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I got dumped, now I've met another girl, but is she right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi. Please help me with my problem. I was dumped a few months ago by my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, and I've found it very difficult to cope with. Recently, I have met a new girl. She's very nice. But there are a few things about her that makes me hesitant to see if we c... (206 words

How do I confront my 10 year old daughter about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - Is it possible that my 10 year old daughter could be having sexual relations with her 12 year old boyfriend. If so how do i confront her, do i just ignore it or do i beet the living crap out of him. Can she get pregnant at 10. I've seen them both together and think by the way ... (93 words

We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last night as we were laying in bed ... (115 words

A bloody mess! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I had sex with my girlfriend recently during her period. During the act a lot of her blood got on me. Mostly around my penis and hands. I did wear a condom and several months ago we were both tested for STD's and the results were clean. Should I be worried about the ... (63 words

Lately, he's been cold and distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was sick. Last week, I sat him ... (308 words

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have really missed him, and he is a... (128 words

My boss is flirting with me, he's married, I am flattered but I know its wrong , how do I get rid of these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I started a new job about 8 weeks ago. I noticed my boss giving me eye contact. He then gently touched arms with me a few times and I was flattered by the attention. My job involves being out at night in a club together and one night he was definitely flirting with me. However ... (165 words

My hubby and I have had a great sex life, now he's getting a bit unconventional, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband has a very active imagination when we have sex, he always has. His chatter has always been part of what I enjoyed during sex. But lately he's been acting out some of his sexual fantasies. I don't know what to think. He pushes his penis head inside so at the very ... (102 words

My wife talks about sleeping with her female friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I am 42 married. My wife is 30 we have a very good sex life but just lately my wife talks about sleeping with her female friend. What do you think of this?... (35 words

I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks about his girlfriend.I have my ... (108 words

I'm unable to sustain an erection, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age - Hi for the past year my wife has been telling me i don't get as hard as i use to. If she talks dirty it seems to do the trick, but not for long. Several times i haven't been able to finish off which she says is ok but i am not sure. Recently i went to a local sex... (171 words

I'm 15, he's 26, we really click, should I consult my parents?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, do you think that age matters? i mean in our world which we live in, these days, you hear stories about 60 year olds having babies and 8 yer old's smoking, so is it such a bad thing for 15 year old and a twenty six year old to fall in love? i am nearly 16 ... (149 words

My boyfriend is off to Iraq, but I think I might be pregnant , how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Okay I have a question...first of all I am "kinda" getting back together with my ex from 3 yrs ago. He is a military officer and going to Iraq in December and will be there until probably August. He said he is serious but doesn't want to make a commitment until after Iraq. ... (275 words

When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks.... (51 words

I got pregnant, we got married, he treated me badly, now years later he is trying to mend things, but I don't love him, is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm extremly confused!!!! Been married for almost 13 yrs. and been together for 15, I had gotten pregnant 5 months into relationship, so i guess i thought it was right thing to do to get married, I thought i loved him, i think i did but i was 19 when we married.. In the ... (396 words

We were friends with benefits, now I want a serious relationship, can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Alright so we started out as a one night stand about 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 23. After that we became friends with benefits and remained that way for a long time, while I was completely in love with him. I started applying pressure to be more than that, which he ... (406 words

A boy dumped his girl to be with me, but now I have a boyfriend, help me I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i really really like my boyfriend and he likes me but i also like this other friend of mine. Here's the story the friend who i liked had a girlfriend while i was single but he recently broke up with her for me but now im not single anymore. he said that im breaking his heart as ... (88 words

I fancy this guy at work, I think he likes me as well, but how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have found myself being attracted to a male colleague, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is chatty and friendly with all members of staff,though just lately he seems to be paying me more attention,he initiates silly games,flicks me with tea towels as i pass,picks me up ... (99 words

I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?... (43 words

My girlfriend has gone off sex, how can I get the intimacy back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend and myself have been together for about 2 and a half years. I am 37 and have been married in the past, she is 32 and has also been past married. My issue is after a year of amazing sex and intimate encounters, my girlfriend has lost her desire for anything ... (395 words

Torn between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok im 15 and im kinda torn between two guys. lets start with guy number 1: fine i know that guy since last year and we really hit it off and he really liked me back we used to flirt 24/7 and then suddenly we stopped talking [we dont even know why-we didnt even fight] and th... (301 words

