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writes:HiFor the past 10 years or so I have always been turned on with the thought of having a 3 some with my wife and another guy. on a recent holiday i arranged for a guy to give her a full body massage.again this was a major turn on for me.Our sex life is very good and i have brought the subject up several times during forplay, she tell me just arrange it.Do you think that she realy means it or is it the moment that causes her to say she wants me to arrange it
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reader, slezaksj  +, writes (31 October 2007):
i think you should go for it. it is a common fantasy for a male to want to see his wife pleasured by another male. i have the same fantasy, as does my wife, and we do plan on acting on it at some point. i'm not sure what the fascination is, other than i am a good lover and enjoy the visual stimulation of sex. if it is something that is going to turn her on, then seeing her turned on will turn you on even more!
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hi,
A friend of mines brother put a similar fantasy into practice which was to have a threesome with another woman, not long after she left him, she is now living & having a relationship with the other woman!
In my personal opinion i believe a fantasy should stay a fantasy because I don't believe a relationship can be the same after something like this has happened, but like i said thats just my opinion & it doesn't mean this will happen to you!
Good luck with it anyhow.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Your wife sounds like a very nice gal. But you should definitely ask her when she's not rushing on horniness.
Make sure that she is also enticed by the idea, and that she won't just agree to it to make you happy. That said, just remember - you will be taking a risk by going into a threesome, and some things are just better left as a fantasy. Well - that was my experience at least.
Good luck...
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Sometimes what a woman says when turned on in foreplay is not what she would be ready for as a surprise.
I would suggest that the two of go the local swingers club together as voyeurs the first few times, and if something happens, let it happen there, or linked to there.
There is less of a chance that the other person being brought in will want to threaten your marriage by taking her away.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Why don't you ask her again when you're having dinner rather than during foreplay?
She's the only one who knows whether she's serious or not.
I can't recommend it though, otherwise you might feel a bit left out if the other guy was able to show her a better time than you - lasting for hours instead of minutes.
Phil
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