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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Could he care for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I am 16 while my bf is 25. We've been going out for five months now but I'm not sure if he loves me. He admitted of being a player but told me he has changed for me and that he is crazy about me and adores me. We live in different states and we only get to see each other if he ... (105 words)

My parents are doubtful of our love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I've been dating this guy for almost 4 months. It was love at first sight and we want to spend the rest of our lives together. I'm 15 and he just turned 17. Now all of a sudden my parents think we're having sex and that I dont need him. they told us we couldnt see each other ... (75 words)

It was good, but we need more intinacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my wife have been married 7 years and still have a pretty good sex life mainly do it about 3-4 times a week sometimes more sometimes less. its just last night we had some very good but very unexpected mad sex. There wasn't really ny communication between us and i ... (249 words)

I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've been a couple 4 2 yrs and i no i c... (169 words)

I'm terrified of pregnancy - how can I stop worrying about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 15. Ready for sex emotionally and physically. But the one thing holding me back is that i am absolutly terrified about getting pregnant. I am not one of these teenagers who dont care and will do it drunk without realising. I know i am one year under the legal sex age... (155 words)

How do you get over falling in love with a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Well, this story goes on for a long time, but to cut it short, me and one of my best mates have a history, but no matter what i do i can't get over her, and i really need to because its badly getting me down. I cant just cut her out of my life because she is one of my best ... (70 words)

How can I re-kindle my girlfriend's affection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend of almost 2 years moved away to NJ for college. We used to spend every hour of everyday with each other especially the summer before she left. We were very affectionate. Now the weekends she comes home she shows no interest, i talked to her about how it makes me... (87 words)

I'm 3 years older than her. Does the age gap matter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I like this girl that i met through my brother, and my brother is 13, the girl i like is 14 and im going to be turning 17 though. I'm worried about the age gap. I'm in 12th grade and shes in 9th, and yet i have a late brithday so i'm the age of an 11th grader. What do i do?... (63 words)

How do I overcome my shyness to talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am an 18yo male, never had a gf, i am normally shy but have come out of my shell recently. Anyway there is a girl i REALLY like at work, I have a laugh with and am quite good work friends with, however i have wanted to say something for the last few weeks to see if she is ... (126 words)

He only wants me for sex. How can I get it back to how we were in the beginning?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive been with my boyfriend for around 3 years.We work together and it consists of long hours and not much fun. All it ever seems is our relationship evolves round the job, he only comes near me for sex, when i just want comfort I don't get it, we dont go out and he tried to... (109 words)

We're on/off, on/off - am I using the right tactics?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Bit of advice needed. Have had an affair for 6 months now and its been very draining on me as i am in love with the girl. It started out she was flattered with the attention, she worked in a different office and i e-mailed called etc. She flirted back. When it came to ... (383 words)

How do I start the dating game again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My first marriage of 13 years was to a lovely woman I met in college (my first true girlfriend) who unfortunately was a child victim of sexual abuse from age 5 to 13. This came up 1 year after we were married. It led to her being committed for several months and although I ... (155 words)

I need someone to tell me I'm not a slut for having sex at 11. And how do I tell my mum about the pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - When i was 11 i had sex for the first time and got pregnant i just need someone to tell me im not a slut, am i ?? i am 11 and pregnant how do i tell my mum and what do i do??... (47 words)

I have Bulimia and I need help. I think I might be killing myself.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 and I've suffered from bulimia since i was 11 years old but now although i acknowledge there’s a problem I’m terrified to get help. I’m also highly worried about what i have done to my body and the irreversible damage I may have caused, I’m only 5.5 and weigh 7st/ I’m a ... (413 words)

I'm pregnant but my partner wants to terminate. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I am 24 and I am aslo 10 weeks pregnant. I have been with my partner for only 4 months so got caught really quick - yes, we were both stupid. I had a termination last year at five months due to medical conditions and my current partner knows all about this but he stil... (137 words)