How can I make his return special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been working away from home for the past few weeks. The night before he left, I planned a night in at our house (we live together) with candles, wine, food, bubble bath, the works. Now I want to plan something for the night he returns, but I don't want to to... (78 words

Is true love scary?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need help!!! I have a stepsister and she told me that when you love someone, you're scared to be with them, scared to know that somebody wants to be with you that you love, and I don't know what to believe. Is this true?... (45 words

I don't know if he is serious about me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend very much but he doesnt seem as serious as me and i dont wanna make a fool of my self by acting all lovie dovie. what do i do?... (34 words

Had him, Left him, Had him, Left him, Want him, Lost him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Alright. About a year ago, I met this REALLY nice, cute and tall (yah... It's hard for me to find all 3 in 1 package, considering im 6 feet tall) boy. He liked me... ALOT. It was weird for me, because I'm a distant person, and need time to get to know someone. We went out for ... (329 words

He's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he likes to me the other day. It ... (87 words

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets face it moms are there to do ... (97 words

Is popularity the problem? Should I become more popular - for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you think he will like me if i, ... (75 words

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july.... (402 words

I live with my in laws, and I feel suffocated in my marriage! My husband is not willing to change this as his mother would feel "deserted."

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - ive been married 6 months, i live with my in laws this is something my husband is not willing to change any time soon. He is afraid that his mother will feel deserted if we leave the parental house and even bought a bigger house so we would all live together, even though h... (165 words

How can one suddenly stop feeling the love overnight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi, my girlfriend broke up with me last night. i was devastated. she said she see's me more of a best friend rather than a boyfriend. again, this breaks my heart.i can't bare life without her, i love her so much..i cant even describe how much in words. how can she suddenly... (79 words

My inlaws have been in touch with my husbands ex girlfriend and I feel betrayed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My in-laws have been contacting an ex-girlfriend of my husbands. This women and I do not get along at all. She says that her child is my husbands this he says he is unsure of. DNA testing isin the works. It makes me upset that they are contacting this women before they know for ... (115 words

What other 'little things' can I do to be romantic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello Im the first to admit Im terrible at being romantic, but I try. My girlfriend says I need to be more romantic, but I dont get what she is asking for. I take her flowers now and then, chocolates, leave little notes etc. We stay in on a Sunday night and watch a fi... (157 words

My boyfriend wants to be there for girls night out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age - Any ideas on how I handle this one. I am having a 'girlie' night at my house on Friday with nine old friends and my boyfriend who loves cooking has offered to cook us all a curry, preparing it Thursday and then coming after work on the Friday to do the cooking and serving. I ... (185 words

Even though it is just a friendship, since she kept it a secret I am disturbed and want it over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - 8 months ago I discovered my wife was emailing an old guy friend I had never met that she had known from high school. She had written like 40 emails, all very long, one a day. I was very hurt and mad that she did not even bother telling me as we're very open about our friends ... (356 words

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping it would change. I have been ... (544 words

I caught him cheating and now I found out he married the 'other woman'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to it. for the remaining 7 weeks ... (181 words

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it jumpstarted exciting things ..a big ... (662 words

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I DON'T want her to be put ... (141 words

Should I arrange a threesome? Does she really agree to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age - Hi For the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me. Our sex life is very good and ... (110 words

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He expects me not to have any ... (164 words

How can I go about getting closer to my real mom withouth upsetting my adoptive mom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My Mom had me when she was 16 and I was adopted by her older sister because she had plans for her education and career and a baby at 16 didn't fit into her plans. I'm not really on the greatest terms with my adoptive Mom at the minute and I'd like to have a bit more to do wi... (221 words

What do guys do when they fancy a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - A question to all the guys. What do guys do when they fancy a girl??? Answers will be gratefully recieved. Anything will be helpful XxX... (29 words

Any thoughts on why I feel uneasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there are large gaps in between physical intimacy. I also know he views porn videos. Even though it is not on a regular basis - I still feel uneasy. Thoughts?... (39 words

Is a fear of change normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hey everyone, Ok, I split up with my partner as we simply fell out of love with each other, we argued and we also didn't make an effort to keep our relationship alive. As a result I am moving out of our shared home (rented) to start a new life in a new city, with a new j... (178 words

Should I surprise him by booting him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - is this mean.. my boyfriends at work and i want to move him out..i will rent apartment, put his things in there and leave it at that..tonight i want to take my keys off his key ring, take my car key off his ring and put a note on door when he comes home with his new address.... (111 words

