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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 29 November 2011: Just to reply to the person who said that "she can marry anyone she wants". Technically, the answer is yes. In practice, the answer is no. Jehovah's witnesses live under very strict mind control. Their asshole elders decide who gest to do ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 29 November 2011: Just to reply to the person who said that "she can marry anyone she wants". Technically, the answer is yes. In practice, the answer is no. Jehovah's witnesses live under very strict mind control. Their asshole elders decide who gest to do ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 28 November 2011: On second thought, please visit these websites and become informed:
www.jwfacts.com
www.freeminds.org
www.jehovahs-witness.net... (read in full...)
The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 28 November 2011: One more thing. There is a good thing about mixing with Jehovah's witnesses, if you do it with open eyes. You learn how religion is nothing but a lie. In their case, it's simply a more cultic and blatant one.
Trust me.
Maybe you won't trust ... (read in full...)
The girl I like is a Jehovah's Witness
Q. There's this girl who I found to be amazing. I am the type to fall for girls who "catch my eye" as in i am picky and i go for girls who call out to me. This girl caught my eye a while ago but she's one of those girls that i call wayy out of my le...
A. 28 November 2011: Dear friend, trust me a lot, a hell of a lot, on this one: You don't want to do that. TRUST ME. The Jehovah's witnesses religion is a dangerous cult. These good people are manipulated by criminal leaders. Until they are free of that problem ... (read in full...)
Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...
A. 28 November 2011: Interesting... (read in full...)
The man who I thought of as a father figure has started hitting on me and I think its disgusting!
Q. Hi all, I am feeling so pathetic right now. So I recently got to know this particular someone through my work. He was like a father figure as he was very helpful and I felt like he treated me like a daughter-ish or you know, like h...
A. 28 November 2011: I trust this will let you see that people do not necessarily see us in the same light we see them. You may have thought of him as a father figure, but he didn't see you as his daughter.
Being older than he is, frankly I can't see why he should. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 19 years left me for a married man and is now pregnant
Q. Hi me and my partner were together for 19 years , and had 2 kids , we both now have a child each . we split up 13 months ago and she is now pregnant .i was in hospital and when i came home she had left, it was 2 weeks before i found out that she ...
A. 28 November 2011: All I can say is that life sometimes sucks. It will do you no good to focus on the past. She is not returning, and if she did things would not be the way they used to be. She has a child by another man now.
This kind of things hurt a lot, but... (read in full...)
My vagina is so small it is stopping us from having sex! Help!
Q. I am married from 4 months, me and my hubby tried a lot to have sex, but it never happens :( I feel my vagina is too small and his penis is too large for me. I read some articles saying that vagina feels small until the hymen breaks. But how to ...
A. 21 November 2011: I read somewhere that sometimes the woman is so afraid of the relationship that she actually "closes up". I need to find the reference, however.
I was going to ask if this was the first man it happened with, but, since you are asking about th... (read in full...)
He lied to me and I'm starting to have my doubts about him
Q. Two days ago my boyfriend told me he had to go do some work-related stuff. He told me it would take him a couple of hours and he would come see me right after he was done. Five hours or so later (it was really late by then, around 12am or somethin...
A. 21 November 2011: What the girls said.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has trust issues and checks my email, facebook. I don't like this!
Q. Hi! My girlfriend seems to have some trust issues. I got an email from a kind of exgirlfriend and when I saw it on the mailbox my current girlfriend was right next to me and saw it too. The following day she read thoroughly my mailbox looking for ...
A. 21 November 2011: Anonymous female: Judging by the number of people who have that behavior, you'd think otherwise.... (read in full...)
Squeaky bed spoiling sex
Q. Hi, We have a baby in our room and a squeaky bed! Squeaky bed either wakes baby or makes sex less enjoyable as we have to be more careful. We have a metal bed and wanted to know if people have had the same problem. Do we have to get ri...
A. 21 November 2011: Never had this problem myself, but I had a neighbor who had a squeaky bed. Get another bed., or eventually a neighbor will scream something like "Do it quickly, Johnny! I have a test tomorrow!"... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to date and feel used!