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm just 15.. Not in a serious relationship.. But urgghh.. I have this confusing and hurting obsession towards my teacher, who happens to be a woman. She's aged 40, married..there's no sexual attraction duh..however, I love her so much, like my own mother..and it hurts when she... (65 words)

Who do I choose - the 16 year-old or the 24-year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a problem..I am 20 yrs old and have two boys who are very interested in me and I can't decide which of them I like more. On the one hand, there is a 24 year old who is very sweet, a little full of himself, who pays me a lot of attention and has made it clear he likes me... (275 words)

How socially acceptable is a 6 year age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I recently went to help on a school trip (yr 7s) for a couple of days and whilst I was there I met a guy who was 22 and has just finished his teacher training and maths degree. Although we didn't get to talk much because of being on separate activites with the yr 7s, durin... (180 words)

He doesn't want our children to see my parents during holidays (they interfere too much); I feel I've lost my identity trying to please everyone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - where to begin. at the minute im having housing problems, i have to wait till the council gives me a house one catch though it could be anywhere in my area,me and my partner cant afford to get a private house so we are stuck in this situation, my partner thinks i should stand ... (158 words)

How do I gain a 6-pack?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, well yeah i am a girl (14), but i would really love to know the best ways to gain a 6 pack. I Swimm 3x a week but thats all really and am pretty fit and good at running. But any advice on good exercises ect please. thanks x... (51 words)

Is he fibbing, am I a turn-off, or does he just have a low sex drive lately? How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I as of late have been very sexually unactive. Due to his job and both of us having immense studies, protective parents (on my account), etc, we haven't had any sexual relation together for a couple of months (even making out or groping). There have bee... (274 words)

My wife climaxes fast and I'd like your advise on how to extend it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 35 years old healthy male. Married for 9 years. Me and my wife have sex for 5-6 days in a week. My wife climaxes almost every time and she throughly enjoys the occasion. My concern is she climaxes fast and i want your advise on how to extend it. She also feels the ... (69 words)

Is it ok to take sleeping tablets with the contraceptive pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Hello, I was just wandering, is it ok to take sleeping tablets with the contraceptive pill? i dont want to go to my doctor and ask because its a waste of time (they told me that i waste their time everytime i go back for repeat prescriptions - yet they wont let me get my pr... (102 words)

I try to flirt over text or msn and end up feeling stupid! How do you flirt, what nicknames do you use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How can you flirt online or text? I try to, but end up feeling totally stupid sometimes... And what can you call a guy (a nickname) when he's not a boyfriend, but flirting with him. Thank you x... (40 words)

I don't know how to tell her I love her; I can't focus on my work or social life thinking about her. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - i love this girl and i know she loves me too the same way, i wana tell her how i feel about her but at the same time i'm afraid of losing her,i think of her all day and all night sometimes i cant sleep due to it, i cant focus on my work or my social life as well and i so dont ... (71 words)

How do I know if a date is going to be a future relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

- I went on a date last night. It was OK but the conversation stopped frequently. It might have been a combination of reservedness and the loud music in the club. Another factor could be that we just didn't find each other interesting. I'm thinking of asking her out on a second d... (136 words)

Do people who are in love have things in common?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

- Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone please help me and tell me if yo... (107 words)

Is my depression preventing me from starting a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I suffered from depression with psychosis when I had a relationship with a Sudanese guy. He forced me to have sex. I decided to break up with him. Now I'm still single and already 28. I'm afraid to enter in a new relationship because I feel that my sickness was a hindranc... (62 words)

Why doesn't he cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are both seventeen and have been dating about 6 months, and we recently slept together. The first time he came after about 45 mins but the next time he didnt at all, am I doing something wrong or do all young guys get that???... (50 words)

Will this man ever leave his wife for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I too am married and dating a married man for more than 2 years. It all started with small conversations which grew into daily conversations. Eventually, our spouses found out (now they have become friends) however, we can't leave each other alone. I know that we care for ... (135 words)

How do I get BF's mom's trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he has a 3 month old baby. its kinda complicated... baby isnt mine obviously and we have a bit of an age gap, im 17 and hes 25. i get on ok with his ex when i see her, but i dont think he tells her im with him anytime he has the baby ... (274 words)

