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anonymous
writes:hi been with my guy for 11 yrs why wont he become a fully grown couple. i already know what ishould do but i love him so much. you see we were both in relationships when it started we were each others 3 legged stool. he left his wife but i never at 1st,so he started a new relationship with someone as 'companionship' yeah rite! trouble is 2 years down the line i left my husband 2 and moved nearer to my 3 legged stool so we could b 2gether. my problem is that was 4 years ago and hes still with his other woman while i am left on my own 4 nites a week. he takes her out all the time shes always his plus one and he gets me to deliver him 2 her. what do i do? im stupid and my minds allover the place cos hes refusing to even discuss it anymore just says he cant b arsed im at rock bottom and really hurting please help me ive no one 2 talk 2 as no one knows of our relationship Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): Just tell him that it's over. If you're living in his place, move out; help him pack and then change the locks if it's your place. Delete his number from your phone, delete his email address, and then block him from calling/texting/emailing you. He might promise to improve but don't believe him. Just move on with your life and go out & meet someone who will treat you well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi again,still in the relationship n things have gone from bad to worse,we constantly argue now almost everyday,he definately doesnt want me anymore but controls me so much he wont let me go. we havent done anything together for over two years and now he doesnt touch me or tell me he loves me anymore. my self esteem is at rock bottom im having stupid thoughts i need to leave him please advise me someone help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): Nothing is in your control. He got two women he isn't married to, every male likes a backup. He is not going to change, coz if he lose you he'll have the other girl, if he lose the other he'll have you.
Go for someone else.
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