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*antHelpFallin
writes:I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I DON'T want her to be put through the pain and agony I went through. He is telling her the EXACT same things he used to say to me. He's very manipulative and I don't want my cousin to be hurt. She's been through a LOT and just got out of a bad relationship a week ago. She's on the rebound and falls way too fast and too easily for guys. She knows that him and I were involved and what I went through with him. What am I to do?
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 As much as you will wish to voice your opinion here, unfortunately it isn't your place.
He may have changed in the interim between seeing yourself and your cousin.
And even in the case that he hasn't people must make their own mistakes in life, that's how we all learn.
How would you feel if someone tried to offer advice on one of your relationships?
Three people in a couple isn't pleasant.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hi
Don't but in on their relationship else you will look like the desperate ex & its no good telling her that he is no good because i doulbt she will listen to you.
You have to just sit on the fence & watch, but be there should it go wrong and she needs someone to help her through,
Hopefully this time will be different maybe he will be good to her you never know people can change,
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