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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have never felt this needy before!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age - About 15 months ago I met a women on eHarmony and in short fell in love and moved from California to Colorado Springs, in the process I was very happy I had left where I came from to start my new wonderful life. I know we jumped into the relationship very fast. The long dis... (256 words)

Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, I do think that monogamy is a ... (397 words)

Why am I crying? What is wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know whats wrong with me,i am crying for no reason,and when i get asked why i am crying i don't know the answer whats wrong with me? xxx... (32 words)

Is he cheating? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think i should leave my b/f of 4 yrs and father to my son? A couple of times now i have found phone numbers which turns out to be other women. The first time i forgave him and now its happened again. Hes saying he hasnt done anything with these women and they both ha... (89 words)

He loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for three months,and he told me he loves me, but i really really like him but i don't properly love him, but i said i love him back anyway. Since then he's told me he loves me three times and now i don't know what to do! Please help!... (56 words)

I'm too nervous to talk to my crush. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - There's this girl and i really like her! When i see her i really want to talk to her but then i finally get to her and i get really nervous and don't know what to say. all i get to say is Hi and thats it and walk off! I was going to ask her out the other day but i was too ... (69 words)

Can I trust my GF, knowing her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... I really need help...my gf had alot of past relationships...ond in one of them..she cheated on that guy..she only told me today..now i cant trust her..because i can never be sure that she wont cheat on me..its making me really sad im not lookin for people t... (92 words)

How can sex be less painful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, is there anyway of making sex less painful the first time? Im 16 and in a new relationship, we wanted to sleep together the other day but i told him to stop because the pain was awful. Im scared i'll never be able to sleep with anyone! Any tips?... (60 words)

How do I help my friend in this family problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, im 15 but it really doesnt matter about my age im just in need of a little help you see my mate who i dearly love (as a mate) is hurting really bad because a few weeks ago her mum confronted her and her family (dad and brother)that she had an afaire my friend was ... (115 words)

Unsure Of My Sexuality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about my sexuality. I am a girl that checks out other females. I messed around with some including having sex with them, but this girl wants a relationship with me. It feels akward. I don't know how to explain but, shes cute but, I don't know. It feels ... (65 words)

Can someone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone help? I am female in a relationship of 1 1/2 and a man who lives with me, his family hate me I don't know why, I have tried so hard with them, his sister was a very close friend of mine for 3 years until we met and started dating, that very day she all of a sudden ... (588 words)

I have just finished a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age - I have just finished a relationship where my ex b/f and I broke up due to someone saying he didn't want to be with me anymore. He said he thought it was best but denied ever saying he wanted this. After a good bit of time, nearly two months he acted more like we were still ... (273 words)

I'm really confused, does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, before, I said about me being mean to a guy that used to be in my class, but I was also wondering about this guy through out all these years. He's been nice but then in year 5 and 6 he started being mean and ignored me and told me to get lost. But then he used to look at me ... (111 words)

What is she doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada ... (204 words)

Do I break my heart for him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man, years ago, when I was just a kid, if you call 17 a kid, we were flirtatious, mostly innocent....I got my heart wrapped up in him, he was my fantasy, the knight in shining armor on a beautiful white horse. In reality, he was twice my age, married, and just a really ... (432 words)

Nipple erection problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi....me and my bf of 2 years have a VERY HEALTHY sex life lots of variety and fun. we also talk about everything but something that is really getting me down is the fact that I cant get his nipples to get hard?!! when its cold they erect but some how I cant make them? Iv tried ... (74 words)

He's been planning this "suprise" for two months. He's rubbish at suprises! Will this come between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - can my man hating his job and keeping a surpise from me for 2 more months be affecting our relationship ? he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it for months already !!... (38 words)

Should I move to the big city to get over my heartbreak??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

- This may be a bit long-winded but I would really appreciate some good advice. I live in a very small town - everyone knows everyone. I used to live with my friends but because the landlord wanted to sell the property we all had to move out. Now I live back at home with my paren... (297 words)

What are the relationship 'bases'?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the bases in relationships?? x... (9 words)

I don't find traditionaly beautiful women attractive. Whats so wrong with that?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a college student in a long term relationship with a beautiful girl... we've been together for around 4 years now. I would like some feedback for a situation that so far I have found unique to me. I have had other girlfriends before her but she is the first that I am ... (449 words)

My last 2 periods have been late. Does that mean I am pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F) - we have always used condoms but for the last 2 of my periods i have been late by five days or more, does this mean im pregnant? im really worried and am meant to be going on the pill when my next period starts but by taking the pill would is affect my results if i took a ... (60 words)