Q. Hi everyone. I need help on this issue. I was married at a young age and am new to dating at the age of 30. I decided to use a dating site since I don't go out much. I'm very well educated, great shape, have assets, but stupid when it comes to ...
A. 21 November 2011: Eddie said very good words, BUT, like Mark Twain would say:
ALSO! Keep your eyes open when you find a date in your church. Those guys can also be interested in a quick hook-up, as well. Their being at church does not mean they can't do harm.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has trust issues and checks my email, facebook. I don't like this!
Q. Hi! My girlfriend seems to have some trust issues. I got an email from a kind of exgirlfriend and when I saw it on the mailbox my current girlfriend was right next to me and saw it too. The following day she read thoroughly my mailbox looking for ...
A. 21 November 2011: Hey, español: it's a matter of perspective, and also a matter of trust. In your world and mine, her checking your e-mail means she is very intrusive. Like your mother, only worse. In the world of English speakers, this seems to happen very ... (read in full...)
How do I let him down gently without hurting him?
Q. I'm friendly with a guy thru my circle of friends. We met recently and he's very nice and funny BUT too young for me and I don't think I feel any sparks. He's been trying to get me to go out and I wouldn't mind but not more then as friends. How do I ...
A. 21 November 2011: It's impossible. Be clear and direct. Something like "Mr Nice Guy, I see you like me but I don't feel the same. Sorry. I think it is best if we keep our distance for a while. I will define how long that while will be. It's not personal".
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Are high cheekbones attractive?
Q. Are high cheek bones on a woman attractive? Or not attractive? I've just noticed how high my cheekbones actually are! My grandma said all women in our family have high cheekbones i just never noticed... They arent like that noticable im not skinny ...
A. 4 November 2011: In four words: sometimes.... (read in full...)
He's been extremely annoying with his continual requests for anal sex!
Q. Hey everyone, I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love very much. BUT (isn't there always a but?) he keeps pressuring me to have anal sex with him. I'm happy to do it once a week or so, but every day is too much and it hurts. Also, he doesn't like ...
A. 4 November 2011: Amen to what others have said.... (read in full...)
Men are selfish!
Q. Ok, the title says it all and I am sick to death, borderline disgusted by the selfish nature of men. Let's not deny it. It is 100% true. I have no problem attracting men. But here's the thing, The second an attractive woman ignores the man who is c...
A. 3 November 2011: I suppose it makes no sense to say that this is a blanket generalization made on the basis of the poster's (and some aunts') experiences with a few men, not ALL of them. Men are like trees, right? Once you know one, you know them all.... (read in full...)
Men are selfish!
Q. Ok, the title says it all and I am sick to death, borderline disgusted by the selfish nature of men. Let's not deny it. It is 100% true. I have no problem attracting men. But here's the thing, The second an attractive woman ignores the man who is c...
A. 3 November 2011: Don't marry.... (read in full...)
Dating a man with no confidence!
Q. Hey everyone! I'm unofficially seeing this man. And it's the "unofficial" stamp that prevents me from telling my friends about it, so that's why Im on here instead of asking them for advice. The man I am dating is an insecure one. He has litt...
A. 2 November 2011: I have had my share of extreme shyness myself, but I never met anyone who hides he is with someone - except when there is an angry husband or an angry "other woman". I don't know if there is another person, but that is what I would be concerned ... (read in full...)
Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?
Q. I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't ...
A. 2 November 2011: Of course you can do whatever you want, but... I think you shouldn't change your physique just to taste somebody else's idea of how you should be.
Also (hey, I'm a little devil) I liked the "I can orgasm" part. I wouldn't change that :-), and... (read in full...)
Does she mean she doesn't want to talk to me anymore?
Q. I met a girl about three weeks ago. I hungout with her two days after we met. Anyways, we talked alot the first week. We were both flirty and I could tell we both liked each other. She slept over the next weekend and we had a good night. The next ...
A. 2 November 2011: Nope, you shouldn't wait for her to text you, or call you, or whatever. Just move on.... (read in full...)
