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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 16 August 2011: As someone else said, this is not silly at all. Just keep going, courageously as always. We're all rooting for you.... (read in full...)
I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 9 August 2011: Keep going!... (read in full...)
His penis is to large and he hates it making our sex infrequent, what can I do?
Q. I'm 26, my boyfriend's 28, we've been together for a month now. He's a lovely guy; kind, caring, decent. However, we've only had sex infrequently. Reason why? His penis is too large and he HATES it, absolutely HATES it; he says women should "...
A. 5 August 2011: My old age tells me this guy is not telling the truth. There may be a problem, but his size, or that of his penis, is not the problem here. In principle he should see a doctor. In practice, I feel that would be a waste of money. Since he is 28,... (read in full...)
Would a guy date a person like me?
Q. I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...
A. 4 August 2011: I echo Jmtmj's answer: yes...yes...yes...... (read in full...)
So many regrets.....
Q. I was in Paris the last 6 weeks. There I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt bad. I was doing things he would never do. We are muslims. And I was drinking making out with guys... In the last week I invited an old friend to come to visit me...
A. 3 August 2011: I am under the impression that you have lived your life in some sort of seclusion and the ties that bind you are gone when you're away and in a place where those ties are gone, too.
You should take it easy. Breathe in, wait, and make a decision... (read in full...)
I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 3 August 2011: You rock!... (read in full...)
I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 2 August 2011: It is normal for you to feel this way.
We haven't seen you, poster, but none of us would reject you for your condition. That doesn't define you.
We never know how long we will live of what will happen tomorrow. Just live! Focus on enjoyin... (read in full...)
She wants to be friends, but I feel like I don't need any more of those....
Q. I liked this girl but she has implied that she wants to be friends. I don't want to sound like a snob but I have enough friends that I don't even find enough time to spend with all of them. I'm 21, and this is a good thing. I feel like if we'...
A. 2 August 2011: She is dumping you. I suggest you act accordingly.... (read in full...)
I have Xeroderma Pigmentosum, do I have the right to fall in love?
Q. i suffer from Xeroderma Pigmentosum or XP. Its an incurable disease that deals with UV rays. I can never go in the sun, and if i do i literally burn. My disease at most has a limit of twenty years, which means in most cases a person who has XP lives ...
A. 2 August 2011: Your feelings are pretty much understandable. I trust you will meet someone who will appreciate you for who you are. You are not your disease, dear. You're a lovely person. Know that for sure.... (read in full...)
I feel disgusting and like no one will ever respect me because I've not only had sex, but with more than one person!
Q. I have slept with two guys in my life. Most of my friends haven't even been with one. It's not like I barely knew either guy, I knew both very well and genuinely cared for them. The problem is, being only sixteen, I feel cheap. I wish I could go...
A. 2 August 2011: Well, I respect you. But then I'm the devil.... (read in full...)
She is still with her thuggish boyfriend. Should I pursue her again or not?
Q. So this time last year everything was perfect, I had the girl, the money and the friends. In september she left me for her ex who had started to threaten me over her. Everything went downhill from here, stuff at work went wrong and ended up in me ...
A. 2 August 2011: She went with the other guy. I wouldn't go back to her.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that she is being played?
Q. Hi, I have two really close friends who have recently been introduced due to my upcoming wedding. My male friend is a bit of a player, and has decided he likes my female friend, and has been pursuing her. I found out at the weekend that he...
A. 1 August 2011: This is a difficult thing. I think there is no easy answer. You could say that she is an adult and has to look after herself, but you could also say that it is extremely wrong to know that someone will be taken advantage of and remain as if ... (read in full...)
Unhappy in my marriage. Should I leave for a 70yr old man or is he too old?
Q. Should I stay or go? I'm soon really soon to be 50. August 12th. I've been married to a man a was very much in love with for 8 years. He has always looked at porn said that what he does when I'm not home is none of my business. He stopped touching ...
A. 1 August 2011: I see two different issues here. One is whether the poster should divorce, and the other is whether she should go for the seventy-year old. One thing does not necessarily have to lead to the other.
