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She won't call me or talk to me.

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14 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I broke up with my old gf back in June. We'd been together about a year and a half. Started dating this other girl(B) who lives 45 mins away from me in August. Now some may think this is classic rebound behavior. Maybe maybe not, but I don't think I was just reboundi... (297 words

Does he love me as a friend or does he mean proper love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need help some badly I'm going Insane! Right, I met this guy *Liam* on a chatroom about a yr ago, we've never met in person but we always video call (webcam and mic) and txt eachother. At first it started with him just say 'I love you' when we said bye, (and i... (129 words

I've fallen for my boss's boss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - help me ive got myself in to a tricky situation im having an affair with my bosses boss! its been going on for 4 months now and i am really falling for him. he has told me he is leaving his girlfriend so we can be together as we are both sick of sneaking around im just scared ... (115 words

I'm a hypochondriac and my man can't deal with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm a hypochondriac, for people who don't know what hypochondria is it's a mental illnes that you constantly need a doctors opinion on your health, also you go in to panic/anxiety attacks because your so frightend of a serious illness you think you may have because of one ... (184 words

I'm confused and don't have anyone to talk to.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age - I sure how to start. I usually get online to checkout banking and that sort of things. I so confused and dont have anyone to talk to about this. I'v been married for 24 years with its normal ups and downs. We moved a year ago to be around are grandkids and also my husband ... (142 words

Help me-i love my female teacher!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i'm 15. a new teacher came to my school. i fell absoloutley madly in love with her, i can never stop thinking about her. it's killing me. i love her more than i've loved anybody. i don't know whether to keep it to myself, or tell her. if i tell her it may ruin the relation... (170 words

I don't want to have another year full of lies and secrts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old pretty , well educated professional and am dating a 23 year old guy from Eastern Europe who doesn't have any 3rd level education but has plenty of other qualities that I love and enjoy - my problem is my Mum ; I told her about him when we started dating about ... (227 words

My friends say my boyfriend has a girlfriend who's expecting a baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - A group of my friends at college kept telling me that my boyfriend of 2 months has a girlfriend who is habing a baby, but he denies it and i dont really want to leave him without any evidence, because i really like him and he treats me really well. Please Help. Im so confused!... (55 words

I'm a teen and have cellulite on my legs.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (F - help im a teen and have cellulite on my legs what should i do? im not fat i just have it on my legs. does anyone have any ideas on what to do?... (33 words

Thanks DearCupid

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14 October 2007 (M age - Dear Andrew. hello my name is david but you may now me better as dapone 1, i was searching the net and came across your site by accident, i looked at a few of the letters and found i may be able to help with that, so i replied as they say the rest is history,what a great id... (222 words

I feel depressed, please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi, i dont know what to do or where to go but my situation is severely in despair, nor do i wish to be selfish but im very very depressed. what makes matters worse im only 19 and in higher education, and no such person should be in such a situation, especially considering my ... (310 words

I have reservcations about the guy I'm seeing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F - Hi There, I recently, about 6 weeks ago met a guy. When I met him, because I had 3 weddings coming up, I thought he was cute, a great dancer and would be a great partner for my weddings. TO make a long story short, we have been seeing each other for the last few weeks, but i... (599 words

Dad disconnected but acts like victim

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - In order for me to be clear of guilt and move on with my life, I needed to ask for forgiveness from my daughter's dad. I've said and done some things I shouldn't have said or done. The things he's done to us don't quite as done it as well. But that doesn't mean two wrongs ... (216 words

I feel abnormal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i am only 11 and i love to um............masterbate...is that normal...i also use my moms sex toys...when i try to use my hand or something i always stop...but with the toy i just keep going...also when i masterbate i always feel a cold feeling in my vagina...and then there is ... (56 words

Is there any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have been seeing this guy for 4 months but he only texts or phones me on a saturday night to meet and come back mine when hes out with his mates, is thier any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex, i really do like this guy and wont bring ... (84 words

Help! His parents are bigots!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a white british woman with 3 young children from a previous relationship. I am in a relationship with a black african man. We are very much in love and wish to marry,my family and friends accept our relationship as do my partners siblings and friends. However, his parents ... (137 words

I can have sex with him, but can't say how I feel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have been seeing this guy for 4 months but he only texts or phones me on a saturday night to meet and come back mine when hes out with his mates, is thier any possibility hes interested in a relationship or is he just using me for sex, i really do like this guy and wont bring ... (84 words

Need some objectivity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am 8 weeks pregnant i have a condition called rhesus disease which means my blood is attacking my baby and i might have to have blood transfusions to the baby while it is inside me. My partner is an alcoholic he is never violent but can be self destructive when stressfu... (248 words

