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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me ...

Every time I push him away he comes back for more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi I got a problem basically there has been some guy who been wanting to go out with me for a year now. He wont leave me alone the problem is I do like him but I am scared to let my heart go because I have trust issues. He knows about this and ...

I found out everything he told me about his finances is a lie!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I was married in August, to a man I knew when I was a teenager...He is 21 years in the military, and I thought his word was solid... We have only lived together for a month and a half because he was sent on an 8 week mission shortly after the ...

What shall I do when my wife spends the last night here with her male "friend"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - My wife is going to another country tomorrow for a couple of months. Normally we don't spend much time together because of her job. I stronglly expected we will have a good romantic night today. I told her we will go for dinner tonight, she agreed ...

She wouldn't remove this ex from her facebook!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - my fiance has had a threesome about 10 years ago, the guys is still on her facebook, i feel terrible to look at his pics, when i asked her to remove him, she said that it would not solve the problem, all i wanted to hear is yes, right now this is ...

Husband had sex with prostitute while on business trip and I can't get over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - We have been married for 8 years now and were courting for almost 4 years before marriage. Everything was going great and we have had a very satisfying and fulfilling relationship. We understood each other perfectly and cared for each other. Until ...

My GF has had more sexual encounters than me...and it makes me feel like Iv missed out on stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Basically im in university and have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. However she was only the second girl I ever slept with. I was her 5th. Now i do not have a problem with her sleeping with more than me as it opened my mind to girls are jus...

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to tell me if she's a virgin or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I have been dating this girl for almost a month already. I usually spend at least 1 day a week with her because we both go to different schools. I can tell she feels the same way I feel about her. She has told me before that she has had ...

Does breaking up and getting back together again actually work out for anyone??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hello guys, i broke up with my bf of a year 2 months ago ..the reason why we broke up, he hurt me several times by his words and i caught his flirty messages to girls on fb and he cursed me because he lost his control. Then i broke up! Since we ...

My BF is overly jealous and I really don't know what to do about this!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He is a very very jealous man. He never allows me to attend my friend's birthday party or any party in my college because he said there will be many handsome guys there. He also calls me many times in...

Does he like me or was I just used ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi, so this is a bit of background: ive known this guy for about a year now hes a bit shy and has been known to be a player. we have mutual friends however dont see each other that often anymore. Me and him flirt when we see each other and have sle...

I was a compulsive liar to hold onto his love. I must come clean to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - hi aunts created a mess that's spiraled out of control over a man my brother set me up with on a blind date a year and a half ago when i spent a weekend out of state with his family.it's a long story so i'll try to keep it short.her it is:our ...

Should I confront this? A man's patience can only last so long. I feel unwanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am 47 years old, in reasonable good shape, as is my partener of 46, whom I adore. But the problem is this she been rejecting my advances, for nearly a year now. But she does still seem to enjoy making love, about 3 times a month. She says...

How to talk to him? Or get him to notice me? Or get over my mad feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - i feel so empty, knowing that he does not have feelings for me. I haven't asked him out front, but it's obvious in his actions that he doesn't really know i exist. It started out he'd see me, and smile. Or try and talk, but i never took action. I ne...

He blames me for everything. Puts me down. I really love him. But what am I supposed to do about HIS behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I am a 36 year old gay bloke who has been with my partner for over 18 months. In november my partner moved to be near my family and i moved into the house with him. Ever since we have been together he can get moody, and when in a bad mood will put ...

How do I handle my feelings over my friend's actions? She is having a very public affair with a married man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - A work friend is having an affair. She is 45 he is 52. When she first started seeing him she quietly told me he was married that he was just a bit of fun but asked me to keep it Hush Hush. Over the past few months she has openly discussed what the...

Something's wrong. All the signs are there that she's cheating. What can I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating. i've been going out with her for just over seven months now. We have only been out on a proper date once, and I only slept with her once. But that's not the main reason i think she's cheating. She was texting ...

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...

Is it possible to decide which is more important: personality? Or who the person really is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I was just wondering, if you ever had to choose between personality and who the person is, what is more important in a relationship? Like what I mean by who the person is: -They play sports, can bake / cook, is very artistic, like the same animals ...

My family tell me this crazy. The trouble starts when we're apart. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I love being around him. When i'm with him its perfect. But as soon as he leaves i'm depressed. So depressed that my family starts yelling at me, telling me this is crazy. Is there any like way to fix this problem?...