Could he be cheating? I'm Confused and need advice about his behavioral changes, please?
Q. I have been in this relationship for 4 yrs now. Everything has been going well. But last week while doing laundry I noticed some staining if you will in my man's undies. Ok I know that doesn't mean much, it can happen. But then one of his unde...
A. 2 November 2011: In all of my life, I have never lost my underwear. I have thrown them away, tore them (speculations as to methodology are left to the reader), but never "lost" them. That sounds odd. But his shaving down there is what seems odd.... (read in full...)
Dating a man with no confidence!
Q. Hey everyone! I'm unofficially seeing this man. And it's the "unofficial" stamp that prevents me from telling my friends about it, so that's why Im on here instead of asking them for advice. The man I am dating is an insecure one. He has litt...
A. 2 November 2011: Tisha is right.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?
Q. Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...
A. 31 October 2011: Note to You Wish, and hopefully for the poster as well: Please, let's notice that the poster seems to have no question about this being something for the long haul.
This is a very tough situation because, yes, the pregnancy is 100% the woman's.... (read in full...)
Why does he want to have a baby with me and not get married?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for nearly a year, and living together for over 6 months. He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's. We both have been divorced. He recently expressed that he wants to have a baby, and we agreed ...
A. 31 October 2011: I wish I could be different than blunt. But I think that is not appropriate in matters of the heart (or maybe in any matter at all). I hope I am wrong, but in my heart I have no doubts that Mr In His Forties was not thinking about marrying. I ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?
Q. Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...
A. 31 October 2011: Disclaimer: personally, I think abortion under this circumstances would not be right. The kid would be eliminated because he or she is a financial burden. You would expect 28 year olds to know what they are doing and what the consequences of sex ... (read in full...)
I'm bored and frustrated with my relationship! Help!
Q. I've just divorced my husband of 20 years then met this man 16 years older than me. Im attracted to him because he's more caring and understanding than my ex-husband. He has no kids and has his own home and car and still working with a good ...
A. 31 October 2011: You have to choose whether you want to stay with Good but Cheap.... (read in full...)
I really need a male's perspective on this question...
Q. This has been bothering me for months now... I am in a great relationship with this guy for almost 6 months now ( we are both in our 30's) and we are very happy together. We were on our first vacation together and it had been only 2 months that ...
A. 31 October 2011: One way to see this is that he was trying to see if you would agree to his fantasy. You said no, he understands so, he won't mention it again. Period.
On the other hand, I suspect that you are wondering whether he truly loves you, since he can e... (read in full...)
Can I have a good life with my controlling man who also tells me lies?
Q. Hi, The man I'm with is a liar, he lies frequently and sometimes over ridiculous things I never know what's real what's not. He was married and even lied about his exes age to me until divorce papers arrived and I seen her age. He's got a tem...
A. 31 October 2011: If what you post here is true, then I see no reason for you to even consider staying with him. With all these "virtues", I think the vast majority of women would have left by now.... (read in full...)
Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex
Q. Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...
A. 31 October 2011: I have the feeling that he badly wants sex. I don't know whether that is all he wants, but I would be careful. Why don't you tell him that you want to know him better? Make him wait and see what happens.... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I'm worth it?
Q. I am currently trying to mend a relationship that ended because she freaks out at any sign of commitment. We still talk everyday and hang out, she said she doesn't want anything but then says she wants to try and that she really likes me. every time ...
A. 19 October 2011: You can't convince her you're worth it. She has to determine that herself. By definition, being "worth it" means being "worth it" for her.
On the other hand, let me give you a piece of advice, the kind that is learned the very hard way (like yo... (read in full...)
Used my boyfriend's computer and found out he's been using web sex cam sites
Q. I am living with my boyfriend and I just went to use his computer. He works in online marketing so I was aware there would be a lot of things in that nature that I would see BUT I saw that he has been on web cam sex sites - I doubt he needs to go to ...
A. 19 October 2011: Yep: Ask.... (read in full...)
Why do people give up so easily? Why don't dumper's communicate until it's too late?
