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Help me to trust her.......

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Question - (28 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Please help me I need suggestion on this issue, I may appear you a fool but this is what I am, I have g/f for long time and after long time I came to know that she was being abused sexually in her 8-10 years of age by multiple elderly persons and she had boy friends too, but "she says abuse was not penetration" and "I never had sex with anybody" I am not bothered about if she had sex, but what bothers me is lie I don't trust people easily and I don't like lairs/cheaters, and this may be because of, previously I was cheated by a girl and I was and moreover when I had sex with her in beginning it went very easy and I was also a virgin (My aim was I wanted to be virgin and one women forever) I have never experienced hymen but yet she says no penetration in her past life,she don't know cycling too. I just want to trust but these issues are not allowing me to trust please help me

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