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Is my husband having sex with someone else?

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Question - (18 July 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

me and my husband havent had sex in about 3 days on the 4th day we had sex he came extremly fast and it was thick kind of gooey like...is that a sigh of him having sex with with some one else?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2011):

Quite the opposite. This is a sign that he's not had sex for a few days. Nothing to worry about at all.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (18 July 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntNot that the consistency of the output is a reliable indicator of whether the tool has been in recent use, but generally a quick load, that is thick and viscous (which I presume is what you mean by 'gooey') indicates that he has not had any sexual activity for a while.

It can also feel quite divine on the skin.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011):

Men come fast and his semen will be thick and gooey if he hasn't 'cum' in a while. Its often pent up frustration. A bit like a woman-if you havnt had sex/masturbated in a while then the likelyhood is you will orgasm pretty fast when you eventually do.

I'm not sure were your coming from with this question but 3 days actually isn't that long to go without sex, so I would really take this as a compliment as he was obviously very excited!

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A female reader, janice201149 United States +, writes (18 July 2011):

janice201149 agony auntOh' Don't be paranoid. It maybe because he miss you that time and he has a good mood. Or maybe he take a pill that makes him high in sexual desire so both of you can achieve sexual satisfaction. My advice on you is don't think negative for your partner cause it can be a reason to destroy your relationship with him. Trust him the way he trust you. Instead of thinking negative just enjoy the time you've been together.

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A female reader, Battista United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2011):

What makes you think he is having sex with someone else?

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