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Why does he think he can control me just because we have a child?

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Question - (13 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2011)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

okay my ex and i have a child together he is with someone else which is fine cos i am now seeing someone to. but he won't see our baby he says he tries but he dumps her when he has something better to do.

well anyway he was supposed to mind her while i went out he told me i had to be back at 12.30 but i told him i was metting my fella so he went off on me. what does this mean cos like he said we will never get back together so like i don't understand. what do i do? i want my baby to have a daddy but not a control freak he thinks he can run my life cos we have a child together. please help.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (13 May 2011):

Honeypie agony auntYou two need to SIT down and have an visitation agreement on paper and then stick to it. You might need an impartial 3rd person or a lawyer to draw up the agreement.

Honestly though.. shouldn't your child come before going on dates?

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