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I really like my friend as more than a friend

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1 October 2007 (F - im 14 and love someone. ive never felt this way about anyone before. he used to like me but messed me around it was like i was being used. its been months since we last did something together but i want us to be more than friends. we're really close at the moment but he still ... (141 words

My boyfriend kissed another guy. I am mostly ok with it, but a little concerned it might go further.

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Been daing this new guy for about 2 months. The other night we got pretty drunk and he made out with his guy friend. Said it was his "first male kiss", and I believe him. (He wont let me play with his anus when we're fooling around - FYI) We get along famously, and th... (127 words

I love him, but his moods are getting to me! What can I do?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My b/f is what I would describe as "tempermental". He can be sweet, cuddly, loving and thoughtful at times. But when he's stressed out (which is frequently) he uses a tone of voice that is unkind and demeaning, gets irritated if I have a meeting to attend, or I disrupt or ... (224 words

I really like him, but he has a girlfriend! Do I tell him how I feel?

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1 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - I really like this boy and everyone said he liked me to, but then today i found out he was kissing this other girl that supposed to love him. what do i do shall i tell him straight how i feeland see how he reacts or wait and see what happens ?... (52 words

How do I go about asking her round/out?

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1 October 2007 (M - Hey, well last time i was in this situation it just sort of fit, so im not too sure how to go about it again with the new girl. I see her a few times a week because of college, got speaking and i think we have gotten quite close for how long we have been speaking and we get on ... (159 words

How can tell if he likes me as more than a student?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Alright so this might be sort of long, but please bear with me. I have not had very much experience with men. I am 21 years old and the problem is that I have developed feelings for a man who is 32. He is a professor at the college I attend, but he has never been my teacher. ... (253 words

I love him, he loves me... But we can't see eachother. Help us!

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have to hide our relationship and now his phone has gotten taken off of him because of his fathers suspicion. We used to speak all the time and this sudden barrier is torture for us, he told me tonight that he is depressed as he can't hold me in his arms or ... (129 words

I'm worried I could be pregnant! What do you think?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey every1, right, im a bit scared right now but im gunna start at the beginning. so, me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom about 2 weeks ago. im on the pill and have been for a couple of years and i take it everyday without fail. what i would like to know is,do u think ... (106 words

I'm constantly tired. What's wrong with me?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello, i have a health problem. I am always tired, constantly tired and i fel like i have no energy at all. I am 18 now and it has been this way since i was about 9. I have had two blood tests since then for being tired, checking for anemia and diabetes but tests are fine, my... (119 words

Is something wrongwith me preffering blow-jobs of sex?

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1 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hello all. hope you can help with my question. i am 21 and my girlfriend is 20. i have been with my girlfriend fo a year now and at the beggining we had a very good sex life. but during the last 4 months i dont want sex i would rather have a blow job. i usualy ask every night ... (112 words

Why won't guys date bigger women?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Iam 20 years old and I have never been in very many relationships. I have ahd one serious boyfriend and a few casual relationships. I know it is because Iam overweight. Everyone tells me Im beautiful, smart,a nd have a shining personality. i know I treat men like gold and i ... (115 words

I fancy my teacher! Any advice?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i really fancy my teacher. sometimes i think he like my and sometimes i dont. its hard, when he cmes over 2 help me in class and stares into my eyes...i just...go mad inside!!! i catch him staring at me sometimes but i know hes nt a perv, hes 29 and GORGOUS! he has a gf though ... (304 words

Is he cheating or am I overreacting??

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, here goes ... so, my boyfrien... (519 words

I've had my heartbroken and have decided not to fall in love for a while. How do I avoid falling in love?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - okay?? i juss had my heart broken..and im going to tell you that i do not want to fall in love agian for a while! until im older..my ex still talks to me, nd i start to like him..then this other guy is talking to me..and i forget about my ex,and start to like the other guy ... (81 words

He's moved on and now I can't get over him! Help!

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i honestly dont know how to get over him. Hello everyone! i have a big problem, i went out with this boy bla bla bla and he told me hed never hurt me ans this other shit. Like a fool i believed him, well he found someone else just after being broken up with me for 3 days. She ... (143 words

How can you find out what your partner really thinks about you WITHOUT asking?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - how do you Know what your partner really thinks about you,without asking them. how do you know if he thinks your to clingy, to full etc ? plz reply?... (29 words

I'm disappointed she hasn't contacted me.

