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Why will he not kiss me on the lips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Why will he not kiss me on the lips? We have known each other for 3 years through work, and have become very close friends. He is forever touching, stroking, pinching and cuddling me. He loves stroking my legs and he loves my tumy .He tells me i have ruined his romantic lif... (154 words

Is cum and sperm the same thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

19 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets you pregnant??i might sound ... (86 words

How do I get up the guts to tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I like this boy in my class and I know that he likes me because I asked my friends to see if he likes me and he said he likes me and I need help to get the nerve to say I like him with out chickening-out. Please help.... (49 words

I have everything I ever wanted. So why am I unhappy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - what is wrong with me ?. i have just moved into my first home with my partner, i have a beautifull house a wonderfull partner a supportive family and a good career ahead of me but im so so lonely and down. i feel so lonely i have nothing to complain about my home is beautifu... (139 words

What exactly does "taking a break mean"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me. Very confused. Please help.... (31 words

Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - There's a guy i really like. He lives near me, in the same street. We see each other really often and we telephone and chat often with each other. We have become really good friends since this summer. When we chat, he flirts a lot with me. And when we're with each other, he ... (178 words

My boyfriends friends don't like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - my bf's mates are not the nicest of people, they're immature and dont have any faith in mine and my bf's relationship at all and its the fact that they express that towards me thats annoying. When i tell them to stop, they say im reading to much into it! Even my bf's spoken ... (76 words

He's got a girl, but wants to chill with me. Should I let him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met this boy at this party named peter.....ever since then weve been wanting to hang out.At this time he didnt have a gf.....now hes back wit the same girl.....Hes a really sexual person and his girl gives him everything he wants ...he knows im not like that im practically a ... (72 words

I think I am getting addicted to pills!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hey, im just an average girl. And a while back I accidently took 7 pills before a game because I was in a lot of physical pain. well, i will admit that i did something very carless. i kept doing it. and so far 7 pills turned into 10, and the other day it was 15. even my f... (119 words

Is it wrong to let him know I'm attracted even though he's unavailable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is it wrong that I always stare at this guy I have a huge crush on when he has a girlfriend? I'm not 'talk-flirting' with him or anything I just always stare at him when I see him and he usually looks back. Is it wrong that I do this when he is involved with someone else? Or it ... (61 words

My gut says he's cheating but I don't want to believe it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years is also the father to our 1 year old daughter. Ive always been scared that he would cheat on me. A couple of months back I checked his email and a girl wrote scandoulous things to him saying how she missed sleeping with him and how she wanted to see him ... (259 words

Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I'm just wondering if any of these signs lead to one of the teachers in my school fancying me...? He's about 8/9 years older than I am. It's just confusing me a little. Like everytime hes talking to another teacher and I'm walking down the corridor, he darts quic... (294 words

He's over me and I wish I could say the same about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now, from our 2 year long relationship. I believe he's currently back with his ex, but I'm still feeling a sense of longing for him even though most of the pain has subsided. I still love and want him, and we haven't even ... (92 words

Foot friendly fun ideas for the weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - If my boyfriend works on his feet during the week days, I understand he won't enjoy hiking on the weekend. He would rather give his feet a rest on the weekend. What kind of fun activities that we can do together that will be healthy for both of us and yet isn't too hard for his ... (57 words

I need some suggestions on a threesome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - i want to do something wild and crazy w/ my husband. i want to have sex with another women while he watches and then have him join in. any suggestions on this ,he is deeply in love w/ me and would do anything for me, but is this going to far. HELP PLEASE... (53 words

Still stuck on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - It's been 5 months and I still haven't gotten over my past relationship of 2 1/2 years. The problem is that my ex boyfriend goes to college only 30 minutes away from where I live. And even worse, he has a new girlfriend who he brings everywhere. What can I do to finally get ... (61 words

Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (? age 30-35 - I'm sorry if this is really long but I desperately need some advice. I've just turned 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over 8 months now and are madly in love with each other. It would seem from the outside that we have this perfect relationship but at ... (402 words

