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Why is she acting so cold towards me?

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Question - (13 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, *3puremage1 writes:

About four weeks ago, me and the girl whom I love has disconnect me completely by kick me out of her friendlist on fb and ignore me during school time. During these four weeks I did send her messages for asking for forgiveness since there were too much things happened between her and me, so I sent her a goodbye letter which was a stupid act.

Yesterday, she finnaly forgives me and she did say she doesn' t ignoring me and not talking to each other. I am aware that she doesn't feel the same towards me and he knows I am trying to forget her. Howver, when I talk to her in school her reply is abit cold and she did reply to my fb message which is simply asking how is she.

Is it becuase of exam pressure or something else?

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A male reader, 83puremage1 United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2011):

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Yea I agree with you and thanks for your advice

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011):


I usually give contraversial advice. A lot of people will tell you to try and sit her down and tell her how you feel. That is rubbish.

You need to create a jealosy plotline. This is where you completely turn your back on her and give your interest to another girl. add her as ure gf on facebook and send lovy messages to her.

then 1 of 2 things will happpen. she will start to try winning you back. this means she has true feelings for you and she knows that she wants you....


she will move on and get a new bf herself. this means that she doesnt care for you anymore and it was never love to begin with..

have you heard the phrase...

If you love someone... set them free... if they come back then they are yours. if they dont then they were never yours to begin with.


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