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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, yet I still have a strong ... (84 words)

How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?... (23 words)

13, worried because I've never had a boyfriend! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

26 October 2007 (?) age 13-15 - I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone else seems to have had one. There are girls in my form that have been out with sooo many boys. They have like 10 different ones every year and have been going out with people since they were like 8. Why isn't there one guy that ... (60 words)

I left him, and now he won't take me back! I want to make him crazy about me again. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Please will a guy help me out with this or a girl which has had a similar problem, i'd really appreciate it i need your help! I initially broke up with my ex two months ago. Since then I've realised it was a huge mistake, but now he says he doesn't think he wants to be in a ... (269 words)

I'm at a loss. I want my boyfriend to love and respect me as he once did. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i have bn together for a yr n 4months i love him to death and i no he loves me too.lately tho it seems that all we do nemore is fight. he used to call me all the time c wat i was doing, but that doesnt happen nemore, i have to call him. basically the only ... (480 words)

How do I make him want me like he used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 4 months now, which is the longest for both of us. Lately, it's as though he ignores me almost all the time. There's this other girl that he's been talking to, but she has a boyfriend and says they're just friends but I ... (205 words)

Do I stay with the security of my current lifestyle or take a gamble with this new woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years the last few of which have been fairly miserable. I haven't felt able to be myself around her anymore and she doesn't bring out the best in me. But despite that I feel her loyalty, depth of feelings for me and her ... (106 words)

Do I tell him I'm a virgin or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 618 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I was wondering if anybody could help me? I am 20 (almost 21) years old and at university. I am still a virgin, mainly because I am very shy around guys and have always got cold feet whenever I got close to getting intimate with a guy. But I've been on a couple of dates ... (179 words)

Long story - I need advice please...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, here is what I need advice on. I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. the last 8 weeks has been the hardest. She has a friend that lives in San Fransisco. 8 weeks ago she goes up to hang out with her friend. She likes to go out to clubs with her. When she comes ... (937 words)

Are women naturally territorial about their men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

- How do other women feel when their man has to work one-on-one with a cute, much younger female who is single and looking for a bit of adventure? This was never a problem with my previous mate, as he really didn't work around women, and was so introverted socially it was never ... (305 words)

How can I tell her I love her without ruining our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 16, I love a girl but I didn't tell her that because I'm not confident about myself. I'm not so tall and handsome. We're saying to each other that we're just good friends, nothing more. Now I want to build a strong image of myself to her holding the position of ... (83 words)

How can I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get passed the doubts of him cheating? In June of 2007 I found out by my boyfriend's co-worker that he asked another woman to party that he told me was a guys only get together and that he had already met this woman out before and she drove him home. She wrote him a le... (270 words)

Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me? Is it a common thing that if you've told your feelings for another guy over msn and that we were very expressive, yet in person he seems nervous (maybe awkward, or defensive)? He seemed so enthusiastic on msn, he even paid and... (182 words)

I want to forget him but can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I send in the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cheat-and-we-break-up-now-the.html and after a while, I took the action myself…oops! I know it might not be the best thing to do (probably a stupid thing to do) I got really annoyed when he msn me again. So ... (372 words)

Am I just a late bloomer or do you think it could be something else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. I've also never had a 'normal' relationship. I was never interested, but it got weird recently seeing loads of girls my age involved in them. I had one once, but it lasted a week and I hated it. This probably sounds trivial, but I d... (149 words)

I'm 15 and never been kissed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. This probably sounds trivial, but I dislike talking about any kind of lovelife because of it. I've never been made to feel pretty by anybody except my two best friends and my family. I know that I'm not ugly. I'm not a model but I us... (100 words)

Do I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all will it be worth waiting for a women that I still love and she love aswell but she need to be alone we are both thinking about each other every second of the day and dont now how it will end? Take care Marco... (50 words)

I'm not convinced he really loves me... Should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 5 years i'm 33, he's 40 and got engaged last christmas. We have had a very happy loving relationship in this time apart from one incident on his part with another woman about 3 years ago. I forgave him and we moved on but over the last couple of ... (168 words)