What are the rules for dating a professor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey all. I'm 20 years old, a 2nd year college student, and I fancy my 28 yr old professor. I have no idea what may or may not happen (I have my dreams), but what are the rules for dating in a college setting? I mean dating, not sex (not till I marry anyway).... (55 words

I'm in love with 2 men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a problem. I'm in love with two men. I'm married to john and have two beautiful boys. We've been married almost a year, and have been together for 5. I have been really unhappy lately, and when I try to talk to him about it, he doesn't seem to care. He kisses me and ... (253 words

I want a girlfriend, but their not my age.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am 15 years old boy, who really wishes to have a girlfriend. I am 2 years behind in school though (Not because I am dumb, but because we moved allot), and am home schooled. Even if I would go to school, I wouldn't be able to have a girlfriend because they would be two years ... (82 words

How do I know when to ask him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - well.. i really like this lad and have done for quite a long time and me and him have become quite close as mates.. and we have been talking more at school and on msn and we have been texting quite alot and he has been proper flirting with me at school.. recently my mate tol... (218 words

Does he love me, or is he neglecting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and it hasnt always been the best, as we are both the eldest child, therefor always think we are right, leading to quite a few arguments, these are usually resolvedn shortly after, and i don't want to break up with him. I do ... (230 words

I think we're both afraid of going all the way.

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14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My fiancee and i only do sexual stuff when we are alone and thats all and dont get me wrong i like it but thats all we ever do and now we dont get any alone time together so that cant happen and im kinda happy it wont but also sad we wont be able too. we havent gone all the way ... (196 words

Do you think my teacher likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm a senior in high school and my psych teacher is proably about 25. He's so cute! The first day of school I had to sign a aper and the bell had already rang. When I was leavig he went out of his way to ask "hey, you all set" . The next day wehn I went to go into the clas he ... (226 words

I want a baby, but he thinks he's too old. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Just read the things other people have said about being in an age gap relationship and it sounds like there are a few people on this site with some experience who could maybe help me with my dilemma. I'm 27 and my OH is 59. We've been together 6 years and are SO happy ... (219 words

I'm worried he may find someone better.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Ok a rephrase of my other question. My Fiancee and I dont get any alone time and im afraid they will find someone better like my last 2 boyfriends did and im worried that without as much time alone together we might grow apart and i dont know what to do and i cant ask my rents ... (93 words

Any suffestions for a very special proposal of marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi Do you have any suggestions for a very special proposal of marriage? I know my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years and we are in a very happy relationship for nearly 3 years. It was her asking me if I would like to be her boyfriend the day after the annual ball at university. She ... (297 words

My friend told everyone about my video to myself.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Help! My friend saw my phone last week and it had a video of me fingering myself on it. She saw it and now everone in my year nows. But worse than that i was going to send it to a boy that i didnt even now. Everyone is now against me. How can i go back friends with people? ... (61 words

My friend is depressed. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have a friend. He is in love with this girl, they've been best of friends and one day, they decided to give it a shot. It went alright for awhile till she pulls out. It breaks his heart and he is sincerely sad. After a couple of weeks, they resume their initial friendship. ... (194 words

What's wrong with me? Am I depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have never had a serious relationship before and this, is my ist. I am 26 and my life has been one complicated mess but i am picking up and trudging through one obstacle after another. Recently i met a younger guy who is sincere in commiting. I am ready to finally wear my ... (224 words

My bf spends every other weekend at his ex's house to see his daughter and ignores my calls and texts for this time, and it's destroying me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend spends every other weekend miles away from me. He goes up there to see his daughter, but he stays at his ex wifes house and he ignores my phone calls and text messages and he does'nt phone or text me. His excuse is he doesn't want his wife to know about us cause he ... (96 words

I took her off my top friends list, now she won't ask me out,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi i wrote a post on hear last week because my gf(ex) had dumped me and was needin some help\advice getting over her but today she came online and said that she was goin 2 ask me 2 go out with her againbut had decided not to because i had took her off my top 4 friends on ... (140 words

Can you know someone you've never seen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Can you know the person just by talking over the phone?... (11 words

Any ideas where my boyfriend and I can have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - well ive been with my boyfriend now 18 months, were both 15 and we are planning on having sex. i am not a virgin although he is, he knows that and is fine with it i have only done it once before although we have been together 18 months we have always sid we are too young to do ... (246 words

How can I put this situation right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do you right a wrong? Lots of us friends went out last night, few too many drinks. People fell out and i ended up shouting at my ex boyfriend out of the blue, he hadnt done anything wrong apart from tell the guy i am seeing that he will get hurt because we will be getting ... (308 words

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - so here we go! Im 17 years old and will be 18 in november. Im a freshman in college and am persueing a law degree. I have been dating this guy for about 1yr and a half off and on. We dated for a good year and then he went away in nat. guard. He went away last year for basic tr... (419 words

