A
male
age
41-50,
djs1431965
writes:I am 42 married. My wife is 30 we have a very good sex life but just lately my wife talks about sleeping with her female friend. What do you think of this?
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reader, Waterloo Sunset + ♥, writes (1 November 2007):
 Why has she just decided on this one? do you really want this to happen? Have you both talked about it in a fantasy way? Some women pick these things up and THINK it is what the bloke wants, when actually it is in fantasy land!!! How do you feel about it, if not chuffed then tell her. If my bloke came to me and said he wanted to have sex with another bloke i would feel gutted, but that is up to you. Talk to her.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Not enough information, was she being serious?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): the real question is what do YOU think of her having sex with another female. what others think is not so important. Does her having sex with another female turn you on? I mean, do you get a boner thinking about her face buried in a hot pussy or do you get that sick at you stomach feeling? Does the thought make you anxious, make you want to go out and get a pint to calm your anxiety? Do you feel like your relationship is in danger??? Also, do you feel that sex is love and love is sex? If you don't get a boner about your wife's suggestion, then tell her that it is not a good thing for your marriage. If you feel love IS sex, then your wife with her friend is certainly not right for YOU. You need to find out what your wife thinks the relationship is between sex and love. You need to determine how jealous you are. Nothing kills good sex or a good marriage faster than jealousy. Your wife may have a very open mind about sex, do you??? If you don't, then anything that strays from the Church of England will bother the hell out of you.
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