Is she flirting or friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - there is this girl i know from school who randomly hugs me or links arms and even puts her arm round me as if we were best freinds on a night out, but this happens very randomly and out of the blue, it must happen most days and the thing is i dont know if she fancies me or is ... (74 words

Is it abuse when I have no voice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - Was he abusive? I need reassurance that he was abusive, that it wasn't my fault. I am no longer with my fiance (thank God), but moving on and sorting out all that has happened is still hard. The weekend before I broke up with him we went with his friends camping. He stared at a ... (286 words

Once in a while he says he wants to sleep with me. Does he really want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - This is one long story. Ok here goes. He knew I fancied him for a long time but one of his good friends liked me and I was close to him, so he kept away. Then in May/June and July my crush and I got v.close. People spoke about us and all. We neevr went out but acted like we ... (351 words

I don't want to waste my weekends. Is there a win win solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - I have been telling my boyfriend we should do more fun stuff together when we spend time together. He agreed that we should look into something cool to do during the weekend. However, he just said it without really taking any actions. To him, weekend should be a relaxing day at ... (162 words

Do I wait four years for him or do I get on with the single life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyrfiend and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. He's been gone for a month now and I really miss him. I'm so used to seeing him all the time. We spent every day together. Now, i'm lucky if I could talk to him once/twice a week since he left for bootcamp. Some times I ... (289 words

I'm too shy to start up a conversation. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, i need some help, i reli like my next door neighbour, but i hardly ever talk to him and when i do its a simple hello, what can i do to get him talk to me properly, im too shy to go up to him and just start having a random conversation ... (57 words

I freeze up when I'm near him. How can I get more confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy a lot, but go stupidly quiet when im around him, i physically cannot speak, i freeze up. How can i get some confidence? any help would be great. xxx... (37 words

The thought of him keeps haunting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - Even though I'm broken up with my fiance I was just wondering why he didn't share more of his past with me. He never showed me pictures of his mom who died when he was 18, or any pictures for that matter. He said it was because I constantly broke up with him (because he was ... (122 words

Was I emotionally abusive too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - Was I emotionally abusive too? I recently broke up with my fiance because he was emotionally abusive. I tried to break up with him numerous times, but failed. I would pack, and sometimes even leave, but always returned out of guilt. I'm not going back this time, but I just want ... (154 words

I'm not sure I could spend the rest of my life with him. How can I get to the bottom of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I need your help. My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that texted me quite a few times after the split and ... (309 words

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, my step father was just getting ... (243 words

It's one rule for him and another for me. Are his double standards acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we were best friends before that. When we first got together my b/f had lost his job of 8yrs and was in a real slump (emotionally at first, then financially). Me being the person I am tried to be there for him, as his ... (539 words

My sensei is hitting on me! What do I say to him? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am female, I'm 28. I take martial arts classes. Over the past few months I've been at the dojo/school...I've noticed that my sensei/instructor has been hitting on me more and more as time progresses. He will do things like: - Put his arm around my shoulder - Put ... (322 words

My first serious relationship ended yesterday! I can't stop thinking about him or what he's doing - I'm going crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday, I got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 months. It doesn't sound like a long time at all, but I fell in love with him so quickly. It was a long distance relationship and he was depressed because we didn't see enough of each other. So he said anyway. Its come to the poin... (150 words

My partner is an environmentalist and I'm tired of being getting lectured and reprimanded! I feel like a child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is French and I'm American. We do very well together excepting one thing. I have many bad habits and I'm very bad at being an environmentalist (in which he is). He tells me what I ought to be doing and for the most part he is usually right. BUT, I still like to ... (307 words

21, if I can't have her, It doesn't seem like I can have anyone. How can I painlessly move on from my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi I've just turned 21, and basically, I HATE love. The only girl I've ever loved for over 2 years left me to go to university. My friends have told me to move on, but the thought of moving on really hurts. I wanted the only girl I've ever loved to be the ONLY girl I'd ev... (104 words

