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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Huh?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - what does my bf mean when he calls me boo and his perfect 10 ... (15 words)

I still sleep with my husband and father of our child, even though he is STILL sleeping with another woman. What can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Like I said in the question, you couldn't make this up. I will give you a bit of background and I would appreciate any advice, please do not be nasty or just rude, this is very very hard for me. We were together for five years, got together when I was 19, in this time, we had ... (386 words)

I've hurt my chestbone after I fell, and it hurts to take deep breaths... How can I stop the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Fell about an hour ago. Banged my chestbone and hurts when i take a deep breath. Very shaken. What can i do to stop the pain?... (26 words)

What is anal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - what is anal sex?... (4 words)

Why do I always think about my ex... Is it because I still love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Why do i always keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend? We broke up like a few months ago, and went out for nearly 4 months, yet I always think about him. I want to get over him, but he sometimes pops inside of my head at times. We do sometimes keep in contact, as well... Could it ... (83 words)

Since he married me, he doesn't seem to consider my needs in the bedroom. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was recently married 4 weeks ago and our sex life has gone down hill. Since I said I do the sex lasts about 30 seconds and he doesnt care about my needs. I have told him that I have needs to. So he says we will have to have sex twice. After the first time of having sex he ... (83 words)

What is the age limit to get birth control pills without parental concent in Canada?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - What's the age to get birth control by yourself in Ontario Canada??... (12 words)

When guys tell you they love you do they actually mean it or they want you to fell good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - when guys tell u they love u do they actually mean it or they just want u to fell good... (20 words)

He denied to my friend about being interested in me, although everything seems to indicate he is (very affectionate, stares at my lips, hugs me)? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) age 18-21 - theres a guy i really like hes so shy and so modest about himself and so damn affectionate when hes around me usally he is not always affectionate with others even girls infact hes told me before that i scare him sometimes that girls in gen scare him to bits but hes not bi he ... (259 words)

I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I Have a problem....I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years now and last night I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!!! I really really love my bf and my brother and I know that I should dump him but I really love hi and he says it was just an 'experiment' to find ... (107 words)

What can I do and does it worth going on with this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a relationship for over an year with a man i really love. he has a 8 years old daughter, but he never got married to the mother. i have nothing with his daughter, who is a sweetheart, but hate the mom. i don't like her interferring the relationship i have with her ex. i ... (224 words)

I want him back, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I am new on this site but I just want to ask some advice on my current situation? I was in a four year relationship that really was just friends with benefits. Anyway He and I parted ways about 6 months ago when he started to have feelings for another woman th... (698 words)

Going through a Self-Esteem Crisis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - To give you a bit of a brief of the situation, im going through a self esteem crisis. Now, where to start... I'm fat, ugly and a real geek. My best friend of around 8 years has disappeared since I moved house. I feel empty, and as if i can trust no one in the world. im 13... (295 words)

Can you block someone out of your memory?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is it possible to block someone out of your memory? i heard someone say that they had no memory of a relationship they had! Even though it was a long relationship, she still couldnt remember the things they did together or thier dates! She remembered the guy and knew they went ... (79 words)

I use to be positive, what's wrong with me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf threatens to end the relationship if he doesn't get things his way. Im so down even on a friday night im too sad to want to go out anywhere because of all the things that are bad about myself I heard from him. We have been for 4 yrs togther, and it's been recent that... (180 words)

What has changed since her trip away??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my wife since university and married for the last 3yrs. She recently worked in Africa for 4mths and since coming back i eventually noticed a lack of affection towards me. I decided to test this by not kissing, hugging, snuggle up or even hold hands with her. In ... (196 words)

I kicked my bf out after I caught him looking at porn and am so down.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, I am feeling extremely down right now. I found out my bf has been looking at porn again even though he promised me he wouldn't so i kicked him out this time had enough of him making me feel like crap. Yeah i know what your gonna say porn's not that bad, all men do i... (163 words)

