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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ever felt like their actions don't tell you they love you but their words do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever feel like you are in a relationship where you loves a person very much and they say they love you back but their actions don't it at all? I do everything for my bf but i feel that isn't not equally back. He gives better attention to his friends and co-workers, and ... (70 words)

I never seem to last very long during intercourse. Any advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm abit shy about talking about this but it's easier on the internet than to a persons face, when i have sex with a girl, i don't worry about things like foreplay etc but when it comes down to having intercourse with the girl i never seem to last very long, it can be over ... (106 words)

How can I let someone know I really like them more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a real predicament... I am in love with an ex but he doesn't know and I don't know how to tell him! I usually see him regularly whilst out and about, I really get the impression he's interested, but I haven't seen him for weeks and it's killing me.. I came out of a re... (245 words)

I cheated on my husband while he's away at war, but now I want to fix it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this situation is pretty sorted. I feel like the most terrible person in the world. I cheated on my husband while he's away at war! What kind of person does that???? Anyway, here's my situation. Thanks for reading. My husband went away to Afghanistan back in July. He... (432 words)

How do I deal with my celebrity crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bad problem. I have a celebrity crush on the rapper T.I and I want to get over it very badly because I get upset and hurt and I'm tired of feeling this way. Any info would help and thank-you 4 reading.... (44 words)

It's been a year, but I still have a crush on my teacher. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I graduated from High School last year and I've recently met my old Bussiness Law teacher at a festival in town. I had him last year and I had a huge crush on him and I still do. What I'm wondering is, if I was to go out with him could he get into trouble. I admit he's rather ... (83 words)

It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is not interested in a ... (140 words)

Condoms keep going missing, but it seems impossible that he's cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, here I am again -- the saga of the missing condoms continues. I wrote a few weeks ago about a collection of condoms in my boyfriend's closet, that have been disappearing. Many of you and some of my guy friends stated that my boyfriend may be using them to masterbate, ... (675 words)

I'm 17 and shy. I'm too young for bars, so can anyone recommend where I can got to meet women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there i'm 17 year old male looking for a raltionship... the problem is as i'm only 17 i can't go to bars to meet women. I'm a really shy guy so i was wondering if anyone could recommend any places i can meet girls? also i have a full time job working 9-6 (weekdays) so i ... (75 words)

A few questions regarding a woman I'm attracted to... Even though I'm married...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman at a lunch party last May and ever since I have been very attracted to her. I am in love with her and told her so. I am married, 34 years old while this woman is 36. My wife and I have a great relationship but she is out of the country on business. My wife is ... (421 words)

Does anybody have any experiences with I.U.D?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone out there gotten the i.u.d. Intra-uterine device? It is a method of birth ctrl. for those who do not know. I am pregnant for the 2nd time in 2 years, and I am happy but we don't want anymore kids after this one. Just wondering about people's experience with the ... (73 words)

Should I have kids with my boyfriend when I can see an example of what our kids will be like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

- I'm 24 years old and my boyfriend is 26. We have been dating for 2 years now. We are planning to move in soon. I was just thinking the other day I don't think I want to have a kid with him. I love him dearly, but I don't know if I can stand for my kid to have his kind of ... (163 words)

I'm never in the mood for sex when the opportunity arises. Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend of a little over 2 years is 22, we have a great relationship and we love each other to death but lately my sex drive has been down. Usually people as young as us are consantly having sex but lately i think about sex a lot but when it comes time to doing ... (95 words)

His daughter (7) from his previous relationship makes it very difficult for me to play with her. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

- I've dated my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him very much. He has a 7 years old daughter from his last relationship (she lives with the mom right now). She's a very nice girl but just like my bf, she's really stubborn. She gets frustrated if she tries something and doesn't ... (149 words)

I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and he talks about me all the ... (210 words)