Does he like me too and should I make a move or should I just get over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really like one of my friends but i'm not sure if he likes me to. We talk for hours on msn nearly every night, he teases me and jokily calls me names, waits for me when we have classes together and whenever we make eye contact he smiles or pulls faces which make me laugh. ... (75 words

Should I find another attorney to do my internship with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I started an internship in paralegal studies..I figured it would allow me to network and allow me to get a feel for what a day is like in that field..So far it is has been kind of wierd. I originally met with they attorney that I was going to be interning with at the biginning ... (721 words

Should we get together, even if our futures don't coinside with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - I like this girl who is a senior in high school and I'm attending University of South Florida. The age difference is less than two years, so it's not too bad. In May she will be going off to her college, either on the other coast or up north at FSU, wherever she decides to go ... (121 words

I don't know why all boys find me so unattractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - I really really really want a boyfriend i have wanted one for ages and its killing me inside, i want someone to talk to, to cuddle and to love but i don't know why all boys find me so unnattractive... (40 words

Why am I letting what other people say, and the way they say it affect me so much? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello I would be so grateful for advice or experience from anyone. I am 35 and I am at a crisis point of change in my life – trying very hard to make some big and difficult decisions and I have so little support. A brief background is that, with much encouragement from my ... (722 words

How can we save the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am so hurt and confused and crushed. My true love has cheated on me with her first love and now says she is in love with her and she is married. She has kept me hanging on for 4 months now and giving me hope and mixed signals.We have been together for almost 20 years. I am ... (130 words

I think I picked the wrong courses. What to do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, I need some help. I am in first year at university and I originally got into a language course last month. I liked this as I enjoy languages however my original first choice was primary teaching. when I got offered this in the second round of offers I accepted it ... (206 words

We have an age gap. Will it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been friends with a man for 7 months. He is 34, I am 48. We had worked together and decided that we could not be more than friends for this reason. I recently took a job in a different location, same big city. We have discussed taking our relationship outside of work ... (262 words

I haven't had a period yet. Is this because I masturbate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - plz someone i need help badley! ok here is is...im 12yrs old and i masterbate... all my friends a skwl hav startd there p.m.t (periods) and i havent yet. is there n e chance that i will never start my periods because i masterbate??? im really worried and need answers now!!! ... (58 words

Are my insecurities responsible for my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F - I have a question about jealousy. I have a new bf who ive only been going out with for a month buttt have known him for a while (we were good friends before). I dont ever really feel jealous when i see him talking to other girls or even when other girls flirt with him. An... (372 words

I can't seem to get ahead - is it my age or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My family brings out the worst in me and makes me feel like an awkward little girl who after her marriage has nothing left and am living with a friend at a job where I make about 300 a week and am trying to finsh school.and my upside down loan of a car contiues to break every ... (207 words

What should I do to make my dad understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - So yeah, I'm a 13 year old girl, turning 14 next year. and i have a new boyfriend who is 17 My mother knows about us and she told me not t do anything I don't want. One time he asked me if i wanted to have sex. I said no and he dint argue. He said we wouldent push me in somet... (114 words

Should I cut my losses and leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Please take the time to read this for I truly am I lost soul. I have been in an on/off relationship with a girl for two years now, circumstances prevented us from being together at first but we have been now we have been official for a year. At first our relationship was ... (744 words

Do I have bi-polar disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Is it possible that if you get more than you expect in life, you get depressed about it? It seems to me that something like this has happened to me. I feel ecstatic something and gloomy and sad at other times when i think that nothing much is left in my life. I am 26 years old ... (68 words

Will 'swallowing' hut my unborn child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - is it still ok for me to swallow my husband's cum while im pregnant? Ive just found out im 8 weeks pregnant, and i was too scared to ask the midwife. I love doing it but i dont want to hurt my baby.... (43 words

Is living alone my destiny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - what can I do for my low self-esstem? How can i stop humiliating myself and those I love?How can I make myself to enjoy normal everydoay things? since i was child, was constantly told that I do not to love, nor be Loved at anytime...I tried to rewrite this story,sh... (213 words

How do I 'come out' to my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - ive been seeing a girl at uni for the past 10 months, id just come out of a bad relationship with a guy who was a real idoit and she was there so me. i love her and the sex is amazing, but now she wants to meet my family, who think im straight and because she has a unisex name, ... (129 words

How can we stop arguing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid my boyfriend and i are always arguing mostly over nothing just little things that annoy us about eachother every time we get on track something happens to upset that we have managed to stay together for a year now but the petty arguments have caused us to break up... (79 words

How can I lose weight off my legs in just a week?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