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1 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I met someone from the internet y'day afternoon, following a brief email exchange which she instigated and we seemed to get on well, after a couple of hours chatting she invited me to meet one of her friends which I did and when we parted she seemed genuinely up for seeing ... (161 words

I got called and Elephant and took it to heart. What is the average weight for a 5'3 girl anyway?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I have had this problem for 3 weeks now and it's making me feel so down, drained, and depressed! To put it in a short version....well....I got called fat (an elephant) and I took it to heart and I starved myself for about 3-4 days....but I wasn't eating prop... (115 words

What is "masterbating"?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14, i feel really stupid sayin this as like everyone knows what it is and has probably experienced it.... but what is masterbating...?... (30 words

My brother's down coz the girl he likes is going out with his mate! Any advice?

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1 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - My life is fine but my little bro is 14 and his best mate is going out with the girl he fancies. He is really down and i hate to see the little guy sad. Please help him!... (38 words

I am 14 and I need to know...what is 'fingering'?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14... my boyfriend wants to finger me.. im not exactly sure what it means can youu please help mee....? x x ... (30 words

I really love my mates gf but they are so happy together!!!

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1 October 2007 (M age 26-29 - Help!14, my mate is going out with the girl i fancy, but they are really happy together. He deserves her but i love her! What do i do?... (28 words

He wants me to talk dirty. Any advice?

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1 October 2007 (F - My fiance keeps wanting me to talk dirty to him in bed. He even made flashcards with dirty words on them and showed them to his friends! He also wants me to wear pig tails and a cheerleading outfit. Call me crazy, but it seems like all he cares about is sex. Maybe it's hard for ... (114 words

14, My boyfriend wants me to do things to him... I'm not sure how to!

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14 and i have a boyfriend and he wants me to toss him off and give him head, im ready 4 it, but im not sure what to do. pleaaaaasssee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (37 words

How can I stop throwing myself at boys??

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1 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - I know all you readers are just going to think im a total slut and a whore and everything else you can think of but i dont know what to do about the situation im in. My parents both died in a car accident just 12 months ago and i have been living here there and everywhe... (388 words

Do I wait for her to find herself?

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1 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I spilt with my gf of 5 years about 5 weeks ago. We split because she started saying that she felt that she needed to go travelling on her own and find her self as it were. I then said fine and broke up with her. I love her still and miss her lots. I think she still loves ... (190 words

We're back together, but my feelings haven't returned after our split! What can I do?

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1 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help! My partner and I got back together a couple of months ago after splitting up in February but whilst we were apart I lost all the feelings and love that I once had for him and I know now that I can't get these feelings back enough to make the relationship work. I really ... (83 words

He can't tolerate me when I get in a (rare) bad mood. Any advice?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and been there for him for his emotional and physical needs. In the past financial also. Whenever he is down, depressed, worried or lonely he can always depend on me. Never felt burdened by it. Its to be expected in a relationship ... (251 words

He wants us to swing! I don't think I can take this change in him! Help!

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1 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello! My Husband has been going through something for about a month now. We are married 7 years now and have 2 children a 5 year old and 11/2 year old. A month ago he told me I wasn't attractive to him anymore. So the past month I have been working hard on myself to loose we... (143 words

He doesn't make me feel sexy! What can I do?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am happily married to my soul mate and the love of my life. he gives me everything i need and want. But he doesn't make me feel sexy. He always wants to have sex and gives me many of compliments. we talk about everything and i mean everything. we have our own social lives as ... (201 words

Do I wait for him, or close this chapter of my life?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - We have know one another for 8 years and been on and off. He has wanted a relationship from me for the past 3-4 years and i have always said no. Our friendship has always been more of a freindship. He has started seeing someone, the day he told me i realised i am in love wi... (172 words

My friend, who was once anorexic, is planning on taking tablets to help her lose weight. What should I do?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, My friend (though not a very close friend) has recently been tempted into using amphetamines or "speed" tablets to help her lose weight. She used to be anorexic and is set on doing this despite me strongly adivising her not to. She was planning on taking a t... (94 words

He says he has 0 interest in her but I am worried she is out to get him!!!

