants me to leave my hometown and go live with him!

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10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok we have known each other since we were 16 years old. We met in a fantasy not even looking for love. So we start off as friends and keep in touch over the years. Nine years later we decide to take it to the next level after just being in a long distant friendship. I li... (211 words

What is your opinion on fantasies? Do women like lingerie on men?

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10 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - What is your favorite fantasy and have you had the pleasure of living it out? How far would you go to live out your partners fantasy? Do uniforms and sexy lingerie turn you and your partner on? Do you like to see your man in sexy shorts, vest tops and unifoms?... (53 words

And old crush has confessed his love to me and wants me to meet his family! I'm tempted, but I already have a bf!

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, i have a huge problem and it can lead to my boyfriend dumping me. okay so he is faithful,caring etc and doesnt keep a secret from me. yes i love him to bits but problem is a guy i had a huge crush on at high school just told me he's been inlove with me since 2005 and he ... (158 words

My bf is insensitive and we rarely see each other. How do I break up w/ my him? Also, I'm cheating on him w/ my boss! Should I still date my boss?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. untill a few months ago it was great, but for a long time our relationship has been disintergrating, especially over the summer where certain incidents have driven us apart. one example is that both of us booked seperate ... (478 words

My best boy mate and I have a sexual relationship, but when we went out it didn't work! Is it right to stay as we are, then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have a best boy mate. we have a deep history together. we also currently have a sexual relationship but we are still virgins. we both want to lose our virginity to each other. we talk about how great it would be if we got married. though when we went out it really didn't wo... (99 words

I don't want him to think I'm a slut OR fridged! What do you think I should do?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, I'm 14 years old and I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and i love him so much; however, we have were going out for 6 months then broke up. In 1 month I'm having a halloween party for my 15 th birthday. I'm playing a game called 7 minutes in heave... (133 words

I would love to make love to him more often and for longer, but he is not very forthcoming! Help!

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10 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi I am married with 4 kids, 2 quite grown up and 2 still at home. I would like some marital advise. My husband and I are having some problems in the bedroom area of our lives. He is not overly active and I am wanting more. He is satisified with a quickie once or twice a month ... (155 words

We became engaged and our relationship w/ my family went downhill! How can I get it sorted?

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10 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am 25 yrs old guy and i find myself to have become more reserved since i got engaged. My fiance is quite nervous about the whole thing and she says it is difficult for her to tolerate when someone says something bad to her. Being sensitive myself, i have c... (122 words

I thought I'd found the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and until recently I though he felt the same!

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I thought i had found the man i wanted to spend the rest of my life with and until a few weeks ago i though he felt the same. He said he shared the same as aspirations as me, marriage and kids in our future. He even took me to see a site he was thinking of buying to build a ... (319 words

My husband is extremely critical of most of my actions and I constantly feel inadequate, inefficient, careless and do not possess a high IQ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and have been married now for almost seven years. I love my husband dearly and believe myself to be very dedicated to him, our children and hour home. Nevertheless my husband is extremely critical of most of my actions and I constantly feel inadequate, ... (132 words

I found emails he sent to another woman before we got back together and I feel betrayed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

10 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello all, I hope someone can give me some advice about how I should react to following situation: My fiance and I have been together for two years now. We broke up in March this year as I wanted to take our relationship one step further, get married and have childre... (633 words

How can I make my girlfriend feel special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

10 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have just started into a new relationship and I haven't had many and I want to make my girl feel special as I have heard my friends talking about it but I'm not to sure how to do this properly. Also my last girlfriend said after we split that I didn't make her feel special ... (76 words

Are there any pointers anyone can give me with striking up a conversation to at least get talking to her?

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10 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 19, I've never had a girlfriend and don't really find any attraction in very many women (apart from sexually) which really depresses me. What I mean is that I can't see myself with these people in my future and that's what really bothers me. But there is this one girl...... (293 words

How can we improve our sex life?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm nervous about the last time I saw my boyfriend. I was really turned on like the first 5 minutes he was there, but after a couple days, we'd go out and he'd get tipsy or drunk [because he was going to be gone for a long time, and sort ... (357 words

I feel so jealous of his ex and his 2 kids.

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and I have been going out with a man 13 years older than me for just over 9 months. He has 2 childern and I can't help but be jealous of his ex. They were together for 10 years. I try so hard not to hate her but I can't help it, and he is always teasing m... (96 words

She found out I looked at porn and now she's broken up with me. How can I tell her I adore her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

10 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey, I'm new to this whole thing but I am in a bad spot. I looked at porn a few times on the internet and lied to my giirlfriend about it. We have been together for almost a year and she wants to break up over it. She is really hurt and I feel like the biggest pig on the ... (75 words

I proposed to him indirectly and now he's told me not to call him anymore...

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am in love with a guy and I proposed to him indirectly but he got angry for no reason and asked me not call him anymore. I still love him, can't forget him because I believe there is a reason for me to have met him. His character is so similar to mine and I can't ... (68 words

How can I become MORE than just good friends with her?

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10 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - There is this girl that is one of my good friends, we messed around with each other and kissed a few times and now I like her, she kind of likes me too but she feels bad because she friends with my ex and I'm friends with the guy she was talking to and she feels bad for them ... (102 words

Why does he not want to cut ties completely?

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10 October 2007 (F age - If the affair is over, why does he still want to be friends and why does he always tell me how much he misses me but still wants to work things out with his wife?... (35 words

How do I get over this guilt so that I can have some self-confidence and be the girl that he loves?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi... I'm 22 and in a serious relationship that has had its ups and downs. To begin: Let's call my current boyfriend "B." We've been seeing each other for about 2 years "off and on" and have broken up twice. The first time we broke up basically was B's fault. He took m... (301 words

He is blaming all our problems on me!

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - He is blaming all our problems on me! How do I get past the my ex's cheating with their ex's and most importantly how do I not push him away? ... (31 words

Why is it that guys are more open with me on the computer (myspace) than in person?

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Why is it that guys are more open with me on the computer (myspace) than in person? They tell me they think I am pretty, cute or whatever but then in person it is like they don't know I exist. I know this is a stupid question but I want to know... I mean,I take it offens... (100 words

I need some reassurance here re NOT getting pregnant.

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10 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I've been with this guy going on 8 months now and things are good. We haven't had sex yet, but we do oral and digital and stuff. I don't know why but lately I've been having this fear that I'll end up pregnant even by not having sex. It is one of my greatest fears because ... (255 words

Why am I always feeling angry and jealous all the time?

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10 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I do not how to put this. Just broke with a guy I really loved but what was the problem? I become increasingly jealous of my friend. She is getting married soon to a friend of my boyfriend and asking a bunch of favours from him and me too. Tonight she asked him to drop her to ... (188 words

I'm a Senior in High School and have never had a girlfriend.

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10 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Well I'm a senior in high school and put simply I have never had a girlfriend yet and I'm really getting desperate her. I feel more and more that I am losing myself. I'm becoming emotionally unstable to live or function. I feel pain when ever i look t people in love but just ... (112 words

I feel our relationship is hitting a dead end.

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10 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I stated seeing a man seven weeks ago and I like him very much. He is a wonderful person, but there is one big problem. He can't stop buying old radios, stereos, toys, video games, player pianos, record albums, etc. His basement, garage and house are filled with this stuff so ... (218 words

I know what the dictionary says, but I don't know what he meens.

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