Divorcing is a disgrace to my religeon... But I feel trapped. Help me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - In my religion, it's a disgrace to divorce, and very rare. And the thing is, I've had a husband since I was 13 and now, I'm 19. I feel trapped, I see myself just doing everything for him, with him forcing me to do things, to have sex with him, get a tattoo of his name on my ... (122 words)

I want to get too know him, but I feel so arkward! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been noticing that a guy I met recently has been acting more flirtatious with me. When we speak online, we're fairly familiar with each other, we make jokes, and we're generally flirty with one another. I was afraid that me being in second-year university and him only ... (139 words)

Before I moved 1,000 miles away, me and my boyfriend got engaged... But I'm not sure I want him. What do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - HELP!!!! Before I left for college (1,000 miles and 19.5 hours away) in August, my boyfriend and I got engaged. I have always been faithful in all of my previous relationships, but they never lasted long and I would find someone new and usually we ended up sleeping together ... (176 words)

Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world? I ask because it feels like I've lost the most gorgeous woman I'll ever meet. She split with me some months back after 3 years together, and now I don't think I'm ever going to find another as ... (86 words)

Am I being stupid? I love my boyfriend so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years. I absolutely adore him and we had a perfect relationship until one day the police came to my house and cautioned him for sexual harrassment. It turns out he had been ringing a woman and talking dirty to her down the phone for the last ... (232 words)

What exactly is the grieving process?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my dad died a year on wednesday and i dont think i have grieved yet but i am not sure coz i dont no what what you do when you grieve, could some one please help me ps i dont like talking about it with anyone x ... (52 words)

Why doesn't it ever go right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi. Im 13 and have never had boyfriend. Im not too bothered but everytime i like someone, i always get let down. Like, for example, i liked this one boy, and he liked me, but now he dosent seem to fancy me and has probably moved onto my friend. And i met this boy on holiday, ... (74 words)

I love her with all my heart...i just wish id met her later in life.

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's the situation, folks. I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love. We're both in our late 20's, we've dated for nearly a year and we've just moved in together. My girlfriend really is my best friend and she's the closest thing to a soul mate I've ever ... (414 words)

What is the right age to start having sex?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 617 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ... (31 words)

Is it wrong to have feelings for your ex's brother??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago because the long distance relationship wasn't working. Anyway I recently met up for a drink with his brother and I think I have feelings for him, he wants to meet again which possibly suggests that he might feel something for me. ... (115 words)

Do I have the right to stand my ground??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I'm the kind of guy that i don't care where my gf goes im in anohter country and i have been away from her for over a year. I'm back in 2 months but i don't think i can get passed this next obstacle. She wants to go to a Halloween party with her friends at a clu... (186 words)

He is scared to make me his 'official' girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I was seeing a guy and we split up. After a month he realised he really missed me and we got back together. It was mainly due to the fact that I went out with his friend first and we got together his friend was angry (I never slept with his friend). However, everytime I ask hi... (320 words)

Does this happen to anyone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to know if this was normal or not. Why is it that when ever i have sex with my boyfriend and im a few days away from getting my period we have sex and either I start my period right after we finish having sex or I will get my period the next day or so? he Just seems to ... (74 words)

I'm new at adult dating, advice on if he likes me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - So here is the thing. I broke up with my boyfriend after four years a month ago. The last time I was single I was a teenager. Dating has changed a lot since then! I met a man at my local watering hole and we really hit it off. We had a dew drinks and one thing lead to ... (319 words)

Should I just leave it and get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay so basically I like this guy, and he was going to ask me to prom, but because his mate wanted to ask me aswell, he laid off. Then about a month later (in july) he told me he was going to ask me but didnt because his mate said he wanted to ask me. We have talked ... (103 words)

My best friends mum

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at christmas and she phoned him to ... (146 words)

Do I tell him or just live with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 26, gay, and I've just started seeing a guy for the first time in my life. He's wonderful when I'm around him and we get along great. The problem is that he's really flakey. He makes plans and forgets about them, say's he'll call me when he gets off work and then I ... (164 words)

Do I hate or Love my enemy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I really seem to hate this girl in my class. She's really nasty towards me and gets everybody on her side. It feels like i hate her to pieces then.....so suddenly i realise im looking at her in a different way.... I've heard the saying 'treat em mean keep em keen' but this ... (88 words)

