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writes:Especially when it's a long term relationship of 5 years. Went through many break ups with bf but patched back. Bf is very possessive and sometimes emotionally abusive. Once, bf slapped her. She went through so much of emotional hurt with bf. Keeps forgiving bf thinking that bf might change but cycle continues after some. She thinks its hard to move on if she breaks up with him and she realises she's in a unhealthy relationship. What will happen if she still remains in this relationship? And what will happen if she is married to him. If he is possessive during the relationship, how will he be after marrying her?
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (8 January 2011):
she needs to get out of that relationship as soon as she can. Its going to be hard for her but if she stays in it he mite end up beating her up really bad. she doesn't need to marry him at all if he is treating her like this.Have you tried talkin to her and encouraging her to leave? Does her family know that he is that controlling? If he hit her once already then he's going to keep on doing it until she gets out. What is your relationship with her? Do everything you can to encourage her to leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): if you can convince her to leave him make sure you or another man can be there. i know this is sexism but he may not be afraid of women as he would be of her dad or you or her brother.
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