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writes:I am confused this guy says things like I went overseas with the wrong girl, if you had of been there with me it would have been awesome! and I wouldn't care if we did nothing at all as long as we were together! Then he suddenly changes and pulls away, he said he has been hurt before I just don't know if he's being too nice to tell me to get lost or if he means the things he has said and is trying to protect himself from getting hurt. What should I do, do I just leave him alone completely or just wait and see if he realises that I do really care? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 You should find someone who speaks clearly and goes to the point. If he wants you, he wants you, and if he doesn't, he doesn't. No in-betweens. Say he's been hurt: "you didn't do nothin'", meaning that's his problem.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 He's being too wishy-washy to know for sure. I think those statements definitely proclaim interest, but it's hard to say just how much interest. He could just be saying this stuff to string you along. Sincerity is harder to tell these days.
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reader, madeinbelfast  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Tell him how you feel, then give him a little bit of space to respond, the fact he has admitted he's been hurt before would suggest he thinks of you in an intimate way and has concerns about trust.. But only he can deal with the past hurt. Just you be yourself and be honest about your feelings.. You have no reason to think he would wish to tell you to get lost - we are all fantastic in our own unique ways. Don't put yourself down :o) If he doesn't make a move - it's his decision, but once you know, move on and find happiness within yourself and the rest will come :o)
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