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Archived questions from: 27 June, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

In a lesbian relationship and my best friend is a straight guy. He told me he loves me and now she wants me to end the friendship but I don't want to. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My lesbian partner and I have been together for over two years now and have had our ups and downs but we are now on a high and are thinking about becoming engaged and our future however there is one thing thats getting in the way and i just want ...

In a lesbian couple with differing sex drives. How can I make myself want it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i am a female with a female partner, aka. we are a lesbian couple. Our sex is great and i love it, just not as much as her. She wants it every second. I am lucky if i want it at least once a week, and it's getting me down as, although she...

Are all men like this? He says I make it too obvious we are dating when we are out togther. My parents don't like him either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - hey. ok here goes. i have this bf for almost a year and i love him a lot, my parents do not want me to have anything to do with him cause he's from a different country to mine and they do not trust people from his country. They say they are all bad,...

I want to be a proper family but he can't commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I want to be a proper family but he cant commit. My partner and i have been together 7yrs, we have 2 young kids who are 6 and 3. The problem is we have never lived together properly. My kids behaviour isnt good and i blame this situation for it. He ...

Three weeks ago, she was all for my buying a motorcycle. Now, she's acting resentful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - So it all started 3 weeks ago when I decided to by a motorcycle, she was all for it! I got it a week ago and now everyday seems to be a battle! I work 50hours a week so I have little time to do anything! We have been together for just over a year ...

I was a wild child, so he begged me to change and I did....now he thinks I'm boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. When we first started dating i was a wild child. I partied drank an smoked weed like every other day. I always tried to get him to go to the club with me or get his friends together for a night of ...

What is he trying to tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - ok, so theres this guy who ive liked for 2 yrs now. We talked we hung out and then it seem like he fell off the face of the earth. Then about 5 months ago we ended up hanging out with mutal friends and he was telling strangers i was his wife, but we ...

I'm so confused! What are the real reasons behind his behaviour? Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - He's liked me for almost 6months. I tried to open my heart, got to know him, and after a while I fell for him a little more and more each day. Besides, seems like some of my actions got him confused and hurt as well. Suddenly right when I tho...

How do I stop feeling so sad and to stop myself for feeling like it was my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he was distancing himself from me because he hates talking to me now and he wished I never loved him because he stopped loving me and then he finally told me that he cheated on me. I took off the ...

I love my FWB but he is flirting with other girls! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for ages and we both decided to be friends with benefits he is 3 years older than me, anyway i was supposed to see him on a certain night but i couldn't get to him so i told him and he got sorta ignorant with me, ...

I want to marry him but not his kids!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...

My boyfriend has changed his mind about keeping the baby, and now he and his family are ganging up on me forcing me to have an abortion!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and his parents are 'forcing' me into an abortion but i dont want to go through with it. what should i do? im 17 years old and im 5 weeks pregnant. my boyfriend told his parents i may be pregnant before we even knew. when i found out...

Should I just continue to ignore the problems? Or, if I confront them, how should I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I should preface this whole thing by saying that my boyfriend is a really nice guy. He's sweet, and kind, and sensitive. He's not an asshole, even though some of these things might make him sound selfish! However, there are some things in our re...

He lost his erection during sex - was it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My man once lost erection when we were having sex.is there something wrong with me?...

Should I give him a chance and see where it goes?

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27 June 2011 (F) - I need some advice before i let myself get involved with this guy. I met him a while ago but when i told him i liked him he said he was already seeing someone but that it isn't anything serious he has only seen her a few times. And then said now he ...

How can I get the spark back into this relationship or has it gone for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend doesnt likes sex and hasnt for past 2 years. On the rare occasions we have sex, once a month if i'm lucky, she does it for me. There is no emotion, feeling or love from her during sex. She says its just the way she is and she would be ...

How can I cope with my fear of losing my boyfriend? Its eating me up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Dear all, please help. I came out of a horrible year long relationship wih an abusive guy that used to disappear for weeks at a time and give me the silent treatment. I completly lost my confidence, and got depressed. Anyway,it;s now over and I have ...

Is the relationship completely ruined or do I have any chance of being with her again someday?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - My sweetheart (I'll call her P) and I were together for four months. It's not a lot of time but we have a really eventful story: We both came from five-year-long relationships, we were both cheated on by our partners and we both had trust issues...

I don't know if my partner is emotionally abusing me or whether I need to get a grip and stop causing arguments...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - im 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My relationship with my partner has been up and down the past couple of years, we have had some amazing times and also some pretty upsetting times, typical of any relationship. My partner runs his own busi...