I was raped 10 months ago, and now I stand out to people at school, and this makes me feel very insecure. Can you help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - 10 months ago i was raped while walking through the park with a friend of mine, i told my mum at the time and the police where involved and it kind of got sorted the man got 6 months and it kind of got forgot but we had to go ive a statement over something that had happened ... (161 words)

Married to an alcoholic. Can you please advise me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age - Hello, I'm a wife of an acolholic husband and would like some advice other than my family and friends as sometimes I think they tell you what you want to hear. We met when I was 21 and he was 33. I was a bartender and thats where I met him. He was a divorced man with 2 childern ... (784 words)

Am I losing the baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i found out i was pregnant about a week ago. i started spotting very lightly yesterday. could this mean im having a miscarriage? i have not had any alcoholic beverages since i have found out but i have had a couple cigarettes (i know, im horrible! i have stopped). where am i ... (56 words)

He's stressed and I feel neglected

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I could really use some advice. I have been seeing a really top guy for 8months now. Everything had been going great. At the beginning it was me who had all the reservations but now im so confused and it hurts so much. We have very similar interests and outlooks and i really ... (328 words)

Something's wrong with me cuz I dumped a loser?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you guys think of a 29 year old guy thta lives with his mom and dad, doesn't lift a finger to help his mom around the house who works midnights in a nursing home and is in her 60's, does not work and has not worked in 1.5 years, says he won't bother looking ... (137 words)

Is this normal lovey-dovey stuff?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - right... well... i have been with my fiance for 6 years now, we started seeing each other when we where just 13 and now iam 19 and he is 20. i love him to bits and wouldnt change him for the world. lately i have been acting a bit strange, even i have noticed, i have started to ... (158 words)

I don't understand his language

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - If a man simply cannot say "I love you" is it possible that he replaces these words with another phrase, such as "It's suppose to rain today so drive carefully."? My guy says this or something similar whenever I tell him I miss him, or I love him or I'm looking forward to ... (71 words)

What do I say when we're both shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im really quite shy around guys and cant really talk to them. all my mates are girls and ive never reall had a proper bf. im inexperienced too. im 16. now i relly like this guy in the year above. he's pretty shy too. wev'e made eye contact on the bus and he looks for me ... (116 words)

He's "miserably" with his wife, I just separated from my spouse. He wanted to date me in high sch. We met recently and there was an undenyable chemistry. How do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I try not to read into dreams to much as I know sometimes they are meaningless and/or fantasy, blahblahblah...... But I had a dream lastnight that I can't get out of my head. About 1 year ago I ran into an old highschool friend of mine. We are both married with kids but ... (324 words)

My half brother is married to her elder sister. We see each other in secret. Our families disagree. How can we win this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and i'm really, truly, madly, deeply in love with my girlfriend. She's 20 but the problem is everyone(my folks and hers) swear they wont let us get married cos my half bother is married to her elder sister. I know she's also crazy about me cos she sworn to run away with ... (86 words)

I thought her plan of moving included me but she stopped calling and the relation of 5 yrs just ended! How do I not lose faith in the concept of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 25 year old man who has just been 'dumped' by my girlfriend of 5 years (who is currently 24). I know that there is no good way for people to end a relationship but in our case she gave me the impression over the last few months (whilst still living together) that w... (422 words)

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating because she wants me to stop this female friend from calling me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend thinks i'm cheating because she wants me to stop another female friend of mine from calling but i said no. How do i convince her i'm not cheating? ... (30 words)

Can't trust after breaking up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and we still talk on occasion. We broke up because he is scared of commitment but at the sametime he's been supposedly dating someone else but I'm not exactly sure if this is true or not. Well, now I've met someone else through mutual ... (132 words)

Rape victim wants to be thought as virgin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. When I Was 13 I Was Raped By A Guy And His Friends 3 Times And I Didnt Tell AnyyOne About It Although I Wish I Had Of Doe But Its Too Late Now. Well Any Wayy When Me And My Friends Are Talking About Boyfriends And Stuff At School They Always Seem To Ask Me Weaher Or Not... (167 words)

