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Archived questions from: 14 June, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did it too early?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We had sex after only 2 months... but we're still together. Months and months ago we would always fight- but it's gotten better. We still have a few issues between us though. And I'm thinking that if ...

Getting mad that he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - why is it when my boyfriend and me are having a wonderful conversation -he somehow uses his ex as an example or part of our conversation.she stays in contact with him once a month.he said he never contacts her.i feel strange and dont like it at ...

Is my partner secretly gay? Even his mother thinks so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I'm 30 years of age and my boyfriend is 34, we have been in a relationship for 2 years. I'm concerned that he maybe gay. The thing is my partner is a mans man someone you would never think is gay. He has a reputation as a ladies man and craves ...

Everything I say can be taken the wrong way, can this be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I've recently run into problems with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We have been arguing non-stop for the past few weeks about everything. Basically, I've narrowed the problem to this: we take each others comments too personally/the w...

I lost my friend/lover over a year ago when I was caught in a lie. Is there still a way to get that person back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I made a mistake and hurt someone I love by lying to them. I'm not a bad person but I did make a bad choice and lied because of my insecurities. Because of the result of my actions I had to pay a huge cost-the end of a relationship with someone I ...

My wife and I don't have sex anymore. What can I do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - So to sum up my problem it's lack of sex. Here's some background. My wife and I have been married for a little less than two years. I'm 34 and she's 29. This is a first marriage for both of us and there are no kids in the picture. When w...

How do I know if I still love him, after all we've been through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - How do I know if I still love him? I've been with my current boyfriend for just over two years. It's been rough, with him moving out of state for school, coming home breaking up with me, going back to school, and comeing home and getting back ...

Getting seriously mixed signals. What is up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Alright guys. I have a boyfriendish thing. We're currently on it's complicated. But this isn't about him. It's about one of my guy friends.. So we met at work. We hung out once and he ended up getting me to smoke weed for the first time with him...

I need some advice about love vs life....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - i am writing this looking for some advice on a life and relationship issue. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 2 1/2 years. we lived together for about six months. but in december of this past year, i decided to move out of the country ...

Something has changed with him and he wont answer my questions, how do I get answers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - hi, I know you get this a lot but I really need help please, I have been with this guy for a long time about five years and this last periode I felt that he is not the same I tried calling him asking what's wrong I don't get an answer from him he ...

Why is he spreading rumours about me and harassing me again? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Hello, Please help me! i have a bit of a problem theres a long story to go with it, i'll explain some of the details, but really my ex who has been harrassing me after we split up is now spreading rumours around but when i confront him he says he ...

How can I rebuild my trust with her after I know she's cheated on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - Ok so I confronted my girlfriend about everything she's been doing and all her lies. She told me everything. She spilled her guts and now I know everything. I have a new issue that I would like help with..How can I rebuild my trust with her after I ...

Should I get married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - This is going to sound ridiculous, some of you will probably ask why I am even thinking about doing it if I have doubts. I used to think exactly the same. The thing is, I feel like I have so much to loose if I don't; I get on great with his fami...

He said he would leave his wife for me......almost 3 years ago! What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I dont even know whether to call him husband or not,well i met this married guy 2yrs back.his wife cannot conceive and they have tried medical help in vain.At first i was reluctant giving into him for the obvious reason he is married.He managed to ...

Falling for a married man but I don't want to be a homewrecker! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Right, well, im falling for a married guy! so a few months ago i moved from england to holland on my own to start a fresh. I started a new job a month ago and met "jack", i wasn't really interested at first, i wasn't attracted to him. but i work ...

My boyfriend doesn't last more than 5 minutes when we have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend can't last more than 5 minutes when we have sex.. It is so uncomfortable.. I love him dearly but I'm not satisfied. We've talked about it but all he can say is he can't help it.. He blames it on the size of his penis.. What should I ...