My partner is addicted to online gaming and he has no interest of putting any effort into our relationship.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hi, My partner who i live with, is addicted to online gaming. Not only that, but when he does deign to spend any time with me, it's generally him wanting to "get it on", he cannot seem to understand why his behaviour and attitude towards me and t...

My BF has cheated on me so much and half the time it was when he was intoxicated and at parties, that I just can't trust him to go without me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 2 years. I am 17 years old and he is just about to turn 21. We met when I was a freshman and he was a senior so obviously, the age difference didn't really matter to us to the extreme. ...

I cant trust men because of my past! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

27 June 2011 (?) - I need help I cant trust men at all...My real father would beat my mother and he cheated on my mom and left us,I always had BAD relationships with men and I was cheated on by a ex a yr ago when I was 17 and he lied to me a lot and bullied me. I ...

I right to feel this betrayed by this guy? Should I be even considering him as the father of my 1st born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I dated this guy in 2009 but we broke up after a few months because he told me he wanted to do "some soul searching" basically he dumped me, we were however, still pretty close and we slept together every now and then(after the b...

Why are women less likely to give a blowjob or hand job when your in a relationship with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - why do women let me finger them and have sex with them but they wont give me a blowjob. I have gotten blowjobs from women without even asking, these females where either friends or strippers or random drunk chicks and the strippers didnt even make ...

Still hurting over my ex and cant give myself fully to my new boyfriend.....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Broken up with my ex earlier this year then again started dating for pleasure anyway. the problem is that whenever my current boyfriend is around i dont feel him its like he is annoying and boring me inside but i do love him so much its just how i ...

Really low sex drive or addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - We've been together over three years and are getting married next year. He has never been crazy about sex. The first six months, we had sex about 3-4 times/week and about twice/month during the rest of the first year. After that, it became ...

Helping an insecure girlfriend feel secure.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Hello Question: My GF wants me to delete all my pictures of my ex. Erase everything completely. I love my GF very much, but I don't want to do this and don't believe she has the right to ask this of me. She is very hurt though and finds it difficu...

Family drama!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Okay. I am having so many family issues its driving me nuts. My husband (30) and I (34)try to just keep too ourselves and the DRAMA still comes to us. We have had out times of adding to family drama because of our own marital issues that we turned ...

Boyfriend is suffering from PTSD and won't seek professional help, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a Marine and worked in Bosnia back in 1999 as a "peacekeeper". He's 33 now and is still having some issues...he can't go into cities, he still carries a gun on him, and he has horrible nightmares time to time. I'm the only person h...

Break up or stay together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months left a six weeks ago to live in another state for work for a few months. The first 3 weeks he was calling every day and then the phone calls started to come less frequently. During the 4th week, I went to visit him. The t...

I cant stand him pushing me away anymore! Should we take a break to show him what he is missing? Or just end it all together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death and would do absolutely anything for him,and i do, but i'm just not happy anymore. I don't feel appreciated, wanted, or loved. There is absolutely no affection, when I try and be affectionate with him whether it be ...

How can I stop people from asking when I'm getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - I got a question. i have friends and a few family members who want to know when i'm getting married. i have already told them that i am NEVER getting married. but for some strange reason, they keep pestering me about it. how can i put a stop to ...

I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an ...

Boyfriend wants me to gain weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years told me today that he wants me to gain weight because I'll look more beautiful. He has always told me before we started dating that he's into bigger girls. I have a small bust (wearing only a 32B). My measurements are ...

Has anybody else dealt with feelings of resentment? What did you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I travel a lot for work, and for the last few months when I return from a trip, instead of enjoying each other's company after the long break, we seem to just be arguing. I think the troubl...

He's nothing like my ex, so how can I get over this fear of being controlled?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I was in a realtionship for a year and 4 months with a guy that was controlling and emotionally abusive. We broke up in March and I haven't regretted it once. Let's call him Joe. Joe would be mad at me if I was texting ANYONE that was a guy, ...

I turned his marriage proposal down 3 years ago but I'm ready now! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My bf ask me to marry him 3 yrs ago but I said I'm not ready yet and I still want to live my life being single. I feel that he hated me for doing that so he punishes me all the time for being rude to me and not being appreciative. Sometimes I ...

Am I being selfish, is it just me? Or is my husband simply just not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My husband is very unromantic and makes little effort towards me. He is not a mean man, but isn't very giving. He is a hard worker and we have young children, and he works hard at work and helping with the yard and kids. He is also not a cheating ...

Do all relationships go stale and lose their spark a few years down the line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I love him to pieces, but for the past 2 years he's changed. He used to write me lovely letters and tell me im beautiful and how much he loves me etc. Now he just complains at me and does nice things when ...