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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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My daughter is 4 years old and has never met her father. He is single now and I am hoping that he will assume his responsibilities... is this wrong of me?
Q. I have a daughter who is 4 years old, ever since she has been born she has not seen her father. I met her father at a bar and within a few weeks of dating I becasme pregnant. We broke up after being together a month. Then I found out i was pregnant ...
A. 14 January 2012: Make sure you don't instill in your daughter the feeling that "something is missing" and "everything would be best if your daddy were here". That is destructive like you can't imagine. Really move on, and forget the man.... (read in full...)
Why would a goodlooking guy find ME attractive? I have low self esteem!
Q. I can't wrap my head around why a good looking guy would like me or even find me attractive? He could get a really gorgeous girl, so why me? When we met in a bar a week ago, he said he thought I was attractive and had to get my number and see m...
A. 13 January 2012: Maybe you're hot and you don't see yourself that way?... (read in full...)
My daughter is 4 years old and has never met her father. He is single now and I am hoping that he will assume his responsibilities... is this wrong of me?
Q. I have a daughter who is 4 years old, ever since she has been born she has not seen her father. I met her father at a bar and within a few weeks of dating I becasme pregnant. We broke up after being together a month. Then I found out i was pregnant ...
A. 12 January 2012: Good question. In giving my opinion, I want to take the side of your child. I feel it is in your best child's interests NOT to hear from her father or want any sort of relationship with him. "The other lady" told you the truth.
The father i... (read in full...)
Should I send him a private message or post it on his FB wall?
Q. Do you prefer writing comments on someone's wall on Facebook, or sending them private messages? I want to arrange a date with this guy, but I'm not sure whether to send him a comment or a private message. I'm worried in case he won't see the private ...
A. 12 January 2012: Private.... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 11 January 2012: So my being friends with you means you can't date my sibling unless I bestow my approval?... (read in full...)
To what extent is it considered stringing someone along?
Q. When a guy calls you all the time and shows interest in you, then doesn't call as much anymore but still returns your phone calls when you call him, is that considered stringing along? When men aren't interested in a woman but they know she is ...
A. 11 January 2012: What if the interest he showed was personal, but not romantical, and you misread him?... (read in full...)
My older girlfriend wants to settle down but I don't feel that attracted to her anymore, what should I do?
Q. I have been dating this girl for almost a year and a half, she is 5 years older than me and maybe this September we will be going our own ways. She may be in other cities pursuing school. I have to option of completing my degree where she would ...
A. 10 January 2012: You tell her you don't want what she wants and you part ways.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always had sex without a condom and it really bothers me
Q. Hi folks, I have a kind of a weird problem: I've found the girl of my dream, we are together for 6 months, and I love her. I told myself I'll make sex without a condom only with my wife. The problem is that she's never used a condom before, the othe...
A. 10 January 2012: If you were to look at this problem twenty years from now, would it matter that much?... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 10 January 2012: Why should poster ask the friend about it?... (read in full...)
Is my penis really that small? My wife seems to think I am lacking in that department.....
Q. I need some advice on the classic "size" question. My wife has indicated that she thinks I am lacking a bit, or not average. This bothers me. I am about 5.8 x 5.1. However, when not erect, its about 2-3. From others perspective, is th...
A. 10 January 2012: My opinion is that there are other problems in this marriage. If penis size were the only problem, then Wife would have manifested that long before.
What's more, me being a young devil, I would even assume that you had sex before marriage... (read in full...)
I'm a straight guy who's in love with a bi guy! How do I approach him?
Q. Hey there, I need help for a mind-torturing situation... I'm a straight guy who's in love with a man.I've known him for 10 years, we occasionally worked together, have friends in common, meet on a regular basis.Since the day we met I've felt a v...
A. 10 January 2012: You're not straight.... (read in full...)
Could my friend's mom be interested in me?
Q. For a while now, iv been wanting to have sex with my girl friends mom (not my partner but a really close friend.) Me and the girl had sex before but now were just friends which is really weird because I never thought it could happen. But everytime ...
A. 9 January 2012: I beg to differ with the male poster who said a woman twice the poster's age cannot possibly be interested in him. That happens, and the interest is usually sexual only.
I agree that the lady might only be nice to poster, who may be reading ... (read in full...)
HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't
Q. I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me ...
A. 9 January 2012: What is the problem with girl likes guy?... (read in full...)
My husband is becoming overweight and unhealthy - wouldn't he stop doing this if he loved me?
Q. Hello Everyone, first of all i would like to thank this site. everytime i am in trouble this is the only place i can go and at least release my problem. I grow up to what they called, disfunctional family. I got no love from my own parents spec...
A. 9 January 2012: If you are between the ages of 36 and 40, and he is half your age older than you, he's between the ages of 53 and 60. He's already what some people would call "an old man". Having a belly does not change that much.
I don't think the problem ... (read in full...)
I just found out my partner was a prostitute
Q. Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...
A. 9 January 2012: Poster, you are right, and I still believe you should leave her.... (read in full...)
Do some women also have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex?