I think you should never end a relation... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is working 7 days a week and never has time to see me! I'm worried it's just an excuse.....
Q. i've been with my bf for 3years. and for the past 1 year i find that his behaviour is changing. each time i want to spent time with him, he will keep on giving me excuses such as i'm busy with work. i'm so tired. when we 1st noe each other we always ...
A. 1 August 2011: Some people do have to work harder than slaves. In this case, however, it seems this is his excuse.... (read in full...)
How can someone who always goes to church and used to be so loving, become such a major jerk?
Q. I feel so sad. Please read and any advice would be deeply appreciated. I thought I met my soul mate 3 years ago. We were inseparable. I was so captivated by his kindness, generosity, affection for my daughter(from a previous long term relationship). ...
A. 1 August 2011: Oops, I forgot: Wear your fisherwoman's sandals, and you'll become a fisherwoman of men. Never better said: "There are plenty of fish in the sea".... (read in full...)
How can someone who always goes to church and used to be so loving, become such a major jerk?
Q. I feel so sad. Please read and any advice would be deeply appreciated. I thought I met my soul mate 3 years ago. We were inseparable. I was so captivated by his kindness, generosity, affection for my daughter(from a previous long term relationship). ...
A. 1 August 2011: Many people will hate me for saying this, but not all churchgoers are nice people. Before people throw metaphorical (and perhaps even real) stones at me, however, let us all remember that even Jesus said that not everyone who called him "Lord" ... (read in full...)
I sent a text saying I was breaking up with him but he didn't respond. What does that mean?
Q. Hi,im going out with this guy at first it was so great we would go out every weekend until some months ago he stoped going out with me and when i ask were he was, he says i was with the guys.im fed up with it told him wanted to talk but his been ...
A. 1 August 2011: Maybe he sees no point in responding. You broke up with him.... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....
Q. Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...
A. 30 July 2011: If this is a real post, what you need to do is lock yourself up in that room and wait until this wish for self-inflicting pain and misery goes away.... (read in full...)
Is the reason I am alone because I have too many rules for guys to follow?
Q. I recently met a guy who seemed really great and like he was exactly what I was looking for... he even took my number when I said that "I don't call people". But when he called me, I wasn't home, and he didn't leave his number. I have no way to get ...
A. 30 July 2011: I think I have spotted your problem. You know, it begins when you mistreat people ("I don't call people"), don't take the guy's number, and complain that, since he doesn't call back, you should forget about him. You're not really interested in ... (read in full...)
All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....
Q. Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...
A. 30 July 2011: What everyone else has done is the best predictor of what one particular person will do. Yeah, right.... (read in full...)
How do you tell someone that you like them?
Q. We're friends for sure, good friends. But I sense that maybe she may like me, we've only known each other well for maybe 6 months, before that she had a boyfriend and we hardly ever talked at work. Then when she broke up I turned it on and now we're ...
A. 30 July 2011: Yeah, don't rush it, but, why don't you drop an "I like you" at some point?... (read in full...)
How come it's much harder for a man to to find someone to cheat with?
Q. Statistics show that the number of both attached men and women that cheat on their significant other are about equal. If this is true, how come it's much harder for a man to meet a woman to cheat with than it is for a woman to find a man to do the ...
A. 29 July 2011: I disagree with you.... (read in full...)
Is it legal to date an ex teacher?
Q. Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? T...
A. 28 July 2011: I think it's illegal for you to date your teacher at your age. Beyond that, I wonder whether it is convenient. How old is he?
I truly hope his concern about dating you isn't only whether the cops would go after him or not. I hope he takes ma... (read in full...)
Should I stop watching porn?
Q. Can anyone tell me of any reasons that they can think of as to why I shouldn't watch porn? I watch it every couple of weeks, or so - just when I'm in the mood to. But then I feel sort of guilty, like I shouldn't be watching it. Do you think I should ...
A. 28 July 2011: All I can tell you is, this is not my business. I wonder if I make it clear what I mean with this.... (read in full...)
