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writes:I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i think about him more and more. i know i am not really his type. but it is seriously getting in the way of my relationship. i can't bear to be around my partner sometimes and i am really low and depressed. should i just get up and get on with my life and pretend i am happy with my partner. or do i leave my partner as it does not feel fair on him??
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reader, confused-princess +, writes (8 May 2009):
confused-princess is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have tried talking to him, but he just doesn't appreciate anything i do for him. i bent over backwards trying to get him and his friends tickets to a game that was nigh on sold out when he asked me to get them. but i suceeded and didn't get so much as even a thanks. i've tried steering clear of his friend as well. but when i do see him. we laugh, we talk and do different things such as take the kids out which me and my partner never seem to do anymore. my kids need a male influence in there life. i know that his friend probably isn't interested and he has a reputation as a player. but i don't think i am looking for a relationship. i know i feel alot for him. and i mean alot. but i think it is companionship and someone who actually takes an interest in my children.
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