Why do I stay when he beats me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - why does my boyfiend beat me up? i have been with him just over 6 months and we have started having sex but only because he wants it. if we aregue he always hits me. he starts arguements to bilittle me and he says hes scared of me breaking up with him. i have finished the rela... (119 words)

This lump on my left breast has become painful. My mother says my body is changing. Should I see a doctor?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - i found a lump on my left breast a couple of weeks ago and didnt know what it was so i just left it as i thought it might go away by its self. but its still there and its become painful. i told my mum about it and she sed it will just be because my body is changing and the pain ... (76 words)

Shouldn't he be the one getting therapy, since he caused the marital problems? Who is in a denial here? Does therapy work? He said it'd be better if I didn't dig back to our issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I losing my mind. I am so unhappy in my relationship that the only way to keep peace and not to bring up stuff from the past that affects our immediate future is to talk to people with more marital problems than i have and help them solve theirs. At least, I know that ... (217 words)

I am simply not used to being with a man who can touch a woman and not want her. We have sex once a week; he says it'd be more often if I complained less!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - For whatever reason of his, we started having sex once a week. I complain and he says that if I complained less we would have sex more often. I am tormented and depressed. I still talk to him about my unmet needs, it's like a therapy for me, but I don't expect any sex because ... (260 words)

The guy says if she keeps the baby she'll have to sue him for money. Then he pays for the abortion and is ready to marry her, but not yet to have kids. What does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy has unprotected sex with his gf on knowing she is not on birth control. Then she gets pregnant and he tells her to have an abortion and says that if she does not she will have to sue him for money. Then he takes her to a clinic, pays for the abortion. Then he is glad ... (93 words)

He rows with me every time I wish to go out with my friends but he goes on holidays with his wife and says they're just friends? Am I a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age - i have been seeing a man for three years who has been seperated from his wife for 5 years, however, he phones her every day, spends one day a week with her, and has now gone away on holiday with her. he says they are just friends and that they are not having sex. he is ... (104 words)

Does sex affect nursing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I had a normal delivery and my baby girl is now three months old. I'm breastfeeding her and have been advised to do for a year at least. Now my husband wants to have intercourse with me. He has the habit of squeezing and sucking my breasts and nipples during sex. As I'm nursing ... (111 words)

Health concerns for sensitive area

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I hope you can help me. I have been having problems with my clitoris - it has inflamed and increased in size for a few days to the size of a peanut and then it collapses released some discharge and is sore for a few days going back to its normal size and then I am fine again. ... (106 words)

Looking for long term at fifteen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupids. i really want a long term boyfriend that i can call mine. i can say yeah im in a relationship. been with my boyfriend a year now. you hear it all the time but my relationships dont seem to work out. i have had too many boyfiends and all i do is go out with them for... (120 words)

I feel I am being used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - i have a really attractive boyfriend and he always flirts with other girls. everyone seems to fancy him and he likes it. i have been with him for 2 years and i love him like mad but it seems like he would rather be wit other girls than me.all we ever seem to do it sex. we dont ... (107 words)

Stay mum or tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - there is this boy i really like at school. we are quite good friends but he has no idea i like him. he has recently announced that he is moving a fair few hours away ad i dont think i will see him again. should i tell him i like him or leave him to get on with his life??... (60 words)

What are the odds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex with my boyfriend one day and then cheated the next day and had unprotected sex. I conceived 3 days later from when i had sex with my b.friend and obviously 2 days later from when I cheated? whats the chances that its the other guys baby? HURRY I NEED HELP!!!... (58 words)

My bf is a complicated man. I answered if I am what he wants and he never answered me. Am I not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked my boyfriend if I am what he wants. He never answered me. Is it because I'm not and I just happen to be the woman that wants him right know? I love him and I am torn and I dont know how to handle this. He is a complicated man.... (52 words)

Nerves or pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have never had full sex yet but we did have oral and there was hands used but i dont know if he sperm on his hand when he was rubbing me.I know that there is a chance i could get pregnant from this thats why i took a pregnance test on monday and it came back ... (116 words)