Q. People always say that men have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex. But I think some women can be like this too. I'm not trying to be sexist. I just think there are some situations where it's always the woman who "decides" when ...
A. 7 January 2012: I suspect there is a problem. Namely, that poster can only have sex if and when posteress wants. I hope I'm wrong.... (read in full...)
Do some women also have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex?
Q. People always say that men have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex. But I think some women can be like this too. I'm not trying to be sexist. I just think there are some situations where it's always the woman who "decides" when ...
A. 6 January 2012: I don't think reality is that simple.
If a woman says she doesnt' want to have sex, then she should be left alone. You would say that this gives the woman control over sex. She would then decide whether there will be sex or not. But sometime... (read in full...)
Can my LDR boyfriend have blocked me on msn by mistake?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with a British man for eight years. Although our relationship is fantastic when we are together, I've caught him trying to cybercheat on me several times. He loves women's attention, and has several female ...
A. 6 January 2012: I agree that you don't block people by mistake. I don't understand why he would block your accounts (actually, I don't understand why you would have several accounts, but that is another matter).
It is possible that he blocks you and then rem... (read in full...)
In love with an older fellow colleague. How do I find out if he is available and interested in me?
Q. I am a resident doctor (1st year) as a general practitioner in Spain. I am not Spanish. In June, 1 month after starting work, my boss set up a 2 hour class on suture tecnique with a surgeon. Beside his amazing demonstrations, he happened to be very ...
A. 6 January 2012: My opinion as a Latin American man (not that far away from Spanish):
1. His going to Nepal means nothing. He may have gone with his family. I have seen families travel together to do charity work.
Maybe he hung out with hot Nepali women aft... (read in full...)
Are men in their early 40s usually uninterested in sex? He tells me some relationships don't need sex
Q. Hi, do men in their early 40s go off sex?. My partner is 42 and our sex life is non exsistent. He says he is tired and that some relationships dont need sex, that you can be with someone and friendship is more important. I am 6 yrs younger than him ...
A. 6 January 2012: I think we men love sex at all ages. I also think he knows that.
Problems don't solve themselves.
You should not cheat if that is what you mean by "seeking your own pleasure elsewhere". If the relationship does not offer what you need, talk t... (read in full...)
I treat this guy like a king, but he is unorganized has not time for me and doesn't like anything I suggest to try to help!
Q. I'm a 43 year old divorced woman dating a 46 year old divorced man for a year. We have each been divorced for years. I've had 2 relationships before him. One with a man who was a jackass and treated me badly, but whom I loved so very much...I ...
A. 6 January 2012: I agree the guy is not what you want. I say, pay attention to the other posters and say goodbye to him.... (read in full...)
He has two sides and I fear of the evil one! Do I ask him to leave?
Q. My story is very complicated but I really need advice on what to do. I am 26 years old im about to start Grad School. I was raised in a very Christian home which I am proud of because of the values my parents set. The issue is Im Bi-Sexual and ...
A. 6 January 2012: Yes, get the man out of your house and out of your life. Also, try to get people to respect you and not just see you as someone they can abuse. Accept you're gay.... (read in full...)
What are guys thoughts of shy girls?
Q. hey here is my question: what do guys feel of shy girls? cause i am really shy and i dont know how to act around guys :/ i could really use you help and advise...
A. 6 January 2012: (She's shy). This is what I would think.... (read in full...)
I just found out my partner was a prostitute
Q. Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...
A. 6 January 2012: Throughout history, men are known to have fallen in love with prostitutes. They are women, so why should that not happen at all?
Value judgments aside, the poster is not happy with what he discovered. It is clear she would never tell him that... (read in full...)
Why is it that when men play around they are champs and women are called names???
Q. I just want to know why is it when men play around with 3 or more women its ok. Hes looked up to as the CHAMP. BUT if a female plays around with 3 men or more. She gets called a "HOE" : "SLUT" : A "WHORE". JUST about every name in the book. why is ...
A. 5 January 2012: It's called "See, I have this double standard: I want to have sex with as many as I can, but I want you to be a virgin, because I want to feel you would never cheat on me and I believe your past sex life is an indication of your likelihood of ... (read in full...)
I just found out my partner was a prostitute
Q. Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ...
A. 5 January 2012: I agree with Eyes. More information is needed. Do you say "was" as in "used to be"?... (read in full...)
Should I speak up & still walk away w/ my dignity?
Q. Met him about 5mos ago thru my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later and its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better and he gave me his busy schedule excuse about 2mos ...
A. 5 January 2012: Go and suffer no more.... (read in full...)
Am I nuts, or is it wrong of my ex wife to make me a babysitter so she can get laid in her own bed?
Q. I am worried (I guess that is the best word) that my ex-wife is shirking some of her responsibilities as primary custodian of my son. She is a great Mom, but I have been asked a few times lately to take my son and keep him out to a specific time. ...
A. 1 January 2012: I see two things here: one is about ex-husband and ex-wife, and the other is about the son.
Taking care of a son takes time away from other things. If both parties agreed that the mother would be the primary caretaker, then essentially they agr... (read in full...)
