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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My new gf's not ready for commitment, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 2 months. I really like her, but this is her 1st real relationship and i dont think she's quite sure what being with someone is all about.. I go to the same school as her, and see her for only about an hour a day, if im luc... (172 words)

My parents will laugh and make jokes at me if I tell them about my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with this girl for about a month and I want to tell my parent but if i do, they will laugh and make jokes! I realy want them to know what happens in my life but it feels like I'm living two lives. I don't know what to do. ... (56 words)

Should I give up all together, or take a very long break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people i have been badly hurt from mostly all of my relationships and well now i'm wondering if i should just give up altogether or take a very very long break because i'm just to scared to let another man into my life. plus know i keep getting asked out people but i say no ... (103 words)

A few weeks ago my boyfriend confided in me that he drinks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago my boyfriend confided in me that he drinks. He didn't tell me before b/c he was afraid of how I'd react. I'd told him I didn't like people that bragged about drinking. I went to a halloween party my friend was having at her house yesterday. My boyfriend is fri... (245 words)

Doctors haven't helped... HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i've had this problem for about a month now. I need to pee every 5 minutes! at firt i thought it was cystitis, so i went to the doctors an altho they cudnt see any clear signs that it was cystitis they treated me for it. However after finishing the course i still had it, so... (185 words)

Umm ... was it sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends and i were fooling around the other night. it started as just humping, i had no underwear on, but he had boxers on. Then he took them off. we did the same humping motion, and his penis touched my vagina, an went in, but i dont know if we had intercourse. I had no ... (72 words)

I feel like an addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupids, Why cant I just let go! Even through my ex walked all over my heart and totally took my feelings for granted I still think about her all the time and am fighting the urge to pick up the phone and call her! I have the possibility of visiting her in a couple of d... (214 words)

I've got a new guy, but he doesn't want children, would this be best for me anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I am incredibly fearful of rejection in a relationship after my last partner of 8 1/2 years ended the relationship suddenly by email and then cut himself off more or less completely from me. The event triggered bipolar disorder in me, which both my parents suffer ... (280 words)

How can I get to know him more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy, we are not going out yet. I think he might like me but he wont admit it. What can i do to get to know him more or him to ask me out... (37 words)

Is he playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a guy casually since January of this year. We're not exclusive. We hang out in the same social circle. He says he doesn't want anyone to know we're dating, because I once dated someone else in the same group of friends and he ... (301 words)

Lack of communication is hurting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Been going out with this girl for a few months now. Everything was great for the first few weeks, but college has kinda taken over our lives. It has become harder and harder to see each other, so I text her once a day just to check in. Sometimes, when I don't get a text back, I ... (308 words)

Is it worth the trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind have been together about 4 months he's in the army and so doesnt live at home. We both really like eachother but we only ever get to see eachother once a week maximum. Sometimes i think that being upset about not seeing him is worse then how good it feels ... (92 words)

My boyfriend is moving away, I'm staying put, is this the end for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh, I'm desperate! My boyfriend and I have been "together" for almost 9 months now. He decided against coming to school in the town I live, and is interviewing for jobs in his own country- and that's far away! He always told me that he didn't want to stay there, and now he ... (193 words)

My self-consciousness in interfering with my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex. i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex. Theres a part of me im no... (180 words)

Now that roommate and I live separately, time to try a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a difficult time interpreting a friends' actions. She and I lived together for some time and before I moved out for law school we had become particularly close/flirtatious. I had never thought it was a good idea to pursue anything while we lived together but aft... (383 words)

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his life. he works one day a ... (610 words)

Could this be a mommy complex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still not turn him on if I did not ... (177 words)

Why would someone choose to live like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am at my wit's end. My roommate/ex-boyfriend has had terrible hygiene for as long as I can remember. He has not showered in over two months. Many people cannot fathom going that long without a shower, but I am not exaggerating when I say it has been two months. He also ... (209 words)