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1 October 2007 (F age - My man friend and i have been dating about 2years and 9 months minus 2 months when we were broken up. We are now back together even though his family does not know it. The problem i have now is the following: he had a brother that was married. However, he died back in the l... (556 words

Do you think he loves me or not?

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1 October 2007 (F - I just moved to new york to live with my fiance three months ago (we have been engaged since december). We haven't set a date yet. Anyway, I'm working part time jobs while looking for a real estate job, and haven't found any luck. Im not that happy here, and I don't have enough ... (324 words

I trust noone. I want her back!

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1 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - i am sixteen.my girlfriend left me she said she loves me but there are other reasons we should be apart...i trust noone and i find all the friends boring i really want her back but whatever i do something always go wrong..when she told me to end the relationship she was ... (62 words

Will he ever break up with her?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy last year and we hit it off straight away. He told me he had a girlfriend but they weren't getting on and he was going to finish it with her, but they had a 4 day holiday booked next month so he was going to wait until after that to do it. So i saw him a few times ... (326 words

I'm not sure what to do about my unofficial bf after our argument! We haven't spoken in 4 days!

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1 October 2007 (F - I am in love with a guy who I have known all my life, for the past two years we had a great relationship, but never made anything official. When I finally said I'm tired of hiding, he said he's not ready to go public yet and he cares alot about me but if I want to move on I ... (391 words

I slept w/ my crush's brother before we met. I told him about it, and now I think I've put him off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I had sex with a friend's brother before I'd met my new friend. Now I really like my friend, but I think I've put him off. He's such a great guy and unlucky in love just like me, I think something could've happned had I not told him about the situation with his bro. But I ... (73 words

I'm suffering from BOREDOM! Any advice?

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1 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Not really a relationship question, but more of a problem exacerbated by breaking up. I'm so bored! HELP ME! It's monday. I don't have college. It's raining. I don't have the car. My old friends who lived nearby have gone to univeristy. All my current friends live on the othe... (199 words

After 7 years, I've blown it now she's gone to univeristy. What can I do?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have just split up with my girlfriend after 7 years. She finished it yesterday morning, after i fell asleep at my parents in the afternoon. My phone was not working correclty and she was worried i hadnt turned up and got her mother in the end to find out where i was. Bear in ... (153 words

I cheated after a year together, while drunk! He doesn't trust me now. Can I earn his trust back?

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1 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - i have a really bad problem, i went out at the weekend and i got stupidly drunk and kissed another guy, and my b/f caught me doin it. i have been seeing him for about a year but only been going out for a month. and now he says he cant trust me i have been feeling really bad ... (89 words

He insults my family and friends! Why??

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1 October 2007 (F age - why does he insult my family and friends, or make cruel remarks, jokes about them. and even gets angry this happens on most days. i get so upset and down about it.This has been going on for over four years and i do not live with him, but have finished our relationship about ... (60 words

In love with my cousin

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1 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I fell in love with my cousin, im jus 21 and she is 28 i didnt mean to fall for her. it just started like friends but we matched eachother so well, maybe to well. I still in love with her and i know she loves me to. we've slept witheachother but now she is starting to feel the ... (130 words

Could he want to be more than just a friend?

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1 October 2007 (F - I have this friend who I really like more then a friend. But I'm not sure if he feels the same way and I don't wnat to tell him how I feel until im sure he feels the same way. Lately hes started calling me affectionate names like 'sweetie' and stuff like that, and hes st... (265 words

Should I see him tonight?

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1 October 2007 (F - Hi I really need advice with this ASAP to decide if i shoud go see my bf tonight and talk bout this Have already spoken to him bout this earlier but find it easier to speak in person even tho im worried i might cry We have been together for 18 months although we broke up for ... (299 words

Opinions on my situation where my partner cheated on me

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i've posted in the cheating forum a lot but i feel this doesn't fulfill the requirements anymore. so here goes. i've gotten over the situation, but in brief, my boyfriend and i had been dating 8 months long distance (i was at school). talked every day, text messaged, anythi... (1224 words

How am I going to deal with a long distance relationship when she has to go out of town?

