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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Went abroad and back but still not over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend of 18 months almost 6 months ago, I struggeled alot at the loss of my best mate of 2 years, and rather than dealing with the pain i ran away to do volunry work in ghana, for 3 months. but having returned 2 months ago he is all i can think about, i ... (135 words)

Doesn't he get it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Friends,my bf has made all plans for him to go on holiday, without taking me into consideration at all, and YET he claims that he Loves me, and wants to be with me! I dont know if im exaggerating,but if i Do love and Care for Somebody, would certainly like to spend my... (215 words)

She slipped through my fingers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i'll give this a try, i've been friends with the girl for a while now. Lately we have gotten really close, and i've fallen for her...However, i introduced her to one of my friends who turns out that thye also like her, and she likes him too. He knows i'm completly mad for ... (119 words)

He was trying to have sex with someone else. How can I control my anger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - i would like to hear from women whose husband has cheated on them and stayed in the marriage and survived. my husband told me 2 months ago that he had afling with a woman. they didn't have sex because he couldt go through with it on both occassions he was with her. he told me ... (225 words)

I really like him. Should I carry this relationship on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy and he likes me but he says he takes certain lessons just to be with the girls should i carry this relationship on?... (28 words)

He doesn't satisfy me - any hints?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age - I have been married for 23yrs Usually he takes time to come. But in the last few years he no longer makes the effort after making love he masturbates to come. unsatisfied wife. any hint... (36 words)

I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything happened and some embarrassing ... (81 words)

Is she about to start an affair with her tattooist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i have been married for over a year now, we have a 1 year old, and are a pretty happy couple. today she left to work and left her myspace page up, and i saw she had a new message. it was from a frind shes been talking to about pregnency. but there where alot of ... (192 words)

I don't regret having sex with him, but I'm confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago i broke up with my long term boyfriend. There wasn't a real reason but i believe it was down to his jealously, as i had just started a job where all the people i work with except 1, are male. The break up wasn't ugly, even though i didn't agree with his reasons,... (294 words)

My fiance travels abroad a lot and I don't feel much prioritised as I should be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone help me to understand how I can cope with my situation. Im 24, and my fiance is same age as me. He travels a lot abroad with work, and this bugs me a hell of a lot. He isnt really present much in the relationship as what he used to be. Right now, he is away for 3 we... (226 words)

We started to treat each other just as friends for 4 yrs. I think my wife's staying for the sake of our daughter. Can it better? Should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been with my partner for 15 years and married for 5 of those,she says she made a mistake marrying me and only loves me as a friend,we haven't slept together since our daugther was concieved 4 half years ago,she hasnt let me kiss or cuddle her ... (135 words)

How do I cope with this break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with him for over a year and a half, and we were deeply committed and in love, and living together. he got very ill about 8 months into our relationship, and i stuck by him for all of the treatment. when the treatments were over, we fell apart. he started questioning how ... (201 words)

I told my bf we should go out on dates rather than just go out! Did it sound stupid? I'm afraid of the routine...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 and I am now 20, and he is my first serious boyfriend. I love him loads but sometimes I just feel like we do the same things, and I was joking and saying I have never been on a date because we starting going out in school and I said ... (94 words)

Am I crazy to be upset about my boyfriend saying that I get attention from men because they think I am a hooker??? He said it was a joke...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I took my boyfriend to Las Vegas for his birthday.On our second night we were all dressed up and waiting for a bus to go to a show when some guys in a car started screaming to get my attention. I just looked back and asked them if they were out of their minds as I was s... (274 words)

A week after the break up, she's already found somebody else. I feel I can't function well without a woman in my life. How do I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well hello Me and my girlfriend just broke up and we've dated for just over three years. it was a rough break up, we both said somethings that were uncalled for. its been about a week since i saw her when we broke up but she has already moved on, shes with someone else. ... (112 words)

What can I do about my friend flirting with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my best friend and my girlfriend have started talking a lot (they didn't know eachother at first. the only thing is that its making me go crazy, knowing that my friend is flirting with my girlfriend and i know exactly what hes like. im so worried im gonna lose my girlfrie... (75 words)