Will I ever be enough for him?
Q. Will I ever be enough for him? My boyfriend and I have a one year old child together, he also has two other children that he has full custody of. He never puts my sons needs first, me and my son are always coming up short of spending any tim...
A. 28 July 2011: I am not sorry to say that this man does not seem to love you the way he should. His kicking you out of the house was absolutely incorrect and wrong. It was also wrong to ask you to stay at home and be a housewife.
You need to stand up for your... (read in full...)
I think I have a really high sex drive, is this normal?
Q. I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't h...
A. 28 July 2011: You're normal.... (read in full...)
Broke up with my bf the same day he found out his dad dosent have long to live
Q. i broke up with my bf the same day he found out his father is very sick and can die anyday... ok this might sound very bad on my part but my ex bf really didnt leave me no choice... he has been calling me names putting me down and always accusing me ...
A. 22 July 2011: Ideally, you could be there for him. In real life, I don't think so. He would use you. I think you can still show interest in the father's health, and your boyfriend's well-being, without that necessarily implying that you have to be in a ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to want sex? And to prefer a relationship without it?
Q. To be short and blunt, sex doesn't interest me at all. I thought it did but it was just me being hung up on being a virgin. Once I got past this barrier, sex just doesn't appeal to me. Is this normal and is there any way to have a relationship ...
A. 22 July 2011: Usually, when you "pass the barrier", you want to make repeated and frequent use of that gap in the Berlin wall. So I would say your lack of interest in sex is not "usual".
Maybe you're gay?
If not, then perhaps you're just afraid of it but... (read in full...)
I'm confused, are we over?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we recently had an arguement because i went online and found he was talking to other females, without my knowledge. He told me he wanted to make it work and not to give up on him. Talked about and ...
A. 22 July 2011: Was he talking to other females as a friend, or what?
I think you should really work on your communication. You two have to make things clear, and that is done by talking. If he refuses to talk again, then don't try and move on.... (read in full...)
Am I just hoping for too much?
Q. Both me and the man in question look in our thirties/ years younger (not being vain,it is just what people say) and believe me there have been so many fireworks going on between us. but we are both very professional about our roles etc. I just want...
A. 22 July 2011: He's in a position where he cannot show interest in you, but he may have such an interest. Why don't you wait until you've graduated, and see what happens then?... (read in full...)
Psychiatry work related question...
Q. Can you become a psychiatrist because you enjoy helping people but have a hard time solving some of your own issues? ...
A. 22 July 2011: Your friendly Devil wants to answer this question. It's always easier to understand, digest, analyze, whateverize, if you're not personally involved. That is why you have trouble with your own issues.
You can become a psychiatrist, all right.... (read in full...)
Being overlooked for a promotion at work, has left me feeling worthless
Q. I am feeling fairly worthless. Someone got promoted at my work who is less experienced than I am, and younger. She's got very little experience to work in that capacity, and complains to management frequently about people who apparently upset her ...
A. 22 July 2011: I wish I could say otherwise, but "life sucks". Such things happen. From what you say, you're maybe not as good for office politics, and that is a good skill to have if you plan to climb the corporate ladder on virtues other than hard work.
... (read in full...)
Is it too much to expect the man who wants to marry me to treat me to a gift once-in-a-while?
Q. I’m trying to figure something out concerning my relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We don’t live in the same town and see each other at weekends. We get along well, he does housework, he cooks, he calls me in his lunch hour just to say h...
A. 21 July 2011: Short answer: no. Are you sure he isn't just tight?... (read in full...)
What's the best way to make her think, and choose me?
Q. I've been fooling around with my classmate for long months now. Each time we went out, we ended up in bed together (not having sex, just petting and cuddling). She's in a long term relationship with someone else. Back when I started to fancy her, I ...
A. 20 July 2011: Never ever get involved with anyone who is taken. Not just for you, but for the other person involved, who has done you no harm.