I just can't help being jealous and worrying that he was lusting over those girls....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I'm in a really great relationship with a guy who I'd been friends with for years. We've been together two years, we're both 19 and live together. About a month ago, I asked if I could use his laptop to go on the internet, he said yes. Complete...

Am I just another guy in the list?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend recently put up on a social networking site (FB) that we are in a relationship... and some guy commented on it.... whats your count?.. I know her complete past.. she has told me about all the guys she has been with..in relatio...

Why do I only get a boner half of the time we want to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - People I have a biiig problem. Me and my gf have been together for 3 months now and we were both eachtother first time. The sex couldnt be any better ... but lately half of the time when we want to have sex I either don't get a boner from the s...

How to tell a woman she has hurt me, without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - I need some advice people! Some may have followed my questions here for a few months, there is a woman I like, we started off great, then she became very very quiet for the last 4 months. I did try to contact her a lot, phone-email-text-letter you ...

What should my role be in his life? Part 2.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4706 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Dear cupid aunt on my question dated 9th may 2011,(What should my role be in his life) suggested me to leave the saint after getting the required lesson from him. But i am still much confused. He is not a saint.And his family life is ruiined on the ...

Is it wrong if I do his laundry?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I currently live with my boyfriend and this has been going on for close to a year now. So far everything is harmonious with ofcourse some petty fights every now and then. I was surfing this morning on the net about relationships and I have come ...

Did he like me for who I am, or only for my pictures?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I joined a social site and it's not for dating or anything. I thought it would just be for fun and to see what it's like. I eventually met this guy I like. I realize now I should have told him right away. The girl I used is Beautiful like 10 or 11 ...

Love triangle with two brothers.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Not sure how to proceed. Two brothers, both my best friends. They didn't get along but for me, they would not fight so we could hang out together. We're all very laidback and flirty, always great times. About 9 months ago, the oldest brother and ...

Should I text him in a week and ask for a meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - The guy I dated all of a sudden told me he got scared and needed time. He said he is very very attracted to me, loves hanging out with me. Honestly i don't get it. We had very good chemistry. We only dated for a month and didn't have sex.. He said ...

How do I stop overthinking everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - at the moment my ex boyfriend and i are working things out to give it another shot. we were together for about two years and then decided to go on a break and that just turned into a break up. we have been seperated for about 9 months now. i can ...

Ex treats me like I'm someone he doesn't like, so how can we get together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My "ex"-boyfriend and I are trying to work things out to get back together. We have been together for two years and a half but throughout our relationship we have had problems that have affected our relationship now... Ever...

I think I'm getting to the point where I'm bored with my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - I think I'm getting to the point where I'm bored with my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and maybe the relationship has run its course. I've tried to suggest new things to do and places to go, but he seems to be focused on his ...

After everything I've been through with him, should I just leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - Hi all i really need advice. I have been here before and gotten the answers i have expected. but i cant seem to take them into action. I am just going to be breif about what all i think has played a part in our relationship. My husband and ...

He wants "vivid" photos of me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - He's sweet and always really nice, but ever since we got deeper into getting to know each other, he been asking me to give him pictures of me, like "vivid" pictures. I know I would never do it, but I want him to like me still and I know he likes me ...

Would it be a fools hope to think the relationship could be salvaged after 8 years of not being together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - Well I never thought i'd be lowering my standard to ask complete strangers outside of my own circle for an outsiders opinion but current circumstances contact with my own family is irregular and well majority of my closest peers aren't sound for ...

My ex left abruptly, then completely shut me out. How do I get over him without any explanation or closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - How do you get over your ex and stop thinking about him? It is especially hard since he completely shut me out of his life and left abruptly with no contact. When I do try to contact him he doesn't pick up or respond to me. I'm not sure how to get ...

My girlfriend's daughter despises the fact that I moved in without consultation by her mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 48. She has 15 year old daughter that despises the fact that I moved in before my girlfriend consulted her daughter. Any advice to lighten the load?...