How can I convince her that she might fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there is a lady who i have really deep feelings for, but she says that she is straight. However ive seen the way she looks at me, and im convinced she feels the same way. How can i get her to open up to me wthout losing her as a friend?... (52 words)

How can I get off with him without upsetting my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I fancy my friends' boyfriend. But it's not as simple as that. She Doesn't fancy him much. She said so herself. She Doesn't want to dump him because he's 'sweet'. but i acctually like him properly. i also think he likes me to, but i dont want to do anything about it because my ... (65 words)

He wants me but I don't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - to cut a long story short basically i went out with a guy during our summer holidays [around july/august time] and we split up due to non commitement from him. but now it seems he wants to be back in my life. my question is what to do as i am now with his ex best friend and ... (80 words)

Do most people "block" contacts once a long distance relationship goes bad? He's asking for space and keeps changing his mind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf of over a year (long distance) turned around and said he needed time alone and space and distance to figure himself out. He cut all phone calls and said it was because he needs distance, and that he didnt see the reason why we should talk on the phone. i started smooth... (312 words)

Should I just be myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am seeing this guy i really like i saw him last night, he was fine with me, all chatty but when i got on MSN he ignored me, so i asked him what was wrong he said that i speak to him alot on msn but when i see him in real life, i am all shy and quiet. He thinks that th... (149 words)

My fiance booked an appointment with an escort a year ago. Can I believe him that he was 'only mucking about'?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

26 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, Three weeks ago I discovered that my fiancé had visited some websites of local escorts (i.e. prostitutes). Absolutely shocked, immediately I checked his e-mail account and found out that he had sent an email for appointment of one of them a year ago, when we had been... (225 words)

Me and my pal tricked him into exposing himself on the webcam. How can I trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm 19, and the guy i was seeing is 21. we used to be good friends before all this. we started speaking on myspace after not having contact in a while.we sent flirty emails and texts and met up the following week. he came round mine and we kissed. we spend the rest of the ... (385 words)

Can anyone please help us to work things out? Please take some time to read this.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There are several threads on this site that are similar to what I am about to present, but none go into the open, honest detail that my wife and I have with each other, and so I would like to present this here, and which I would like the community's honest opinion on. If there ... (1518 words)

Is this a mid-life crisis?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am very attracted to a young lady working in my office as an intern.i call her to my office on any excuse i can think of. We do have long conversations about any topic that comes up.We do enjoy talking to each other i believe. My problem is how to tell her how i feel about ... (81 words)

I feel really empty now I've broke it off. How can I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay im not doing well at all, we have seperated me and my guy (hes 26 im 15) i kno its a big age gap. I told im it was time to give it up bekoz of our age gap plus the day after we were found out anyway. i miss him so much, i was so close to him and i dont know if i can cope ... (152 words)

I want to sit next to this boy on a long school trip. How do I get close to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, well im 15 and theres this guy i really like, he is 17. we have known each other for a few years now and get on pretty well, he can become flirty with me sometimes but i havent told him i like him as more yet. anyway we are going away to italy with a group soon, and i ... (123 words)

Does he think more of his playstation than of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been with my boyfriend for four months and i thought everything was going great. At the moment he is currently temping for work so could be let go at any time. I dont feel like we're in a proper relationship. He's told me he loves me and would like to be with me all the ... (146 words)

How can we fall asleep together comfortably?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - okay i have a great realtionship with my girlfriend, but the problem is cuddling. she always want me to cuddle up to her before falling asleep, and i love it aswell. but we can never seem to find a comfortable position. any advice of good positions please help thanks.... (49 words)

How do I avoid losing my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - okay well i have a little problem atm. Im 17 and theres this girl 15 lets call her lucy, who i have known all my life. we have always been so close, and she comes to me when she has a problem and she can also keep me smiling even when im down. and no shes not my girlfriend, she ... (191 words)

I have an abusive brother. Why doesn't my mum listen to me and do something about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Well, I know this is probably wrong to say, but I hate my brother...I mean REALLY hate; I can't stand to be around him. He's physically abused me 3/4 times 2 when I was alone with him, he mostly strangles me and chucks things at me with force, he's hit and fought with my siste... (224 words)

