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We keep butting heads, I want to work it out, any suggestions??

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Question - (28 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *earole writes:

Hi, i'm 26 and i'm in a 3 way relationship. i'm not very good at things like this so i try very hard to make sure i do the right thing. both of the other men with me r 2x my age. one of them i get along with very well but the other one is just like me (just older) so we bump heads alot. every time we bump heads i try and find middel ground on the problem. to me it feels like he is just saying that it sould be his way and there is no middel gound and that is how relationships r. i feel like i'm being over looked. How can i get him to meet me in the middel on things or am i wrong on trying to meet in the middel? i'm not sure what i should do and i want it to work out bewteen us. please help me.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (30 March 2011):

dirtball agony auntWell, meeting in the middle is called compromise, and it's how relationships survive. It doesn't sound like things work with that second guy, so why maintain this 3 way relationship? I say dump him so you can be with the one you get along well with.

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