Should I make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ok, well im a really, really shy person and there is this one guy who likes me and i like him but i dont know if i should make the first move or if he should?? and if i should make it what should i do?? i am also goin to his house today because his sister is best friend. but ... (64 words)

How do I make him realise that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys. Okay - I like this guy, he is really cute but the problem is he flirts with me when he is not with his friends. I have asked him whether he likes me but his answer was that he was not ready for a relationship. We still communicate with each other. My question is... (79 words)

How do I get over my first girlfriend and first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I need some advice. My girlfriend has recently dumped me and I am devastated. I know that I can't get her to change her mind and take me back (as much as I wish I could) so instead I am wanting to try and get over her which I know will be terribly hard for me to do becau... (105 words)

I've been attacked by my partner. Please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

6 October 2007 (?) - I'm not sure that I can cope any more. I was attacked 3 weeks ago by my partner and substained some serious injuries. I had six stitches to my eye and lost my front tooth which I've had to have replaced by a false one. I thought that it was going to go to domestic violence... (565 words)

How do I tell him that I really like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

- Hey, I'm 14 and I really like this guy, I've liked him for 7 months now, I'm extremely close to him, we're really good friends, the thing is I never told anyone I liked him until today when I told my 3 best friends. They were completely shocked and I had a long talk with o... (261 words)

Curvy v Skinny?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Do guys like 'curvy' girls or 'skinny' girls ?... (9 words)

I loaned him a lot of money - am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, we did everything together, he rang every night just to say hello and all that kind of stuff. Everyone thought we were going out together. I sort of started to like him but he said he wasn't interested after he had his heart broken by someone. He gave all the ... (128 words)

My Uncle has cancer and won't stop smoking. Am I over-reacting by wanting him to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My Uncle has cancer. It is a tumour at the back of his throat and he has already started radiology. The doctor says that he will have radiology and chemo and if it doesnt work he will have to have his voicebox removed. His doctor told him to stop smoking, which my uncle h... (364 words)

What's an anal orgasm like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

6 October 2007 (M) - hello. 1'm 16 kinda hard to say this. i don't think i'm gay, i have kinda would like to know whats it like to have an anal orgasm... how could i do this? btw not with another man. ... (45 words)

I've slept with a lad who has a g/f. I've ended it and now I'm devastated. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I've just split up wit a lad iv been sleeping with for the past few months, we werent seeing each other, cos he has a girlfriend, i no its wrong but i cudnt help it. we admitted we were falling for each other and after a couple of weeks of tryin to break it off, its finally... (167 words)

My B/F's step-dad is horrible! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Last night me and my boyf went for a drink with his step-dad(who he sees as a real dad) and a few other men from his work.Things were going ok at first but then we went back to his dads area and his dad went in this pub that I don't like because everytime I go in there ... (323 words)

I have an ulcer - what caused it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I kissed this guy i have liked for ages for the first time yesturday we kissed loads of times but 1 time he inserted his tonge i now have and ulser on my tonge is it becoz of that ? ... (49 words)

Falling for the Travel Rep

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I've just returned from a brilliant week's holiday, during which time I got talking to our Travel Rep and ended up spending a night out with her. She's young, gorgeous and has a lovely personality. Furthermore, she's almost at the end of the holiday season and will soon be ... (163 words)

Should we repeat what caused her panic attack?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right well i wrote up a while back maybe about a month or so ago about my friend having a panic attack when we were in a cave. Just to let you know what happened we got abit lost and she started panicing and everything, she eventually ended up in tears cause of it but i think ... (271 words)

His dad has pedophile history. Should I go out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

6 October 2007 (?) age 16-17 - Do you think i should go out with a boy if his dad's a pedophile?? I like this boy I have known a while now. He is 15 and so am I. We go to the same school etc, but his dad has been known to of had underage sex on a few occasions. Should I go out with him?? Do you think he ... (70 words)

I am torn between two loves.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that when i am with him everythi... (462 words)