14 October 2007 (F - Ok well i was on a diet for two weeks. and then a few days ago i had chippie. and the day after a kfc. i havnt gained any weight. but im going on holiday next week and i want to loose just abit more weight (mostly off my legs. it doesnt seem to be shifting there). anyone have ... (105 words

How do we go about being together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Can you help? I fancy my aunts boyfriend and I know the feeling is mutual. Hes always eyeing me up, particualrly as I have very big boobs and she does not. I believe if you've got it then flaunt it and I get lots of attention from men. Me and my friends know she's jealo... (188 words

Is this a future incestuous relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

14 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - dear everyone. well you see. me and this guy have been seeing each other for early 4 months now and i realli realli like him but i have found out that he kind of could be my step cousin one day. well he is my not biological dads brothers new girlfriends son. so is his mum and ... (155 words

How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for any answer, I just cant get ... (80 words

Keep friends and girlfriend happy at the same time? Can't take her with me when I go out, as my mates are all single, she's fine with it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6011 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey, ive been seeing this amazing girl for a year and a half now. We meet online and she lives about an hour away. Since we started going out we`ve been travelling to each others houses and spending time together. We decided we wanted to move to my home city to get a flat ... (178 words

My ex found out I slept with my female best friend, and I don't want this spreading around. I denied, what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6011 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 25 year old girl who broke up with my fiance in March. Everything was okay but we just agreed that we wanted different things so we decided to end it. We sold the house and i moved in with my dad. Anyway, over the last few months i have been making the most of my ... (184 words

Is this true that only celebrities have good sex life and others have a mediocre one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Is this true that only celebrities have good sex life and others just have a mediocre one? Is it the same about life in general?... (25 words

Do men my age get tired of their old wives and have sexual desires towards much younger women? Will I turn into a pervert?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - is it me or do 50 year old men turn into horny little toads that get tired of their old wife and opt having sex with some 20 year old tramp. Will I turn into that type of person. I mean being a horny toad towards my wife is one thing. But having sex with women that are 30 years ... (80 words

My left breast hurts really bad, it's almost time for my period. No family history of breast cancer. What could it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My left breast hurts really bad,it's almost time for my period,but i feel like my breast should hurt evenly.I can feel sort of a collection of knots,no family history of breast cancer what so ever and I'm really young. Are there any kind of other conditions like this?... (48 words

I'm worried about contraception.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - How do I start..my girl friend is on birth control! ok..she tells me to come in her all the time but the thing is that I don't want no kids + I'm a lil bit scared of what is gonna happen with my sperm that goes inside of her...is the sperm gonna be in her forever if she doesnt ... (81 words

Crushed on my manager. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I just started this new job. My friend works there so i know alot of the people there and ever since my friend started i thought the manager was attractive. Well now that i work there i really like him. My friend told him that and he hinted that he liked me to but he can't say ... (237 words

How can we make it last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few weeks now and I just want some tips on how to make our relationship last. We both have a lot in common and we're both really weird and quiet. I am really happy when I'm with her and I don't want it to end anytime soon. Any ... (62 words

Post-partem. How do I get sexy again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - He wants me to spice things up sexually. How? when we have a baby that shares the room and I feel overweight still? ... (26 words

I am falling for my boss....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Iam majorly falling for my boss. I think he harmlessly flirts with me but im not sure. In 21 and he is only a few years older than me and he is really good looking.He never calls me by my first name, he either calls me by my nickname or he affectionatly calls me Miss, Ma"m, or ... (180 words

He takes longer..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok I don't know if this is a common problem, so I need advice. I recently started dating a very nice guy and we also started having sex. Now the problem is that he takes incredibly long to orgasm. I wanted to give him oral sex, at first he didn't want me to, and when he ... (144 words

The school vamp is after my guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, There's a girl at my school who is a major slut. Her goal in life is probably screw every guy in the premises that she happens to be. Anyway, she happens to flirt with every guy at school practically, and its getting on my nerves! Especially when ... (132 words

How do I play this game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend wants us to talk about our sexual fantasies online... i don't mind at all and actually he's very good at it but the problem is that frankly i don't know how to express my thoughts and my feelings through words... i want to ... (68 words

What are some signs that a guy is gonna propose?

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14 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - What are some signs that a guy is gonna propose? i think he might be thinkin about it but i have no clue please helllp me ... (27 words

How could I tell her how I feel without sounding like a total wuss??

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14 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girl have been going out for about 1 months or so. A few weeks after our first year anniversary she confessed to me that she had cheated on me with this guy from her school. She also told me that she had only been with him for a few days and it never went further than ... (387 words

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14 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - So I like this guy who just turned 20. I am 16. The day before my 16th birthday, I went to his house (I am really great friends with his sister, and whole family, thats how we met). We don't usually talk a lot when I'm over there, because I am over there for his sister, ... (428 words

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