I am 17 and pregnant

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, My name is Fiona and I am seventeen years old and I recently found out that I am pregnant. I am very confused and I really don’t know what to do and I still haven’t told anyone. Please help! I thought that you might like to k... (263 words)

I am mean to this guy and keep wanting to see his schoolwork. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 13 and very lately the guy who i use to sit next to every lesson and year cause we were put in register order i keep being mean to him and want to see his work for example art we were doing painting out of books and i was really desperate to see his and i like being ... (97 words)

My friend says she had sex, but she is only 13. Do I believe her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i trust my friend? well u see my best mate had this bf who was like 3 yrs older than her and all she eva did was tlk bout him and it really bugged me and my other friends. n e way she was acting all weired at school and when i ask her wots up she wouldnt tell me and was ... (148 words)

I am on the threshold of filing for divorce from my husband of 20 years

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

- Are there other 40-something women out there who have fallen out of love with their long-term men, filed for divorced, or moved on to someone else, only to repeat the same pattern of boredom or apathy in the next relationship? I am on the threshold of filing for divorce from ... (159 words)

He is so damaged from a past relationship. Should I give it one more try or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy on and off for a year. He is wonderful and caring. The only problem is he does not trust me and we are always arguing. He was in a terrible relationship and is pessimistic about love. He thinks I am going to do the things she has done and his ... (114 words)

An old friend now lives close by and wants to get to know me again and to meet his friends. But he has changed and I don't think I want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - basically when i was little at my school i became really close friends with a boy who really annoyed me but he's my friend so it was ok. we have left school to go to secondary and i havent seen him in 2-3 years but now ive moved house and he lives on the nxt road. he isnt ... (120 words)

I broke up with my ex to date someone else, but now I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 years old...and i think i love this guy...we wer in the same school and we dated for almost 2 years..i was quite deeply in love with him..so was he but i couldnt ever express it very well..but i was really happy with him...but thn suddenly i started likin one of my other ... (246 words)

What if my saddness pushed her right into the arms of this new guy? How do I pry her back out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I find myself in quite the dilemma of the heartaching kind as i write this. Here's the back story... I fell in love with a girl and she with me. she's everything i ever wanted and much more. we connected right away in every way imaginable and within a ... (554 words)

How can I help my husband get over me? I don't want him to suffer so much

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - O.K. this may sound ridiculous, but does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can get my husband to move on without me? I have left him because he's an alcoholic and he's been abusive. He says he wants me back in his life and he can't live without me, blah blah blah blah, ... (191 words)

My long distance boyfriend is back with his ex. Do you think he still has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok..So here's my story... I have been in an online relationship for about 2 months now. We live a few states away from eachother. We got to a point where we would talk everyday on the phone for hours or text eachother. We would tell eachother how much we loved and cared for one ... (388 words)

I hit it off with someone online and later asked her out. Now she's being evasive. Do I let it go or ask where I stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

- About four weeks ago I met someone online and we immediately hit it off. She was beautiful in her photos, fascinating to talk to and we have quite a lot in common. We chatted for about an hour, batting responses back and forth and she said it was good to have someone ... (342 words)

We have been married for six months, but I am still a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married 6 months now and still vergin i need help? i am married after a story a nice story of love yes me and my hubsna ddecide to not made sex untill we marry cos i was vergine. our first night together he try but he get scared and comfused thinking he gonna hurt me and h... (204 words)

I really like a 'bad boy' , but Mom does not approve

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really hoping that you all can help me! Please! I am caught in the middle, You see what is happening is that I am 21, Single, no children and currently living with my parents, but I pay the Bills and I just recently started talking to a guy from my hometown and here he ... (342 words)

This man left me because he made another girl pregant. After months he emails saying they lost the pregnancy. He knows I want him back. Should I go back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A man i was madly in love with left me a few months ago because he made another girl pregnant. I still am not over it and cry everyday asking why? He did leave me and said he would give it a try with this girl because he did have feelings for her and also for the baby to have ... (137 words)

Can our relationship survive long-distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - 18, and missing my girlfriend. She had to move away to university and broke up with me a short time before she went. I loved her with all my heart, and she made my world so full. She was my first love and we did everything together; walks, hours of chatting, going places tog... (191 words)

Why can I not stand to be around her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I fight with my wife constantly. I realize that right now we are under alot of stress with me working and being in law school and her being pregnant, but I am just sick of her. I'm glad I work nights and she works days and rarely see her because when I do all we do is argue. I ... (185 words)