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1 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have a girl I have been dating but I feel that its time we need to get married. She is beautiful and very nice to be with. One thing that has come up is that she is going out of town for an 18 week training and will be away till then. It means we shall be having a ... (105 words

Why has he changed his mind about getting enagaged?

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1 October 2007 (F - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together now for near 6 months. We've had a history together, we dated before and was with eachother for 2 years. We broke up and recently got back in contact with eachother after a year of not seeing eachother. We both felt the same... (433 words

Should I leave my husband after he got physical and abusive infront of his 4 yr old son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for four and a half years,together five. One of our strong points has always been hanging out,laughing,talking,etc.Lately we don't do any of those. He spends time with a variety of people,but I'm always his last pick.We got into a fight last night he ... (139 words

Why am I so jealous? Why do I need to know what he's doing or who he's speaking to?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - when your jealious does this mean you dont trust your partner or is there something you are needing to work on inside of your self ? i mean jealious of almost anyone and wanting that person to your self all the time with no breathing room and freaks out if he or she isnt in... (104 words

My boyfriend has lost his sex drive. What could be the problem?

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1 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - my boyfriend has completely lost his sex drive and we have only been dating 1 year. what is the problem?... (20 words

Some questions about anal sex...

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Can you get pregnant when having anal sex? Do I need to use a spermacide when I have anal sex? ... (20 words

I'm eaten up with jealousy. He keeps getting with other women!

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm so lost about this relationship. I worked with him and we started hooking up after I left (and moved to a different state for college, he is in his late twenties). We started out strong, I would visit him when I could and we'd have amazing times together. He's my best ... (405 words

I'm 15. I want to loose a few pounds the healthy way. Any tips?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - okay well im 15, and pretty healthy. i swim 3x a week (with a club) and walk to school and the park etc. Im also a pretty good runner and used to do crosscoutry and run for my school, i dont anymore but im still pretty good. But yeah, im not particually large, or fa... (173 words

He said he didnt want to keep cheating on me but nothing seems to be changing. Was everything he said a load of rubbish?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated many many times. Finally he tells me cause of an trust issue from his past girlfriend who cheated he never did trust me. So he always had a girl on the side. Now he says he doesn't want that. I have stayed by his side cause I know he's better then ... (209 words

How comes he wants to share me with another guy? Does he not love me as much as I thought?

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1 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - My boyfriend is in another country for few months already, and we are in touch every single day, phone or by internet ( camera),He usully make himself come when we are online or on the phone. today he asked me to do something for him. He wants see me having sex with another ... (125 words

How do I know if my sex buddy really wants me for more than sex?

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1 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have this guy friend and he calls me only when he wants to mess around... sometimes when we are fixing to start to mess around he stops me to hold my hand. then when we are done he wants to buy me food and put gas in my car! when he found out that i messed around with someone ... (108 words

Should I dump this guy that gets with his ex when she comes to the area?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My bf is a very spiritual dude...da thing is he says he dunno wat is love. Im 19 n so is he... I mean, doesn't it sound like a lame excuse? I've been with him fo more den 2yrs now. Wen v first coupled up he said he loves me but i dunno wat triggered the sudden changes,since ... (589 words

I love her so how do I get her to be exclusive to me?

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1 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I really dont know how to start this, so I'm just gonna let it come out. I can't even really call her my girlfriend. We're together, but we're not 'together'. We dated a long time ago, but she ended it after a month. When I asked why, she said we rushed into things, which is... (572 words

I am pregnant and he want to still date..but cut down on the time we spend together. Is this normal?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i are having a baby and we've only been dating 6 months. i got pregnant the first night. Now he says he wants a normal relationship where he has his feedom still, cause hes 21 and im 27. He doesnt want to move in together yet and not see each other as much ... (118 words

He said he doesn't want to rush things..so does he even like me or should I move on?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok so i have a problem well there is this guy. and i really really care about him. and i think that he cares about me too. He even told my friend that he cares about me.. its just that ive been waiting on him for a long time. weve been talking and hangin out and to say the ... (316 words

How do I regain his affection and trust again after accusing him of cheating for years?

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1 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello, My husband and I have been married only 1 year but together 10 years we have a daughter together.My husband just recently started a new job and has been comeing home tired ..(or atleast how I justify it) he hasn't been showing to much affection, at night in bed I have to ... (243 words

How do I make our first time special for my girl? Tips from women preferred?

