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writes:My husband has spent over $90K on lap dances in the past 4 - 5 years, exhausting any savings we might have had. Since getting caught, he's quit, but I can't believe the addiction isn't still there.Stay or divorce?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): I just found out in August 2008 that my husband also has an addiction to strippers and lap dances, he said he'd pick out the prettiest or the shortest ones, he went during the day also sometimes with friends sometimes alone. He told lie after lie when confronted and then he finally told me the truth also he had 2 erotic massages with getting laid and bj. I can't trust him anymore and I have invested in a monitoring device for days. Now I know where he goes and who he talks to.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (2 January 2009):
 To simply answer your question... divorce. If leaving is that easy for you to do, then I advise to do it. I'm not talking about it being easy for you emotionally, but if he's not going to be mean about it or give you much trouble about leaving, then I think you should leave. Gina is right, but not all people are going to seek help. He will more than likely continue his ways as soon as he gets the chance.
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