Caught in a Love Triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met 2 guys in the same week , didnt mean to , i really liked both , then one wanted to be more serious and become a couple , so i had choose so choose him , just before this , i didnt tell the other guy about him , i just kept him sweet , but we fell out , meanwhile me and my ... (222 words)

How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was 17 when I fell in love for the first time. I know people will read this and think that 17 is too young to be in love but I'm 23 now and I know without a doubt that there was love between us and I've never been able to recreate those feelings. We broke up just a few days ... (323 words)

My boyfriend never invites me to parties... Should I be worried or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 20 yr old female. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Although I know it's normal for the dynamic of a relationship to change over time, I just can't seem to shake the feeling of inevitable doom. Around September, my boyfriend started getting ... (290 words)

I still love my "sort of" current boyfriend, but I'm not sure if our time is over... I'm so ashamed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question I feel very ashamed about. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted over a couple years. We've been through a lot together, including almost breaking up several times, and breaking up once that lasted a week - overall though, we've worked through ... (215 words)

How can I be more aggressive in a teen relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I be more aggressive in a teen relationship? She says she wants the kind of guy that "throw her up againest a wall".... (26 words)

Do I have a Daddy Complex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i have a daddy complex and its really worrying me cos i don't know my dad, and now i feel attracted to older men when i was at school i fancied my teachers and now i'm at work i fancy my managers! so is it an authority figure thing or something similar??... (54 words)

How do I bring up this subject to him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP!!! i divorced my husband 3 years ago because it wasn't working out, we had been together since we were at school and always stayed in touch. Recently we have started seeing more of each other as friends but things are getting very close. We slept together the other night ... (99 words)

I hid my son from him, and when he found out he treated me badly and was uncompassionate towards me. How could he??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I was seeing this guy for over 2 a months.He was saying how I was the girl for him and how much he realy liked me.There was something I kept from him and that was that I had a son. I was quiet lonely before I met him and I wanted the feeling of been in a relation... (140 words)

Does he love me, or does he just have separation anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone again and is all paranoid tha... (193 words)

How can they make you fall in love, break up and pretend they never cared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Man! i keep thinking about this guy...i cant get over him..we went out for nine months and then he started changing..he was treating me like crap and putting no effort into the relationship...we eventually broke up im ajunior in high school n we go to the same school..... (180 words)

I love my aunt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very fond of my step-aunt who is 18 years older than me and connect with her intellectually, emotionally and perhaps even spiritually. She has been married for a long time but we have fallen deeply in love with each other and want to marry eachother. One the one hand, I ... (103 words)

How do I get over my high school boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im in high school..and i am well aware that high school relationships dont last but you see this guy was different..we dated 4 nine months and at first he reallly showed me he loved me..then he just stopped. he was always chossing his freinds over me and we NEVER spend ... (100 words)

She says she likes me as a friend, but she's not continuing that relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this girl who is a orpan,adopted by a holland couple when she was a yr old.She was adopted from bombay(india).She had come to India for around 14 dayz.When we had gone out for the 1st time we talked a lot about our cultures and stuff like that.I knew she was interest... (178 words)

We've been going through a hard time, how to work through this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 6 1/2 years. Just a few days ago, we had been out drinking and met from friends out who had some of there friends with them. We then all came back to our house and had more drinks and etc. I went to bed because I was drunk and sleepy. My partner ... (231 words)

I still have strong feelings for him, but don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email from him in july..asking how i wa... (332 words)

How can I find the right guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. well, it's been like 2 1/2 years since i had a relationship. I want to get back out there. I am ready, it's just, with the guys i've liked, it never works out. Like 2 summers ago, one guy was too far away, this summer, i lost interest in him after a while, th... (205 words)

How can I help my friend get together with her crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is in depression and needs help. I am the ONLY person that knows all of her secrets. We both struggle with some of the same problems, and this is why we are so close. She has a crush on this guy in my class, J, and wants to go out with him. I told her I will try to ... (82 words)