What is my new wife doing and why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i am 36 years old and have been married since may 07, my wife and i have been together for 4 1/2 years of which we have had some fantastic moments.she was divorced from her 1st husband back in 2006 and we have now bought a lovely home and are moving forward with our lifes- i ... (253 words)

I told him I was falling in love and he said I didn't have to tell him, why? We stopped contact because of the distance and we both have partners now. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was having sex with a guy, we both have partners and have not seen each other for 2 years now, but I told him that "I was falling in love with him" and he said "you didnt have to tell me that" the thing is I dont know what he meant, instead of me asking what he meant by it, I ... (111 words)

Why am I changing my mind just as I've finally got everything I ever wanted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with an old school friend 2 years ago and, after becoming friends all over again and getting to know each other properly, he finally noticed me earlier on this year and we began dating. Over the course of 6 months or so, he broke up with me constantly, stating ... (396 words)

I am obsessed and confused with my younger love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I have been together for one year now. I'm much older than he is, he's in his twenties, and I'm 41. A month ago I found out that he has cheated on me twice, I found out after the second affair. He says that he loves me but that the age difference is the problem. He ... (480 words)

Why does he need so much "space", now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a tricky situation and feel tired of going to friends about it, I need opinions and input from people outside the situation. I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years. About five of them were long distance, him in Sweden, me in the states. We have been liv... (380 words)

Why shouldn't I have a baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november and he would really like a ... (96 words)

How will I know that he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How will I know that my boyfriend really loves me?... (10 words)

I'm having difficulty finding a boyfriend... where should I look?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this will sound like a really stupid question, but I'm really having difficulty finding a boyfriend. I've been single for over a year, and haven't even met any potential boyfriends in that time! I get really lonely as all my friends have guys all the time and I'm alwa... (67 words)

I'm wondering who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - can you change the person you are?i feel like im not a very nice person. im so selfish sometimes, even my mum says iv got a hard edge.i seem to use people for what i can get.i really dont mean to!!!i know this sounds a bit deep but im 19 and dont think iv 'found who i am' ... (105 words)

I feel I'm not good enough in bed for my guy and that he think about other women during sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel like im not good enough in bed for my guy. we have got an amazin sex life but i hate going on top because im conscious of my tiny boobs.whenever i try and go on top he always pretends he likes it then about 2 minutes later says roll over!!!plus im rubbish at blow jobs ... (110 words)

Why does my BF keep his exes on his computer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hellllllllp!!!i was looking through my mans computer nd found loads of pictures of other girls we go to college with, with the captions 'fit' and 'oooooh'. i also found some of him and his ex girlfriend called 'me and my baby'. iv been with him 6 months, and the photos mite be ... (76 words)

Why am I so afraid of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think i have social anxiety? im quite a nice person but hate being around people i dont really know in case they dont like me or i make a fool of myself. with my friends im so confident and bubbly, but with people i dont know very will i stutter and say silly things, ... (164 words)

How do I show her I really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey what up I am currently in a long distance relationship due to the fact that I am in Iraq. I am in the National Gaurd so this isn't permanent. Me and my girl have been together about as long as we will be apart due to being here for a year. At first I was really nervous ... (224 words)

Anonymously received photos of me giving oral to my bf in a public place. We're worried...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, this is a little embarassing im sorry. me and my boyfriend went on a day trip recently.when we arrived we parked the car in a quiet side street.we started kissing an one thing lead to another (i gave him oral sex) but there was nobodya around so we were just having sme ... (179 words)

Help! I failed my first year of university, feel like I have no purpose and am a failure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is nothin to do with relationships im sorry but really need some advice i hope u can help..iv just failed my first year of university and there is no chance of goinfg back.i feel like i have gone from my life being fairly certain to being completley unknown.i have ... (79 words)

I'm so insecure, I'm scared I will push the man of my dreams away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, id really appreciate some advice :0) the thing is, im the first to admit i have the most perfect boyfriend i could wish for .hes gorgeous, funny, clever, kind.However i am extremely insecure. i think it may be a result of my dad having lots of affairs when i was ... (309 words)

What does he want? I am confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote on here last week with the problem of "my f**k buddy wants it to be exclusive. what's going on?" he was saying he that and saying sex wasnt important like he wanted to date me, just like you guys said and last night i asked him and he said I had got it wrong and that we ... (160 words)

How can I trust my wife again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there, i have been married for a couple of years, during that time my wife cheated on me with a nother guy that always came around pretending to be my friend so i wouldnt know. my wife left and came back about 1 month later.. i took her back and sorted things out about... (145 words)