Should I stop trying to help my alcoholic / abusive husband and force him to help himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what I should do here. I have been separated from my husband for approx. 45 days now due to his alcoholism and mental/physical abuse. I've still been trying to help him by letting him know that I have not given up on our marriage and I'm trying to encourage him ... (345 words)

My husband wants me to get rid of the dog, we fight about it, but I can't do it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26, my husband is 32. We've been married a short time and have a 6 mo. old and another on the way. I stay home, he works. We rescued a puppy last feb. he was 10 weeks old. My husband has grown increasingly annoyed with the dog, and now is asking me to get rid of him. I ... (332 words)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't think he has sex outside the ... (92 words)

When does a guy pre-cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

- Just wanted to know as this sounds dumb.. when does a guy pre-cum???? as me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but he stopped when he felt like he was cumming, but i know u can get pregnant from pre-cum... (40 words)

I'm in doubt - is he serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

- me and my boyfriend have been together 6 monthes. He keeps going on holiday without me and he has never offered to take me, he has been on 4 holidays and about to go on the 5th. Also, his parents came over last weekend and the weekend before but he said they know about me but i ... (144 words)

My husband is selfish and uncaring. I'm not happy in my marriage. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 4 years and don't know where to start. i'm 35 yrs old and married to a pilot who is gone a lot. I have a son from a previous marriage and my husband resents my son just because we have to pay for tuition and things that he does not feel we should be ... (1145 words)

It looked like they took a photo of us . . . . . .

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my freinds and we were just talking bye the gate at school (there is a football pitch right bye our school) there were two men on a buggy cart (i didnt realy know what it was but they suddenly stoped (directly in facing us)and we saw a sudden flash we think they took ... (84 words)

Where do we go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi this maybe a long story so please if you can help take the time to read it fully. Me and my husband have been married 7 years, been going out since we were 16 and have been close friends all throughout school. Well we sort of dirfted apart and agreed to seperate for a wh... (498 words)

How do I break down the wall that I have subconciously built around my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - After a disasterous marriage; mental and violent abuse and post marriage finding out that he also abused my kids I thought my heart would break 14 years ago. Immeadiately after I threw myself into work, but then 5 years later developed a debilitating neurological conditio... (433 words)

Is the 'pill' preventing me from having an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - I am wondering if there are any other women out there with this issue, and if you have any suggestions to solve it.... When I am with my boyfriend (or any guy I've been with) I am extremely turned on at first and am really aroused but the longer foreplay lasts or the longer h... (139 words)

Should I just get rid of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I've been dating for about 7 months used to tell me that he loves me and that I'm beautiful. But lately it's been fighting over really stupid stuff. He told me I was melodramatic when I honestly don't think I am and accuses me of being sad or mad over something when ... (329 words)

I feel betrayed. How should I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been with this girl for 7months and we have a baby on the way. she always told me she had slept wit two guys before me. i come to find out from somebody other than her last night it was four guys before me she denied it and out of nowhere she admited it. so now i feel ... (83 words)

Why can't he be intimate with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when your boyfriend says he can't be intimate with you because he is unsure about 'us' but still continues to say he loves you?... (28 words)

Is he trying to be unfaithful to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when my boyfriend looks at match.com and saves profiles in his favourites?... (16 words)

Should I let them keep their little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I share an apartment with my older sister. A few weeks back I came home early and caught her and my older brother in her bed having sex. I was shocked at first and have not said anything. I have since found them two more times. I think this is something they must do a regular ... (68 words)

Should I go behind my mum's back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 years old and my partner is 20 and we have came very close to having sex but i still dont have any protection yet. i was thinking about going on the pill but i know if that i told my mum she would freak out but i'm wanting to go on the pill just as a pre-caution incase ... (86 words)

Should I try to get back with him or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 16months broke up a month ago, it was a long distance relationship and we saw each other about every 3weeks and talked everyday for about an hour about everything! The reason for us breaking up is he found it had gotten too hard with the distance, especially ... (410 words)

We used to be all over each other, now he won't even kiss me when he goes somewhere! What's wrong w/ him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya guys!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxx I have been with my boyfriend for about 3-5 weeks and we used to be so close and everthing. We went to the cinemas together and hanley and everwhere together and we used to be all over each other all the time!!!! BUT now i havn't been seeing much... (102 words)