How much time and space does he need?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - SO, the 2 year on again,off again relationship I've been in is "on hold" for now... just when I decide I can take what he offers and wait on the rest to hopefully come in time, HE says (after some arguing when I pushed for more and he backed off and I chased harder) that he ... (465 words)

He abuses me, ...so why do I still love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i am a 20 year old and my boyfriend is 31. we have been dating for a whole year and 6 months, well everything was perfect what any girl dreams for. its been like 6 whole months that our relationship just turned upside down. he calls me names very bad names ive asked him ... (211 words)

Why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - he never touches me in a sexual way any more. I have not changed (since having a baby). infact, i have lost weight, i dont have stretch marks, or unslightly post pregnancy marks..... I am clean, and always try to dress well, be clean etc. When asking him if hes still interested ... (227 words)

How many times do working couples have sex when they're married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - How many times can couple have sex when they're married? Assuming both are working and they meet in the house at night only after job.... (25 words)

How do I deal with my feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a widow and I have fallen in love with my late husband's best friend who is married. I had no intention to reveal my feelings to him and had wanted us to continue being very good friends. However, he took the first move and we ended up telling each other about how we ... (242 words)

I have a crush, but don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i am 16,i really like a guy at school but i am not sure how to aprroach him,because i don't know if he likes me.i know i should talk to him but if he rejects me,the whole school will know about it!... (42 words)

He says he want to be with me, but I'm not sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I really need help. I first meet my (off right now) boyfriend at work a year ago. We became friends fast and would talk on the phone for hours. He soon told me that he liked me and wanted to date me. I didn't like him at all, but since he was my first really boyfriend I liked ... (376 words)

He doesn't want to talk about a future with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - me and myboyfriend were together for 1year and i love him so much. i used to be playa but i stopped doing that! i wanna spent rest of my life with him but he's not that crazy about me. he said he love me but when ever i talk about future he get mad and piss off..he alwaz sayz ... (254 words)

She is going away. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My Fiance has just supprised me that She is supposed to join a College for 3 yrs in the US from January 2008.My greatest worry is, I might lose her since she will be away for that long. She might come back married to someone else. Please, what can I do? Can I marry her before ... (64 words)

What are his feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - For several months a man at work and I talked and became good friends. We both stated to each other that we liked each other. He was taking quite a ribbing at work from the guys about me and at first he said, just let them talk. We like each other, ignore them. About a ... (582 words)

How much time should I give her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship and we have been going out for 9 mouths now. i'm 17 and she is 15. i go and see her every school holiday. for the last three mouths i have spent with her and we got on great. when i come home we were ok but a week lat... (180 words)

I feel I will regret not having my own place and living like a housewife without the ring until we do get engaged! My bf flipped out at this idea, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been living together for a year and I recently got a job where I make enough money to be able to afford an apartment by myself. I told my bf that I want to move into separate apartments pretty soon and he totally flipped out. I'm not breaking up ... (131 words)

Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? Should I ignore him to find out what he does? I'm confused by his interest in me and the age gap.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, an international student has shown an interest in me, but there is a great age gap between us, he is much younger than me, and I am from Great Britain. Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? He talks about marriage and buying me a house. But I was ... (119 words)

How can I "get it up" and keep my cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

6 October 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - I get really nervous. How can i "get it up" and keep my cool?... (14 words)

I'm 15, my boyfriend is abusive, I'm afraid and don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

6 October 2007 (?) age 16-17 - well to put a long story short. i have been with my boyfriend since my 14th birthday and i was 15 in may, 17 months i have been in the relationship and for about 9 of it it has been terrible. i have wanted to end it but i cant cos he says if i do i will regret it. he always ... (183 words)

He's 21, I'm 14 Should I ruin my plans OR dump my love.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

6 October 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi ive ot a problem because i'm young(14) and my boyfriend is older(21).please don't tell me how wrong our relationship is n illegal i've heard it so many times. my mom isn't worried shes meet the guy and she lets him stay round every night which i think is great because he is ... (196 words)