Was the photo on my boyfriend's phone pornography he downloaded or was it proof of him cheating?
Q. Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs and have 2 children. He recently has bought a new phone (his old one was an old phone he had for a yr, but it was an older type phone, with the mobile browser that charges you for every mi...
A. 1 January 2012: The picture may have been taken with his phone, or downloaded.
If it was taken with his own phone, then I wouldn't think it was a picture of somebody else.
If it was downloaded, then that sounds odd but not impossible.
I would consider this... (read in full...)
Ways to get over the crush who rejected you?
Q. Best and most effective ways to get over the crush who rejected you? It feels like I've tried everything but it still doesn't seem to help. I did what most people would say; "Cut ALL contact". And now a friend of mine told me that this girl h...
A. 31 December 2011: Make a conscious decision to move on, and one fine day you will find you did.... (read in full...)
I think I made the wrong choice to go to New Zeland over wales. What should I do?
Q. Hey. This isn't a relationship question but I'd like some other opinions because I'm getting way too wrapped up in my worries. I'm a geography student and this year I have the opportunity to go 'abroad' as part of my course. My choices are Wales or...
A. 28 December 2011: Give me your tickets and I will go to New Zealand in your stead.... (read in full...)
Two dates and he wants me to meet his family?
Q. I've been on two dates with this guy, but now he wants me to go to his sister's house and visit her and his niece. Does anyone think it's too soon for me to be meeting members of his family ?. I haven't met any members of his family before , and ...
A. 28 December 2011: Should I suppose this guy is English like you, and not someone from countries where that can actually happen, like where I live?... (read in full...)
My ex circulated racy photos of me on facebook and now he wants to be friends again?! I can't forgive him...what should I do?
Q. About the ex: I was 16 years old and he was 18 then. We met online and hit it off pretty well, though he was pretty cautious about our friendship at first. He doesn't trust people easily. Well, for some reason, he started asking me for relatio...
A. 28 December 2011: I wouldn't even reply to bastard ex. I would block any possible contact with him.... (read in full...)
Is it too late to indicate that I am interested in her as more than a friend and could she suspect that?
Q. I have been getting along with a woman on a friendly basis that is an acquaintence who seems to have some attraction towards me (as I do towards her) but it turns out she thought that i was married. I am not sure why she thought that as I have never ...
A. 28 December 2011: My experience is that women size you up long before you even think they have sized you up. I have the hunch that her asking was more than just mere wanting to know.
I would suggest you keep on being friendly and increase the friendliness just a n... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to live with a platonic female friend?
Q. So I'm 22 and recently moved back home after graduating from college until I got a job. Well, now that I'm finally working and receiving paychecks, I'm ready to be on my own again. I was recently talking with a great friend of mine and she is ...
A. 28 December 2011: Do you think that eventually hooking up would be a good thing for you two?... (read in full...)
Do guys hate skinny girls?
Q. i am 22 years old and am very skinny i really wanna have a big ass and am losing my confidence and stoped getting out with guys tried eating alot but have no apetite please tell me u'r opinion do guys really hate skiny girls. Thanx in advance...
A. 28 December 2011: If it's naturally skinny, the answer can be yes.
"Bones are the better tasting part of the broth", goes a saying.... (read in full...)
Should I speak up & still walk away w/ my dignity?
Q. Met him about 5mos ago thru my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later and its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better and he gave me his busy schedule excuse about 2mos ...
A. 28 December 2011: Tell him you don't like it as it is now. Will he take it to the next level? No? Well, in that case, it will have been very nice to have met him.... (read in full...)
Do men that aren't with their children think of them at christmas?
Q. hi there i have a 9th month old daughter her father left us for anothr woman before the baby was born and the last time he saw his child was when she was three months old haven't heard from him since my question is do men think about there children ...
A. 28 December 2011: The sad truth is that sometimes they don't care.... (read in full...)
How do I ask if she has a partner without being obvious?
Q. I met an amazing girl a few weeks back. We have been exchanging a few emails. I might ask her out, but I don't know if she has a partner already. How can I ask her without being obvious?...
A. 28 December 2011: I agree with I am here to help you.
Once that time has gone by, if the information hasn't "slipped", your asking will appear more like a simple wish to know more about someone you've been talking to.
N91 has a point, but I like your idea of not... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's lazy, unhygienic, has cockroaches on his bed,wants to get married and live in a trailer park..I'm done with him! Is it bad if I break up with him through text?
Q. Hey. I have an issue. I've been dating my bf for a year, and I want out. The problem is, he doesn't know I feel this way... Yet. I told my friends that I wanted to break up with him and when they all got drunk at a party, they told my bf's best ...
A. 27 December 2011: I agree with the others. Break up in person.... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!
Q. Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wantin...
A. 20 December 2011: I come from a region where having children is seen in a different (and perhaps more irresponsible) way. I don't have children myself, but one pearl of wisdom people gave me once is this: "If you wait until the situation is perfect to get married ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!
Q. Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wantin...
A. 19 December 2011: You're not irrational.
It seems to me that he doesn't want kids, however. I have the feeling that, if you want one kid, it won't be with him.... (read in full...)
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