You might want her for yourself, but she doesn't seem to want herself for you. Otherwise, she would have left the... (read in full...)
A girl I liked said her ex was back but wanted to stay friends.
Q. Dear all, I want your opinion on this: I met this girl and we went out on 3 dates. Some dates I initiated and some she initiated. We had such a good time, we talked, laughed and flirted for hours and we had so many things in common, but I didn't m...
A. 20 July 2011: Her behavior: She told you she doesn't like you.
Your behavior: Correct, except for the hug.
What I think of this story: to each his or her own. Move on and find someone else. BUT, make sure you never take her back. She already found yo... (read in full...)
Does she want to have an affair with me?
Q. Hi Cupids. I am a married man and I am friendly with a married woman whose daughter is in gymnastics with my two daughters. Recently she has been confiding in me about how her husband and her don't do things together and that she is unhappy...
A. 20 July 2011: In addition to what the others have said, I'll tell you this much: the fact that she's confiding in you is perhaps the best indicator that she isn't thinking about anything sexual with you. Otherwise, you'd be in bed by now.
Like Maverick... (read in full...)
Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!
Q. MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...
A. 20 July 2011: It's nice to read this kind of posts once in a while, particularly when you're a little devil. This puts a devilish smile on your face. Bwa-ha-ha.
Me being the Devil, I will make sure I visit you tonight, to make you crave for oral sex. Bwa-ha-... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is immature...will he ever change?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of two years have a child. He's 23 and I'm 21 he has another child with a woman out of state. He doesn't work, he's on unemployment and is going to school. It seems as if I'm doing all the work with the baby and with trying to ...
A. 20 July 2011: It is well known that a 17 year old girl can usually function as a normal human being, while a 17-year old boy just can't do the same, save for those exceptional guys, or exceptional parents, or exceptional circumstances.
It takes some time, bu... (read in full...)
Pain in right testicle and also had a little rash. Plz help!!
Q. Hi, im 19 years old, male!! Im feeling a slight pain in my Right terticle for last few days!! I musterbate regularly (4,5 time every week) !! Is it causing any pain?? I also had a little rash outside!! I can also feel a little pain right side little ...
A. 20 July 2011: You will feel a pain "down there" once in a while. It can be a serious thing or something that goes away. In my cases, it has gone away and here I am.
The rash and the pain, both in the penis and the right testicle, may be the result of too much... (read in full...)
If a woman already likes you, does it really matter what you say to them?
Q. Hope its ok to ask quite a short and simple question: Ive been told by a friend that in regards to a woman, when talking to them it doesnt really matter what you say, if they already like you, thats half the battle won. Us men can say some ...
A. 20 July 2011: I don't think anyone will forgive everything.... (read in full...)
Is it worth going after a man who is very popular with women?
Q. Is it worth going after a guy who is very attractive, and who a lot of girls fancy ?. This guy seems interested in me. I think he is very attractive, but i've noticed from his facebook page that a lot of girls find him attractive. They post comments ...
A. 19 July 2011: Date Hugo Chávez instead. Surely you won't have much competition there :-).... (read in full...)
She said its over, so why does she want to remain in my life?
Q. My girlfriend, who I'd been living with for the past three and a half years, broke up with me two and a half months ago due to problems we had been having. The sex had been more or less none existent for a year and a half (once a month on average)...
A. 19 July 2011: Whether she knows what she wants, or not, what do you want? Do you like things as they are now? If you do, stay with her. If you don't, you make the decision to break up.
... (read in full...)
Trapped in a sexless marriage for almost 20 years, wife won't have sex and won't say why she doesn't want to. Should I leave?
Q. I have been with my wife for almost 20 years now. We have had a sexless marriage for most of that time. We were arguing about it even just 1 year into the relationship. It's not that we never, ever have sex, but we go years in-between having i...
A. 19 July 2011: Sorry to be this blunt, but there has to be one reason why you stayed there for twenty years. The marriage is non-existent, the relationship is just bad, but you stay there. This, you're not sharing, and we don't need you to. If you want to ... (read in full...)
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