Have I got an STD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am having small watery or seimen like discharge from my penis, and it's not painful but a bit eatch after when urinating (small burn sensetion). What could be the problem?... (31 words)

How do I control these kids? Or should I not bother to try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance has two boys and we have recently moved in with her mother because my fiance's father recently passed away. The grandmother has asked the two boys not to download anything on her computer. I have had many arguments with them over this because they keep doing somethin... (427 words)

It used to be my nervousness, now it's the condom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I got over how nervous I was, but now the condom ruins my erection! What do I tell her? what do I do? For those who need more of an explanation, It used to be nervousness that caused me to lose an erection, but I took care of that and now when I put on a condom last nigh... (72 words)

Love affairs from afar, circumcision, and masturbation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - First, I'm in a distant relationship and love my gal too much. This is what's causing da problem. I think about her to the extent of my head aching. I miss her so much that it really hurts. Sometimes i feel she doesn't love me as i do because she doesn't call as often as i ... (165 words)

I'm now looking for a 'normal' relationship rather than a long-distance one. Where can I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi everybody. Good news! I'm feeling a fair bit better than I have been over the past.. several months. I guess I finally realized that maybe my ex isn't worth worrying about. In any case, I'm not certain I'm ready to move on as such, but I am still quite interested in giv... (152 words)

I met a girl and she was amazing. I have a boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but wish to continue seeing the girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then a hours later I went back to ... (105 words)

Do I continue with or end this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i m in love with a guy and we have sexual relation also. now i wanna marry with him but he is not ready to talk with his parents. now plz tell me either i continu this relationship or end this relationship.... (44 words)

How can you become a better girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - How to be the Perfect Girlfriend? what is it? They dont want us to nag, they want sex, they are intterest in being with us...how do you know if they care. How do you be a better girlfriend that he will love instead of being nagging or over protective?... (49 words)

Why is it that at the age of 21 I've never had a boyfriend, been kissed or had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel like Drew Barrymore but ... (132 words)

I want to orgasm without having to do the work myself, advice on positions please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When i want to have an orgasm I need to rub my clitoris with my fingers or use a vibrator at the same time while having sex. My boyfriend says he has never experienced this before. What position can I try that will rub my clitoris without having to use a vibrator? Am I an odd ... (59 words)

I want to be more than friends but he is hung up on a girl thats not interested, how can I make him see?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok ... well the thing is i am starting to like this new guy i met, we are really good friends by now, but the problem is he is really into this girl who doesnt like him. Believe me, she already told him. I want him to forget her and see that he gots me now... but i think he... (105 words)

I've got three guys chasing me , how do I know who is the right one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 759 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Alright, I'm sorry but this is going to be really long. So I have a sort of love quadrangle happening. There is a guy I like. I have liked him for about a year, lets call him 1. Then there is a guy who I think likes me and who I have been friends with for a while and I think ... (429 words)

My boyfriend has a trouble past, my friends think he's no good, how can I convince them they're wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is so good to me, He shows he cares, and loves me so much. I met him online and we have been together for 7 months now. My love life is great, not to mention the sex! I have never in my life met anyone as wonderful as him. And he tells me the same. We live 4 ... (331 words)

My ex husbands new girlfriend has become like a buddy to me, I told her the truth, was this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 737 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex husbands girlfriend is always the one I deal with when its anything that has to do with our daughter, simply because he is not man enough to talk to me or show up in front of my door when my daughter goes over his house. Every time his girlfriend calls me, she ques... (319 words)

How can we find our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my daughter joined a cultic relationship. he made her change sch stop contact with family and friends and moved her away. now she seems to have left him but we have no idea where she is. we think its a cult farm, any ideas of how we can find out what cult it is and the address?... (57 words)

We are devoted Christians, is it okay to share a bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My Fiance and i are Christians,She visited me and was too late for her to go back,she had to spend the night in my house(one roomed house with 1 bed). Please tell me was i suppose to sleep together on one bed? or i leave her and go to a lodging(will it be fair to her)... (59 words)

Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy? And is it a turn off for men? What if he keeps coming back for more?... (28 words)

My busy boyfriend lives far away and doesn't seem to care to see me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

- I am in a long distance relationship and I always the one traveling to see him. I don't mind the traveling 'cause he has a really tide , really busy schedule and he can't make it. The thing is that it is not easy to get our schedule together, and I am always switching shift ... (298 words)

My girlfriend started college and is "too busy" for me, can she be cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 759 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. In september she started college. When she first started she always told me we could hang out the next night becuase seh was to busy with "things" this night, but the next night never came for a week. I always got the same ... (141 words)

If I'm single, I'm fine, but once I am involved, I become so insecure!