Feeling lost after the woman I thought was the one kicked me out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was in relationship for almost 17 months with a woman whom I thought was the chosen one, we had since the beginning good times never any bad no violence or arguments just love and care and planed to get married the next Valentine's Day but during the last 11 weeks or... (182 words)

How can I deal with her eventually moving on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I can't bear the thought of my ex-girlfriend moving on. It feels as though it's going to take me a long time to get a new girlfriend, since she was my first, and I have loved her for the past 4 years I've known her, and these 5 months without her have been the worst, boring, ... (95 words)

Curiosity licks the dog

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - What is the best way to mastubate? My dog licked me up once, i didn't mean for him to...it just happened. N it was the best feelin in the world! Is this normal? Dnt want to do it again because it mite giv me a disease or something. Will it give me a disease? Also, how can u ... (62 words)

Have I been blind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - I've just entered my 4th year in school and some of my best friends have pretty much ditched me but I'm still alright with the bulk of my old class. I'm finding it difficult to get a new set of friends that I fit in well with from my new class and a girl from my old class is in ... (195 words)

Anal sex instructions, please

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i want anal sex so badly......could someone give me a step by step guide? and any tips on the first time? Thank you Mia... (27 words)

Where will my life's big changes lead me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Everyone, Ok..so here goes. I am at a point in my life where i really don't know where i'm going. My job will be coming to an end early next year and i can't decide what i am going to do next? Plus, i wrote on here a few months ago about a man i couldn't stop thinking a... (149 words)

I feel I need school counseling

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm not going to explain the situation as it's not really relevant to my question! But i'm going through a tough time at the moment and feel i need school councelling, it has been recommended to me by a few friends and i am beginning to consider it! I was just wondering how i ... (159 words)

What is the best way to deal with a broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the best way to deal with a broken heart? like if someone u love turns out to be not so in too you. I'm also v angry bout how he treated me sometimes when he was drunk and how i let him behave that way. He made me dump him by being mean but it stills feel like i was ... (120 words)

Any medications OK to take while on the pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im on the pill and was just wondering what you can take while your on it [example paracetamol or ibuprofen]? thanks in advance... (24 words)

I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it as being wrong because of the 3... (89 words)

Any tips on how to get a guy to hug and kiss you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - okay well im 15 and there is this guy i really like, he is 16. he seems pretty interested in me and talks to me quite a lot online (I havent really seen him for just over a year) anyway i am now back to seeing him once a week at band. But yea i was just wondering on any tips... (82 words)

Should I ask her out and risk loosing my best mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello, I'm a 14 year old boy and I'm having a little trouble with asking a girl out. I realy like this girl and would normaly ask her out. There's just one problem, just before school started she broke up with my best friend on the same day as I broke up with my x-girlfr... (200 words)

How can I make my orgasms last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Heyy, I keep having thoughts about girls and wanting to masturbate over them but I'm in love with a guy! I don't know if I'm bi but I just love looking at naked girls and using my vibrator.. * c o n f u s e d * Also my orgasms only last a couple of seconds. Got any ... (80 words)

I thought I was in, she didn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been going out with this girl for 6 months.We recently had our 1st sex.Da 1st tym i's 2 nervous and pulled out too quickly.2nd time i lost my erection while trying to penetrate.3rd i kept my erection but after asking how it was,was told to penetrate next time.I's sure i ... (61 words)

I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him there could be a posibility and ... (91 words)

I need some birthday present ideas - any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay So Here Is The Delio, My Boyfriend And I Are In Love. Sounds Awsome, I Know, We Have Been Going Out For Quite Sometime Now And I Love Him With All My Heart, And He Loves Me The Same. The Thing Is He's Such A Passive Guy And His Birthday Is Coming Up (on the 17th),An... (229 words)

I'm getting married soon but don't want to neglect my parents

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I am 25 yrs old guy and facing a difficult situation where i am to get married soon but feel that it would do injustice to my parents and others who want to depend on me for their emotional needs. I feel that it is my duty to give first priority to my wife after marriage and ... (107 words)