How do I break up and survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - hi, I hate to be alone and i hate to hurt peoples feelings to the point i make my life a living hell in relationships. I stay and take all the crap giving to me and when its plain to see that ive took to much, my boyfriend is nice for a while.. making me forget the bad and then ... (211 words

I'm confused - why is it so easy for him to stay friends with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My ex BF wants to be friends, I know I am still in love with him, but he has major issues he needs to iron out, I also have some trust issues with him so I really don't see us getting back together. He wants to stay friends and we kind of have to because we have a child to... (193 words

Am I paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we hav split up a few times because he lies about the girls he has been with when we have been on a brake, i make sure that im completely honest with him as i no the truth always comes out.We are back together now but he still ... (108 words

What seems to be happening in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a gal frend whom we have been moving out for a long tyme,we are planning to get married soon.She loves me so much aswel as her parents,they alwaz ask her abt me.Unfortunately she got transfered from her workplace to a place far away from me. Its an 8hours driven from whe... (201 words

Was he being serious, or just drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F - Hi There, I am very unhappy right now. I have been seeing a guy but whenever it gets to us being official he does not really wanna discuss it. We are both 26. It has been going on about 4 mths. He called me the other week after a few drinks - telling me I was the one he w... (202 words

I'm very confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi need some help i have 3 children from previous relasionships. the bf i had before has left me feeling hurt and with a barrier holding all my felings inside. the problem is that i have recently met a lovely man who is so lovely and kind his brilliant with my kids but i feel ... (160 words

I've given him £6000 in total which he spent on debts and drugs and now he has disappeared...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - i dont know what to do and am deepl upst. i will try shorten the story. i was with this wonderful guy, for a year was all perfect, then one day i heard nothing from him at all just stopped calling visiting nothing, i went through torment and depression for 8 months, when he ... (576 words

Is it normal to feel so lost after breaking up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - OK, last night I broke up with my bf of 4.5 yrs, we have'nt really been happy for the last yr or so as we lost our spark and both of us did nothing to help our relationship until it was too late. Last night, I sat him down and told him we are over. I was crying my heart ... (155 words

I'm thinking of walking away. Is the love I have enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi, wonder if you can offer a few words. I have been seeing my girlfriend now for some 4years and plan to move in together, maybe next year sometime but the problem I have is that she wants to get married, this I have not dismissed but I do not see the point, a bit of paper s... (265 words

Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for over a year before he had to move back home for work. We were so in love and very happy. I knew though that him and hie ex were still in contact over the phone but thought nothing of it as I tried to deal with the fact that he had a life before me. ... (165 words

She's not speaking to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - the girl im with at the moment is not speaking to me after we had a weekend away together, i have been with her for a while and last night we was having a text chat like we normally do and she asked me about my past relationships, and because i didnt text back quick enough , ... (120 words

For guys: Does a woman's vagina size matter? Does it vary if she's tall or short?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - On sex and pleasure, Does it matter the size of a women down south? If she is taller or smaller her vagina will be better for him or not? How about the lenght/long/short of the vagina, does this matter to a guy? Does this only matter to EGO driven guys? How about the emotions... (65 words

I feel trapped, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I dont know what to do i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months living together for 3. i do love him but 3 weeks ago an old friend of my late husbands turned up to see how i was and then a few days later he texted me to say he wanted to see me again the text got very flirty ... (174 words

Should I deal with the problems or end the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F - Ok so here I go...this is hard to explain but ill try my best. Feel free to ask me any questions if you arent sure of something or if i left somethign out. Im confused about my relationship with my bf who I have been with for 1 month. We knew each other for 9 months before ... (339 words

I find her offer extremely tempting, but I have some concerns about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age - Hi i have been given the come on by a mates wife, he recently had a affair and she found out. now she want to try and see what its like with someone else. she proposed that we should get together and try it. we have done some kissing and petting but i think it will turn... (81 words

Is a wedding a good venue to make a move on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Ok so I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I've invited her to a huge family wedding to which she gladly accepted. I have had a thing for her for some time and this is going to be our first one-on-one type of thing. There is something there I feel but when we ... (147 words

What kind of reactions should I get if he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6013 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I want to approach an attractive guy who I know from school. I'm not sure how to get his attention. We know each other from our business program, but I want us to be more than acquaintances. I don't want to ask him out right away, so what should I do first to get some ... (70 words

