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anonymous
writes:I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an investigation and told me exactly where i stayed! i waited until he got home asked him about it he said they were seperated i told him get his married butt out of my house just to find out months later im pregnant he wants to still be with me an i still love him im losing my mind
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 June 2011):
 Tell him if he really does want to be with you, he needs to file for divorce and show you the proof. Also tell him he will be owing you child support one way or another.
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reader, tempguy999  +, writes (28 June 2011):
this is a real tough one. you need to take your time, find some close friends, talk things over. and you need to talk with him lots. try to see if you can trust him, use your best judgement, and turn your emotions off, which is difficult, but you need to use your brain on this, and judge his true character. talking with his "ex"-wife more might help you quite a bit. ask her what you've gotten yourself into. but she sounds a bit crazy as well.
I'm sorry you're in the situation, and i wish you the best of luck. If he turns out to be a bad guy, at least find a good lawyer quick and make him pay big on child support.
This all seems bad to me, I would run away from the situation, but the pregnancy REALLY complicates things. Talk to people in person, like family and friends.
If you still need someone to talk to, you can send me a private message. This situation seems pretty intense for a website like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he havnt got an a divorce but claims its in the makeing but dont have proof
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 June 2011):
Has he filed for divorce?
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