How do you take your mind off a friend you have very deep feelings for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is there any easyier way to get you mind off of a guy you have really really deep feelings for?? Would another guy make it better? I have tried that but maybe i handled it in a wrong way... Every time i go and hang out with one of my guy friends and they do something James(... (101 words

23 year old virgin. I'm very shy and could use some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 23 years old student who never dated. I'm virgin!!! My penis size is 5 1/4 inches, this is not the issue. I don't care about my size, iknow i can do it best...My problem is i'm shy i didn't used to mingle with girls. Do you believe that my whole life i had male friends, ... (516 words

Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (? age 26-29 - Hey Guys... Im Worried My Boyfriend Is Cheeting On Me... We Have Been Going out about 2 Years... I Had Sex With Him About 3 Weeks Ago And Ever Since He Pays Hardly Any Attention To Me He Just Says He's Busy All The Time. I Have Seen Him Several Ocasions With Different ... (87 words

12, I haven't had a period in 5 months and worry I could be pregnant. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (? age 26-29 - Hey Guys. I Hope You Can Help Me. I Am 12 And Im Gunna Turn 13 In Januaryy... I Started My Periods About 2 Years Ago...... But I Am Scared i Am Pregnant As I Had Sex About 5 Monthes Ago And I Havent Had A Period Since... I Have Tried Pregnancey Tests Over And Over again But ... (78 words

Is it ok for your boyfriend to be smaller than you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - is it ok for your boyfriend to be smaller than you?... (11 words

Can my 16 year old son move out of our home without parental consent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

19 October 2007 (? - I need help so bad. I live in Canada. My 16 year old son got a job this summer and has become friends with a few questionable people, from this fast food place thay all work at. One of them is a 22 year old who has weekend parties (booze for certain, uncertain about drugs) ... (361 words

How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for one of the girls they had been ... (203 words

I feel he should be more committed and that he treats me poorly but my shouting and crying don't seem to be working. How do I spend more time with him without feeling I'm forcing him to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I've been seeing a guy on and off for the last nine years ... a long old time. We got together when we were still at school, I'm 25 now. After an 8 month break we got back together in June 07. In the past we have both hurt each other - we have both cheated. But don... (406 words

I'm feeling tied down by my serious relationship - but I don't want to break up! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Dear cupid.. Before I got together with my current girlfriend, I wasn't ready to get involved in a serious relationship. My life was in a mess and I promised myself that I wouldnt get involved with anyone until I had sorted things out. I had made the mistake before of thinki... (279 words

How do I have him back without feeling stupid if he refuses the reconciliation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i recently split with my boyfriend over some thin stupid really but things were said and now i want him back i dont no how to do this without lookin stupid if he knocks me back... (37 words

I have a crush on my friend's flatmate, but I know we can only ever be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi i have a problem. I have a crush on my friends flatmate. I was over her's one evening and we just got talking about travelling and stuff and we got on quite well. she was really kind to me and I respect her. I have just came out of a relationship and i talked to her about it ... (154 words

Professor crush.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I believe I have fallen in love with a professor. I have been attending community college for almost 2 years now and everytime I see this professor ... I just get really goofy..I saw him this morning when I was going to make up and exam..he alway's happen's to be around when I ... (182 words

I can't understand how he can be happy in this marriage knowing well I love another man who I'm unable to have any contact with. Or should I just be content with what I have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - I'm married to a really nice man, my best friend really, since 1996. For him it's always been real love but I've foregone the passion as I never thought it was that important, but as the years went on I found it more and more difficult to meet my husband's intimacy needs, and ... (495 words

How do I confront her about her low sex drive? If you want to have sex, wouldn't you find a way, regardless of how tired and stressed you were?? Also she doesn't seem to appreciate me: I cook, clean, pay bills...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 October 2007 (M - So I've been with my fiancee a total of 10 months now. We got engaged about 1 month ago. Things with her are great, except for our sex life. To give you some background, I'm 31, she's 25. She's had quite a "colorful" past, and many lovers (some would have said she was ins... (908 words