New guy I've met is still interested in his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all!, Dont wanna confuse you but i feel really puzzled about my new guy and would like some advice. I met a guy around a month ago got chatting/ went out etc, and we've seen each other practically every day. We got speaking about intimate things and he said he'd only ev... (235 words)

Am I investing too much in this thing with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age - Dear ....., Please help me with my problem. I am a44 year old man in a dilemma. Just before Christmas last year my then relationship was ended. She had ended it numerous times in as many weeks, one day she would tell me she loved me and the very next day left me.... (497 words)

Is it wrong to have an affair when we love each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I have not had any close relations with any male. I wanted to wait for the right man. Now I have fallen in love with my colleague who also loves me, he cares for me and is a very helpful person and we are close. I want to go all the way with him but he is married...what ... (85 words)

I didn't know that a penis in a vagina could make you pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I am looking for a Little help. I am 18 years old, I had unprotected sex with my BF around 30 - 40 days Ago... I did not know that just inserting the Penis can also make a Girl Pregnant. I just recently came to know about it and i am Worried that i might be Pregn... (205 words)

My interest is still afraid of commitment. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Have posted about this before and still need advice. Relationship ended after 6 months because he is afraid of commitment, terribly hurt by his previous long term relationship (which unfortunately for me ended quite recently), and wants to be alone. Break up process took us ... (280 words)

How big an age gap is too big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question. With age gaps how big a age gap do you think is to big? My friend is dating a man who is 55, she is 28. He smokes like a chimney, drinks too much (his eyes are yellow shot) and flirts with other women, he has a live in partner too. I think she should ... (172 words)

How can you get past guilt and regret (over mistakes) and forgive yourself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - In the past. I've made a lot of mistakes in love and life, too many really. On many occaisions i didnt seem to have learnt from my mistakes. I just wandered how do i get past the guilt and regret and forgive myself. I'm often beating myself up and cant seem to move on. Am i ... (67 words)

I'm getting attached to my casual sex friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have an issue, I'm seeing this guy named alex, he's perfect for me! Sweet, funny, great sence of humor, and cute! I only get to see him like 2 times every two weeks, which sux! Well were "friends with benefits" he never officially asked me if I wanted to be his gf, but we ... (402 words)

I messed around with someone else and now I'm all confused!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether I should feel bad or not. Like...I was seeing this guy and and I like him. He's so nice to me. The 1st few days of us being together was perfect. Then he disappeared. Like I don't know exactly where we stand because we haven't spoken about breaking up or ... (278 words)

I'm in love with someone who is 14 years older than I am (and he's married)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with someone who is 14 years older than i am and he's married. I can't tear myself away from this guy and it's killing me inside that i feel this way about someone who has a wife and a family and is way passed my age. Yeah I know I might be way over my head here. ... (141 words)

I feel like everything is going wrong but I'm falling for someone - who's married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What can I do to take my mind of my situation? I'm very stresses out, I got a layoff from my last job and still haven't been able to find a new one... My bills are racking up and already borrowed about 5k from my parent which I am not proud of... I feel like my friends are... (107 words)

My love had a girlfriend so I married someone else! Now I'm having an affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm married with two kids. We havn't even been married a year. We've been together for almost 5. And I love him with all my heart. I've known my best friend a lil longer. And ever since I met him, I knew we were meant to be together. But he had a girldriend, and they ... (182 words)

What do I do abut my tangled web?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently going out with this man, who still has yet to end his relationship with his gf. He says he is going to leave her and I know most people would say to only believe him when he finally does. We've been going out for a month but have known each other for 1 year. I ... (112 words)

My BF is concerned about his staying time. Any comparisons?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys and gals, my boyfriend is really self-conscience about how long he lasts in bed. I tell him that it doesn't bother me bacause we can always go again a little later, because he lasts longer after the first time, but he gets really upset with himself. I'm also his first ... (122 words)

I'm depressed and can't eat or sleep because of my ex-boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm incredibly depressed. I really can't eat or sleep because of my ex-boyfriend. We were together for 11 months and had a wonderful relationship but then towards the end it got bad. insecurities, fighting, you name it. I had to end the relationship because I was feeling tr... (239 words)

My husband still has strong links to his ex and son. How do I cope?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a son from his privious relationship, and he is only a few month older than our son. Before our son was born i was attached to my step son even though i only see him once a week ( he lives with his mother). As bad as it sounds, I can't stand that little boy any ... (155 words)

I'm a bit of an expert at giving blowjobs but I just don't enjoy giving it to my boyfriend!