Q. My ex dumped me out of the blue. He said that I have no self confidence [not true] and I'm not assertive enough- that I'm a push over. So why did he wait until it was too late to tell me this? Why didn't he even tell me this sooner? Why didn't he ...
A. 19 October 2011: Telling someone that you don't love them anymore is a difficult thing to do. That is why he "waited".... (read in full...)
I am very upset that someone else is treating my son in this way - what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid My son is 8 and lives with my ex-husband and his wife every second weekend. Last weekend, the wife had an argument with my son and my son lay face down on the couch. The wife told him to stay there until he had calmed down. He went t...
A. 19 October 2011: So Very Confused is so very right here. Talk to both parents now.
Your child coud be lying, or he could be telling the truth but forgetting to mention his own behavior. In any case, his father should have intervened -and he didn't. So you need... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my parents' reaction to this interracial relationship
Q. I'm a white girl who's developing feelings for a guy who's Cambodian. While our differences in race do not bother me at all, I'm worried about how my parents will react if anything truly develops between me and the boy I like. While I'm legally an ...
A. 18 October 2011: I do not believe that a good relationship with your parents depends on your not dating a white man. If this is the case, then your parents are bossy, not disciplinarian. You cannot "step out", so to speak, or you lose their love.
The time alw... (read in full...)
Honest opinions: Are all boys like this over oral sex or is he out of order?
Q. hi, have been with my bf for 5 years. we are both 26. we keep on having the same arguement ALL the time its regarding oral sex and we he nearly finished our relationship over it a couple of weeks ago. bjs are really important to him but i re...
A. 18 October 2011: In full agreement with distinguished Mr. Grant.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that I don't want a man in my life anymore?
Q. I've divorced my husband. We've been married for 20 years. My husband is 10 years older than me is a selfish controlling and very mean with money. Even if needed he wont spend. I've met this man 16 years older have the same issue - money is ...
A. 18 October 2011: Be upfront, or things will only get worse.
Make sure you don't want a man, any man, in your life as opposed to that particular man you're involved with.... (read in full...)
do guys even want to be in a casual relationship with a girl who doesn't want to offer him sex?
Q. i've recently starting hanging out with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl. this works for me as i'm not interested in anything serious, i just enjoy the flirting and the company because we are both attracted to each other. the ...
A. 18 October 2011: Ha-ha. Young nice man is planting a seed: you might eventually agree to have sex, you know... It's not that he doesn't know where he stands now; he's just testing the waters in the hope that maybe, just maybe...... (read in full...)
Struggling to get my 14 year old to open up about her first love and first break-up, any other moms going through this?
Q. Hi...so, my 14 year old "little" girl has just experienced her first love and now it seems like her first breakup!..She is not allowed to go on dates yet, but the young boy often came to our house over weekends..and every now and then a group of ...
A. 18 October 2011: Maybe she wants to keep this to herself?... (read in full...)
How long should I date her without a sexual relationship?
Q. I am a male with a high-sex drive in my mid twenties. I have had a lot of partners and dated even more women, but only one previous lover. I met this new girl who I am absolutely attracted to in multiple dynamics and hope her to be my next love....
A. 18 October 2011: I believe the question assumes that we all have sex with our partners at the same time into the relationship. I also believe that my merely stating this is enough to show that this is not the case.
I feel that the real question is "should ... (read in full...)
I fall for men too quickly, how do I stop this?
Q. How do you stop getting too emotionally involved too quickly? I have been dating a very nice man for a couple of weeks, and I am conscious that I am probably falling for him too quickly. I think he is great, his personality, his sense of humour...
A. 14 October 2011: My impression is that you need love and, once you find a lovable person, you tend to cling to him tooth and nail.
It is not every person that you like who will love you like you deserve. You may have all the need for love in the world, but make... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: Yes, I agree. This is absolutely different.
I don't buy it when people say they join such sites "just to see what they are like". I always think that their real intent is to see if they like them. And, if they do, they stay.... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: It's obvious that he likes black girls, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
I thinkt he real issue here is that the porn is making you feel insecure. Why don't you talk to him and say it? "Hey, I hate it when you see porn! Am I not good... (read in full...)
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