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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

End it or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust ...

My husband has an addiction to strippers & lap dances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My husband has spent over $90K on lap dances in the past 4 - 5 years, exhausting any savings we might have had. Since getting caught, he's quit, but I can't believe the addiction isn't still there. Stay or divorce? ...

She tells me she wants sex, but freaks out when we get there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 7 months!!! its great, we have talked about sex and almost had sex but she freaks out, her ex and her did and it ended up disastrous, i dont press the issue cause i really do love her but she tells me she ...

A husband who was planning to cheat... what would you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I just found out that my husband of almost 6 years was planning to cheat on me while I was away for 2 weeks. The person he planned to cheat on me with was supposedly a friend. I found all their messages (which he stupidly archived on Yahoo ...

If I leave him alone like he's asked, will he just end up with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - im 22 years old and my ex boyfriend is 33 years old we were together 4yrs before he broke up with me past november because he needed time for himself. we stayed in touch afterwards and on christmas eve i found out he stayed over his ex girls house. ...

I've always had a higher sex drive than my husband, so why would he go and cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (?) - I am confused! I have and always have had a higher sex drive than my husband. The problem is, lack of intimacy is causing my sex drive to dwindle! I am confused because I am 9 years older than my husband! I don't look my age and have never felt it ...

I accidentally kissed my GF's flirty Mom, and now she's mad - how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - my name is nick and am 22 years old i have a girlfriend jolie and she is 19 we were both so in love until something happened jolie's parents are divorced since she was 11,and she is living with her mom ever since her mom is 43 and she is ...

Is she having a text message affair with this guy or is it all innocent like she says?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - hey guys iam new to this site and want your advice. I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for quite some few months and things have really been going well with us until recently when i went through her phone and found text msgs from a guy i had ...

Why don't women appreciate a good guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - my gf hasnt been giving me respect as her man, lover. we became a couple in may, but she dumped me in july n we got back together same month.i found out in that time she had sex with another man. i also found out by going through her emails that i ...

Part of me wonders if he's playing games with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I meet this guy online six years ago!!!! and i do care about him with all my heart, but there is a part of me that wonders is he playing games with me!!!! because he never says anything only that i repeat myself over and over and he hates it.I told ...

I see how my lying has pushed my wife away- is it too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - please help. I am about to loose my wife of nine years due to my constant lying. the lying wasn't malicious . we have 3 kids and i want to to get this fixed she has not made up her mind. i have hurt her and she says she does not know if she can ...

Should a married person hug their ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - i feel really annoyed with my husband because he hugged his exgirlfriend and did'nt come over and say this is my wife her name is**** but turned and hugged her back just like they're old friends. Question should a married person go up and hug their ...

I push him away because I'm afraid of getting hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am really scared...because i just realized when i get close in a relationship i have the tendency to push him away. I am not afraid to be in love or staying committed. i just have fear of getting hurt but it looks like i am the one hurting myself. ...

Should I be worried about my husband running around with his cousin? He's a known cheater.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - my husband and i have been together for almost 5 years now, we have a 2 year old and another one on the way. i have always had a problem with him running around with his cousin. his cousin is a known cheater, and going through a divorce because of ...

How do I get the trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she ...