He's interested in me - which way should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i am 21 and i am in a relationship with a guy,A, who is nice,very caring for almost 2 years.we are both aboroad studying.but i am getting bored with him and we always quarrel.recently,i have been chatting online with this another guy,B, who's is back at home and is also a good ... (87 words)

Should she move out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i have been living with my girlfriend for three years. We moved in from pretty much day one. We were both students sharing acommodation. We are now renting our own place. Im 24 and she's 21, i love her to piece's. she told me recentley that she wants 2 move out and get a pl... (119 words)

Is this a fact or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i always thought that if you masturbate before having sex it doesn't hurt. is this true?... (17 words)

Can we be friends 'with benefits'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex broke up with me a cpl of weeks ago and its been up and down more than ever before. We was together almost 7 months so the initial break up was really hard for me at first. As days go by the pain seems to weaken which is a BIG relief. One of the things that was never weak ... (255 words)

I think I could be pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - for all the mommies out there, if you can remember your very first signs of pregnancy please reply and tell me if this might just be my time :) *awful belly ache around my belly button (8days past ovulation 1 week into the 2 week wait) *head ache on and off *wake up every ... (151 words)

Should I email him to arrange a meeting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are emotionally separated, but not financially; he works abroad and only comes home 3 times a year. I really fancy a man going through a divorce, and have met him vaguely though social functions, as our kids are at the same school. We're both in our 40's. I... (97 words)

Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !... (23 words)

I am 16, and addicted to internet porn, but looking at incest.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a sixteen year old virgin, and I think I am obsessed with internet porn. Worst thing is I always find myself reading and looking at incest- father and daughter porn. My Mom and Dad broke up when I was 2. I have never been sexually abused or anything like that. And I am ... (70 words)

I got drunk, was told of my behavior, now worried I may ruin trust.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hai aunty i have a little problem that i need you to help me with.last weekend my friends tolk me for a drink,we hard a nice time there,but as we were comiming back i just herd some rumers that my brother in-laws young cousin was with my friend with one of my friends.... (164 words)

I found my boyfriend has been viewing shocking internet sites, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I was going through the web history on the computer this morning, trying to find a page I stumbled across the other day, and came across a load of pages that I can only assume my boyfirend has been ... (83 words)

I promised myself that I won't see him again. How can I keep to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I decided not to call him again after he said to me that he didn't want to marry me or see me often. However, i don't know if i can keep this decision for ever. I think that i will change my mind as i am feeling that i miss him. However i don't want to call him. How can i be ... (71 words)

I'm tri-sexual - why do I do what I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a Trisexual Transvestite. First trisexual means I love women, men, and pretty passable male to female pre-op transsexuals. I'm a transvestite because I dress up in womens lingerie and dresses for sexual reasons. I also feel very submissive and like the lack of control. ... (116 words)

Should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - together 7 months but im not sure if i love him and dont think he loves me..... do you think i should justy get over it and move on and ffind someone who loves me?... (35 words)

What kind of message am I sending her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I love my fiance but am still not comfortable around her, especially when we are making love. I feel quite tense and nervous as to whether i am doing it right and what kind of message i am sending her? I can't really enjoy the company of her for the same reason. Please a... (58 words)

I'm teetotal. Will his friends still like me when they know this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

- Ive made the decision to never drink and I think ive made a good decision for myself, however I feel that so many poeple look down upon me for it, or think m weird. Im about to meet my bfs friends for the first time and my bf even says they are heavy drinkers (my bf doesnt dr... (316 words)

I'm 20 and sick of being single... is this what's making me so unhappy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Iam 20 years old and Iam so sick of being single. I have not been in a relationship in 2 years. Some people tell me to stop focusing so much on finding a boyfriend but I cant. I just cant meet any guy, let alone the right guy. I dont meet guys in college, at work, or even when ... (192 words)