I'm trying to break up w/ him, and he refuses to see that he was emotionally abusive! Am *I* the one w/ the problem, though?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - I broke up with my fiance and he calls telling me stuff like the reason he is so sad is because he isn't proud of some of the things he did to me in the relationship. What makes me mad is he says we both did things wrong! I'll admit that sometimes when I broke up with him I ... (280 words)

Should I let him come back if only for the sake of the baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - a man that I love is very ill - we weren't get along very well. we just had a baby - the baby wasn't even a month old yet and he left me.... if he gets feeling better - should I let him come back - even if that means us fighting alot and me being unhappy (just for the baby). ... (86 words)

Will my friend of 11 years ever make peace with my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a friend of 11 years and he hates my wife. I've stayed with her by my side through a recent argument we are having which has ended up with me not seeing my buddy for a few weeks, maybe even a month already. he's written back to me online that he wants peace with me and ... (256 words)

I shared an illicit kiss, now I'm bothered about it. What do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I move on after kissing my old boss who's married? I worked closely with a man, who was my boss on a project, at my last job who’s married. Through old co-workers I’d heard he talks about me non-stop and is “in love” with me. I moved for my new job and we had drink... (302 words)

How do I tell him I want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

- I have a friend who ive known since Feb this year. Ever since me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, he has been showing me alot more attention. He has told me he likes me alot and we went out last weekend and we went for a walk along the beach and he held my hand, and he hugged ... (312 words)

Should I cheat to get some satisfaction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there! Can you please give me some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and love him so much, but he doesn't do it for me in the bedroom, as he justs wants a quick 5 minutes and then he is done. Apart from that, everything else is perfect in the r... (87 words)

Should I give him another chance? I will not be abused by him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - we've been very close friends for 6 years and since living 280km apart and studying we couldn't see each other as often as we wished. i knew his girlfriend of four years. then we started dating about 6 months ago(after their breakup because she cheated) and he's been ... (152 words)

My mother really gets under my skin - what can I do about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - An uncle of mine very recently died quickly (it took 3 weeks from diagnosis)of cancer. Although from England, he was in his 60s, living in France and doing up a house to sell-on. As a family member I was pleased he kept in touch by email as few members of my family do and I... (389 words)

He won't tell his family about us getting back together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - what do you guys think about this? my bf has still not told all of his family that we are back together. his sister and her husband are coming into town this Thursday for one night and 2 days. he will not include me in any thing they do because they do not know for sure we ... (175 words)

How do you give a woman oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do u give a women oral sex? my girlfriend really wants me to give it to her but i have no idea how!... (24 words)

Is he cheating? I'm blonde but I'm not stupid!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - My partner and I have been together for six months. We're both late forties and although we don't yet live together, consider ourselves a committed couple. Whilst using his computer I discovered he's been indulging in sexual activities on-line with other women (smutty chat, ... (389 words)

He keeps giving poor excuses

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my BF had being togather happily and had to share somany thing togather,but our problem is that he do not call me frequently. and when i ask him about that, he always give me excuses, that he just dont like making calls or dont have money in his phone.... (49 words)

My boyfriend keeps XXX photo's of his ex on the computer

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there my boyfriend of 1 year has xxx photos of his ex girlfriend he deleted them from the computer when i found then as i was very upset about it then 5 months ago but the other day he has put them back in a hidden file what do i do i am 41 and hes 39 i feel sick to the ... (64 words)

We keep fighting and breaking up. What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going out for about 6 months but everytime we fight we break up and then 2 or 3 days later we make up again but the last time he left me for another girl and we were out for about a month and then he came back to me and asked me if I would give him ... (89 words)

Could my husband be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - iv been told rumors that my husband is having a affair i dont want to believe it i love him so much his always told from the beginging that if he met some one else he would leave me he wont give me sex i havent had it for 3 months he as now told me he dont want kids he is ... (112 words)

I found sperm in my in my husband's underwear!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - dose sperm come out of a mans penis if he dont have sex or have a wank cause i found sperm in my husband underwear . iv been told his been seeing some els but he says he not is their any other way to find out if he is... (50 words)

What IS that smell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for quite a while now. Recently tho when we seem to sleep together theres a smell thats really offputting, i havent spoken to him about as im worried its me. What can i do to prevent it? It may have been there all the time and i might not have ... (70 words)

