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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He just disappears! Is this worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi, im writing this the night before my finals start.I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. Every once in a while my boyfriend will go out on mad night (staying out all night and next day doing drugs)and not call. Late the next day he will say ...

He won't come with me for regular STI checkups...why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a 23 year-old female and have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. The thing is I like to go for a health (STI) check every once a while but the problem is he has always refused to come along with me. At first I thought maybe he...

I can be extremely jealous and controlling...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I am extremely jealous and controlling. I was hurt in the past and he used to cheat on girls and has a really bad past but he told all of them about it when it happened and has told me ...

It's a love/hate thing we have going on! Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary ...

Scared to death..to tell my Mom, I am pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I turn 16 last month and five months ago, I was raped by a masked man. I was a virgin before it happened and then three months ago, I found out I'm pregnant. Nobody knows anything except for my best friend (he's a guy) and he tells me that if I ...

How do I convince her that I won't hurt her as bad as her ex bf did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Please help me, i'm in love with this very special girl. Only problem is she got out of a long term relationship about 6 months back that destroyed her, she is so scared of being hurt like she was again. This has caused her to be very scared of ...

I see him at weekends, I'm not sure if I'm being lied to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - ok i have been seeing this guy for about 12 weeks now, he calls and texts me everyday, i know he lives alone as i have visited his house. i only see him at weekends as he lives so far away and works a long week day. this weekend he asked to come ...

I get severely depressed at random times and guys run away when they realise they can't help me! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Guys always run away from me. It hurts. I'm 21 and I suffer from Uni-Polar (Major Depressive Disorder) and I have been on meds for years but they don't "cure" anything, they just help a little and I can't keep a relationship. I'm not ...

Should I ask my boyfriend to give me details of when he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I'd appreciate some advice from girls and especially guys out there about whether I should ask my bf about the time he cheated. We were together for 8 years, living together, and then I found out he was seeing a woman from work for some time, ...

I want this marriage to work! How do I let him know how sorry I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I really need some serious advice here. So I'm legally married but my husband has been incarcerated for almost seven months now. Our relationship was a little rocky before the incarceration because we weren't living together and I was ...

Can't stop thinking about my bf's friend! Is this fair to my bf-should we break up??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i ...

I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we ...

Am I just overly jealous, or is this a legitimate issue that I should strongly pursue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I don't know if I'm a jealous guy, or if I'm just too insecure with myself ... My problem is, my wife's sister got herself in a rough spot, so we took her into our home and have taken care of her for the past year. Before this, my wife and I would...