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1 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and i think were ready to make love i want her first time to be special and great and a long time ago she told me before we went out that she wanted her first time to be great sex well she said she didnt want to have ... (88 words

Do women find short men attractive?

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1 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - Ok, I read the one about the lady asking a good question about whether men find tall women attractive. Well, I admit it, I prefer short women,but, for a good reason, I'm short myself! I'm only 5'4. So, my question is exactly the opposite. Do women find short men attractive?... (50 words

Male arousal..how easy is it for the guy? Any thoughts?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Just a question about male arousal. I've heard many times that guys become aroused very easily, easier than girls anyway, and I was just wondering to what extent. I was told that things like being touched in the wrong place or just seeing a really pretty girl can set them off... (98 words

Should I ask her to trim her hairy private area?

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1 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - My lady friend is rather hairy around her private area, how could i ask her to trim it without wrecking any further chances?... (23 words

She displays weird, jealous behaviors! Is all this worth the trouble?

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1 October 2007 (M age - Lately arguments over the same things developed between me and my fiance. From day one she has been aggressively jealous (even violent). However,there`s been several things i have seen looking suspicious, or her behaviour has gone wierd after stumbling upon something she ... (150 words

She does mean stuff and then acts like we are buddies...should I just irgnore this or confront her?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - There's this girl that's supposedly my 'friend', we'll call her Sammy. She is like the biggest drama queen I've seen in my life. She thinks everyone is always talking about her and that she's the center of the world. Ok get this, last year this boy, I'll call him Pete, he ... (373 words

I have no friends or family to talk to...can you help me?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey well my boyfriend an are goin around for 4 yrs and now our relationship has come to an end. I have no friends an my family and i don't talk. What should i do?? I can't go out because i have no one to lime with. I wish i had a friend... (54 words

I have fallen for a married woman at work and she feels the same. How do we proceed?

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1 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Im Male 28! I've been friendly with a girl I work with for a few years. She is in her early 40's married and has children. She has recently declared her marriage is over and has been for a year unoffically. I really like her alot. I stopped dating another girl younger tha... (191 words

Why did this guy stop calling me?

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1 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - well there is this male and we have been dating for about 12 days now and i really like him we both like the same ice cream and music. he was real sweet and we would have great convo and he was so wise and mature for a 23 yr old. I am still a virgin and one day he gave me oral ... (268 words

I'm wondering if my long distance lover is cheating on me!

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1 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi im 21 and i have a imp qestiion!! i have a long distance relationship (2 diff countires) and i just want to know if my girfriend is cheating on me? or if there are some signs she is. i mean she really hasnt giveing me solid reasons but there is times where she hung out with ... (153 words

Is it too soon to talk about marriage after only 7 months together?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid i'v been in a relationship for 7 months now. for this 7 months we feel as if we have known each other for years. my bf is a very soft hearted and caring person. for me to get mad at him is somthing he really don't like and now we started talking about marriage a... (77 words

I'm wondering if I have fallen in love with her. Is that possible after a short time?

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1 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm in need of some advice please folks. The situation is thus: At the start of August I met a girl (we were on the same tour to Edinburgh) and we were instantly drawn to each other. We got along so well, always making each other laugh, sitting next to each other wherever... (146 words

She doesn't want sex anymore and its ruining my confidence. How can I sort this?

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1 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi All, My Sex life is practically dead, I am a 28yo Male living with my partner. Our sex life started off great 2 - 3 times a week for the first 9 months now it's almost at once a month, she doesn't want me like she used too. She used to jump on me, she used too enjoy i... (423 words

Should I just walk away from this friend from 20 yrs ago as he is married with kids?

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1 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I recently met my best friend from high school after 20 years. I was his first love and he was really in love with me but I never knew about it. He is currently married with kids but says he is not happy in his marriage. Tables have turned around now and I am the one who is ... (132 words

How can I get my guy to accept my financial help to move to where I am?

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1 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship, and my boyfriend lives 500 miles away with family. Neither of us have cars, and we both want him to move in with me, where I live now. The town he lives in is small, and he has been unable to find work there for several months, mostly b... (330 words

I want to have sex with my aunt-in-law. How can I get this to happen?

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