My boyfriend is a liar. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of six months received a text message from his ex and deleted it so i couldnt see and then said it was from his mum what do i do?... (31 words)

He's been downloading porn for years, but he doesn't want to touch me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - my husband of 2yrs watching porn on the net anytime i am not around or in bed.i have caught him only 2months ago on a dating site for sex he said he never do again.now he's on loads of porn sites everyday.i am not a prude in any way but he does not touch me, I ask him if any ... (156 words)

Does he want his cake and to eat it too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - i meet a guy and we got on great , i felt a connection between us bin sigle for a while and dont trust men but got on as if know him for yrs , we meet a few times and texted each other , we ended up sleepin together,he still textes , and we meet up since 4 drinks wid mates , ... (159 words)

How can I accept that one of these days the only girl I've ever loved will find herself another sweetheart? Especially whenever I believe nobody will love her as much I do.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex really wants us to have a friendship after we finished 3 1/2 months ago after she became tired of the long distance aspect of our relationship. We were together for 2 years. I accept that I'm probably thinking irationally when I believe that part of her wants to get back ... (302 words)

He doesn't want to commit! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I didn't call the man i used to date the last year after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. I intend not to call him again because i would like to find a real relationship with a man and i would like to be with someone that he is really interested in ... (172 words)

I keep masturbating, and that means I keep sinning. How BAD of a sin is Masturbation?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi im ak, im 13 years old and last year i started masturbating...Its something i started to do 1 day its a long story...I LOVE God with all my heart and Masturbation is normal but its also a sin when not married..I keep repeating this sin, i ask God for forgivness then i ... (111 words)

My husband can be such a baby, and I worry he won't be strong enough if we ever encounter larger problems in our relationship and in life. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age - Hi i have been married now for 2 years, i think i love my husband but i'm not sure if i have married a man or a big baby. For example if i am ill he is ill as well, he lays it on thick in front of his mum. We had a holiday in Florida, and he devloped an infection in his foot, ... (144 words)

I leave him, but I can never seem to leave him for good... What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together and have a little chihuahua that we both adore like nothing else. Sometimes my boyfriend can be so sweet and I can't believe I'm so lucky to have a boyfriend like him. But most of the time, he's a total ... (365 words)

She's told her friends that I don't talk to her as if I like her. What does she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have just now started dating, which came out of just us having crushes on each other for about a month or two. She's told her friends that I don't really talk to her like I like her, but I really don't understand what she means. Maybe i'm just talking to her ... (70 words)

He's always bringing up anal sex. I never plan to do it. What should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I've been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 months. He treats me really well and all that. The thing is that he's always bringing up anal sex. A lot of the time he brings it up in a joking way, but I know he's just testing the waters. I'm pretty open sexually, ... (147 words)

Still living with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I moved in with my boyfriend about 2 and a half months ago, i was changing jobs and he is going through a divorce. We had argued a little (mainly down to me, he was soo patient), but generally things were good. i found it hard at first to share the flat with him as i wa... (384 words)

It's hard for me to get out of this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - please help...its really hard for me to get out in this situation...i love the man and i would think that he did love me too. ive fallen for him, he courted me in a nice way, he usually send me message, call at home and in work, he fetch me, we ho out for a dinner, a date,im ... (251 words)

How do I know if he'd accept my new moves?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I live together and we have sex pretty much every night. It's always the same: we get into bed at night, watch TV or lay there for a while, begin kissing and slowly move to sex. I want to try something different and random and spontaneous. I want to pull his... (109 words)

How to make sex last longer.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I want my sexual experience to last longer. Unfortunately, I last for only about 5 minutes. I could handle oral sex okay for quite a long time but when I am inside my girlfrind, I cum within minutes. Please help me by advising me what to do. Can i try anything different.... (53 words)

How can I convince him of my loyality and faithfulness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am an american citizen. i met an australian man over the internet last year and things progressed with our relationship rapidly. like we were soul mates. i have been in australia with him for 4 months now and i love him more than anything. we want to work out my visa so i can ... (192 words)