She called me a slut. Could he still love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is going out with me but he talks to his ex. him and me been going out 6months, and his ex is that touchy type girl. she lived far away, about 8hrs away. I sadly had to move into dorms for college n mine is 1hr away. his ex just came back to town. he hung out with ... (140 words

Is 'phone sex' cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is phone sex cheating? me and my bf have been going out for six months. i found out he had pics of naked woman and he had talk to girls on the phone. I think it is cheating but im not sure.... (42 words

I've met a guy online. Should I cancel my plans to go and see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6013 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - So I've met this younger man on a dating website. He used to live in my area, but has moved back home because he is training for a fight. We instantly hit it off for a couple months and called and text each other almost every day. He recently has started a new job, which ha... (439 words

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I think I hate my boyfriend's family. Its been 6 months since the last time I've visited them (which went horribly wrong).I took the brunt of their meaness and turned my cheek and they still complained to my boyfriend that they thought I was a bad person. Their complain... (211 words

Should I just continue being friends and see what happens in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I need serious advise people [i am 18]. I have liked this kid ever since i started talking to him three years ago. But the problem is i dated his cousin over a year ago. However, i still like him and i know he likes/liked me too. We have so much in common and he does the most ... (469 words

Has my penis replaced my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - My relationships keep failing. I meet up with lots of girls, and we tend to have sex within the first couple of weeks. This carrys on for a while then my woman starts critising me, so I try to do what she say, so she still have horny sex with me. I can never seem to be good ... (163 words

What can we do about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend whom we've made a committment to get married soon but she has told me that another guy who approached her recently doesn't want to hear that she has been already booked,he wants everything by force,what can we do to this guy.... (45 words

I am so confused and hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now. Only 4 days ago she told me I was the one and she was so madly in love with me. Now all of a sudden she says she needs some "alone time" to figure out what she wants. She says she still loves me she just wants to think ... (120 words

Please Help! I can't get rid of the feeling that my boyfriend is cheating!

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31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Please help! I have this burning feeling in my gut that my boyfriend is cheating on me. Even though i have tried to convince myself otherwise, the feeling just won't go away! Here's the deal: we have been together for quite some time- almost 3 years. my boyfriend recently lost ... (434 words

He makes me feel as if he's not interested.

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31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help, I am quite confused. I like this guy and thinks he likes me too but he is too complicated to read. We've known each other for a while but at a distance. Recently we met at a function and got to chat then I realised I like him and decided to get to know him better. ... (279 words

He is lazy, we argue , then he threatens to leave, what should I do?

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31 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I argue all the time about work that he is supposed to do around the house. We have been together 5 years and live together. It really upsets me when he yells at me. Then, he always wants to break up as being the only resolution to the argument. I think he ... (78 words

I cheated and I know its wrong, but it takes two to tango doesn't it?

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31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Do you think it's true that it's not ONLY the person who cheats who is at fault when it happens? I guess I was just wondering about your opinions because I would consider myself a very good person who was caught in a "grey" situation and under a lot of pressure when I ... (151 words

My fiance accuses me of cheating, he's also immature, how can I cope?

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31 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiance is always asking me if i'm with someone else and it sucks because i am always so honest . I feel as if it's his past that makes him insecure (his player lifestyle)..well sunday i went over to talk to him about it..and again he began with the comments..and it makes me ... (159 words

This boy is sending mixed signals, its driving me crazy, help!

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31 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have had feelings for this boy for over a year now. I recently found out that he had feelings for me as well, but he's not sure how he feels anymore. I told him how I felt...which ended with him asking if we could pretend the situation never happened. But lately he has been ... (104 words

She's really upset, what do I do?

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31 October 2007 (M age 26-29 - alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help... (32 words

He's sending mixed signals, it's so frustrating, what can I do!

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31 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm really confused about this guy I know. He is definitely attracted to me (and I to him) but he keeps sending mixed signals. He goes through these periods of time flirting with me in a very obvious way and then when it comes to a point that he could only ask me out he becomes ... (140 words

I think he might be bi-polar

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31 October 2007 (F - Hey aunts, Just wondering I haven't always had a problem with my boyfriends watching porn... but for some reason with this boyfriend that i've been with for 2 years, i do. I just think it's because i'm offended that we never really do it anymore like once a week or somethin... (226 words

What do I day to her?

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31 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi i been in a realtionship with my girlfreind for over 2 years and i feel like the passion is gone and we dont talk and when we talk i really dont no wat to say to her i need help... (43 words

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