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26 October 2007 (F)

- I always fear sooo insecure in relationships. Im usualy ok/fine when im single....but as soon as i get into a relationship im not fine. Why is this? ... (31 words)

How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?... (11 words)

Puberty issues! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 16 right now, and I think I haven't gone through puberty yet. At least, not all the way. I have pubic hair, but my penis doesn't seem to have grown at all. My girlfriend wants to be physically intimate with me, but I have confidence issues and feel embarrassed. (Mod ... (145 words)

Was I in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - 2 weeks ago something happen.....well it all started with my friend betrayed me by telling me my boyfriend was with another girl and then found out later that it wasn't true...but when i did think it was true i said to swear on his mom's grave....he dumped me i appoligize i ... (187 words)

Should we / How do we talk about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just told my bestfriend that my boyfriend (of 6 months) rubbed my boob while we were making out. She immediately asked how I felt about it and I told her it was just for fun at the moment I wouldn't let it lead to anything, sex isn't an option for me. She insists that I n... (182 words)

Part of me tells me not to risk it, but the other part tells me too.

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26 October 2007 (M)

- I've been talking to this wonderful girl. We seem to get along well and we seem to be attracted to each other. The thing is that we plan on getting together on Monday where I will be driving up to where she lives. The plan on is getting a room and having sex. The problem is ... (143 words)

He says he is working but I see him online! I want this to work but feel he is lying.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 759 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - okay, back with my bf. he seems to be pretty honest, but he works at a fast food place (cuz hes 16. im 14-he dated a variety of ages so dont lecture meee please) well for someone who works 4-9 how could he be on myspace at 7?? i dont understand this. hes been honest with me so ... (106 words)

I love my boyfriend but he's an alcoholic! I don't know what to do!

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i think my bf is an alcoholic he drinks every night when he gets home from work at about 4 o clock and if he hasnt got any hewill not go with out he will go and buy some please help i dont know what to do only good thing in this situation is he isnt aggresive when he has had a ... (72 words)

I'm not getting any younger, where can I meet someone?

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Friend's tell me I should try to get out and have fun but god at my age I don't really know where to go..Thinking about just taking more classes this semester. I mean I work in a bar and am in college, I find when I am home,I clean and worry about thing's..and study. I don't ... (123 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He even had a friend that was ... (184 words)

I feel like I'm only in his life because he doesn't want to be alone after his wife died, am I wrong?

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, here goes. MY sisters best friend died four months ago. Her husband left to care for four children on his home spent many a night drinkin and getting high. One night he invited me round and after that night he texted me often and I'd go a round his quite often he... (215 words)

I keep getting depressed, is there something wrong with me?

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26 October 2007 (M)

- I started university back in september, I really enjoy the course, I have a good set of friends, I go to the gym, play hockey and football, and people really like, a big change from high school. Yet I've noticed that I am feeling down every other day, some days I'm up for anyt... (161 words)

My long distance girlfriend doesn't listen to me, am I a control freak?

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26 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone i have been in a long distance relationship for a year and a month and we havent seen eachother since this due 2 immigration issues and i was deported from Canada. I am in Portugal this is the story things at this point is really getting out of hand. I blame this ... (389 words)

Someone that has never met me or talked with me, likes me.

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26 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My best friend's 3rd cousin likes me. Ive never met him but she tells me he really likes me. Also he is 13, in grade 9 and I'm in grade seven and i just turned 12 today! Should i meet with him?... (45 words)

We were engaged, but we split. He has another girl now, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 759 days ago

26 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My fiance and i split nearly 2 weeks ago he sed he had to go and sort his head out he did it wen i was away the last night we spent together he sed he loved me and still wants to be with me all e did was kiss and cuddle me all the time. e went and his mum sed it was over then ... (319 words)