For the guys. Would you be bothered with body acne

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2671 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this question is primarily for guys. I have a pretty good body, slim, and I'm not self conscious about my body when I'm clothed. The thing is that I have a weird form of acne that takes literally years to heal and because of it I have little scars, dark spots and bumps ... (144 words)

I'm worried the strippers may have been better looking than me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (of 4 yrs) went to a club where there were male strippers for ladies night. she asked me about 10 times before she went if it was okay, and because she was celebrating a special occasion with a girlfriend of hers that was moving away, I said yes. She said she ... (437 words)

She won't go back to me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my Fiancee always argue and fight and those fights lead to us breaking up because we said things taht really hurt each other? The other day i said thing in front of her mom and she was mad and she said that we can not be together. And my fiancee swear on her life that ... (133 words)

Is the problem in the bedroom a sign of bigger troubles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

16 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have a problem arising and I also have a seperate question for relationship veterans. So my first issue is taking place in the bedroom. We are both working and going to class so our time together outside of class is limited. But lately things have been mechanical. We ... (363 words)

What does this mean while making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been talking to some guy for quite a few months now. we are not boyfriend and girlfriend .. but we are "together" which is basically the same thing. while making out with him he bit my lip gently and nibbled on my ear. Does this have a significant meaning? What do you ... (75 words)

I care for him, but I don't know if that's enough.

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am worried about my relationship and have been for a few months now. My relationship with my boyfriend has not been typical. We met working at a summer camp together, and started dating in mid-July. We were both planning on simply a summer fling, as I was going abro... (715 words)

I always got excited by my ex, now I'm having problems with other girls, what's wrong?

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16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's my problem. Im 19yrs old. And i lost my virginity to the girl i have been with since i was 17. We are finally over with due to her lying\cheating but yet still coming back because she "loves me more thatn anything". Ill admit i love this girl and its gunna take alot to ... (286 words)

I had the lust in doing this, is it cheating?

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my bf for like 7 months soon And I just been bit bad girl lately.. Our relationship is distance relationship He's other land, and Im in other land. Not so far each other, like 3 or 4 hours flight. Anyways I dont know if this is cheating or not but.. I showe... (202 words)

Sexual frustration is adding to my emotional hurt.

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I am an emotional wreck. I broke up with my boyfriend months ago because he cheated. I wasn't as hurt til he made it clear to me that it's really over. Now I've felt like I made a huge mistake. I love this man and want him back. Every so often I get up enough ... (413 words)

Bullies and really confused.

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16 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello im 15 and at school i am always bullied mentally/verbal. i dont know what to do because they are starting to get to me and it really depressing i want to move or switch school but my parents push it away when i bring the topic up. how should i handle my actions (i d... (92 words)

Can anyone help me with some foreplay ideas?

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm usually VERY shy in bed and hardly ever take the lead, and I want to finally surprise my boyfriend. I'm planning on dressing up in a sexy costume that my boyfriend mentioned he likes ages ago. I'm going to make him sit in a chair and sort of straddle him. While doin... (177 words)

I'm not sure if I should stay or leave.

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - iam a married women of 22 yrs in love with another married man at work we both feel the same way about each other but have younger children ( his a younger than mine)he feels they are to young to leave, he has no sexual relationship with his wife and is staying for the ... (100 words)

Does long distance really matter?

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i'm dating this guy hes 17 i'm 15 not a big deal and i really love him but we met online in a chatroom. he lives in New York, I live in Arkansas and i really love him but im not sure if it will work. help?... (48 words)

I still like him, what shall I do?

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up with my ex just before christmas as the age was an issue but we carried on sleeping with me. about 5months ago he started going out with this girl and recently and im 18 now. we have been talkin and he is on a break with her and keeps asking what i think of him. we ... (73 words)

Is he into me, and should I act on it?

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16 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - right well. im not really too good wih guys. i hae many as friends, i find them easier to talk to and hang with than girls, girls dont seem to like me maybe cos im a litte bitchey lol, although im have many gu friends i have never had a boyfriend. never even kissed a boy before ... (276 words)

She ended it with me, because she's still in love with her ex.

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16 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 years has ended with me because she says she's still in love with her ex. Her ex was from an internet relationship and they never met.She says she needs time to sort out in her head what she wants because she doesn't want to hurt me by not giving my 100% and ... (199 words)