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I'm unable to sustain an erection, is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (31 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2007)
A male Australia age 41-50, pyan writes:

Hi

for the past year my wife has been telling me i don't get as hard as i use to. If she talks dirty it seems to do the trick, but not for long. Several times i haven't been able to finish off which she says is ok but i am not sure.

Recently i went to a local sex shop and bought a pump, it says that, 'use it for 10 min perday for 2 weeks,' and things will improve. i think things are getting worse. things look to be bigger and thicker but my erection is worse.

Am i doing somthing wrong with the pump, i have tried viagra and it fixes everything but will i become reliant on them? my Doctor says i will not be come reliant on it.

Is there anyone who has had the same issue and i would be interested in the female point of view

thanks

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A female reader, BlueEyedAngel United States +, writes (1 November 2007):

BlueEyedAngel agony auntMy husband is the same way, we have amazing sex but as far as him "getting off" during intercourse is out of the question. He has been to the Dr. and they said it could be the medication he takes for anxiety. He said it has been going on for about 4 yrs, I have been with him for 1 yr. He will satisfy me as long as I want it then I will give him a hand job to finish him. If we are in the pool he can cum in me that way through intercourse. Talk to your Dr if you are still concerned. I hope my personal experience helps. Good Luck.

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A female reader, baby duck United States + , writes (1 November 2007):

baby duck agony auntIn this time frame, have you started taking any medications (prescription or over-the-counter)?

Have you displayed blood pressure issues such as dizziness?

Are you exhibiting any other changes, such as weight gain/loss ... sleeplessness ... forgetfulness?

Truth is, it could be any one of many things and it could be something quite simple ... think about the time frame in question and see if there's a link to something else.

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