How do I deal with b/f BO?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfriend has a bit of a B.O problem. i mean ont get me wrong he baths daily, uses aftershave and keeps clean but he doesnt use anti-persprint under his arms and tey get sweaty and you can smell it. he comes over to me and he leans over gives me a kiss and the smell can be ... (88 words)

Why does my daughter accept his behaviour?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 17 year old daughter who has an very controlling, jealous boyfriend. He left for college and is still controlling her. He tells her where she can work, go, who she can hang out with and even what she can/can't wear sometimes. No one in our family is this way and I ... (75 words)

Pregnant to a married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with a married man as we found out I was pregnant I was taking precautions I have seen him for a ywar and now that this has happened he wants to end it all and have nothing at all to do with baby.... (48 words)

I don't want to choose between the important men in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age - I am in a relationship, which is going really well, I've never felt so valued or loved. He is everything I have ever wanted in a man. We have been seeing each other for 18 months, the thing is that he wants to make it more permanent, and move in together, with a view to ... (103 words)

I want to stop being needy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

- I am totaly lost. About 3 months ago I broke up with my ex bf (he didnt treat me right). It was hard though because i was dependent on him to make me feel good, to make me feel valued and important. Yet i did it and wanted to work on myself. Ive been told i MUST have ... (350 words)

Have I lost my virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am a uni student and a virgin and have been seeing this guy for about a little while but he's not yet my proper boyfriend. However, the other day we were just like fooling around in his room and then he put his penis inside of me but i told him i wasnt really ready cos ... (144 words)

Everythings great, except he's lazy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi My fiance and i have been together a little over a year .We were quite happy together about 7 months ago we moved in together and now it seems im always getting upset with him about things like picking up after himself or just helping me with some of the house work what can... (60 words)

What do you get a man you fancy for christmas, something that might be a small hint? And do you think he likes me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question: what do you get a man you fancy for christmas, something that might be a small hint? He seems to know me very well and vice versa (he messaged me some songs that he thought I'd enjoy and I LOVED them, which is amazing as people call me 'difficult' when it ... (116 words)

I went to Japan to vist my gf for our anniversary and her parents say I'm stalking her and will call the police!! I can't even speak w/ her now b/c of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 17 yr old guy,me and this girl have been together for a year and a half,she went to japan with a couple people from her shcool and 2 teachers,before she went to japan she grabbed me by the hands and said that she wanted to celebrate our 2 years that we met but we couldnt ... (391 words)

He says we won't work b/c of his parents - but I still want to know how he feels about me! How can I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Actually I am stuck up in a problem, which I expect that u may b able to solve. See. I had met a guy in delhi. He worked in a shop and we didn't know each other. When I returned back to bombay, I was not able to forget him as HE also looked at me in such a way. I wrote him a ... (387 words)

Why does my daughter accept her controlling boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 17 year old daughter that has a VERY controllling, jealous boyfriend he just went to college and he is still controlling her. He tells her where she can go, work, and even what she can wear sometimes. PLEASE Help and tell me how to get rid of this guy!!!No men in o... (71 words)

He cheated on me...What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me the day before we had been together for 7 months. [a couple weeks ago] He brought this girl home and kissed her then within 5 minutes was at my house kissing me again. He did not tell me. His 13 year old sister just told me because the girl is her ... (136 words)

Should I just accept that he is back with his girlfriend? or should I take a risk and tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a wonderful boy whilst i was overseas. Although we only spent a short time together, the connection between us was beautiful, we were constantly laughing and i felt like a changed person. During our first meeting we discovered were both from Melbourne, and ... (232 words)

Is it worth another go? Soo confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I wrote to you previously about my boyfriend, now my X who I seperated with due to the arguing and the fact that i felt as though i was always there for him and he wasnt there for me and afew lies that he told, soo the trust went too. We have been over for 6 ... (519 words)