This boys says he doesn't have anyone special in his life to make him feel happy but he won't go out because of what happened with the girls he dated. Should I investigate? What do I do? I like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Should I compete with her...? My friend and I are still at it. Fighting over the same boy. We were talking over myspace and he sent me an email saying he dont have any1 special in his life to make him happy well i try to ask him out(cause he likes me and and i like... (111 words

This are his excuses. Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - its melba again. The issue is that he said that the problem is not me, that he has problems and wanted to solve them alone as some of them the are so bad that i would think the worst of him. He said that he does not know whats happening to him, as when he is with me is happy ... (88 words

Was I being totally selfish and clingy and was it too much to ask of him to hold me a few minutes? He said he was tired from work and didn't feel like it; I felt rejected.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hey all, I am in a bit of a dilema, Me and my fiance' have been together for 2 and half years. We met on the computer and a little over a year later I moved to be with him. About a month and half ago I found out he had a one night stand with his ex a few months ago. He was ... (541 words

He's not entirely sure he 'got out' in time. I'm so worried! How reliable is the withdrawal method?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, straight to the point here. I had unprotected sex recently, mid cycle. My partner and i were using the withdrawel method, we have done this before, however, afterwards he was feeling a bit panoid, leading me now to be paranoid, he's not entirely sure he 'got out' in tim... (87 words

How many dates should I have with him before we sleep together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age - First date with recent divorcee is imminent. What I want to know is how many dates should I have with him before I sleep with him? I'm separated, and haven't slept with anyone except my husband of 20 years!... (41 words

I'm married, but thinking of an ex! I'm so confused and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I seem to be in a lot of confusion...i have been married for 3 years now. i also have a son of 2 years with my husband. My problem is that my past relationships seem to haunt me terribly in the sense that i would love to revive them...my husband loves me deeply ... (126 words

All of the pregnancy tests were negative - including the one performed at the doctor - but I still have no period!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I posted a question before asking if there was a chance i was pregnant, lots of people gave me different answers saying yes u could be and others sayin no.Well i have done 2 pregnancy tests since then in a 1 week with 3 days apart and have also been to the doctors and they came ... (119 words

While on a date, how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey. I just have a question quickly, if you're on a date how do you know if the girl wants to kiss you? thanks Anonymous... (31 words

My bf's constant calling is driving me crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes to spend hours on the phone everyday he phones me about 20 times a day, this is driving me mad and I don't want to spend all the time on the phone he thinks it's because I don't want to be with him anymore which isn't the case it's just I want time to myself, ... (98 words

How can he say he loves me and I'm his soulmate but still leave me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, I've been split up with my bf for 3 months now and it seems to be gettin harder. I love him so much and miss him more everyday no matter what i do i can't seem to move on . He told me that we needed to sort our heads out and he would love things to be different but ye... (103 words

Should I go to more chat meets??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I was chatting in an chat room for a long time, sometimes these people would have meets (get-togethers). I never wanted to go to one, but last Friday I got invited and thought I'd go just to see what they were like. I stood around waiting (not knowing who anybody was really) ... (182 words

She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

19 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?... (38 words

Boyfriend is always intruding into who I see and why. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. and I hate it when he tells me a story and leave out (the important parts) but when his friends are over he tells them the real thing. Also I don't like it when he gets to stop and talk to females he use to work with, or met threw ... (194 words

He's terrible in bed, how do I tell him without hurting his feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met a man that I absolutely adore. We've been dating now for about three months and it's been great between us. Last week, we were intimate for the first time. I know that he doesn't have a lot of experience in this department, but he's very sensual outside the bedroom,... (219 words

I haven't started my period yet - could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi i dont know if i am pregnant because i havent started my period i start on the 11th my period dont come late . i had my period last month on the 11th then 2 weeks later i start bleeding again but light just for 2 days..im start getting tired more and my nipple hurt when you... (61 words