I'm pregnant but he thinks I'm kidding!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for a month. we got on really well at first and i practically moved in. after a while he saw and contacted me less and we broke up. but i missed my perod, took a test and it was positive.i tried to get in contact with him to tell him, but he woul... (249 words)

My girl is acting weird. Does she want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl is acting funny. Last night on the phone I tried to fix our relationship problem, but she said she was "too tired" to keep talking. I called her back shortly after words, because my mom unplugged the phone because we went over the hour time limit. She did not at all ... (394 words)

How do I tone-up my arms and chest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya i am a female and i want to tone up my arms and chest because my chest is uneven.... do you no ways i could do this?... (28 words)

My husband now wants me to obey him, as head of the household. We cannot agree on this particular issue.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I hope you can help me i'm at the end of my tether. I have been married very happily for 16 years. Recently my husband and I have been discussing how best to talk to our teenage daughter about sex. She already has a little knowledge learnt at school. Weve not yet ... (470 words)

He likes sex with me but does not want to marry me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i badly love a guy. according to him he is also loves me. he is working in a placement services. so he called me for a job in janubry but after that we didn't have any contact. in may he was again calling me for a job. after that we was talking on phone in a week slowly slowly ... (354 words)

I know I've got to get over him - but how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get over someone you know you have to be over? My ex and I have been trying for over a year now. I need to realize it's not going to work and give up. Any suggestions? Help!... (44 words)

How do I maintain a decent erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age - Hi I am a 49 year old and have been married for 27 years. lately i have been having an issues getting hard. my wife loves sex and loves forplay. this can last upto 30 mins and is very open. during this time my penis only gets semie hard, unless i get my wife to talk dirty or... (151 words)

My boyfriend is an environmental nut - how can I make my own decisions about my lifestyle without annoying him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a French environmentalist and I'm american. Lately I've been asking myself the question if my relationship is worth the compromise I have to do. Basically, I'm not as much as an environmentalist as he is and when it comes to compromise, I'm the one doing it. He ... (327 words)

We have oral sex but she doesn't want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend broke up with me 1month ago.she say's she is not happy and I am not the one. we have been talking on the phone 3 times a week. We decided to go out we went shopping then dinner then to my house we had oral sex. But she still says she dosn't want a ... (79 words)

I am so depressed when I'm not with him - please help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend ryan are 15 and we have been on and off goin out with each other for about two and a half years. I have tried going out with other lads but i end up finishing with them because i like ryan too much. Just recently i went back out with him just over a week... (132 words)

I desperately want her back - what do I need to do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my gf decided to end our 4 yr relationship about 5 weeks ago. it was a complete shock for me. things were not going that well for past month or so. but then she was acting normal before the break up. i wanted to spend weekend with her to get things to normalcy. but her frie... (753 words)

I need my ex - but my boyfriend can't cope with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya i wrote up afew days back about the fact that my bf did not like me being friends with my ex husband although i was clean about it from the start and he was ok now he's changed. This is the link to my last question: ... (737 words)

He's left me in the lurch - what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend friends convinced him that i've been cheating on him he has been suspicious ever since and accused me of many things that I wasn't doing at all. i never cheated on my boyfriend but he doesn't belive me. i'm now 7 weeks pregnant he left me and now has a new girlfrie... (161 words)

Suggestions: What would you do with your ex’s stuff? (in order to let go)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - After asking for answer and help on a few websites. I reach the conclusion that I have to ditch all my ex’s stuff in order to let go. Also, not to mention my father is coming to London to stay with me. I don’t want my dad seeing all the men stuff in my house – that’s going t... (216 words)

I moved to a friend's house so that my ex who abused me wouldn't find me. Now my friend is acting controlling, how to I save our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (?) - i dont know where to start with my problem i was abused by my partner six weeks ago and the police were called. i havent seen my ex partner since that day and dont intend to again the problem is i was scared to be on my own and moved out to a male friends house for a few days ... (364 words)