I'm unhappily married and recently started an affair. Is this so wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am unhappily married and i think it is too late. i recently started an affair with a man from my past who is also married. he blows hot and cold. i think we are soul mates and believe i am falling in love. i would be quite happy to stay in my marriage because i love my ... (133 words)

My virgin girlfriend is very tight. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 19 and in love with my school sweetheart of 4months again, both virgins. we tried it last night for the first time, after she had pleasured me 4/5 times. I could not get hard enough to penetrate properly as she is quite tight. Is this normal, could do with some help... (53 words)

I failed..What do I do now? Can I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have made unforgivable choices this year and now am paying the price; I want to put things right but have I done too much? Below are the details to the best of my recollection, I suspect that I have not covered everything or all the minute details but to the best of my knowl... (1611 words)

Let's give them something to talk about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I am very confused, i think i am falling in love with my best friend, we are both 21yrs old. We are soul mates in that we think the same about everything and just laugh all the time we are together! anyways the problem is i dont think he is interested in me like that n i ... (213 words)

Wondering if I should get back with my ex or if he is messed up and playing the field?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I split from a guy 3 months ago. Didnt trust him and found out after he had kept something from me for the year we were together. It was nothing major but he didnt know what do do at the time. Anyway since splitting we have established a friendship and thats good. Our children ... (512 words)

I know better but I want him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - am 26 years old,am in love with a 46 year old man who is a real player,for the first 6months he was all i ever dream t off,later i found out that he was involved with many other women but keeps on denying it.he insists that they are just good friends that he flirts with,tho its ... (177 words)

Should I go for the contraceptive pill or the implant? What are pros/cons?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help in what contraception i should take. i cant decide whether the pill or an implant. i'm going to the doctor soon to see but i would like to know what people would grade at the best with personal use from before.... (44 words)

What will I tell Mom and Dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Ashley. I have been seeing a guy named Adam for a while now. we are sexualy active and use a condom, but a few weeks ago we did not have any condoms. We had sex and he said he would be careful and get out in time. I am not sure if he did he grunted and I felt his ... (131 words)

He says I'm difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm still trying to get over the man who left me for his baby momma and i have another problem. i promised myself after this relationship i would give myself time to see what i want and not give into mens demands unless i'm ok with it. I have met this guy, he is great and all ... (224 words)

Why hasn't my boyfriend contacted me for a week since visiting his sister 3 weeks ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - help i'm in urgent need of advice or else i'm gonna go crazy.well my boyfriend visited his sister and has been gone for 3 weeks,anyway he was calling me everyday but now he has stoped. i havent heard from him in a week now and i refuse to call him because since he stoped ... (101 words)

How do I control the different sides of my personality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know around the teenage years people are trying to find themselves, and try to become comfortable in their skin. I have two sides, if I may: 1) I can be so polite, friendly, sensative, very easy going and just all around fun. 2) All around fun, rude in a poke fun kind ... (178 words)

Could I be pregant??

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some help. My bf is my first seuxal partner, I have been intimate with my bf for about 10 months and we have always used condoms (i am not on any other birth control). Last night we had sex and i was really dry but we continued anyway. After my bf had an orgy ... (221 words)

Do I hide my feelings for her and be her friend??

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, Will first off i am really shy. its always been hard to talk to girls i like. I always hide how i feel. About 6 months ago i started talking to this girl i worked with. We then started dating and dated for 3 months. We started off slow and both of us not knowing what to ... (227 words)

Is there any way to speed up labour??

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady said she drank 2 spoons of ... (113 words)

I like a guy but the age difference keeps holding me back.

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am a senior in high school and im 17. I like a guy who just turned 15 so im over 2 years older. Im more worried about the age difference for his sake because i can deal with what people say, but i dont know how it would affect him. I think he likes me too but the age ... (71 words)

Relationship going on for years, worth it or not?