I played matchmaker but now it's all gone wrong. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'll start at the beginning.... My friend (Becca) had an intense crush on a guy (Ryan)beginning last October. She's incredibly shy, so I decided I'd help. I arranged a time for them to meet. The more these occured the more Ryan and I talked. And The more she talked about hi... (303 words

Who do I choose, my ex-boyfriend or my current boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. We were in love, it just happened to be at the wrong time for him. So he ended it with me. A little more than a week ago, I started dating my current boyfriend. He is everything I have been looking for in a man and he treats me ... (174 words

Is he playing hard to get, or does he just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have now become friends with my ex. We havent talked in a few years but i have never fell out of love with him. I initiated contact with him just recently because I want him back. i didnt expect him to contact me back but he did and now were friends again. He came over my ... (130 words

I'm getting board with my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi... need some advice, im married 4 almost 7 years with 1 kid. since i got married me and my husband were staying together, we work on the same company,..lately, i was so bored with our relationship..our daily activities were only house-office-house-office..there are times ... (296 words

I love him when I don't see him, When I see him, it makes me question if he's the one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - My boyfriend and I are in a distant relationship. We only see each other on the weekend. We talk on the phone almost every night. It has been like this for 2 years and our relationship is very steady. I used to love spending time with my boyfriend during the weekend. We will ... (219 words

How do I please him before I give it a go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - I recently met someone very special, he is a Brit, I am American, and I am very, very excited to have sex with him for the first time. But, I am 31 years old, and I have never been with an uncircumsized man before. He knows that, and I think it makes him a bit nervous that I ... (230 words

I'm scared, what's going on, please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Im really scared so please help! My boyfriend and I (19 and 21) rarely see each other he is in Iraq. He came home in August 31, and we had sex. My period is always off last time that i had it was july 25th and i got it ther day we had sex. We are always careful and we used ... (122 words

How do I get him off my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - i slept with a friends live in crush ex boyfriend....my friend found out and she hates me..i mean they really never went out before...well its been almost a year and i cant get this guy off my mind...i know i shouldnt bother but its bad.how do i get him out of my mind... (53 words

Can I be pregnant and have a light period monthly?

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19 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is it possible to be pregnant but still have a light period monthly ? Me and my boyfriend had been trying for a baby 4 months ago, until I got into college and changed my mind. I also got my period so I wasnt pregnant. Now, I have put on some weight, and its noticeable aroun... (119 words

He gave me hope we'd get back together.

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19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - hay guys! my heads in bits at the mo and my hearts shattered i just dont know what to do? im 22 ive had my fair share of heart ache and i really thougth this time was the real deal u no! id been going out with this guy for just over a year, we were perfect together, ... (304 words

All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder

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19 October 2007 (F - All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder but i really want to change it now but i dont know how. Its a lot better than it used to be. I'm 22 now and still incredibly shy and quiet around new people and always worrying what they think but it used to be so bad ... (381 words

I want to tell her about us, but he'll be mad.

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19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey I'm a 19 yr old female with a dilemma! I have this friend, we have been best friends for about 7 years. He's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years, one that I helped him to get- when he saw her he basically fell in love and said he wanted to marry her but he didn't know how... (441 words

How do I not scare this woman off?

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19 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - Okay so heres the deal, Ive never really been a dater. Ive always been the type of guy who would pick up some easy company for the night(I know i a scum bucket) Ive been in one major relationship my whole life and that was for about 1 year before it came to a screeching halt. ... (242 words

He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!

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19 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by this comment!!!! I mean I u... (138 words

Is this love, or is this friends with benefits?

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19 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I was separated and became involved with someone who was a friend. She spent alot of time with me (she was going thru the same thing) and was very affectionate. It seemed like we had something very good happening to both of us and others around us noticed it. However, it ... (198 words

Getting a new friendly, sexy girlfriend feels like it's a long time away. Am I overreating?

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19 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey Aunts/Uncles. I'm a 19 year old guy. I think I'm fairly attractive (Not very, but fairly), and have a good personality. I've only ever had one girlfriend. We were together for just under 2 years and ended up parting ways because she thought we were getting too seri... (193 words

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