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told him. Obviously we had a ... (238 words)

Our only obstacle is that she doesn't want to hurt her parents with an intercaste marriage. What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) age 41-50 - hi i m 27 male and belong to an orthodox indian family and i m madly in love with a girl of different caste who is 21 n studying. we are in this relationship for the past 1 year and she loves me truely as well . but we got seperated almost 5 times in past 1 yr due to her lack ... (131 words)

Is there any need to get married over co-habiting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Whats are your views on marriage vs cohabitation. Is there any need to get married? Is marriage putting your money where your mouth is or am I just old fashioned? Thanks... (40 words)

Everywhere we go there are girls who instantly like him and try to flirt with him even though I'm there, this upsets me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been having a relationship for two years, and I find myself in a very difficult position. My boyfriend, who is not only good looking but smart and charismatic is being stalked by all these ex-girlfriends, who leave him flowers on the car and ribbons.... (107 words)

My crush has a gf, who I think doesn't deserves him! Should I forget him or wait?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - MY friend has a question, and doens't have an acconnt, soo she is using mine: So i like a Guy, He's everything that i've always wanted in a guy, hes Sweet, Funny, Outgoing, fun, and just someone to talk to, hes my One of my bestfriends. we've came Very close, since the... (252 words)

Have I missed anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes. When I first saw him at the beginning of the semester I thought he was really cute and had a great personality. A few weeks ago I was not going to be in class so I asked him if I gave him my number can he let me know if I miss anything. ... (208 words)

I can't get divorced because of religious/ culteral reasons.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years. I have 2 children, both teenagers.My husband is a workaholic, we rarely spend time with each other. Since the birth of our last child in 1993 our sex life has dwindle to almost nothing. If we do have sex, i usually initiate it and i need to ... (234 words)

She doesn't want to be touched or kissed by me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and starting dating a girl this past summer. She had recently ended a 2 year relationship. We would see each other everyday and had an awesome time together. We both knew that she was starting grad school this semester and I would still be an undergrad but we wanted to ... (235 words)

Husband acting strange about escourt wife's activities.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am working in an in-call escort service and i am married. i love my hubbie and we have a pretty good sex life, but he is getting older and wants sex less frequently. but that is no problem for me, since as an escort i am getting all the sex i want and more. i took up ... (611 words)

I would move out if I could afford it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling really angry towards my mum at the moment and I don't know what to do about it. Mum and Dad have just returned from holiday, but I feel really evil because I kept thinking how peaceful it was when they were away. The see the thing is she nags me constantly ... (395 words)

She has long term sex issues, advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I am 33 years old, married to my schooldays sweetheart since 1998, with 2 boys, aged 4 and 7. Over the last year or so, our sex life has dwindled away to pretty much zero. My wife is almost always real tired at nights, falls asleep around 10pm or thereabouts. ... (374 words)

How to make her comfortable in a romantic way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I love a girl. She is my friend for years and we went out as friends but we only talk general stuff.. and now she is saying its not gona work because we only talk general stuff.. She said we can try it but no hopes.. so I don't know what I need to do.. she do know how much... (80 words)

Sometimes it seems she likes me, other times she says we're friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in love with this girl for 8 years. I didnt do anything for the first 4 years becoz we are friends. I told her i like her 4 years ago. she wanted to 'give it a try'. Before we could go on a date she 'broke up' with me. She then had another boyfriend this year. Shes ... (115 words)

I think he sees me more as a friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy when i split with my ex. i didnt fancy him to start with but when i did fall for him it was too late he had met someone else so moved on and met someone else too. a year went on and on the same day my bf and his gf left us (not for each other), we have got back in ... (116 words)

I'm not thinking streight. Is true love real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm on the edge, i've had it with relationships i've been sulking about the same girl for about 2 years can't get over her! i can't move on i'm trying my hardest to find a new girlfriend but it seems like im the only one at school whos alone evryone has paried up except m... (118 words)