Love, am I in love? Are we in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - How do you know when you're in love? i think about her when i wake up, all day, and b4 sleep... i feel all funny when i kiss her like nothing can go wrong... she makes me feel on top of the world... when i'm with her, i'm always smiling and happy... i can see myself getti... (128 words)

Does he now feel that he made a Big Mistake and doesn't quiteknow how to make it right again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - When love enters the heart and it won't let go sometimes we look for every moment to rekindle the fire. When I man who has thought it best a relationship breaks it off with you and you are devastated. You wonder when he suddenly begins calling again using every excuse in the ... (157 words)

When we are getting ready for sex I lose my erection almost immediately.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i have been with my girlfriend for auite a while now, and she has had sex before and i am a virgin but we both feel ready for sex, but when we are getting ready for sex i lose my erection almost immediately. ... (43 words)

I'm bi-curious, and in a relationship with a guy, but have met a girl from work I really like.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) age 22-25 - hello, sorry it might be really long but i will try to keep it short and to the point. firstly, i have a bf for 4years now and i do love him and treasure our r/s. secondly, i am bi-curious. i hav liked gals as much as guys, but never had a chance with a gal to confi... (832 words)

I have bad anxiety and depression and it's all caused by women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old guy and I have bad anxiety and depression and it's all caused by women. Not like ex's or anything like that but just I can't seem to even get a girl to like me much less a relationship and it makes me feel pretty down. I don't understand it I'm not ... (96 words)

I don't want to put my boyfriend's pants on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How to bring my bf to knowleadge that no matter how assertive,independent and strong i look like,i dont want to put his trousers on me? I mean, do I have to deal with a one more example of weakened masculinity or its just my problem?My bf and I do have wonderful ... (412 words)

My husband doesn't care to show me affection.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married for only 8mo and my husband shows very little affection, though i have told him he doesn't seem to care ... (24 words)

Is three months long enough after a break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I never had problems like this,so here goes. I moved to florida like 6 months ago, and i keep seeing this girl. Every time i see her i get goose bumps.I will call her *M* I finally get the courage to strike up a conversation,she is just very unique in every way possible. I ... (361 words)

What's wrong with me and sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating a while...and our problem is sex. When im on top my penis goes down and when she is on top it stays hard most of the time. Does anyone know what is wrong with me? When i masturbate is stays hard unless i don't touch it...... (55 words)

He wants to just separate, but I know it can't work, how do I help him let it go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my fiance. It was over a stupid argument, but really it's about all of our arguments. I was looking for a way out and found one. All we do is fight, and even though I love him, I don't think it's good or healthy for either one of us. He isn't taking it ... (232 words)

My boyfriend is making me mad.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is driving me mad. He is constantly telling me I'm miserable, even when I'm not, and he gets annoyed at me for it. Constantly! I love him, but this is becoming unbearable. I feel like nothing is good enough for him. He moans that I don't kiss him enough...times ... (86 words)

Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex? Not only am I not interested I really don't want to do it, I still feel young and that is such an adult thing to do. I would also be very worried about getting pregnant, even though I know with protection the chances ... (126 words)

Why do I find my uncle so sexy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Why do I find my uncle so sexy? Im into older men always have been and I dont get to see my uncle very much as he and my aunt do their own things but they also do things together. So last week we spent a good few days in each other company, others about, personal matter this ... (72 words)

I try to brainwash myself that I don't like him, but when I see him I blush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i like this guy from the first time i saw him i decided i wanted to be with him or even be friends this didnt work out because he doesnt talk to girls because too much girl like him so he just stop talking to them i dont know if he likes me sometimes he notices me and sometimes ... (119 words)

Why the sudden change of heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

12 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months (she is 18). I have strong feelings for her, and she is well aware of how I feel and she says she feels the same. All of a sudden, she said she wants to "take a break". Her excuse? She says that she feels like she is a ... (167 words)

How do you answer I Love You?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

12 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - when a guy says he loves you but your not sure if you feel the same what do you say??? is there anything you can say that wont hurt too much??? HELP!... (35 words)