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be odd...but I don't know why I don't enjoy giving my boyfriend head. In past relationships, I've been all about giving oral. And I was told I had what was considered a talent...by every single guy I was with. This "repuation" however got around and it became... (158 words)

After six months of dating, he confessed he was married!

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a man nine months ago and he confessed to me after six months that he is married. I'm in counseling to help get away from him. My question is why in the world would he take personal items of mine, like my very large hair brush, home in his luggage - he travels ... (73 words)

My younger BF won't listen.

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 16 and I am 20. He grew up in a very Christian baptist family and went to private school when I met him. Long story short, he believed that he was "in love" with me, started living with me and was kicked out of private school because of it. I'm trying to get h... (117 words)

Is it love or lust?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can really great sex cause men to fall in love? And if a man says he doesn't love you, why does my bf - who says he doesn't love me - get really hard when I tell him that I love him?... (42 words)

Could I be losing him?

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2 October 2007 (F)

- I don't have a reason to be jealous but... Lately I'm feeling like I'm in peril of losing my boyfriend. He keeps telling me about girls flirting with him, and since he started hitting the gym again I'm wondering if I'm in his league anymore. It’s stupid; he’s a total sweethea... (111 words)

Is fiance's request out of bounds?

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2 October 2007 (F) - My fiance asked me a question this morning that I thought was a little disturbing. I was sick and trying to sleep and he was really horny and he asked if he could do it up the ass to me. I said no, I was sick and sleeping, and he asked if he could violate me. He acted like he ... (85 words)

He's "come out" and doesn't want to be with me anymore. What can I do?

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2 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid please help, im having problems with my boyfriend and dont know what to do, ive been going out him for 8 months now and i only have eyes for him im at uni and spent the summer at home about 200 miles from him. I thought we had a great relationship until one day wh... (567 words)

She cheated on me, but I can't live without her...

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2 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ok well i have a gf she cheated on me but i love her and when i say she cheated she kissed another guy who i fought and got kicked out of my college i know she loves me but she just wnt stop flirting and giving guys hope by putting shit like i love and then putting girls and ... (106 words)

Does my fiancee care about me?

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2 October 2007 (F) - Does my fiance care about me? Last night I asked him if he could give me a back rub and then I said I would give him one. He got mad and said no because he had to work all day, and that I should be giving him one only. I worked too! Then, this morning I called in sick to work ... (127 words)

How do I tell a friend I have feelings for him?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i tell a friend that i have feelings for him..? We met about 8 or 9 months ago and now that i have hung out with him.. partied with him.. lived with him.. stayed the night with him over and over. I now have feelings for him but i do not know how he feels and i am s... (110 words)

I've had a cold for about a month now, and it's not getting better! Should I be worried?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - why am i worried about this? i have been having a cold for almost about a month and seems to not get better! i have been coughing out flem if you know what i mean. i cough up this everyday to get rid of it and try make myself feel better. now at times i have a stuffed up nos... (109 words)

If she likes me, why does she never try to contact me?

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2 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - K so I'm wondering why the girl I like is acting the way she is... Her friend told me that she has a crush on me, which is good, and we've only met once, but we ended up making out and whatnot the night we met. So what I'm wondering is, if she likes me why doesn't she ever... (187 words)

How can I get my guy friend to like me back?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need help. I am friends with this guy who is really hot and want to go out with him. The thing is I dont know if he likes me.I had a friend ask him and she said that he said no. I dont believe her because he wouldnt just say know then ignore me. I know him. Hes not ... (83 words)

She supposedly likes me, but she doesn't pay much attention to me!

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2 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Whats the deal with this girl? I heard from her friend that she likes me, and she will often msg me and ask whats up, etc. But whenever I ask her if she wants to hang out she says she has plans, the odd times we do hang out,she doesn't really pay much attention to me.... (100 words)

How can I keep my husband's son from lying and stealing from us?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my husband now for 7 years, his son and my 3 children live with us. his son consistently steals from us all (its more me and the other children than his dad) it is anything up to 5 times a week. He steals money, food, takes stuff out of bins and hides it to either ... (351 words)

It makes me sick to my stomach that she slept with a man!

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a lesbian in a new relationship with a woman who just told me that a couple of months before meeting me, she had slept with a childhood guy friend, gotten pregnant, and had an abortion. She was depressed and lonely and feeling lost and vulnerable at the time. I know sh... (198 words)

How can I prepare for my first time?

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2 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well, I strongly believe I'm ready to be deflowered, however, I'm not sure if theres any thing I should do before hand. Is there any thing I should do to my body or anything to prepare it for my first time? I s there anything that will make my first time unforgettable I ... (60 words)