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26-29,
anonymous
writes:so me and my ex dated for 2 years... it wasnt the best relationship, i loved him but he wasnt too affectionate and we had fights because i was jelous of his ex who was always in the way. he recently moved to another country and after 2 weeks of being there we had a fight and split again... 2 weeks after this i realized i'm pregnant. so i contacted him, he said he loved me but didnt want to be with me anymore. a week later he starts insulting me, caling me a whore and says he never loved me... i was just his sex toy for 2 years, his parents were very mean too. then we started being friends and getting along better and he told me to visit him and try it out again, so i go, i spend all my money on a very expensive plane ticket.when i get there, he doesnt want to touch me at all... his dad calls him 2 days later and says i need to get out of there or he wont send him more money for college. so the next day my ex abandons me in his apt. without money, keys or food in a foreign country. he hacked my email and was able to change my plane ticket and i had to leave the very next day... now im back in my country... its been 3 WEEKS.... i am now 4 months pregnant... he never calls, blocked me on msn and skype and said he hates me, but wants me to give him the baby....he says he loves the baby... but he should at least respect me. he changed so much... i dont know what to do.... i dont want to ever see him again, should i leave the country and forget about it?
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 What ever happens happen., for now you have to think of your self and the baby. leave him, forget him he is not the right man for you and he is not the right father for your baby. go away and start thinking for your self and the baby, you are a matured person and no body is allowed to treat you like that.
at this situation theres no excuse for you not to be strong. you have to be strong now for the sake of your baby and always think you are not the only person in this world who experience like that. If other women can over come and move on to this situation, you can do it too. You are a strong person and you will make everything good in the future for the sake of your baby. I wish you luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wanted to add that I AM NOT 13-15!!!! i am unable to change it on my profile. i have tried many times. I AM 21 YEARS OLD!!!
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reader, raiders +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Being parent at a very young age is going to be very difficult at times, but you are going to have the joy of being a mother. Enjoy your pregnancy enjoy having your baby in your tummy when you feel him kick is going to bring you priceless happiness, Unfortunately your ex boyfriend is going to miss out on all this happiness by choice there is nothing you can do, you can't force him to be with you. Just like you can't force him, he can't force you to give him your baby, he is always going to be the daddy and should be involve in his child's life but he has no right to take him away from you. You should stay in your country, you said he moved to a different. What you need to do is talk to your parents and let them know whats going on, I'm sure they will be able to offer you a solution. Good Luck!
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reader, rcn +, writes (23 April 2010):
 This is your baby. I'd let him know that taking the baby is a NO. Go where you need to. Live you life the best that you can for you and your baby, and it is very important that you stay away from your ex. I don't know what country you live in, or what their laws are with babies and visitation by the absent parent. I'd start learning what your options are. Remember, that no guy should ever treat you the way you had been treated.
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