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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:A year and a half ago a long lost friend came back into my life. We started texting and I found myself falling in love with him. I'm married and but there is something about him that I don't want to let go. he told me on a few differant occassions that he used to be in love with me. We have seen each other a few times and I don't know exactly how he feels. After we see each other he gets very distant and It drives me crazy..He said this last time we are friends with bennifets but with a past..in a guys turms what does that mean? We live 500 miles apart so It can't just be for the bennifis that he see me. I think he gets quite cause his feelings come back and he don't know how to tell me just like when we were kidscrazy
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reader, Janetbubi  +, writes (23 April 2010):
He doesnt love u he wants to sleep with u,u r married take care of ur husband.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 April 2010):
No his feelings haven't come back, he never had any. You're a married woman who isn't happy, and he is capitalizing on it. He us using you. 500 miles apart just makes it easier for him to cover it up and go away without commitment of any kind. Now you need to make a choice, because you may end up losing everything at this rate. Either you're married and you get to work on your marriage with your husband, or you get a divorce and hope this other guy won't run away (which he will). You are being used, and you're not reading the signs. He said you're just there for sex. So let him go, before you're found out. Because if you are, you'll lose your husband and your reputation will be left in the ground.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (23 April 2010):
You said it, you are acting like a teen although I am sure you are lovely and look like a teen anyway. This is just an infatuation and the one at risk here is you as clearly it is taking on a large significance in your thoughs and deeds.
Sit down and right the fors and against of your husband / life you enjoy now? Then same exercise with theis guy? You will see a huge gulf and a high loss rate if you do something silly
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