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17 October 2007 (F)

age - I'm 6 years in a relationship that's not going to the next level. I didn't ever hear a word that he loves me.We're intimate, sometimes, only once a month. I do everything for him. When I tell him I'm done with the relationship he doesn't want to leave me alone. What must I d... (57 words)

His mom says he shouldn't get in a serious relation with anyone since he's joining the military...

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have a question for you all out there...me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months 2 weeks and 3 days...we are both in love...but now his mom has a problem with us dating...she says that since he's joining the military he shouldn't get serious with ... (72 words)

How do I cope with losing my babies and not push my fiance away??

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me I've been going through alot and really need some good advice as i cant stop hurting and cry. My fiance is very understanding and there for me but i know he is hurting too. I can't be there for him. I feel like i do try but i feel like i cant stop thinking ab... (295 words)

Confused by my ex's behaviour.

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17 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada ... (390 words)

My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He didn't push it. He hasn't... (142 words)

How can I help my friend?

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I help my best friend? He is dating a biploar girl with many issues. They have been fighting about him wanting some alone time, that she is always coming to him at his apartment, and he told her he love her and took it back but now he says he loves her again. I think he ... (97 words)

I'm waiting it out to see if he calls me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age - An ex is calling to let me know that he has arrived safely to his out of town worksite. He says he wanted to let someone know that he was ok and how to get in touch with him in case they needed to. Strang thing is he had already called his best friend,his roommate then me. We ... (138 words)

My ex-fiancee is real confusing.

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is freaking confusing. But I love her... We broke up yesterday because she thinks she's not IN love with me and fell for me for the wrong reasons. That she does love me and cares about me though. So when i asked if she'd want to try and fall for right reasons, s... (270 words)

I am reposting this, please help, I'm concerned.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i had posted this yesterday....................................................................i i am an american citizen. i met an australian man over the internet last year and things progressed with our relationship rapidly. like we were soul mates. i have been in australia ... (932 words)

Cat's away and mice wanna play

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I Need help ! Me and my boyfriend are currently on a break, which was my idea. My reason being was that we were getting in to too many arguments so I wanted some time to myself. But I met this guy the other night, and I really like him, and he feels the same. Would it still be ... (84 words)

Is it stress or am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i need help please!! Okay you get asked this everyday im sure. But please be a little patient with me im 16 years old and scared to death. Ok me and my boyfriend have had sex WITHOUT protection, VERY stupid thing i know but it happened and were not proud of it. Its be... (214 words)

I am not coping with this break up well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help me please, because I really don't think I am capable of dealing with this situation. I really love this guy and he loves me. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The reason for the breakup was basically, his alcoholism. We've been together for more than a year and in this time, he... (229 words)

Could these be signs of pregnancy?

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17 October 2007 (F)

We're awkward alone together

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Ive been dating this guy for a while now. and every things fine when where hanging with some friends.. but when where alone there is just this awkward silence. My mind goes black and i cant figure out something to say. And sometimes just scared of ending up looking lik... (69 words)

Girls just wanna have friends

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just moved to a new country and i had met new friends and we all hang out alot but both of them started liking me, i like them to but i dont want to be more than friends, i dont even know them that long.. i dont know what to do i tried talking to them but it dint work.... (62 words)

Is he taking a second look?

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 2 years older than me in school to try and get his attention and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there" and he did my tie up for me. Why di... (73 words)

Still not over my boy's daddy

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am struggling to move on after being dumped by my ex 2 and a half years ago. He left me when I told him I was pregnant, 3 months later he was back with his ex. I felt used and worthless. We had been together for 2 years. He refused to have anything to do with my son until 3 ... (155 words)

How can I find if he went with a prostitute?

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my bf of 4 years has cheated on me with a prostitute.I asked him, he denied know but I im having a problem believing him so. How can I go about finding out?... (35 words)

How do I handle my situation?

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17 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Guy Asked me to get married in the most romantic way and yet here I am 2 months later asking for help.. He was married before, although that ended badly they talk (which in my opinon is a good thing At least for the kids and the new wife (me) and then he hits me with a ... (123 words)