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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello. i need an advice. I'll try to be as short as possible with this. I had a few months of texting with this guy. We went on a few dates, and then once were intimate. After that he still texts me, but after few sentences doesn't continue conversation. He only kind of hinted once that we should do it again, but doesn't insist on meeting. He also asked if i liked it and i complimented him as much as i could. He was great.I don't offer to meet also, as i think he needs to do it, or may be i am old fashioned? I don't text him myself, but every time he texts, I try to initiate converstaion with him, but he leaves me hanging in there without answering my questions, or being very laconic.So my question is: is he waiting for me to ask him on a date? It's been 10 days since i saw him, i really like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Yes, you right, i won't ask him. I am leaving soon on another trip, so i won't talk to him at least to mid september, and then we'll see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Thanks,oldersister. That was ... insightfull to say the least.
I just probably had to mention that we have a certain age difference, that none of us consider this to be a relationship in a society excepted form of relationship.
So, there is no tension between us as far as serios dating goes.
It's unspoken, but we both have our own lifes and basically do what we want w/our sex lives.
It's just i wanted to know if i should ask him to meet again. It's the first time in my experience that a guy just texts without asking to meet. It almost sounded few times like he is shy or smth.like that. I am sure there are other girls that he texts to, i really don't care that much. I meet other men also. I like this one though very much. But thanks a lot for answering, it was very refreshing.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 I agree with Wiser Sister.
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